How To Get Your Ex Back When He's Moved On To A New Girl

3,819 thoughts on “Has He Moved On? How To Get Him Back If He Has A Girlfriend”

Natalie

June 28, 2015 at 11:51 pm

my ex bf of 2 half years plus 35 weeks pregnant has left me for his ex girlfriend, we never argued got on so well he was my best friend, last week he never answered his phone!! Next day phoned me being so nasty 1st time ever said he has no feelings just like that, blocked my number everything
He has left me with no explanation what so ever, I had to go hospital so got intouch with his mum to let him know and he said I’m back with my ex be4 anyone else tells u, straight away like that haven’t heard or he hasn’t phoned knowing I’m having a terrible time carrying are little girl, I’m so upset and hurt he can walk away so easy
Freda

June 25, 2015 at 9:46 pm

So, my ex started talking to another girl about 9 months ago. They see each other randomly because they are in similar careers, which is how they met. Things seemed great between us. Suddenly the beginning of December, he tells me he wants to break up to see her. I actually did the whole guilt/beg/plead thing asking him to work things out and he agreed. Things started to rebuild and progressing again. Suddenly, again, in April he started acting a little distant. Then he disappeared on May 1. I let time pass and noticed he added the new gf on fb. He then posted a picture of him and some family and I posted a nice comment only to find myself blocked the next morning. I am very close with his mom (since we had a 2 year relationship) and we talk daily… It was over a month before he told her anything about is not being together anymore and he finally told her “it just wasn’t working for [him].” I’m so confused and don’t know what to do. I have passed the NC period, but I’m not sure that it was by choice. Is there still a chance I can get him back? I just really don’t know what to do.

Ph

July 30, 2015 at 10:39 am

Yes I also in the same problem!
Cecelia

July 21, 2015 at 4:07 pm

I have similar situation which i found out he sort of cheated on me and he is attached to that girl. However, he still care for me and talk to me. I am pretty sure the girl have not met his parents and friends but i have..because we were together for 7 years.. last night i confronted, and he said he has no feelings on me and ask me to stop bugging him. I did and then the next day he called talks to me as usual about his daily happening not just once but twice and conversation lasted for quite long… so what does this mean??

Hope to get your reply to help both me and Freda’s case

Jessica

June 25, 2015 at 2:03 pm

Chris,
Is it possible to get your ex back when he has gone back to his baby mama? We were dating for 2 yrs and we had our ups and downs. When we did break up i would go NC but 15 days he was bck. A mth prior of me finding out he was bck with her he was extremely mad at me because my friend text his BF to do me a favor, but it fell through (nothing bad) But the text that my friend sent she put to not to tell my boyfriend. At the time he was mad at me and he reacts really ugly becuz of his insecurities. A week later his BF tells him and he confronts me and i told him the truth. But becuz i waited a week to say anything he couldnt trust me. I told my BF I was sorry for my friends text and to forgive me but he said he would never forgive me. I never have cheated on my ex. I’m in love with him. I saw a pic of him and his baby mama on her FB profile. I text him and confronted him. He text bck a week later saying that why would I believe someone else and not him about the pic. He told he fell in love with me but had to leave me as lone before someone really gets hurts. So I text him bck and ask why is it so easy for him to walk away from us and i wish him the best. Then he sent a text I will explain to you on Friday. What Game Is He playing??? What is he trying to explain! ?? How can a man say he fell in love with you but goes bck to his ex that has done him totally wrong? I’m heartbroken becuz he could have talk to me before hand and i would have walk away. But now I’m in too deep and I feel betrayed and shameful. I’m weak when it comes to him. What can I do at this point? I feel like he getting me bck for hurting him with the friend favor situation.
I bought your ex boyfriend recovery pro e book. But this situation is complicated. Oh by the way my Ex boyfriend is my Best friend sister.
Tessie

June 12, 2015 at 10:28 pm

My husband left me for someone twice my age. I thought we were happy and so much in love. He was my world. I found out last week and I begged and begged for him to come home to me. He interduced her to his whole family and told me they were in love. Do I have any hope at all? I need some sort of hope I feel like I’m gonna fall apart any minute. Please someone help me.

gummy bear

June 27, 2015 at 12:16 am

he’s totally NOT worth it but if you REALLY REALLY want him back, then nothing’s stopping you, just don’t seem to clingy :))

Jade

June 12, 2015 at 5:18 pm

My ex and I still love each other very much, I’m going to boot camp for the Army in August and he’s been in the Air Force for a couple of years. Last year he started talking to me and said that he loved me a lot and seemed to want me back. He sent me a really nasty message two months ago saying that he has a new girlfriend and that she’s everything and I’m not. So for two months I didn’t talk to him. Sure enough this month he came back home on leave to visit. I talked with him over messenger for a few days then we ended up meeting up and having sex. He said that when he sent the message he was confused and still is, he says he loves me so much but he’s still with her. He told me that even if he wasn’t with someone that there was a very slim chance of us getting back together. I just don’t know what to do, I love him very much, I want to be together with him even if we’re in different military branches. He was even talking about becoming and officer in the Army so he could be close to me.
I don’t know what I mean to him, I don’t want to be a booty call and I don’t want him to be with her. I want us to work out and be happy together.
Anna

June 5, 2015 at 11:44 am

Hi…i juz break out wif my bf for one month plus….and aft a week we broke up… he had a new gf… and he juz told me ytd…i was very sad and angry at the moment…. and i meet him on tat day…when on the phone…he told me tat he love his gf and his gf dun like to see our pic at instagram…and he wish i delete it…when we meet…at first we say nth and i tot i will scold him…bt we juz look at each others and dint say anything… aft tat…we go some quiet place…he ask me to sit down…and he start to hold my hand n pull me to him…and i start to hug him n cries…he is hugging me too…and quiet tight…like last time when we still together… and he did kiss me…aft when we calm down…he start to talk abt his gf wif me…bt when he talk…i doesn’t feel any love between he n his gf…even though he got message her when he wif me…bt the way he tell me n all the feeling he giv me is…he dun love tis girl…and i did ask the different between me and his gf when he see us…he say very different… bt i nt sure tat wheather he purposely to say tat and do tat or is from his heart…and we juz like normal couple at tat day…bt when we text…he like abit diff already… i can feel tat he still love me bt…i dint know my feeling gt wrong and wat he actually thinking? And why he still wan with tis gal since he told me he stress everyday…can anyone ans me?
So Confused

June 4, 2015 at 6:47 pm

My ex and I broke up a month and a half ago. We agreed to still talk and to try to reconcile in a month or so. IMMEDIATELY after we broke up he started spending all of his time with a new girl. The longest I kept NC was 9 days, but all contact was quite limited. I tried to implement the text your ex back steps, and he excitedly agreed to go for a coffee, but then there was no follow up on his part and we didn’t go. He claims he isn’t with this new girl when I ask him, she claims that they’re very much together, and from social media they certainly appear to be together. His friends also say they’re together. I decided that I cannot keep trying to contact him, told him that if he wanted me in his life he’d have to come to me, and went back into NC. I’m now 8 days into my new NC, and I’m stronger this time and will not break it before 30 days are up.

My question is, after those 30 days, if he is still with this other girl and has not tried to contact me, do I try again? Or do I stay in NC? I, like lots of women, fear that he is going to stay with this new girl for a long time and also fear that I already ruined my chances because he said he wanted to go for a coffee and then we never went.
Grace

June 2, 2015 at 12:02 am

I need help bad! There is this guy I really like but we weren’t dating exactly… We went on one date and we slow danced and kissed and it was the best thing in the world. But later I found out he had been making out with my best friend but they weren’t dating either and I feel used he said he likes her more but was just trying to make me happy, I still really like him and I want him to be “mine” what should I do??
Shana

May 31, 2015 at 5:55 am

Hi,
I have dated this guy for 4 months. We went on a date one time. Every time he scheduled a second date, he always cancelled. We often see each other twice a week because we were in the same class. When I met him he did not have a girlfriend. I went out of the state to a Funeral. While I was in the plane we kept texting each other, he even asked me to send him a pic. I was only gone for 4 days. As i got back- he posted a picture of him and girl friend on Facebook. I was so shocked. He came to my house 13 days ago, we had sex. He is like my best friend. we talked about everything, he told me about his girlfriend- he was just a five weeks relationship with her off and on. But one minute he told me he loves her the next minute he was not so sure about her. Since we had sex he barely contacted me anymore. He even made a comment that my pussy was very tight and he was shocked but he preferred bigger labia. He made plan to come pick me up later on in the week for (rematch) since he was so awful in bed. He has not contacted me for 7 days now. I plan on move on and never contact him again even he does contact me later on. What should I do? should i just give up or do the NC on him. Thanks
Reese

May 30, 2015 at 3:59 am

First off, your website is extremely helpful !

I’m in a unique situation as my ex and I have a 1 month old son together. He left me while I was pregnant. We lived together and one day, I came home and he was gone, he just left me a note on the counter. I was so excited to be starting my family, this devastated me and I had no clue what to do. Despite all advice I was given, I never quite contact with him. While I was pregnant, a few months after he left, he began dating someone else, and our relationship was very negative. We always fought, and it really seemed like he hated me.

I know a lot was wrong in our relationship and I didn’t always treat him the way he deserves. I made a lot of mistakes and compared our relationship to everyone else, and therefore was never happy. But I miss him greatly. And I care for him. He’s the love of my life. I want nothing more than to put my family back together.

Now that our son is born, we seem to be on much better terms. We enjoy spending time together (I think) But he is still dating this other girl.

Do I still need to implement a no contact period ? And if so, how would I do that, considering we have a 1 month old ? What step do I begin in this process ? Most importantly, is there still hope for me, or is it too late ?
monica

May 29, 2015 at 3:50 pm

how i got my husband back and got pregnant after 5 years!!!my husband has been patient with me and has been encouraging me that it will be best if we had hopes that we will have a child one day.last year,we had a little fight and he demanded for a divorce and i was so down because without him,i am nothing.he left me and the next day i met him with another woman in a shopping mall.i even tried talking to him but he pretended he didn’t know me.i told my friend about it and she introduced me to the Famous prophet [prophet salifu],who helps in so many ways.i contacted him and he did his thing,within 24 hours my husband called me and apologized that he was sorry for everything and that i should take him back and that he will cancel the divorce,i had no choice than to accept him,and we have been living happily until i felt sick and went for check up and the doctor confirmed me pregnant.i am so happy and all thanks to prophet salifu for all his help.contact him now for any kind of problem and he will surely try his best to make you happy. His email is prophetsalifu @ yahoo . com or prophetsalifu @ gmail. com –
Shay

May 26, 2015 at 3:54 pm

Hey Chris I’m just now viewing your website my ex boyfriend broke up with me 2months ago and I still want him back after the break we texted everyday the last few weeks he hasn’t texted me I’ve always texted him first he knows I want to be in a relationship with him and yet he’ll talk to me about the break up but won’t text back when I tell him I’ve changed and want to get back together from social media he hasn’t been on it as much but he seems unbothered by are break up like he doesn’t care he’s blocked me from snapchat and I’ve seen and he’s told me he’s seeing someone else is it to late to implement the NC rule and try to get him back or should I call it quits and forget and move on ?
deni

May 18, 2015 at 8:09 pm

Please help me.I broke up with my boyfriend and we went back but had to break up again because while single he dated and fell in love and he wanted to be friends. I didn’t want friends so I went into no contact for 2months. Only to find out he went with her.I am devastated. He said he loves me still but because I wasn’t speaking to him.how do I win the love of my life back?
Caroline

May 18, 2015 at 10:01 am

Can you please tell me also if your e-book might help me in this situation? Thanks

Chris Seiter

May 19, 2015 at 7:13 pm

It can.

Caroline

May 18, 2015 at 9:53 am

Hi Chris!! I liked your new website 🙂 please I really need you to help me you are the only who can 🙁
I contacted my ex through sms on Easter (after 2 years of no contact) and he asked to see me (wich is something good) so we went out last week and everything was great. We laughed and talked and I felt he was happy. I was happy too. Before leaving, he told me “it was nice seeing you. If we meet again”. I don’t know what he meant with “if we meet again” and I don’t know what I should do (he didn’t talk to me since then). Please you really need to help me. I don’t want to lose him. We were planning to get engaged before breaking up… Please I beg you. Thank you

Chris Seiter

May 19, 2015 at 7:13 pm

Have you implemented NC.

Lilly

May 17, 2015 at 12:41 pm

Chris I rly need a serious help!!! Plz my situation is gone so bad plz if I can call I would love call u and talk in person TT but plz reply me
Me

May 15, 2015 at 1:34 pm

Hi Chris…
I have been together 4 years. we are actually live together… I broke up with him 3 day ago because he have someone else that he love. He say he have no feeling with me at all this day. But I still love him so bad and want him back with me. Do u think NC will he work? And how to do if we still have to live together for a month…. I’ll traveling to another country for almost 2 month…. Wat should I do to get him back plz help me… It hurt a lot when I have to see him com back home lay on the same bed but he is not my anymore. I really want him back together with me please help me out.

Chris Seiter

May 19, 2015 at 5:36 pm

I think it can be very effective.

josh

May 10, 2015 at 12:12 pm

Hello Chris. GREAT website. Listen up, what is my case exactly.

We’ve been together for a year. We broke up in the begining of April. She said she didn’t want to be in a relationship, but now I learn from a close friend of mine who she talks with her, that she wasn’t so much in love any more. At the beginning as I understood she was not so much in love, then we both fell in love very much, but now I was more in love than her and she became to get stressed. Our sex life was GREAT though/

One week after the break up, where i didnt text her (only replyied when she text me) we had sex, but the next day she was telling to our mutual friend that she doesnt want to be in a relationship with me. 2 days later she texted me saying that she was thinking that we still had to do things and I replyied that i believe that our circle hadn’t close. She agreed. She also told to our mutual friend that she misses me. The next day she called me like we were back together and we were doing just a break.
After 3 days (in the meantime I sent her a message, where she didnt answer), she told me that she was better without me.

THE THING IS THAT we didnt break up because she wanted someone else, just because this think fainted. I mean she hasn’t go with someone else till know. just hanging around with her brother and friends.

Around April 28th we talked and had a little fight where i told her to get lost. She started calling me (9 times) and texting me, if I wanted to go like this (meaning to have bad relations from now on) and that its noones fault that the relationship didn’t work out.
She then deleted me from fb, because i was ignoring her and then she told me sorry for deleting, I want you in my life.(meaning as a friend), and whenever you want to talk to me, just go ahead.

No I started the no contact period since the end of the month 1 week and a couple of days, where we haven’t talked.
Yesterday she went out with that mutual friend and she told her, that she not misses me, that she is better now. She didn’t ask how I am going and also she told her, that she wasn’t so in love with me, as I was with her and that’s why I got wounded.
The last days in fb, it seems I am partying all the time by the way.

What do you think?
Again, we had great sex, she was telling that to our friend some other day, which i think is a +.
The think that makes me wonder, is that breaking up was a conscious decision for her.

Our mutual friend and says that I have to forget her and that she is great now..

please gimme a plan.
thank you
billy
Zoe

May 7, 2015 at 5:55 pm

Hi Chris
I read your article. My boyfriend broke up with me and told me that last night he is dating someone and he might see her again, I was so heart broken and upset and told him that I don’t wanna see him any more and I hate him, I know I overly reacted because I was so upset.
Well he is not talking to me now but do you think NC rule will work?
Jackie

May 7, 2015 at 2:18 pm

ok basically my ex has been a cheater throughout our entire relationship but the last week he was faithful. i was paranoid and constantly checking up on him and giving him cheating tests. the paranoia got the best of me and i accused him of cheating when I didnt know if he really was or not. So i broke up with him hoping to move on but i haven’t at all. i miss him constantly and the pain is always there, its only been 2 days but heres the thing, yesterday he started laying down hints that he wanted me back but he has a new girlfriend. he said shes not like me and he misses me but hes tried to break up with his girlfriend but she wont let him. i dont know how to respond to this. should i pretend to not care or give in and help him get rid of the girlfriend or something else? i really want him back because hes changed and i honestly believe he has. could you help me out chris?

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