Who knew that these two things go together so well.
In this episode of “The Ex Boyfriend Recovery Podcast” we are going to hear from a woman named Briana whose on and off ex boyfriend broke up with her after asking her a simple question,
Did you sleep with anyone else while we were broken up?
Briana, facing a crossroads ended up lying to him (she had slept with someone else) out of fear that he would break up with her if he found out. Of course, as these things typically go, he caught wind of the fact that she was lying and that’s when all hell broke loose.
Now she is looking for a way to win him back.
Let’s see if we can help her out!
Video Of Episode 52 (How To Handle Insecure Ex Boyfriends)
A Quick Recap Of Briana’s Situation
- Briana ended up breaking up with her ex boyfriend because she got a bit of GIGS (Grass Is Greener Syndrome)
- They dated for a total of three years
- They were classified as each others firsts..
- After the breakup she ended up sleeping with someone else
- This made her realize she wanted him back
- So, they got back together
- Driven by insecurity he asked her if she had been with anyone during the breakup
- She lied and told him that she hadn’t when she had
- He found out that she lied and promptly broke up with her
- She is currently doing the no contact rule
- She wonders how to contact him after the no contact rule
- She wonders what kind of a chance she has
Important Things I Talk About In This Episode
- The fact that Briana did nothing wrong (except for maybe the lie)
- Why I think Briana lied to her ex boyfriend
- The importance of taking a “cheating approach”
- Our success rate with cheaters
- The power of guilt and remorse
- The “preemptive strike”
Important Links Mentioned In This Episode
Transcript Of This Episode
(BONUS) The Strategy We Talk About In This Episode
I wanted to give you guys a little bit extra since the show notes was looking a little thin. So, in case you missed it or you didn’t have a chance to listen to the entire podcast episode I made a very big deal about how if your ex boyfriend is insecure or has a problem with jealousy you need to utilize two things (assuming you did something like Briana did in this episode,)
Thing #1: Show Guilt & Remorse
Thing #2: The Preemptive Strike
Now, one thing I didn’t do a very good job of covering in the episode was where to utilize these two concepts.
Oh, and if you want an explanation of what the concepts mean then you are going to have to watch the episode 😉 .
What I want to do is show you where to place these two “things” within the strategy that we teach here at Ex Boyfriend Recovery. Therefore, I made this cool little graphic for you,