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354 thoughts on “EBR 041: What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Doesn’t Respond To You”

  1. Elle

    February 4, 2016 at 9:31 am

    Hi Amor,

    I broke up with my ex of 5 years after a huge argument. We had both good and bad times in the relationship, but towards the end he treated me badly.
    I’m currently on week 3 of no contact. He hasn’t been in touch at all, but he recently asked a mutual friend how i was. I was in hospital but he never messaged me, even though he knew how ill i was, all he said to our mutual friend he hopes that i get better soon and to pass it on to me. He said that it just hurts too much to think about me, or talk to me.
    Now i’m wondering if i should i extend the no contact to 45 days, instead of 30 days? Do i even have a chance at getting him back, or getting him to reply after no contact if this is the mindset he’s in?
    Any advice would be great!

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 5, 2016 at 5:32 am

      Hi Elle,

      At least you know he’s still concerned. Maybe you could try a first contact text at the end of 30 days because he maybe just be afraid to start convo but if he repkies don’t talk about the relationahip, don’t talk about your feelings.. If he doesn’t reply, send the next text at the 46th day

  2. Mei

    February 3, 2016 at 2:03 pm

    Hello, I am a high schooler and have been broken up with my eight month relationship ex boyfriend since November.
    I currently did have a boyfriend (from December) but I started to realize I didn’t truly like him as I did my ex and broke up with the new guy today.
    I think it’ was one of those rebound relationships…..
    Is it still possible to get my old boyfriend before the rebound back?
    And if so how should I start? I haven’t spoken to him since December.
    My old ex has told his friends that I am clingy, and he was the one who wanted to break up.

  3. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 3, 2016 at 2:01 pm

    With the way he acted about your text? Nope. He’s disrespecting you and you shouldn’t allow that. Move on now.. He’s not worth it.

  4. :(((((

    February 3, 2016 at 12:14 pm

    Today he was talking to my guy friend about me at lunch time, but talking about me in a negative way which caused a fight between us. We sorted it out but I also stood up for my ex because…well I care about him still…but I’m pretty sure he likes another girl now.

  5. Lauren

    February 3, 2016 at 7:22 am

    Hi,

    I am in a LDR with guy of abt 7 months. Everything went ok until we had a tiff yesterday. I wrongly accused him having another woman n I’m not sure what I should do. I suggested that I give him space n time to recover from the hurt. He sounded relieved to hear it. It was only the next morning that I received a text from him,saying gd morning love. I thought he was over the phase. When we talked, it started normal but the conversation changed to the topic of my rash words the day before. He said that I was full of drama. Although he said that he had forgiven me,I could sense the hard feelings he harbored. So I wrote a text that I’m giving him more space n time to be more himself. I’m not sure if I did the right thing cos I want him to come back to me when he’s feeling better.

    1. Lauren

      February 3, 2016 at 11:20 pm

      Thanks for replying!

      During the date, he truthfully said that he’s knowing another woman, much older than him. He showed me the picture of her and thought that she could help him with something. He also added that he didn’t think he would be keen in her because of the fact age difference. But I got insecure about the situation. I had this notion that he’s talking to a lot of women out there.

      After the argument, I have to keep tabs on him like calling him first, asking about his day, etc. Its like the tables have turned against me. I felt like I’m doing the chasing. N I didn’t feel like doing it anymore. So I stopped.

      I didn’t like the word drama n he kept taunting me. I hated it.

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 3, 2016 at 3:28 pm

      Hi Lauren,

      Why did you think he was seeing other girls?

  6. Laura

    February 3, 2016 at 3:27 am

    My boyfriend of 6 years an I had a falling out breakup about a year ago. We continued to see each other regularly, were not seeing other people, however neither of us was in a place to reestablish the relationship. We pushed each other away and things got bad… I think we have both hurt each other. This man pursued me hard, was madly in love with me, talked about marriage and kids the whole 9 yards. I realize I became needy and not the girl he fell in love with. I was recently away in Europe for 2 months and pushed him away because I was hurt he didn’t come to by brothers wedding in october. He all talk about being with me and a future with me, we had a fight and now he did a 180 and says we “will never be together” and he just doesn’t see things working. He says he wanted a future with me but wasn’t going to force it. He says that we both need to move on…. I did 30 days no contact, reached out and he was persistent in moving on but hinted he still cared too much about me “wanting to see me would be too hard” and “that its just better this way” and “Ill see it will all work out”, he’s telling me to date others etc. What can I do to win his trust back and show him I am better woman than the one he fell in love with? he is sensitive and comes form a bad family dynamic when it comes to breakups being bad. I truly think he isn’t over me, this is his coping mechanism

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 3, 2016 at 3:10 pm

      Hi Laura

      When you reached out to him did you ask him to get back with you? Or about the relationship status? Or about how you feel with each other?

  7. Laura

    February 3, 2016 at 3:27 am

    My boyfriend of 6 years an I had a falling out breakup about a year ago. We continued to see each other regularly, were not seeing other people, however neither of us was in a place to reestablish the relationship. We pushed each other away and things got bad… I think we have both hurt each other. This man pursued me hard, was madly in love with me, talked about marriage and kids the whole 9 yards. I realize I became needy and not the girl he fell in love with. I was recently away in Europe for 2 months and pushed him away because I was hurt he didn’t come to by brothers wedding in october. He all talk about being with me and a future with me, we had a fight and now he did a 180 and says we “will never be together” and he just doesn’t see things working. He says he wanted a future with me but wasn’t going to force it. He says that we both need to move on…. I did 30 days no contact, reached out and he was persistent in moving on but hinted he still cared too much about me “wanting to see me would be too hard” and “that its just better this way” and “Ill see it will all work out”, he’s telling me to date others etc. What can I do to win his trust back and show him I am better woman than the one he fell in love with? he is sensitive and comes form a bad family dynamic when it comes to breakups being bad. I truly think he isn’t over me, this is his coping mechanism

    1. Laura

      February 3, 2016 at 8:34 pm

      Yes, I did ask him. He is very cold, closed off. Says he isnt interested in going down that road again, maybe in the future. Tells me things like it saddens him, but we are better off not together

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 5, 2016 at 3:52 am

      maybe he is not ready yet but he is open to being friends

    3. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 3, 2016 at 3:10 pm

      Hi Laura

      When you reached out to him did you ask him to get back with you? Or about the relationship status? Or about how you feel with each other?

  8. Amy

    February 2, 2016 at 10:33 pm

    My boyfriend broke up with me two months ago after a year together. Our relationship was perfect for most of the time, it all ruined in the end when he started his med studies and didn’t have that much time for me. I also cheated on him once, he forgave me, but told me later it was always bothering him.
    I know that although he was the dumper, the breakup was really hard for him.
    after a month I discovered he started dating some girl who just appeared out of the blue after the breakup. I believe it’s a rebound. I decided to go nc just to heal myself, and then he freacked out. He started telling me how much he misses me and that it will never be same with that girl. He told me he is extremely depressed by this situation and want to get back, but without hurting the new girl, because she was so kind to him.
    Than we were really close to getting back together, than suddenly he changed his mind and decided to stay with her. He acted kind of rude, that apologized and regret it all again. This all happened twice, I got a bit tired so I returned to the nc. He texted me a few times since then (it has been a week and half) but I didn’t reply.
    Is there any chance we will get back together? I’m afraid he will end up liking this new girl.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 3, 2016 at 3:02 pm

      Hi Amy,

      Maybe just to 21 days, and stick to it. Because I think if you get back with him this early, you could end up being the other girl instead of being the only girl. If he ends up liking that girl in the short of time, that can mean he’s not really serious into getting back with you. He can’t just point out that you just went m.i.a for 3 weeks because you’re just establishing boundaries from being cheated on or preventing yourself from being second choice. And you have all the right to put yourself in top priority even though you cheated on him before. That was the past and it shouldn’t be raised again. This is about now, and I think if he cannot forgive you for that, you should forgive yourself. He has to make up his mind to be fair for you and the other girl.

  9. calista

    February 2, 2016 at 3:11 pm

    Hi Chris，

    I have seperated with my husband for three years but he hasn’t filed for a divorce yet. The reason why he left me is because i wasnt committed in our marriage and didnt live with him since we married for five years.

    Because of such a reason，when he dropped me the seperation bond，i had a great urge to try my best to reconcile with him n restore our marriage especially we have a child at three and a half years old.

    Throughout these past three years，we have been talking to each other daily n meeting up on a weekly basis. Our relationship seems good，yet he never remorse on losing me and still stand firm in his mind that we r seperated.

    I have been holding a never give up attitude and seek reconciliation with him relentlessly. I am keen to have a second child as i am not easy to have a child n have fertility issues. After much requests from me，my husband agreed to go for ivf once for me to fulfill my wish. I thought it was a sign of he was turning his heart to me. We happily went through that procedure. Unfortunately my embroyos didnt take and i cant get pregnant in the end. My hope was lost.

    I asked him for one more go but he stood firm and rejected me. To make things worse，he reinstated that he has seperated with me and wont spend chinese new year with me. I was upset n angry. My hope was lost and i had a double attack. I even lost the purpose of why i keep this relationship.

    I sent a message to him that i agree with him that he should not see me and our child this week and for the rest of our life.

    I need a plan to let him want to chase me back again and seek for reconciliation. Deep inside my heart，i want to restote the family. How could i start? Would no contact at this stage be too late n doesnt work? I have read through all your posts n got all the concepts. I did some of it but cant execute it properly as i couldnt find a game plan that fits my scenario. Could u do a game plan for me? I will follow it full heartedly.

    1. calista

      February 6, 2016 at 4:19 pm

      Why are you not replying me?

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 7, 2016 at 2:00 pm

      Hi Calista!,

      Sorry for the late reply. 🙁 In regards with you game plan, I can forward your story to Chris and ask him..

      In regards with your nc, I don’t think it’s too late. I think what you can do is do an nc, improve yourself but don’t ask him about reconciliation. You only talk about your child when you meet and you keep being productive and progressive with your life. How often do you ask him for reconciliation? Because if it’s a lot, he will notice it when you start to do an active nc and especially if you improve your looks. It’s like bringing the mystery back.

  10. June

    February 2, 2016 at 2:02 pm

    Hello, I am a freshman in high school, and have been broken up with my eight month relationship ex boyfriend since November.
    I do have a boyfriend (from December) right now, but I’m starting to realize I don’t truly like him as I did my ex.
    I think it’s one of those rebound relationships…..
    Is it still possible to get my ex back?
    And if so how should I start? I haven’t spoke to him since December.
    My ex has told his friends that I am clingy, and he was the one who wanted to break up.

    1. June

      February 5, 2016 at 1:41 pm

      Thankyou!!
      I’ll focus on myself for the next two months 🙂

    2. June

      February 4, 2016 at 2:03 pm

      Thankyou for your response, Ms. Amor!
      I followed your advice.
      Afterwards, My friend advised me to just take a two month break and not think about any boys at all, including my old boyfriend and just focus on me being happy by myself.
      I thought that that was a wise choice, but I feel like if I wait too long it will be too late to get my old boyfriend back (I already feel like it’s too late because I have a sinking notion that he hates my guts)
      What do you think about an additional two month no contact and no boy period? (No contact with my old bf has been going on since December, but I wanted to prove to him that I didnt contact him just bc I was lonely)

    3. June

      February 4, 2016 at 2:01 pm

      Thankyou for your response, Ms. Amor!

      I broke up with the new guy yesterday, and all went well.
      My friend advised me to just take a two month break and not think about any boys at all, including my old boyfriend and just focus on me being happy by myself.
      I thought that that was a wise choice, but I feel like if I wait too long it will be too late to get my old boyfriend back (I already feel like it’s too late because I have a sinking notion that he hates my guts)
      What do you think about an additional two month no contact and no boy period? (No contact with my old bf has been going on since December, but I wanted to prove to him that I didnt contact him just bc I was lonely)

    4. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 5, 2016 at 6:46 am

      That’s actually a good advice.. If ever you start again to contact him after that break, that just means like you’re starting over like before all of this..

    5. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 3, 2016 at 2:20 pm

      Hi June,

      First beeak up with your current bf whether or not you get back with yiur ex because you’re being unfair to him. I cannot guarantee that you will get him 100%. But you can try, text him after the breakup, start in a friendly way.

  11. Shannon

    February 2, 2016 at 4:47 am

    I ran into my ex two times today at school and both times we both didn’t even acknowledge each other. It was the first time we saw each other since the break up. It’s been a little over a month. Neither of us has reached out to contact each other. I do want him back but I want him to decide himself. My feelings are a little hurt. We dated for almost three years. I know that he is hurting too because he posted on Twitter “these past few weeks have been some of the hardest of my life. I’ve never been so emotionally drained or filled with so much doubt”. Is he just being stubborn? What does that tweet mean? I know he loved me and our relationship was great. He’s a commitment phobe, and I know his college rugby friends pressured him a little but we are only 21 anyways. But I know we are a really good match and I do see myself with him. I love him but I really need him to be the one to fix this. If he really does even want too.

  12. Shannon

    February 2, 2016 at 4:47 am

    I ran into my ex two times today at school and both times we both didn’t even acknowledge each other. It was the first time we saw each other since the break up. It’s been a little over a month. Neither of us has reached out to contact each other. I do want him back but I want him to decide himself. My feelings are a little hurt. We dated for almost three years. I know that he is hurting too because he posted on Twitter “these past few weeks have been some of the hardest of my life. I’ve never been so emotionally drained or filled with so much doubt”. Is he just being stubborn? What does that tweet mean? I know he loved me and our relationship was great. He’s a commitment phobe, and I know his college rugby friends pressured him a little but we are only 21 anyways. But I know we are a really good match and I do see myself with him. I love him but I really need him to be the one to fix this. If he really does even want too.

  13. Claire

    February 1, 2016 at 6:17 pm

    Hi guys! Ok so I’m in a pretty big predicament. My story is long and ugly. My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago after dating for 2 years. The first month or so I spent begging for him back. I was a huge mess. Ironically, he broke up with me at the beginning of his senior year of high school wrestling season. So naturally there is a lot of focus towards his season. Immediately after the breakup, his friends were spreading nasty things about me and calling me rude names. I told my ex and he eventually told them to knock it off because it was really hurting me. He still continues to be friends with them (even though no one else at our school even likes them). He will listen to his friends advice no matter what, and it has caused him to say/do/think some wacky things regarding me. They are pretty much brain washing him into not being with me. Since then I have been reading articles on this page. He said he wants to be friends with me and said I didn’t do anything to hurt him deeply in our relationship, but I was the only one initiating some sort of friendship. He also said he only wants to be friends because he can’t picture us together and we are about to go to college. I stopped talking to him altogether for a few weeks and I feel great. He tried talking to me at school once but I kept the conversation short and sweet so he would hopefully get the message I wasn’t interested in talking. I’m about 3/4 way through with no contact but a problem arose where a belonging of mine went missing. I texted him asking if he saw it around his house. To everyone’s surprise, he didn’t respond! So a friend of mine asked him at school because I was sick and couldn’t go. He told her he texted me back and hasn’t seen it, when he never texted me at all. Why would he lie about texting me back? He also told my friend things weeks before and would talk about me like he was reminiscing. She said his facial expressions looked like he misses me…
    Our breakup feels like a mess. I’ve felt like I’m making no progress in getting through to him whatsoever which has helped me gradually let go of things like resentment towards him, etc. it feels like we broke up on a whim. We fought like any other high school couple, but we had an Unbreakable bond with eachother. We were best friends and so in love, but it’s almost as if he forgot all about that. Chris, since you know the mind of a teenage boy, I’m curious to see if anything has to do with his focus on wrestling season? His friends aren’t helping our case either. I thought letting go would help me make some sort of progress but I feel like I’m getting nowhere with him. I’m confused because at school I’ll catch him looking over at me. He doesn’t talk to anyone in our classes, but I have multiple friends I talk to in front of him. I was his best friend and now he has no one to talk to. I feel a lot better myself, but is the no contact even working on him? He seems clueless to it. Or even like he likes me not talking to him. Do you think things will change when his season ends in two weeks?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 6, 2016 at 8:43 am

      Hi Claire,
      sorry for the late reply. Is he pressured by his friends to break up with you? Peer pressure can be a big factor in a teenage boy’s decisions.

  14. Claire

    February 1, 2016 at 6:17 pm

    Hi guys! Ok so I’m in a pretty big predicament. My story is long and ugly. My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago after dating for 2 years. The first month or so I spent begging for him back. I was a huge mess. Ironically, he broke up with me at the beginning of his senior year of high school wrestling season. So naturally there is a lot of focus towards his season. Immediately after the breakup, his friends were spreading nasty things about me and calling me rude names. I told my ex and he eventually told them to knock it off because it was really hurting me. He still continues to be friends with them (even though no one else at our school even likes them). He will listen to his friends advice no matter what, and it has caused him to say/do/think some wacky things regarding me. They are pretty much brain washing him into not being with me. Since then I have been reading articles on this page. He said he wants to be friends with me and said I didn’t do anything to hurt him deeply in our relationship, but I was the only one initiating some sort of friendship. He also said he only wants to be friends because he can’t picture us together and we are about to go to college. I stopped talking to him altogether for a few weeks and I feel great. He tried talking to me at school once but I kept the conversation short and sweet so he would hopefully get the message I wasn’t interested in talking. I’m about 3/4 way through with no contact but a problem arose where a belonging of mine went missing. I texted him asking if he saw it around his house. To everyone’s surprise, he didn’t respond! So a friend of mine asked him at school because I was sick and couldn’t go. He told her he texted me back and hasn’t seen it, when he never texted me at all. Why would he lie about texting me back? He also told my friend things weeks before and would talk about me like he was reminiscing. She said his facial expressions looked like he misses me…
    Our breakup feels like a mess. I’ve felt like I’m making no progress in getting through to him whatsoever which has helped me gradually let go of things like resentment towards him, etc. it feels like we broke up on a whim. We fought like any other high school couple, but we had an Unbreakable bond with eachother. We were best friends and so in love, but it’s almost as if he forgot all about that. Chris, since you know the mind of a teenage boy, I’m curious to see if anything has to do with his focus on wrestling season? His friends aren’t helping our case either. I thought letting go would help me make some sort of progress but I feel like I’m getting nowhere with him. I’m confused because at school I’ll catch him looking over at me. He doesn’t talk to anyone in our classes, but I have multiple friends I talk to in front of him. I was his best friend and now he has no one to talk to. I feel a lot better myself, but is the no contact even working on him? He seems clueless to it. Or even like he likes me not talking to him. Do you think things will change when his season ends in two weeks?

  15. Lola

    February 1, 2016 at 10:22 am

    Hey,

    Sent you a lot of comments before, here and there. Anyhow LDR of one year. He broke up 4months ago. I begged to the extreme. Did NC 4 days – failed. He bombarded me with msgs and I replied. Then did NC for 30 days. Silence on both sides. I moved and came back to my country. Contacted him after NC he wasn’t enthusiastic, rather neutral. He asked me once why I wasn’t talking to him but then again he turned cold. Later, I panicked I broke down and said I couldn’t be friends and I have to live my life without him. He associated it with my begging as he said that he couldn’t be with me again, saying that he thought he would be happier by himself and now he was seeing that he was right. After couple of days I changed my mind and said that I wanted to be in touch. We talk rarely. I don’t talk relationship it’s been two months. Since then we texted maybe 6-8 times. He barely ever initiates conversations. When he does it’s about phone bills NYE wishes and so on. When I text I tell him after that I am busy and I need to run. Sometimes he asks me a question. I reply; ask him a question and there is no reply for days. I have worked on myself. I have changed. I am no longer feeling the need of him and my life will not end without him. I am working on my happiness each and every day instead. Yet, with all the messed up things I have done in the past I have no idea wat I should do next to give us a chance if there is still a chance… The most recent convo he asked me if I had a bf, telling that maybe I should get one to help me around. I told him I didn’t need anybody that I’d might choose to be with sb but if it didn’t happen I would be ok either way. He sent me mail with some books the very same day I replied 4 hours later. And then no reply on his side. Two weeks later, so yesteday, I asked him if he could transfer my money back. So far no reply… I would be happy for your suggestions? I am kind of lost in this situation. I don’t understand why he puts effort to send me books then ignores me for two weeks… And I have no idea what I should do next…

    1. Lola

      February 3, 2016 at 11:46 am

      Hey Amor,

      Well, I don’t know. I was just myself and I got his interest. I wasn’t really targeting getting it when we got together. I wasn’t analyzing what I should say or do I was just doing what I felt like and it came out naturally … So I can’t think of what I should be doing now to get it since I never really knew what was it that he was chasing me… 🙁 Without the history I would probably not even think relationship, I wouldn’t stress over what I am saying, I wouldn’t really care what could happen. I would ignore the fact he doesn’t reply from time to time, probably not even notice that fact. I wouldn’t overanalyze our convos. I would be just relaxed “whatever, I don’t care” me.

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 4, 2016 at 7:40 am

      Yes, That’s pretty much it. That’s why I asked you becausw from your comment. It looks like you know what to do, you just need a reminder of what it is.

    3. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 2, 2016 at 1:17 pm

      Hi Lola,
      Maybe he’s careful because of the inconsistency but at least you’re still texting right? If you didn’t have a history, how would you approach him to get his interest?

  16. Lola

    February 1, 2016 at 10:22 am

    Hey,

    Sent you a lot of comments before, here and there. Anyhow LDR of one year. He broke up 4months ago. I begged to the extreme. Did NC 4 days – failed. He bombarded me with msgs and I replied. Then did NC for 30 days. Silence on both sides. I moved and came back to my country. Contacted him after NC he wasn’t enthusiastic, rather neutral. He asked me once why I wasn’t talking to him but then again he turned cold. Later, I panicked I broke down and said I couldn’t be friends and I have to live my life without him. He associated it with my begging as he said that he couldn’t be with me again, saying that he thought he would be happier by himself and now he was seeing that he was right. After couple of days I changed my mind and said that I wanted to be in touch. We talk rarely. I don’t talk relationship it’s been two months. Since then we texted maybe 6-8 times. He barely ever initiates conversations. When he does it’s about phone bills NYE wishes and so on. When I text I tell him after that I am busy and I need to run. Sometimes he asks me a question. I reply; ask him a question and there is no reply for days. I have worked on myself. I have changed. I am no longer feeling the need of him and my life will not end without him. I am working on my happiness each and every day instead. Yet, with all the messed up things I have done in the past I have no idea wat I should do next to give us a chance if there is still a chance… The most recent convo he asked me if I had a bf, telling that maybe I should get one to help me around. I told him I didn’t need anybody that I’d might choose to be with sb but if it didn’t happen I would be ok either way. He sent me mail with some books the very same day I replied 4 hours later. And then no reply on his side. Two weeks later, so yesteday, I asked him if he could transfer my money back. So far no reply… I would be happy for your suggestions? I am kind of lost in this situation. I don’t understand why he puts effort to send me books then ignores me for two weeks… And I have no idea what I should do next…

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 2, 2016 at 1:17 pm

      Hi Lola,
      Maybe he’s careful because of the inconsistency but at least you’re still texting right? If you didn’t have a history, how would you approach him to get his interest?

  17. Amy Roche

    February 1, 2016 at 3:43 am

    i have a problem, me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago (i know its long) i broke up with because of multiple reasons, one of them being not talking to me as much as i would like. i did the no contact rule for 5 weeks and then he messaged me and i tried to ignore it but i couldn’t, and now I’m trying to talk to him and he wont even talk to our mutual friends. i really regret my decision, how do i get him back (we are a long distance relationship)

    1. Amy Roche

      February 1, 2016 at 10:11 pm

      no he hasn’t blocked me but when we do talk he acts like a business meeting

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 3, 2016 at 10:41 am

      But at least he replies. That means you have to work on making your topics interesting or compelling for him to engage in a conversation

    3. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 1, 2016 at 12:50 pm

      Hi Amy,

      But he heasn’t blocked you?

  18. Amy Roche

    February 1, 2016 at 3:43 am

    i have a problem, me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago (i know its long) i broke up with because of multiple reasons, one of them being not talking to me as much as i would like. i did the no contact rule for 5 weeks and then he messaged me and i tried to ignore it but i couldn’t, and now I’m trying to talk to him and he wont even talk to our mutual friends. i really regret my decision, how do i get him back (we are a long distance relationship)

    1. Amy Roche

      February 1, 2016 at 10:11 pm

      no he hasn’t blocked me but when we do talk he acts like a business meeting

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 1, 2016 at 12:50 pm

      Hi Amy,

      But he heasn’t blocked you?

  19. Relentless

    February 1, 2016 at 12:33 am

    Hi Amor/Chris

    Is there/will there be an article on how to get ex back if he was a bit of a player?not just about ungettable girl?

    1. Relentless

      February 2, 2016 at 2:15 am

      Thanks, appreciate it :)!

    2. Chris Seiter

      February 1, 2016 at 11:20 pm

      Yes there will be… In fact, I think that’s going to be the next article.

      Let me go ahead and put that in the hopper so I don’t forget.

  20. Relentless

    February 1, 2016 at 12:33 am

    Hi Amor/Chris

    Is there/will there be an article on how to get ex back if he was a bit of a player?not just about ungettable girl?

    1. Relentless

      February 2, 2016 at 2:15 am

      Thanks, appreciate it :)!

    2. Chris Seiter

      February 1, 2016 at 11:20 pm

      Yes there will be… In fact, I think that’s going to be the next article.

      Let me go ahead and put that in the hopper so I don’t forget.

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