How To Get Your Ex Back When He's Moved On To A New Girl

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Anonymous

July 24, 2016 at 1:11 pm

My ex boyfriend and I took a “break” that he initiated back in March due to us arguing over the littlest things..he eventually broke up with me officially in May and has a new girlfriend now. Im heartbroken over it because we were In a Relationship for 2 years and before that we were Best friends for 2 years..our families were close everyone knew and loved eachother..I thought for sure after this break and some space apart we would reunite and get back together and that he would give me a second chance, how could he move on to another girl, so quickly and btw this girl lives in another state..it’s such a weird situation..what can I do? We talked about marriage and being together forever. I just don’t understand men and why he would do this and I honesty do want him back.

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 27, 2016 at 8:53 am

Hi heartbroken,

maybe because he only sees the negatives of the relationship..try to do what Chris advised here

prachiti

July 24, 2016 at 9:50 am

I hv been with my ex for 5 yearss. He was a great guy but in february i forcefuly got engaged to some other guy bcz of my parents but i was never confortable with him bcz of my ex . After tht i broke the engagement and thn also my ex was ready to marry me but bcz of my constant doubting of me on him he broke up with me and he moved on in life and since last one month we were not in a contact but yesterday my frnd saw him with sm other girl and wn i came to know abt it i ws fully shattered and my ex told me tht he is in a serious relationship with tht girl and will marry her in one or two years but he also told tht the girl is divorcee and he has no problem with it……i m feeling like dying plz help me…this is a worst situation…i cant l8ve without him

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 27, 2016 at 8:21 am

Hi Prachiti,

try to do no contact now and just improve yourself but meet new people too.. aim to be an ungettable girl..check this article:The Ungettable Girl

Anonymous

July 22, 2016 at 2:56 am

Hi, my fiance broke up with me in the beginning of this year. We went through some hard emotional times and I got depressed. Basically I neglected the relationship. He never said anything was wrong but one day just said he doesn’t have feelings for me anymore. Turns out he had gotten close (even intimate) with a female coworker while turning to her for advice. He says he has feelings for her and sees a future with her, but still wants to be friends with me. There was a period of time after the breakup that we continued intimacy, but he says it was meaningless, that he didn’t feel anything during those times. He said that he thinks he continued to pursue the intimacy with me to confirm he has no feelings for me anymore. We have been living together and get along great, but the lease is coming up soon. I wish I would’ve seen this site sooner, because I feel like it may be too late… I’ve pretty much made every possible mistake since the breakup to try and get a second chance…. Is there still hope? What can I do?

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 22, 2016 at 6:22 pm

Hi Anonymous,

I think it would be better if you start nc after the lease but right now slowly ease into it by doing limited no contact

Nikki

July 20, 2016 at 11:03 am

Hi there I am so in need of help its untrue!!! Here is my story
I was with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months he is the greatest man I ever met we had everything in common had a laugh and fell madly in love. My boyfriends ex was emotionally abusive towards him and he couldent stand her but had to keep in contact for the sake of his daughter I know for a fact that he was always 100% honest with me and had no reason to doubt him. After we had been together 4 months I fell pregnant unfortunately our son was found to have multiple birth defects and I had to deliver him at 21 weeks this affected us both but just made us stronger as a couple. Anyway 2 months later I found I was pregnant again he wanted me to have an abortion because he was scared of it happening again but I couldent go through with it things were a bit tense between us but again we loved each other that much we were fine. Then 4 weeks ago my friends husband decided to take it upon himself to email my boyfriends ex and tell her everything I tried contacting my bf to which he text “mark told Dom everything leave me alone” I couldent believe it anyway he rang me and said that he had started seeing his ex again!!!! I fell apart but we agreed on meeting to discuss it when we met he kept crying and I said “what are you doing she maybe nice now but you know she will make you miserable again” and he said “I don’t know what I’m doing I know it will end up like before” then he told me he really loves me he misses me so much and dosent want to lose me whilst crying his eyes out, he said we need a plan so I agreed to forgive him and bear with him like he asked but now he is ignoring me!!!! What the hell!!! I have started the no contact rule on him now but I’m so confused why go back to a woman like that??? And leave me a woman he was in love with who is 4 months pregnant with his child ??! I don’t understand any of this I’m so confused I can’t eat I can’t sleep I’m desperate I’m so alone I know you are busy but please if you could help me. One last thing before no contact started he messages me saying that my friends husband was still annoying him and I said I missed him etc and all he replied was “the feelings never go away”
Please help
Nikki

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 21, 2016 at 4:29 pm

Hi Nikki,
that’s good that you’re in no contact.. stay strong in it.. if he wants to be involdved with your check ups that’s good and that’s ok but onky talk about that..other than that be busy with something else.. focus on you and your child..

Anna

July 18, 2016 at 3:57 pm

I broke up with my first love after a year and a half because he started getting to possessive and i just wasn’t happy but after about 6 months i got into another relationship and that lasted about a year and a half also. I recently broke up with him three months ago. I lost interest in him. About a week ago I started having contact with my first love again and we are reminiscing about old times. For about 1 week straight we have been talking.We stood on the phone last night for 4 hours at 3:00 in the morning . He told me he still has feelings and fantasys about me . However he has a girlfriend now and although he has expressed his feelings, he told me he is falling in love with her and he met her parents the night before as well. Im extremely heart broken right now and dont know what to do . As much as I want to be happy for him, i cant . I cant help but feel jealousy and i feel it’s unfair because since we broke up , he has worked on him self and became a better version of himself .The relationship wasn’t all bad don’t get me wrong, but now she gets to have the person i wanted him to be along. I just can’t close this door yet.

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 19, 2016 at 8:51 pm

hi Anna,

hmm..maybe start by changing the way you think..so that you feel more light.. if he didn’t change, does that mean you would feel happy for the other girl because he’s still the same old person you left? Everybody deserves a good person by their side..

Although I get it, you feel like why wasn’t he like this in the time you were together? But maybe that’s one of the reasons he changed.. in some way, you were one of the many reasons he changed for the better..

if he is really happy with her, be happy for them

We don’t own anybody.. although he is better than yesterday, he’s still not the best person..and if you chose him at the time when he wasn’t at his best, that means you saw something good with him at that time and now, take that to heart that you just have to choose a man today that has the same interests and values as you are and loves you equally too..

Annette

July 16, 2016 at 4:51 am

okay so i’ve got a big one for you :/ please help me.

So i moved 300 miles for this man away from everyone i’ve known. moved in together and lived together for 6 months before my best friend sent me screenshots of thier sexting. When confronted he confirmed. then he dumped me when i wanted to work things out, but convinced me not to move out becuase i had nowhere to go. okay so we did that. im still living with him, its been another 6 months since the break up and since then i’ve gone through a lot and he’s always been there. I am currently undergoing chemo and hes taken care of me durring some pretty uncomfortable times. And he’s constantly telling me he “cares” I need my best friend back. i mean he’s still my friend but only my friend and it kills me when he dissapears on nights like tonight. His birthday is comming up and he’s spending the night with his current girlfriend. i have no idea how long they’ve been together. he trys to keep that stuff to himself. I would really like to get him back. Can you help me?

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 16, 2016 at 6:42 pm

Hi Annette,

hmm.. do you have any other friends there or are you strong enough to live on your own?

Leechi

July 12, 2016 at 7:59 am

Please guide me..
We were in relationship for an year. My bf were in a relationship before and after meeting me he start relationship with me. But he didnot tell me about his gf, when I came to know he broke up with her ex gf. Everything was fine between us but sometimes I kept on fighting with my bf because he didnot tell me about her at the first place.
Our fights kept on increasing and now I came to know that he start relation with her again.
He said that she is understanding and doesn’t fight with me. That’s y he wants to live with her.
I tried to save my relationship and promised him that I will nt fight. But he is not listening to me.
Now he is in relation with her.
I dont know what to do. If he had really loved her then why she left her because of me.
I really love him. What should I do?
Will he ever come back?

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 12, 2016 at 6:13 pm

Hi Leechi,

maybe they fought or they were in a rough patch and used you as a rebound…you should read this:
How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back If He Has A Girlfriend -Version 2.0-

Becki

July 6, 2016 at 2:31 pm

my bf (34) and I (40) broke up 2 weeks ago. We had been havng issues the last 6 months. He had a hard time in the fall and i stood by and supported him. I also lost my job due to a merger (i was with the company over 20 year). I slipped into a depression about 6 months ago and pushed him away. We decided to break up, it wasn’t easy and I am still upset about it. I have always been a hard worker and over achiever, I am finishing my bachelors degree but not working put me into a deep depression.
Here goes – 2 days after we break up he met a new girl and 4 days later they made the public announcement on FB that they are “in a relationship”. She messages me on FB to tell me about herself (weird i know), she told me she is 5 years sober (not sure why she wanted to share that with me). I took the high road and wished them well.
He reached out to me yesterday because he is coming over today to get his things, and he began going on and on about everything that went wrong, I agreed. I know he was looking for a reaction, instead I told him I just want him to be happy. After he picks up his things I will immedialty be implementing the NC rule and will not repond to him for the mininmun 30 days.
I am taking this time to focus on me and my self improvement.
Here is some info on the new girl – shes 28, 3 kids (all with different dads), lives with her alcoholic parents (its a small town), she smokes (which he hates), she has a tattoo on her chest that runs up her neck (nothing against tattoo’s, i have one), she has some legal issues – contempt of court, public intoxication, disorderly conduct and just last month driving under suspension.
She is complete opposite of anyone he would ever date.
Is this a case of classic rebound?

Becki

July 8, 2016 at 8:37 pm

To add to this – he was suppose to pick up his belongings this past Wends evening. He texted me Tuesday to confirm, replied wth a short “yes, 6pm is good”, he continues to text me apologizing for posting his new relationship on FB and said he hoped that I would forgive him, he continuned to point out everything that I did wrong (he didn’t mention his fault in this). I did not react, i simply responded with “I have no hard feelings for and I just want you to be happy”. The next day he was suppose to pick up his belongings and he called and said something came up and could we reschedule. I told him the sooner we get this over with the better. He wants to pick his stuff up next week now. I thought I was ready to see him, however now I do not think that I am. I am debating on contacing his sister and taking his stuff over to her house. Why is he stalling?
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 9, 2016 at 12:22 pm

maybe he’s nof ready to see you yet..don’t contact his sister..just let him be
EBR Team Member: Amor

July 7, 2016 at 2:06 pm

Hi Becki,

yes it is..

Noelle

July 5, 2016 at 10:43 pm

Hi,

I was with my boyfriend for 4 years. About a year ago, we broke up mutually due to arguing and long distance. 6 months ago he reached out. We started talking, but I was standoffish. He told me he missed me and wanted to start talking again. As of about 3 months ago he started pursuing me heavily, asking me to move to be with him, telling me he loves and cares about me and wants me in his life. He told me to let my guard down and to trust him, so finally I did. A week later I agreed to see him, we had a great weekend together and were intimate. Days later I asked him what he wanted to do next and he said he can’t commit right now to anything due to intensive month of studying ahead for medical school. I said I understood and would give him the space to study, but wanted to be exclusive because we have too much history and I care too much to be halfway in. He told me he wasn’t seeing anyone or talking to anyone, so I shouldn’t be concerned about that, but rather the fact he wouldn’t have time for me like he thinks I deserve. Well, since then I’ve started seeing a girl post several pictures of them doing things together. He is still reaching out to me, but not as often and I have become distant to protect myself. What should I do from here? I care about him again, but I feel like he is being dishonest.

Thanks.

Noelle

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 6, 2016 at 9:15 am

Hi Noelle,

does it look like they’re more than friends?

Agnes

July 5, 2016 at 12:17 pm

we had an emergency call and he showed me he misses me, he said he feels bad about his life and feels drained by people around him, except me….i don’t know what to think anymore, still what an idiot i am!
moreover a freelance at his work says he is super flirty with her and she wants to try to date him…maybe it’s her vision, but still, it’s going from bad to worse! going back to NC and will wish for a miracle
Sarah

July 4, 2016 at 4:36 pm

My boyfriend of 4 yeara left me for a femail friend out of the blue 3 weeks ago. Ive had a terrible year and neglected our relationship. Hes was in constant contact until 3 days ago when i asked if he was happy. He said he was torn. I asked if there was any chance if us getting back together. He said no as it had gone too far with the new ine.but didn’t want to lose our friendship. I think hes been seeing her a few minths1 while continuing our relationship. Do you think i have any hope of getting him back? Im so in love with him.still. i blame myself for his going off with someone else who was therw for him.

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 4, 2016 at 10:18 pm

Hi Sarah,

if he’s torn, then there is.. do.you want to start active nc?

Tessa

July 3, 2016 at 9:03 am

Goodday..

My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago due to he said he had feelings for one of my friends but i don’t think it’s about feelings for her i think he wanted to get away..We we’re together for 3years but before that he and my friend also dated for 4months but she cheated on him numerous times..We had so many memories and fun times together in this 3years it makes it harder to let him go…The girl he’s with now doesn’t have any self respect.She had sex with 3 of his bestfriends and also had sex with his ex boss for a pack of smokes…He lived with me and my parents for 2years we were one big happy family,although sometimes we had our fights…

We we’re happy but the past 6months we fighted a lot due to he always said he couldn’t handel my mom anymore..every time me and him had our differences she interferes ,we couldn’t sleep next to each other or go out alone for the day..5minutes on being out she will call me and say we must come home we never had our privacy…She also maked it an regular thing to tell him he will never have the previlage to marry me one day or to give me kids…But what she thought was the opposite of what i thought he’s the one i want to marry one day and to have kids with..

I don’t know if he really loves this new girlfriend or is it just an rebound…The day and week before he left me he still said he loves me and every day when he was at work he will message me and say he’s missing me or he will come and vissit me by my class where i study he also kept asking me if we can run away together or just get our own place but i needed to Finnish my courses before i can move out luckily im Finnishing on the 1ste of September..

I’ve implemented the no contact rule for this whole time but everyday i miss him more and more but to afraid to make contact again scared i can’t get him back..2 weeks after our break up his old Facebook account we’re deleted and a new one was created but i was blocked from it(think it’s the new girlfriend).He also drive’s past my house regularly. This new girlfriend just wants to party and be wild all the time she’s busy with her last year of school but doesn’t have any plan’s to go and study further. She also lives by her own so there’s no rules or boundaries…

Please help me i don’t know if it’s an rebound or what..I really want to get him back!

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 4, 2016 at 6:50 pm

Hi Tessa
yeah, looks like a rebound.. focus on yourself right now.. you only get a short time of getting to do everything without a bf or a would be bf judgment.. so take this nc as a start of having your own life and being the ungettable girl because you have to maintain that when you enter in a relationship again

Stressed!!?!!

July 3, 2016 at 5:23 am

So I’m in this situation where I’m not sure if my ex is dating this girl or not. There’s not much evidence, other than one picture of them at a prom together, and I’m not 100% sure if the girl I saw today (in person) with him, was her. He’s not really active on social media, so that doesn’t really help. I looked on his facebook to see if I could confirm something, found her facebook, and saw that other than him as a mutual friend, my cousin and her best friend also knows her. What do I do in this situation? I’m already feeling sick, thinking of the possibility that he is dating her… That is, because I’ve been trying to talk to him, but I keep choking when I have the opportunity!!! I’m already stressing about this, and I don’t even know whether they’re just friends, or if they’re actually dating… Please help me?

EBR Team Member: Amor

July 4, 2016 at 6:42 pm

Hi Stressed,

don’t focus on it. Because the more inportant thing is how or what he will think everytime he sees or talks to you

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 29, 2016 at 4:25 pm

Hi Neha,

how long was your relationship? she’s probably rebound.. are you in active no contact?
Nancy

June 26, 2016 at 10:16 pm

Hi,
My boyfriend left me two months ago after 2 years of relationship. I was pressuring him for kids and moving in together. His behavior did not help either. 6 months before the break up everything was going good and we made a lot of progress. Then we had argument that led to 3 weeks of silence. And finally he texted me that it is over. And that he meant another one. There was a lot of drama that led him see me as mentally insecure. I was keeping hope and tried the nc to work on myself. But I just learned the other woman has moved in with him and his family only says good things about her. How do I get him seeing this situation?

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 28, 2016 at 2:38 pm

Hi Nancy,

he has to see first that you really change.. you have to move on without fully moving on.. he has related you to negative events so, you have influence his thinking by gour change.. I don’t think it will just take 30 days but that’s a start.. so after nc.. continue on the activities you started in it

Angel

June 23, 2016 at 7:57 pm

Me and my ex we were together for about 2 years and after he broke up with me we were still seeing each other and trying to work things out. Later he got a gf and now it’s been 8 months since he been with her. While those 8 months he been with her we were still seeing each other. He told me that he loves me and he doesn’t love her and stuff. We saw each other at school every day and he always came over my house and we had sex every week. Now few days ago we got into a fight and he told me that he doesn’t want anything with me and that he loves the other girl. Ever since that I been depressed. All I have been doing is crying and wishing to have him. After he told me that he loves her he changed his profile picture to a picture where he kissing her on the cheek. I got mad I pretty much messed up and I told his gf the truth about me and him but she didn’t believe me. Now i know he hates my guts. I just want him back. Is there any ways I can get him back or just the way my heart telling me I have lost him for good that I really did lose him for good. How can I get him back please help me I’m begging for help.

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 28, 2016 at 5:51 am

HI Angel,

are you in active no contact now? ANd you should check this article: You desperately begged for him back and failed.. I’m here to fix that

Liz

June 23, 2016 at 2:59 pm

I went into a bad depression 3 years ago after a miscarriage that he doesnt know about and left my fiance.
Through the depression i found someone who could numb my pain. But I learned that numbing doesn’t mean healing.
I moved back in hopes to work things out with my ex, but he had just gotten into a relationship with a girl and her baby (not his). We have mutual friends still and have been in the same area more than once but he refuses to talk to me.
A friend says I should apologize and explain what happened, but I am worried that could make it worse (explain the miscarriage.)
Do you think there is any hope?

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 28, 2016 at 5:30 am

Hi Liz,

it’s not an easy one.. if you reconnect, don’t mention that right ahead.. but you do have to apologize for what happened..

Jennifer

June 22, 2016 at 6:42 pm

I (J) have a complicated relationship. My Ex Boyfriend ( G ) and I were together for almost 10 years and we have a child together (P). Our son was 4 when (G) left. I have another son (C) who was born before we had our son (P) together, but (G) accepted my son.(C). At first we were happy and lived together and were a family. Later on we had our problems like every other couple and one day he just left. He said that he needed some time to think. I later found out that he was dating a girl who looked like a younger version of me and then later married her. Devastated and heartbroken as I was I moved on and raised my two boys. It has been years now, but there is not a day that goes by that I don’t think about him. He is divorced now and has a girlfriend.I guess you can say that I didn’t go out much, I had my boys to raise Our son (P) is in college now Neurobiologist and my older son (C) is a police officer. I (J) am a nurse and well (G) works as a fork lifter in a factory… (G) is my first and only love. Crazy as it sounds after everything and years later…I want him back… I don’t know if I just need a therapist cause I’M just plain crazy and need help…

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 27, 2016 at 10:13 am

HI J,

so you still talk to each other now? Have you tried being active in improving yourself?

PYAR

June 21, 2016 at 1:31 pm

Hi, my now-ex of 5 years and I broke up a the end of April 2016. To make a long story short, we fought a lot about having children. He would leave little hints (or breadcrumbs) about wanting to have more children. He already has two girls of his own. My culture and parents put a lot of pressure on my to have children, and I internalized it, and took out my frustrations on my ex about making a commitment. We argued a lot over the last year. Almost monthly. Finally, he said enough is enough, and moved out with his kids. I came to find out recently, that I’m not able to have children of my own, so it was kind of a blessing, but a little too late to receive this news. My ex was already gone. I have attempted no contact, and failed until now. It’s been 4 days, and I have not contacted him. What I have a problem with is that is out with other women, probably even sleeping with them. He stays out all hours of the night; even planning a trip to Vegas at the end of the month. This kills me because I would never think of moving on in this way. What should I do? Obviously, I can’t control what he does. Is there any hope of reconciliation, or should I be optimistic of a reconciliation?

Pyar

June 22, 2016 at 12:46 pm

What if he doesn’t reach out during or after this phase?
EBR Team Member: Amor

June 21, 2016 at 10:17 pm

Hi Pyar,

It looks like he’s in a phase.. You have to start active nc, and I think he will reach out after this phase. So, at least once he does, or during this phase, he sees you trying to moving on and not sulking around.

Charlie

June 14, 2016 at 12:07 pm

Hi,

So I am in such a predicament.

My boyfriend and I were together since we were 17 and had a fantastic relationship minus a few inevitable bumps for 6 years but broke up a year ago. I ended things for a number of reasons. Firstly I was not in a good place emotionally – I have suffered from eating disorders and anxiety in the past which had never affected our relationship until the final few months – so I feel like the break up was not a decision I should have made as at the time I was not in the right mind set for such a big decision.
Secondly, the last year of our relationship we lived together with a group of his friends, which was great but I think as we were always together we never felt the need to plan things for each other. I felt like he put no effort into our relationship at all and was always very low on his priority list. I accept I could have done more but (and we have spoken about this and agreed that) I certainly tried much harder to make him feel loved than he did with me.
Thirdly and probably most importantly I was an aspiring dancer at the time – I hoped to travel the world on Cruise ships and go to London and he wanted to stay in our current city, get a job and start the 9-5. He very much wanted to work through those differences but I (partly due to my emotional state) was very sceptical of this. I felt that if he couldn’t prioritise me when I lived in the same house how would he find the motivation when I was half way across the world.

I was frustrated that I couldn’t, no matter what I did, inspire him to show me he loved me. A simple birthday present, a night in watching TV even was too much for him and I felt like a break would wake him up.

In the months after the break up we talked a lot and he admitted to his short comings in the relationship. What stopped us from reconciling immediately was my fault. I had a very very drunken one night stand with someone whilst I was feeling particularly low and unwanted and I have honestly never regretted anything more and he knows this.

This pushed us to not talk for a while. So July was the break up. But we eventually began to talk again from August. I was convinced this was where we would get back together. We met up in October and after a really lovely afternoon together, I told him how I felt and that I regretted the split, I was still in love with him. I had thought a lot about what I wanted and I was willing to do anything I could to make the relationship work despite our differences. He said he was still in love with me and misses me but decided he wanted to remain single. The months after the break up were hard for him and he was just starting to come out of that and have fun and he didn’t want to miss out on the opportunity. This was hard to hear but he said he needed time. So I gave him time, I didn’t contact him or plead with him – however I did very much plead with him during our meeting in October. We both cried a lot and it was very emotional for both of us.

Months later(January), we had a few nice chats in between but nothing too much as I was giving him space, he got a new girlfriend. I was distraught. I met with him after he got with her- had a lovely afternoon with him again, but opened up to him about all of my thoughts. I told him that I think despite a new girlfriend, he should give us another chance for the following, I think fairly valid, reasons:

He still loves and misses me (something he admitted to during the meet in Jan)
I have naturally moved away from a career in dance and want to have a more stable sociable lifestyle similar to his (something that would have happened regardless of our relationship)
I have vastly improved my mental health and self image
He has learned how he should have acted during out relationship
He had now got a job and had more time / money to do things that make him happy. (at uni he was unable to have as much fun as he should have done which negatively affected him) He is more of the person I fell in love with now and would not only know how to treat me, but have the capacity to do it.

Basically – the major issues our relationship faced (Which in reality and hindsight weren’t even that big) were gone. We had both realised what went wrong and forgiven each other for it. He said he wanted to be with me forever and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. Yet – he still chose her.

He has learnt from his mistakes with me and is treating this new girl really well. It’s really difficult to see and I think they are quite serious. There is no way for me to find out how he truly feels about her as I can’t ask without seeming very desperate and bitter and all his friends would rat me out.

I don’t know what to do – do you think that he will eventually break up with her? Can he really fall in love with someone that soon when I am still heartbroken?

Is there anything I can do to make him come back to me? He seems to be very happy without me – but I know (from experience as we were together for so long) that he can be happy with me and would be even happier, particularly after the developments we have both made as individuals. I also know he can come across as ok when he really isn’t.

I am in contact occasionally through text but I initiate most contact and do drive the conversation for the most part although he doesn’t seem to adverse to the conversation. Conversations are fun and sometimes reminiscent I guess. He is fiercely loyal and already feels bad for the meet we had in January and subsequent conversations – particularly if they have an emotional element to them. (Which is rare – in fact the only emotionally driven conversation I had was way backing Feb following up the meeting we had…)

Please help me get him back x

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 17, 2016 at 4:34 pm

Hi Charlie,

I think you’re not seeing it as he is seeing it.. He doesn’t see you’ve changed and you asking for him back just confirms that. Start a 30 day nc so you can have time to really improve yourself and meet new people before talking to him again. And so that he doesn’t view you as a threat to his new relationship when you approach him to text again.

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