691 thoughts on “Will He Come Back If I Give Him Space”

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   Heartbrokengirl

   December 3, 2017 at 5:41 pm

   My ex broke up with me on 11/22. He blindsided me completely. We were in long distance relationship but we were happy, never fought. The day before he broke up with me, we had an long but very confusing conversation about our future. He was panicking and asked me so many questions that I don’t have an answer for, questions about what our future looks like even 5- 10 years down the road. He was so stressed out and I have never seen it before. He suddenly didn’t want to do any of the plans we talked about for our future. He is 24 European and I’m 30 American. We met while we were traveling and we traveled for 4 months and LDR for 7 mos. We talked about moving to each other’s country and then travel more after. He is the best person I’ve ever dated. It broke my heart that he didn’t want to be with me all in a sudden and I’m crying all the time. I’m still in shock actually. My friends told me he is too young. The fact that he has been traveling for 2 years and he is heading home soon, but he doesn’t have a career plan whatsoever. He hasn’t contact me at all after the break up. He still follows me on Instagram, and he views my stories but never liked me photos. We are still friends on fb. I never stalk him on any social media, I unfollowed him on Instagram. After the break up, I sent him a message basically saying that “if you want figure what you want and who you are, I respect it. I hope I will be still be here when you are ready. Till then, I know I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with me 100%.” He wrote back saying, “your words meant a lot to me. I booked a ticket back home and hope to figure out what my plan is. Best of luck to you”

   I’m still heartbroken that he hasn’t shown that he misses me I started NC after I sent him that message on 11/26. I’m traveling again so I’m trying to post very positive pictures on insta of me having fun.

   I really miss him. We had such a good time together. I cherish every moment of it

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   Rina

   December 3, 2017 at 2:43 pm

   Hi,

   1) he told me he wanted a clean break and need time to think. I gnatted him and we ended up breaking up 3 days later

   2) we have broken up for over a month, did the NC rule except that 2 weeks into it I texted him to return my things and for him to take his things but he replied only when he has the time. But he seems free so idk why he’s dragging it

   3) since the last text, I haven’t texted him. It’s been 2 weeks. Does it seem like he couldn’t care less about me and has moved on? How Can I get him back?

   Thank you.

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   December 5, 2017 at 1:41 am

   Hi Rina,

   how active are you in improving yourself and in posting in social media?

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   Rina

   December 3, 2017 at 4:00 am

   He said he wanted a clean break and needed some time. I gnatted him and he broke up with me 3 days later. We haven’t contacted for a month, except 2 weeks ago I texted him to return my stuff at his place. He said he will when he has the time. I started the NC rule again after that. What should I do now to make him come back?

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   December 5, 2017 at 1:41 am

   Hi Rina,

   how active are you in improving yourself and in posting in social media?

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   Jadez

   December 2, 2017 at 1:54 pm

   Hi! Me and my partner were together almost 7 years he woke up one day and decided he didn’t wanna be with me anymore, he said he needs time as he’s not sure what will happen in the future? I’m absolutely gutted! He was my world! I’m currently in the process of moving aswell so I’ll be even further away 🙁 so I even bother? I’m on day 3 of no contact (only messaged back over children)

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   December 5, 2017 at 1:24 am

   Hi Jadez

   check this one:
   How To Get Your Ex Back When You Have A Child With Them

5. 

   Vanessa

   December 2, 2017 at 9:24 am

   Hi team.

   My ex and I were in a LDR for 6 months.
   We try to see each other once a month but can’t do it since nov because he s super busy. He started to be distinct since late oct. We didn’t fight or argue etc. In early Nov, he said he s in a disaster due to work, family issues and bad addictions which he try to stop. He s trying to find balance in life. He told me he need some time then he would be normal again. During the period I didn’t express negative emotions to him. I just try to be normal updating him about my life and encouraging him. And didn’t dare to ask deep about his issues (Is that gnatting ? 60:40 but I really need to wait a long long time for his response) we didn’t do any phone conversation during the time for giving him more space. I mail him little gifts, He thank me for being a caring person. Another thing is he’s lonely at home, my stuff reminds him of me, he said he s lucky to have me for showing so much love to him. I thought we can pass this but he broke up with me in mid Nov, saying he s emotionless due to busy work, family issues and addictions. Originally we plan to meet in Dec but now he changed his mind. Again I hold my disappointment saying it’s fine for not coming in Dec. Then trying to remind him about our happy memories in the past. He said he really can’t think of anything now.

   So I start the NC immediately. Now it’s already 15 days but he still didn’t reach out. I think his problems are hard to solve in a short period of time. Does 30 days NC enough or should it be longer ? What should I do now ? I wonder if he still have feelings to me. In these NC days I find him online more frequently than before. Busy work or is that an excuse ? And do I do it right when he said he needs time?

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   December 5, 2017 at 1:23 am

   HI Vanessa,

   restart the count, do 30 days, be active in improving yourself and in posting in social media but don’t social media stalk him.. Looks like he’s reason was just an excuse..