322 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Ghosted You”

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   A

   July 28, 2016 at 3:57 am

   So, my ex and i broke up end of may and well we had uni together and we stopped talking (i had begged but only as an after reaction to him wanting to remain broken up – we dated 2yrs 1month) we had classes together and he would sit in and around me. It bothered me but I continued with no contact – after 30 days i didn’t contact him – I was doing ok – I realised we were wrong for one another (I couldn’t forgive what a bitch his mum was just because she is rich & my family is shit so a future partners family for me is a deal breaker). He messaged me at some point during the holidays saying if i wanted him to have anything to let him know (possessions?) but we went back and forth a bit but the messages were fairly bleugh – like polite but not really saying anything – it ended in him saying Lol and me not replying. So new semester and we have 3 classes a week – yesterday was the first one. He came in – new threads, new douchey haircut looking like some generic hipster dude which honestly we would’ve both laughed at one stage. He sat within earshot of me talking to this bitch who tried to break us up from both sides (telling him stuff and telling me stuff about him etc.) and then loudly bragging about how much he was benching now (never went to the gym before break up) and bragging about his grades. The whole flipping things was a brag session. Mind you I’m over this like I have moved on a few time 😉 if you know what i mean … became the ungettable girl got my own thing going. So after consulting with a few classmates who had worked with us in groups previously I didn’t want a repeat of last sem where I just beared him sitting a meter from me in each class – it was too close to me and it was painful. So I walked up to him (first convo we’ve had face to face since the break up) and told him it wasn’t a comfortable environment for me or I’m sure him for him to sit at the next table (i had gotten there first) and he was all arrogant and he FLEX STRETCHED AT ME … Like stretched backwards and flexed his biceps at me!!! WTF!!! and he was like “ugh – fine I won’t purposely sit near you” and all arrogant – and when i went over first he continued his conversation with his dickhead friend who is into female manipulation audio books!!! He just tried to assert his dominance on the situation but yeah I was vocal to my friends in the class when I walked around after – I was like he could sit anywhere! Btw the counselor knows about this and has offered to provide formal documentation if this becomes like a harassment thing – and it kind of is. We dated over 2 years. I feel bad for him, I feel bad for me you know? At one point he looked me right in the eye and I think I saw a flicker of pain. But him bragging sitting within earshot is NOT OK. I’m not ok with that. I don’t do that to HIM!!! I just do my thing with other people – make friends chill whatever. Anyway, the emotional rage thing – I hope I wasn’t doing that. I’m just disappointed that our first interaction after not speaking for over 2 months had to be a negative one.

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   July 29, 2016 at 10:48 am

   HI A,

   just chill,, the more you reach, the more you appear affected