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Sasha
December 26, 2016 at 7:23 pm
What if you are blocked on social media but not through the phone?
Joanna
December 29, 2016 at 10:01 am
Me and my ex were in a serious relationship for 1.5 yrs. We broke up 3 months ago, even we both think our relationship was good and we loved each other a lot, but there is still thing we couldn’t work out. I thought it was a mature break-up.
I moved out straight away and not contact to each other at all since then. Until a week ago, he was waiting in front of my garage for hand over me a letter when I got home from work, we went for dinner after that. (was the first time we reconnected each other) Few days after I sent a Xmas msg on Xmas day, and he asked me out
again. Everything was good and we even made a plan to celebrate new year eve together.
After all, he blocked me last night. What does that mean? I feel that I was hold my feelings off to him for the last 3 months, now I want him back.
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 30, 2016 at 11:27 am
Hi Joanna,
did he say he wanted you back?
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 28, 2016 at 5:18 pm
Hi Sasha,
continue being active in posting even if you’re blocked because he can still check it through a different account. Just make the posts public..
Julie
December 26, 2016 at 10:59 am
Hi, I found this article very informative. I’ve never commented on a website like this but need closure so here goes. Things ended horribly my ex *Shane back in early October. We had a friendship for almost 9 years over social media and we had met through my son’s Dad, *Anthony. Shane and I, always liked other but always in relationships with other people. I even got in a lot of trouble with Anthony back in 2009 because Shane and I were starting to talk as more than friends. So this year after I split from my long term relationship with my son’s father, Shane coincidentally entered into a relationship with a girl I sort of know. She lives in my apartment complex. Well, once we realized this coincidence we immediately hung out. He came to my house that first summer night and we talked until the sun came up. We’ve always had a strong connection I feel. Long story short we started having sex. A lot. We didn’t always have to sleep together when we hung out tho. After the first time we had sex he begged me to be with and wanted to leave his gf for me. I didn’t want a relationship so close after my previous one, so I said no. But we couldn’t enough of each other. So we continued sleeping together the next 3 months (half of the time of his relationship at that time). Things started really getting complicated the more we hungout and started going out in public. I overheard him tell his father (after he introduced us) that he wanted to be with me but I kept saying no. Then things ended when we went away for the weekend in late September. He asked me if we were together. So I gave in finally. Then he immediately started introducing me as his gf to his friends and family. I got a little freaked. So I did something awful. I got drunk and started dancing with other guys. He blew up and fought. We got okay again. Decided to be together despite what happened. When we got home he ran back to his gf. I was pissed. A couple days later he blocked me and made his little relationship of convenience “fb official”. I was broken hearted but I accepted that. Couple days later Anthony wanted to spend the night and I said yes because our relationship was strictly platonic at the time. He was crashing on my couch, I was upstairs. Well, Shane came over night. Said he needed to talk to me. Still had feelings so I heard him out. He immediately apologized for being with his gf and said she made him block me. He said he loved me and wanted to make things right with me. Well, Anthony comes outside. Shane immediately flies into a jealous rage. Then tries to fight Anthony. I broke it up. Anthony went inside. Shane and I fought for like 20 minutes. He was all,”how could you do this to me?” Tried to explain that Anthony and I were just friends. Then got mad at him because hello he has a gf! Things ended with us on bad terms. A couple weeks later his gf messages me and tells me that Shane and I should be together. I felt like it was a trick so I said no I’m good. Apologized for everything that happened. Then comes over and tries to fight me. So we fought and I beat her up in self defense. That was Oct 18. Still blocked on fb but he requested to follow me on Instagram 2 wks ago. I confirmed but he won’t let me follow him so I withdrew my request. What is that about? I know what you’re thinking. I’m a slut and this is karma. But connection wasn’t just sexual. Believe me I’ve never done anything like this. I know better than to sleep with someone’s boyfriend and I definitely don’t condone cheating. Even tho he’s with her and I’m back with Anthony, I can’t get him off my mind. Please help me by giving me some insight. This is killing me!
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 29, 2016 at 2:49 am
Hi Julie,
We don’t think you’re like that but what do you mean that you’re back with Anthony? As in back in a relationship? If yes, what’s really the plan? If you wanted to move on, that means you have to stop talking to the other guy if you wanted a chance with the other guy, it would be better if you stay single and to not be in any kind of relationship with him if he’s still with his gf
Sasha
December 26, 2016 at 7:13 am
This is a great article! Thank you so much for sharing! I am going to try to institute the NC rule now. However, my situation is a bit different than these examples. I am blocked on social media (unfriended on FB and blocked on instagram) but he hasn’t blocked my number. I’m not sure if this is better or worse than having your phone number blocked. How do you get your ex back (or get him to regret the day he decided to end things with you) when your’e blocked on social media?
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 28, 2016 at 5:18 pm
Hi Sasha,
continue being active in posting even if you’re blocked because he can still check it through a different account. Just make the posts public..
A W
December 25, 2016 at 11:08 pm
My LDR boyfriend and I have been in an on and off relationship for about 7 months. When we first starting dating we got in an argument based on communication issues which resulted in him telling me to leave him alone for good and he blocked me from phone and snapchat for about two weeks. Obviously that didn’t last long because we have been together since. Since then I have been kind of needy and clingy because I am afraid to lose him. I texted him on Monday night saying that I was gonna take a break for awhile because I know that I had been annoying him constantly texting and calling him. He took it as a break up and texted me to leave him alone for good. He then blocked me from phone and text again. I am really sad as today is Christmas and he hasn’t unblocked me and I am afraid that I am going to go into the new year without my love. Please give me some advice? Do you think he is really done this time? How long should I wait before I just try to move on?
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 27, 2016 at 1:55 pm
Hi Aw,
dont just wait.. folow the advice on this one:
How To Prevent A Breakup With Your Boyfriend When You Know It’s Coming
Samantha
December 20, 2016 at 1:10 pm
Hi team. Firstly thank you for the information on here. It’s been really helpful. My boyfriend broke up with me Tuesday. He said he was worried we wouldn’t have enough time together when I go to uni in September (in the same city he lives in) and that he doesn’t think he feels love for me. It was a shock.
We spoke the day after and he said that he won’t block me on anything and that he will keep in touch. I asked him a generic question the day after and as a result he blocked me on WhatsApp. I had deleted him on FB, which he commented on when we spoke “you got rid of me on FB quick enough” so I was like ok then that bothers you I’ll readd. He ignored it. No contact started from there. 5 days now. However I noticed that he also stopped following on instagram but didn’t block me. I thought he blocked me on WhatsApp cus he thought I was going to beg him back but then why not block me on instagram? Odd. He is the one who went deep into the relationship. His change of mind was completely out of left field. I feel like his mummy have had something to do with it tbh. I’m going to do no contact and make sure I have fun over Christmas… I was just wondering if you had any further ideas about what he is thinking. (We are both 25 and we will dating for 3 months)
Thanks
Samantha
January 6, 2017 at 1:15 pm
Yeah I agree that September is far away. He said he didn’t think it would work because he didn’t think it was love.
He and his mum are extremely close and she dictates quite a lot of how he thinks. He said he figured out he loved me because he spoke to her about it. But he thinks now that he was wrong.
I have some non negotiable that I rose with him early in the relationship (i am 26 and seperated so wanted to get my cards not the table) so I asked what his opinion was of having kids (not with me… in general). He said he wasn’t sure but 1 may be ok. I left it at that. A few weeks later his mum announces that she “isn’t having grandchildren and **** knows it”. We spoke a little of how this affects his sister who is married. I said nothing specific about our future.
Also his mum was apparently asking about my ex husband a lot. He had no issues with it ( i told him I was seperated before my 2nd date) but if she kept asking I’m thinking maybe she wasn’t cool with it.
He seemed to be unsure when he broke it off. He needed reassurance from him mum sister and friends that he had done the right thing.
I am in the middle of no contact and I’m implementing the 3 pillars (health wealth relatiknships). He has blocked me on WhatsApp and unfollowed me on instagram. His dad also had me on instagram and unfollowed me. Before Xmas is dad asked to follow me again and I accepted. He unfollowed me again the next day. We are not friends on FB but I am posting public updates of the positive things I’m doing so if he looks he can see.
Sorry for the length of this.
His behaviour and his dad’s seems very odd to me…
EBR Team Member: Amor
January 8, 2017 at 3:31 pm
If he’s that dependent on his decisions, then just move on from him..because it’s going to be toxic if he doesn’t change that
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 22, 2016 at 10:02 pm
HI Samantha,
September? That’s too far from now. And why do you think his mom has something to do with his decision?
K
December 19, 2016 at 1:42 am
I think I wrote on this comment section but can’t find it.. 🙁 don’t know what happened..
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 21, 2016 at 1:20 pm
oh no, by address, I mean identify what you can control, and change it. Like your routine, habits, activities. and he didnt forgot the app if he deleted it, that means he purposely doesn’t want to talk… so, either you move on, or take time and focus in changing
K
December 18, 2016 at 12:56 pm
Hi
So we were only talking on this app and I am not sure but I think he only uses this app when talking to me. And I broke the nc on day 14 and texted him on this app and said I wanted to talk. But the messages are still marked as unread, which means hes either deleted the app after we broke up or he is just ignoring me. So I’m not sure if he even knows i sent the message or not. And if he deleted the app i feel like he will just forget about the app because you know, out of your phone, out of mind? But what I’m confused about is that, when he broke up with me i asked him to think about it for one more week and suggested we talk the next week and he said “okay but as friends because we are OVER. And if you’re going to call, text me first.” Doesn’t it mean that he wouldn’t necessarily refuse to talk? Then why would he not read my message or respond? And besides we’re not friends on facebook. Should I still try to message him on facebook after nc? And how long does it take for a guy to remember he deleted the only app that he can communicate with his ex with? If it’s been 2weeks and he still doesn’t care if I text him or not, does that mean he just forgot about it and doesn’t care at all?? Please help..:(
K
December 22, 2016 at 2:05 am
And since iam planning to move to where he is in march, i kind of keep him hooked until then.
K
December 22, 2016 at 1:45 am
Okay so I’ve made some adjustments and come up with a new game plan but I thought I’d like your approval before i take any action;) so here’s my plan; when my 35days of nc is up maybe I message him on facebook and tell him I need some closure and tell him I’ve been doing fine but want to stay friends with him ( to make him think I’ve moved on) and after that do another set of nc for maybe 25ish days and start to casually message him like taught on this web site. In this case I think maybe it’ll give me a more legitimate reason to text him because I said I still wanted to stay friends. Because I think otherwise no matter what i text him he’ll know that i am only texting him with the intention of getting back with him and he would be very careful and protective not to mislead me.
K
December 21, 2016 at 1:46 pm
Thanks for the reply! But i wish I could move on without moving on.. I understand that he wants to cut me out of his life and everything but do you think there could be chance that maybe he will change his mind and be a little bit more open to talking to me when i try to reach him by messaging him on facebook after certain amount of time (i was thinking maybe 45days?) ? And when i facebook message him, should i mention that i tried to talk to him with the other app? Thanks!
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 22, 2016 at 12:34 am
honestly, sometimes 45 is not enough but make up for it by being active.. initiate a text but dont say that you’ve been trying in the other app
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 21, 2016 at 1:20 pm
oh no, by address, I mean identify what you can control, and change it. Like your routine, habits, activities. and he didnt forgot the app if he deleted it, that means he purposely doesn’t want to talk… so, either you move on, or take time and focus in changing
dm
December 13, 2016 at 7:30 pm
Hello Amor,
we broken up 2 month ago and we were still in touch for a month after that. but because of my insisting on meeting and talking and getting back, he decided to block me on calls and applications. I had deactivated my facebook already so if I sign in again, we are still friends. However, I am wondering if he is gonna block me there as well. I do not know how to use that. Should I sign in on facebook and text him after 30 days or should I open my account just right now to see his reaction?
Thanks!
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 14, 2016 at 11:05 pm
Hi Dm,
open your account for yourself, not to check him again. You don’t have to block him but don’t message him. Be active. Go out, do the things you love, or do some activity at home, work out, cook, have a make over, volunteer, clean,and then post your activities in social media. That’s your indirect way of showing that you understand him and now you’re moving on.
Joan
December 13, 2016 at 1:37 pm
HI
I blocked my ex two weeks ago because he really hurt me but then he kept messaging me so i umblocked him.
he then lied about a lot of things and when i confronted him he began swearing at me verbally and being very disrespectful so i blocked him again (on whatsapp which is our main form of communication)
i just saw now that he blocked me back. he has never done this.
what shoul i do & how should i feel?
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 13, 2016 at 10:50 pm
Hi Joan,
we can’t dictate how you should feel. If you feel negative, acknowledge it, experience it, just don’t linger on “being negative” be active even if you feel negative. Do you want to try the no contact rule?
Rose
December 10, 2016 at 1:19 am
Hi amor,
After 30 days of no contact, i sent him a very positive message telling him that I accepted the break up and i had a good time after the break up. He read the message and blocked my number. I’m so confused. Why he blocked me? Should i text him on facebook?
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 12, 2016 at 2:48 pm
Hi Rose,
Why did you break up? And I think that message was too late to say. Maybe it sounded like you were just trying to make him believe it.
Michelle
December 6, 2016 at 9:19 pm
So posting pictures of me hving fun may hv backfired as my ex told me twice I seem to be having more fun without him so he’s got a full block on me. I found out he changed his facebook status to in a relationship but has not tagged the girl. I know she is fb friends with him and no reason why she wouldn’t want to be tagged as in a relationship with him so Im curious why not tag her. Any insight on why that might be or am I over analyzing this.
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 10, 2016 at 7:07 pm
Hi Michelle,
yes, you are over analyzing it.. 🙂
gvc666
December 5, 2016 at 9:53 pm
sorry, facebook block is standard operating procedure to a break-up, as is rejection of friendzone. I’m protecting myself. I dont want to be logging into facebook and stumble upon pics of some other guy all over my ex…. maybe a few years down the line when hopefully the feelings have gone… but not within a few months as might happen. I block straight away! Hopefully they don’t think its a childish response to the end of the relationship… but if they do that’s their problem.
S
December 2, 2016 at 9:55 am
What is there to do in a case in which your ex blocked you because he actually doesn’t want to talk to you? My ex and I only had each other’s numbers and were friends on Facebook, but he blocked me on both during NC which I’ve completed almost a month of. The only thing I have left is all is that I’m still able to follow him on Spotify, but we’ve never interacted through it. We don’t see each other because we don’t study or work at the same place, and he doesn’t want to talk to me because he thought I was clingy and obsessive about him and that made him lose interest and want to break up; he didn’t think we should stay friends either because he didn’t have enough interest to stay in touch walking away from the relationship, especially because staying friends would require his time to talk once in a while, but he still sees me as obsessive and that I’m clinging to any kind of interaction I could have with him when he feels he doesn’t have the same feelings for me anymore and I’m being much more keen about staying friends or talking than he is, leading him to conclude it would be unhealthy to be in touch or available to each other in any way. I do stay in touch with some of his friends and occasionally get to see people who know him. However, I primarily talk to two of them. One, though he knows I’m devastated by this total cut-off and still love my ex, wants me to completely move on and want nothing to do with him, while the other seems to not be close enough to him to talk about me. Also, there will be a few days in the year that I have to go to his school and he may or may not be there; what should I do if I see him and how do I avoid him thinking I’m psycho? Do I tell him the reason I’m there; how should I go about such situations? Is there really a 0% chance of getting back in touch at the least?
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 2, 2016 at 7:17 pm
Hi S,
have your own life and stop talking to his friends.. It’s making you look more like you’re chasing him.. And dont explain when you’re in his school too.. Just be there and do what you need to do.. Explaining makes you look subdominant
Jeosepe
November 29, 2016 at 4:55 pm
My relationship with my girlfriend lasted for 5 months, one month has elapsed since we were separated. We had a very nice relationship, she loved me a lot and we decided to introduce each other to our parents ready for marriage that we had planned on Feb 2017. She saw me as demanding a lot from her but eventually I was ready to change to her needs. Apart from the reason that led us to separate, we had never had any argument before and we were happy. She was not responding to my SMS sometimes she was responding but not in a good way. She had blocked me on WhatsApp and phone calls, after two days she then unblocked me on WhatsApp but I did not text her on anyway suddenly she blocked me again on WhatsApp despite of exercising the NC Rule. Please advice.
Sian
December 1, 2016 at 8:33 pm
Hi well Iv been dating a guy a couple of months everything was going great then his mum passed away we was still chatting me going over then a couple of days ago he went quiet I took his comment the wrong way and then we argued and then he ended things Iv apologised and text and he mailed saying we can still be friends I told him I didn’t think I could be his friend I care to much and he had a go at me I tried to apologise again and now have been blocked on the phone facebook snapchat and WhatsApp I don’t no what to do as we both drink in the same place and he lives across the road is there any chance of us working things out so confused xx
EBR Team Member: Amor
December 2, 2016 at 1:54 pm
Hi Sian,
Do you want to try the no contact rule?
EBR Team Member: Amor
November 29, 2016 at 9:51 pm
Hi Jeosepe,
Stick to 30 days no contact rule.. If she found you needy, you have to look like you’re moving on to have your own life now and that you’re improving.
E
November 23, 2016 at 7:46 pm
So I was Facebook blocked by him (though only on chat, we’re still friends who’re able to see each other’s posts and post on each other’s timelines, etc.). We’re long distance. We met the final night of our holiday and had a one-night-stand. A month went by without contact (but I was aware he was Facebook creeping me) until he initiated conversation. It got intense fast. I was cautious but mellowed because he was so sweet and concerned, he remembered the silliest things and it wasn’t just sexting. There’s definite care and openness. However, he’s a doubter, moody and not the maturest for someone in his 30s (I’m 20-something). He’d be tender-macho-tender-macho-tender while talking and I did a stupid thing: I told him the intensity of my feelings. He said he reciprocates but I scared him. Before me he hadn’t dated or had intercourse for 6 years so… what followed were weeks of pushiness (totally my bad, I wanted definition) until I thought: OK, RELAX. I figured we could be friendly without pressure and that seemed to work. He replied kindly, with enthusiasm even, and then when I replied to that, he blocked me. I’m confused. He’s probably irked, maybe even distrustful so what should I do about him? It’s been 4 days.
E
November 25, 2016 at 1:00 am
Thank you. I suppose the FWB approach is OK. I think he’s commitment phobic. Like I said, I scared the bejeezus out of him by being so intense (so we won’t be discussing sex soon). That was a big mistake because I know he’s not someone you can push. You need to gain his trust and that’s a SLOW but gradual process. I definitely want to do the friendzone. I plan to tag him on Facebook with a DIY Christmas card featuring his pet and a seasonal joke hoping he’ll unblock me.
EBR Team Member: Amor
November 27, 2016 at 11:45 am
Ok, but just to make it clear.. Don’t be friends with benefits with him again..
EBR Team Member: Amor
November 24, 2016 at 6:00 pm
Hi E,
so you mean all he wants is to be friends with benefits? I think you need to check this:
EBR 006: How To Turn Friends With Benefits Into A Relationship
Elle
November 23, 2016 at 1:20 pm
Hi Amor! My ex broke up with me a few months ago and a few weeks after he blocked me gradually on everything. However a month a go he got back in touch because of our friend and we had been speaking generally everyday, (i was unblocked on text messages and calls but still blocked on facebook and insagram)it was good because i had really implemented a lot of positive changes in my life and felt more confident and less needy. we both acknowledged we could never get together because of religious differences but it was still nice to speak again however yesterday when i went to call him i found i was blocked once again! it hurt because i felt back in the same space i had try to grow from. I needed answers so went psyhyco and called from an unknown number and his friend picked up, i called once more and he hung up when i spoke. What do you think the next steps should be?
EBR Team Member: Amor
November 24, 2016 at 11:28 am
I think he blocked you, so you can both fully move on.. If you both agreed that you will not be back together, he has to see that that’s not your goal
Bella
November 22, 2016 at 10:51 pm
So I met this guy from a Tinder a few weeks ago… We were both just looking for fun. After the first hook up, he got upset because he felt used by me. We talked it over and I stated that I actually enjoy his company and would like to spend more time with him. We meet up for the 3rd time and all was well he was complimenting me and being really sweet. The next day i texted him a joke and he replied wtv… I did not reply because I felt the text was cold. And now he has blocked me on Facebook and Snapchat. My gut tells me he likes me ( based on our interactions) but i dont understand why hes pushing me away ?
EBR Team Member: Amor
November 24, 2016 at 7:55 pm
Hi Bella,
it’s just been a few weeks.. Of course he likes you, but it doesnt mean he’s serious with you..and I think that’s what he’s avoiding to happen
E
November 22, 2016 at 5:05 pm
Hi, so I was Facebook blocked by him (though only on chat, we’re still friends who’re able to see each other’s posts and post on each other’s timelines, etc.). It’s long distance. We met the final night of our holiday and had a 1-night-stand. A month went by without contact (but I was aware he was Facebook creeping me) until he initiated conversation. It got intense. I was cautious but mellowed because he was so sweet, concerned and remembered the silliest things. However, he’s a doubter, moody and not the maturest for someone in his 30s (I’m in my 20s). He’d be tender-macho-tender-macho-tender and then I did a stupid thing: I told him the intensity of my feelings. He said he reciprocates but I scared him. Before me he hadn’t dated or had sex for 6 years so… what followed were weeks of pushiness (totally my bad, I wanted definition) until I thought: OK, RELAX. I figured we could be friendly without pressure and that seemed to work. He replied with enthusiasm and then when I replied he blocked me. I’m confused. He’s probably irked, maybe even distrustful so what should I do? It’s been 4 days. Thanks.
EBR Team Member: Amor
November 24, 2016 at 6:00 pm
Hi E,
so you mean all he wants is to be friends with benefits? I think you need to check this:
EBR 006: How To Turn Friends With Benefits Into A Relationship
Tiffany
November 18, 2016 at 1:12 pm
I forgot to add he deleted all of our pictures together of me off his instagram but not his facebook. Just curious is all! Hope you can give a little insight! Thanks so much!
EBR Team Member: Amor
November 20, 2016 at 6:19 pm
Hi Tiffany,
first, dont make unrealistic promises because there will still be fights later on. You just have to fight in a different way. I think there is still a chance. So, if he comes back, talk about how you will handle fights.Not how you will not have fights anymore.right now, be active for yourself during nc.
Tiffany
November 18, 2016 at 11:54 am
I have been dating this guy for 2 years! I am a single mom with twins. In the past I have had a hard time letting him be involved with the twins discipline wise as he is not the father and I am protective of them. He has always been amazing to the kids and has always spoiled them in every way possible. 6 months ago our relationship took the turn for the worst. We found ourselves fighting every single day about everything imaginable. We have been through a lot. I became insecure and controlling and eventually I pushed him completely away. He left to go to NY to visit his family and while he was away for a week, we broke up. He completely ignored me, didn’t text me or returned my calls. He wrote me this long text message how he still loves me but he cannot do this anymore bc we are toxic and maybe we can be friends later down the road. Although Completely heartbroken, I left it at that and went into the NC mode. He came back from his vacation a week later and two days back he started to call and txt me. I ignored him and he showed up at my door. He begged for me back bc he missed me and can’t be without me and of course, I let him in again and we promised each other we would work it out and be better. This was not even a month ago.
Successful promise, we both have not fought and I have been the happiest I have ever been. Until this week. We had a small disagreement about him parenting the kids that I did not like and I tripped out. We fought and he packed his stuff and left. I called him the next day to apologize and talk it out but he told me he was sorry he can’t do this anymore and I have done everything that I said I wouldn’t. Which is not true… it was just that one time fight. He said he hasn’t been happy for the past week and it’s best that we are not together and he’s sorry for breaking my heart twice. He hung up on me.
My emotions got the best of me and I begged for him back through txt immediately and even threatened to come to his house and talk it out. He told me he’s being nice about this and to not “effin” come there. (He never cuss’ at me) So later that night I txt him and apologized for the way I acted like a pyscho and I wish him the best. I am now in NC. He has deleted me off all social media. This weekend he left town to go party with his friends.
I will be focusing on me and school and my kids for now, but i was just wondering if this past one fight pushed him to the edge of no return or I should still have a glimpse of hope and he is acting out of just anger and he will eventually calm down and want me back?