111 thoughts on “The Simple Four Step Method For Getting Your Boyfriend Back (Video)”

1. 

   Shayna

   November 23, 2015 at 1:11 am

   My boyfriend of two years broke up with me just over a month ago, saying it was because he didn’t see us working out. I made all the mistakes you talk about: begging, pleading, promising to change, etc. I begged for four days, and he refused to acknowledge me. I went into no contact. We had a conference coming up for school around three weeks after we broke up, so I broke no contact after 2 weeks (oops). He responded! We talked a little bit, and he said he wanted to try to be friends. For the time leading up to the conference, we continued to text daily. At the conference, things were great. We flirted, spent all our time together, and I thought we would be okay. When we came back after the 5 day conference, he became distant again. A week later, I told him that I needed to know what he wanted from the friendship, because I felt like I was initiating all of the contact (I was a bit of a text gnat). He didn’t respond, and hasn’t for four days now. I am so confused, and I want to do NC, but I’m worried that he will move on. I was his first girlfriend, and he apparently wasn’t “planning” to break up with me. When he left, he told me he still loved me and hated to leave.

   Am I right to do NC at this point? Do I stand a chance of getting him back? I was going to do the 45 day NC, because I was too clingy and needy.

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   Shayna

   December 5, 2015 at 8:22 pm

   I just learned that he has been talking to another girl, and things are starting to get pretty serious between them. He started talking to her within the first week after our breakup. I think it’s a rebound, but he is waiting until marriage for a lot of the physical aspects of a relationship. So would this relationship be just for the emotional support? She is the opposite of me in every way. I’m staying in no contact (even though I wanted nothing more than to confront him), and I’m just hoping they don’t make things official anytime soon. He thinks I don’t know about this new girl, but several friends have been keeping me updated as best they can. Do I stand a chance? I’m making myself into the UG, but I’m scared it will be too late by the end of NC.

2. 

   Chris Seiter

   November 28, 2015 at 11:11 pm

   I definitely think you are right to do the no contact.

2. 

   Ange

   November 22, 2015 at 11:04 pm

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   November 22, 2015
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   Hi Chris.
   My situation is a little complicated. (As is everyones)
   I want to purchase your complete system this week… I want to make sure I can benefit or if I should just accept its over.
   My guy and I were “talking for a year and a half. He got back with his ex bit still messaged me etc. We are both from a different country (the same country) and met in the US… He went back home for a while and his girlfriend lived there. I messaged him one day and told him I loved him too much to watch him be with someone else and I wished him well… I asked for a little time and ended it with her. He asked ne to come visit in our home country to meet his mother and see how life was there as we talked quite seriously… I went… And stypidly, without commitment slept with him on the first night. So we “dated but never made it official. I stayed in his house with him which is right next to his parents house on the farm so we were all close but I could sense from day on he wasnt giving his all. I know I should not have slept with him and he knew what that meant to me… But we continued to make love and I cooked and cleaned and rubbed his back and gave it all. One day… I asked him whats going on and he said he loves me and is crazy about me but does t feel that spark and like he wants to commit… We discussed it and since I had 4 weeks left in our home country we said wed both give our all and see how it goes… 2 weeks later, after snooping, I found out he was seeing another girl. I confronted him in tears and he apoligised and said he knows he messed up and would do anything for another chance. Gave me his phone passwords etc. i did… He ended it with her and things were great for 3-4 days… I noticed he was pulling away. I asked him again and he said he loves me and is crazy about me but doesnt feel like he wants to be in a relationship. So I told him its pointless for me to stay with him… He said he didnt want me to go and maybe when he comes back to the states next year things would work… I ended it and told him the friendship had to end. I packed my bags and he sat with me and apologised and we held eachother and he asked if he could come visit me of hes in the states and I told him no. No contact, no friendship! I dont want just half of him. Well… I left and we hugged… I deleted him from facebook and whatsapp and instagram and the only message he sent me was to inform me my passport was ready. A little less than a week later I sent him an incredubly long message about how I felt used and he didnt love me and he cant give me what I want but I love him and chose hime and how if he loved me he would fight for me… Even if just our friendship. It was sweet and needy and emotional and I ended it woth pps: f@ck you! He didnt respond. I went by there 3 days later to pick up my passport and had his brother call him to come say goodbye. I told him I didnt mean the letter in a bad way… And that at times I wish I turned around and hed be there fighting for me. He said he wanted to call or message me so many times but hed hurt me so much alreay… I told him it was Bull S$it because if he wanted to call he would have! I told him in person he wasted my time and money and he said hel pay me back but we hugged again and I left. 3 days later I flew back home. He sent me a message yesterday morning asking if I made it home ok and I responded yes. He was very short in he messages and just said he hopes I enjoy the rest of my day. Later that day (about 6-8 hours) i just sent him a message saying I just want him to know I miss him, and that I hope he is happy and I wish him the best. No response.
   Im broke. And crushed. We were never in a relationship but he lead me to believe things were serious. I thought wed get engaged there.
   I love this man and I believe hin his heart he loves me but he doesnt feel a spark… I gave too much too soon and he had this other girl the whole time. He lead me to believe she didnt mean anything and showed me the texts after hed ended it where she told him hes a pig… But I have a feeling/intuition they are together now.
   We were best friends for over a year and felt more… But he met this girl a week before I got to him… Can I fix this? I lost myself by waiting for him when he was with his ex and my life revikved around him. He was in love with me and felt that spark at some point. Do I really mean nothing to him? Can this programme help me or is it better to just accept its over? That feels impossible! But Iv waited a year and a half for him… How much longer?! I would do anything to have him fall in love with me but what if he is in love with this other girl? What if she makes him happy? What if he genuinely has completely forgotten about me and doesnt give a rats a$$???!! What do I do… I will gladly pay for coaching one on one or if we need a skype call… If I need to cut my losses! Tell me! Please! Im crushed and broken! But I need the truth

1. 

   Chris Seiter

   November 28, 2015 at 11:11 pm

   Well, I highly doubt he will forget you.

   I think that is a worry that you are blowing out of proportion. I think you just need to take a deep breath and look at things this way,

   You have nothing to lose!

3. 

   Tamy

   November 22, 2015 at 9:19 pm

   Omg ik so scared to try this. You make me have so much confidence!

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   Chris Seiter

   November 28, 2015 at 11:09 pm

   Glad to make you more confident.

4. 

   Ursula

   November 22, 2015 at 8:55 pm

   Hey Chris!
   Just wanted to say that I love the idea of your YT channel, thanks for the video – it was fun to watch and helpful, as all your posts 🙂 Whenever I feel like texting my ex (= breaking the NC) I just reread all what you have prepared, very motivating! Good luck with YT career and thanks for everything!
   (16 days of NC so far *self-five*)

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   Chris Seiter

   November 28, 2015 at 11:09 pm

   Self five…

   Pshh…

   How about a real high five!

5. 

   Michelle

   November 22, 2015 at 7:37 pm

   Nice video Chris. Wondered what u have been up to lately. Nice to see u in the video! Just to let u know Chris, I am finally in my NC and it has been a week now. Having hard time adjusting myself to it as it is so hard to see him posting pics of going out for dessert or sth. The no contact shud also be not looking at his social media n stuffs so as to keep calm for those who r highly insecure like myself.. After he wrote me the letter back I think he stop missing me and I am feeling quite depressed n dunno how much chance I still have. U think Chris? I have also made a little schedule to keep for the NC..but I still feel lost n see little hope. A bit scared n want some support from u.

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   Chris Seiter

   November 28, 2015 at 11:09 pm

   Thanks!

   Ya the video stuff took forever to put together. I had wanted to do this since the middle of the year.

   I think you have a chance.

   Just do me a favor and not seem so desperate. Give yourself some credit.