The Male Mind AFTER The No Contact Rule- What Is He Thinking?

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Ashly

October 29, 2014 at 12:00 am

Hi Chris! After reading your site, I figured out pretty quickly that my boyfriend broke up with me for being needy (Yes, I’m guilty of text gnatting and asking him to hang out almost every day). I’ve done the NC thing and he reached out to me during the third week. Afterwords, I texted him a few times over the past couple of weeks, some with a reply, some without one. I’ve tried asking him to hang out or do something as friends, but he always had an excuse not to go through. Last week, he reached out and talked to me face-to-face. He said that the reason he kept cancelling was because he felt awkward, since hanging out always reminded him of when we were together. He even told me that he thought I was “the one”, but because I acted so needy, those feelings faded. He teared up a bit when he told me how much the break up hurt him and how bad he felt for hurting me. Our relationship was good. We never fought when we were together. We finally set up a “date” to hang out together, but I don’t really know what to do at this point. Should I try to advance things if he feels this way?

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