46 thoughts on “Should I Text Him?”

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   Karissa

   March 19, 2018 at 10:21 pm

   Hey so me and my ex boyfriend broke up in December which is 3 months ago, we talked after however for a month but it wasn’t too well I started NC and I broke it… the conversation me and ex had was good but then I give in too much when “sex” because the topic of the convo. He said that he doesn’t want a relationship that he only wanted to be “physical”. I then said that’s not what I wanted etc etc. and started back NC. I did it for 4days and yesterday was the first day I messaged him…the conversation was sort of boring because I was replying like an hour to two hours late when he was instant replying. The last thing he msg me was “kk” and I didn’t reply after that because I didn’t know how to. What should I do next? When should I msg him again? is this normal when initiating contact with an ex after a long time?

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   March 25, 2018 at 4:14 pm

   Hi Karissa,

   You need to restart it and to stick to at least 30 days and check this one:
   How To Properly Start A Conversation With Your Ex After No Contact

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   Vicky

   March 4, 2018 at 2:41 pm

   My ex broke up with me in December, I started no contact and have not initiated contact since, which was 3 months ago, he has not contacted me either. I have wanted to text him since completing 30 days NC but have never had the courage to or found the right time. Now he is dating someone else, they are no in a relationship but seem to be heading that way. What should I do? I am scared I have left it too late or that if I text him he will think I am just trying to ruin things for him?

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   March 8, 2018 at 4:11 pm

   Hi Vicky,

   Not initiating will not change your situation either..just try a proper first text..check this one:
   How To Properly Start A Conversation With Your Ex After No Contact

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   Jill

   March 4, 2018 at 7:32 am

   should i text him first if he was the one to end the relationship and if he didn’t break up with me because he had lost feelings? after doing NC of course

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   March 8, 2018 at 11:46 am

   Hi Jill,

   Yes, you can initiate texting after nc.

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   A.J.

   February 10, 2018 at 9:27 am

   Should I text him after the NC if I was harsh on our last conversation?! I even called him a quitter that I am nolonger interested in, and then I blocked him !!!!

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   February 13, 2018 at 1:11 pm

   Hi Aj,

   Yeah, you could text him..That’s common for break ups..he’ll understand that youre5 just hurt at that time..how active are you in improving yourself and in posting in social media?

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   Heartbroken

   February 1, 2018 at 6:25 am

   So my fiance and I had an argument last Wed, it resulted in me throwing my engagement ring at him and saying the following “Take this cheap ass engagement ring” I regretted it like right after I said it. Since then, he has contacted me none whatsoever! I reached out to him a couple days after, went by his house, he asked me to give him some space. He also deleted me from FB. I sent a text telling him I was respecting his decision. This was Sunday and I havent contacted him since. Today is Thurs. I feel like he is done but im not giving up yet. Please help. He is very strong willed, very stubborn n very competitive, he hates to lose.

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   February 7, 2018 at 11:41 am

   HI Heartbroken
   just give him space for now.. Initiate contact if he doesn’t after two weeks.