How To Prove To Your Ex Boyfriend That You Are Changing

42 thoughts on “How to Prove to Your Ex Boyfriend That You Are Changing”

Anon

October 23, 2017 at 7:53 pm

Hi Amor:
I was already doing NC, all fine until I fell into temptation and checked his profile, but no messages nor calls whatsoever, I just saw stuff that made me feel sad.
Thanks, though 🙂
Anon

October 17, 2017 at 8:43 pm

Hello, I’m so lucky to stumble across this post. Ex broke up with me two weeks ago and we’ve been doing no contact since then, but today I felt so bad that I went to his facebook profile and saw he erased all our pictures, and even changed the privacy so I can’t see his posts after the break up happened, I feel so bad.
We loved each other but he was overwhelmed with uni and told me I would be better without being dragged into his misery (his grades were getting lower and he was so stressed), and things weren’t getting better in our relationship, we were having some minir problems too. We cryed a lot, we held each other. He told me I could still talk to him if something important happened (I don’t know what that could be if we’re no longer a thing).
I’ve been taking care of myself and going out, but I still feel like waiting for him to contact. Please, help me..

EBR Team Member: Amor

October 17, 2017 at 10:07 pm

Hi Anon,

Do you want to try the no contact rule?

Anonymous

October 11, 2017 at 9:29 am

Me and my boyfriend broke up after 3 years together and he is moving abroad and he told me to stop contacting him. The thing is that he still loves me but keeps telling me that he will move on because he doesn’t want a relationship because it is stressful. He never had a girlfriend before me. He kept telling me how important I am to him and that he wants to be with me forever and he means it. He cried while telling me this. Lately we had alot of fights and broke up so many times but we couldn’t stay apart for more than 5 days and got back together,but the arguing kept happening all the time. Not because of me, because he is not treating me like he used to at the beginning. I tried to tell him about it and he always got annoyed, he said that I am too childish,but I am totally not. I just wanted him to be more careful and nice because I love him and it breaks my heart that he changed…he always got the jealousy problem, he told me that he doesn’t trust anyone. Not even me! Now he said that he can’t take it anymore and that it’s over and there is no chance for us to work. After we broke up the last time he told me that he talks to another girl. After a week or so, I think he felt guilty and sent me a text saying that he lied about it so I would hate him for it. I was so upset but I talked to him anyway,tho he still doesn’t want to be together. I don’t know if it is a temporary decision or he really means it. I just started NC and I don’t know what to do because I am always tempted to talk to him and he always says to stop saying cute stuff to him because he is going to block my number.