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joudy
April 29, 2016 at 11:47 am
hi I am trying the no contact rule after begging and crying, he thinks it will never work out even if we love each other and we do because of my jealousy and he said he feels free and himself again and happy after the breakup, we have been two years together we had amazing times and some bad times and we did breakup alot and got into that cycle, but this time he said its over for good and he doesnt even wana see me or talk to me or anything and this is the longest time we have broken up, we had long distance relationsip and i saw him every two month and half and we lives together for 6 months in these two years. ps :he says am his first love and crush and he told me he was so happy with me, he was also my first love and we had so much passion and attraction.
joudy
April 29, 2016 at 11:59 am
correction: feel he is happier without me especially since he felt he had to look over his shoulder and not be himself with me because of my****** jealousy.
EBR Team Member: Amor
May 1, 2016 at 10:55 am
Hi Joudy,
if he felt suffocated then the greater chance is that he sees you’re not like that anymore, that you’re confident and understanding and not clingy because you have your own life.. so, aim for that in nc.. but of course it’s not a guarantee that he will come back right ahead after nc.. but that’s what you need to start with..
joudy
April 29, 2016 at 11:51 am
oh sorry I forgot to ask will he ever come back? I feel he is happier without me especially since he felt he had to look over his shoulder and not be himself with me because of his jealousy. I really love him and want him back. do you think there is a chance that he will change his mind ( he is very stubborn)
Ellishia
April 29, 2016 at 12:46 am
“In a nutshell, if your ex is constantly doing things that scream CONTACT ME. It actually might be better for you if you take him up on his offer eventually. Yes, you still want him to earn the right to contact you but don’t halt your progress completely just because you want to see the reverse psychology through.”
I don’t quite understand this. Does this mean that we are allowed to break nc when such thing occurs? What happens then?
EBR Team Member: Amor
May 1, 2016 at 7:43 am
yes, you are allowed to break nc, if let’s say he texts 10 positive texts that day even if you’re not replying.. and with your chances.. try nc first.. do it first because as he said, he didn’t miss you because you were always present.. make him miss you..make it seem like you’re moving on.
Niamh
April 26, 2016 at 8:05 pm
My boyfriend has just broke up with me about a week ago now. He told me had kissed someone else on a drunken night but felt terrible about it. It happened over a month ago and he said he hates himself for it. He also says he does not feel he can do this right now and that he needs to be on his own and do his own thing. It just seemed to happen over night. We have been together for over two years. We are renting a flat with my brother and just recently booked a holiday to Vegas which is on my credit card. He is currently living at a friends house and really speaking to me. Only today he texted me asking what we are going to do about the rent and should he talk to the estate agency. I just don’t know what to do for the best and want to be with him. He made me feel like i can be myself and up until a week ago we were having a great time and he was texting such wonderful thing on how much he loved me. How can that change over night. I just don’t get it.
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 27, 2016 at 8:37 am
Hi Niamh,
Try to have a sincere calm talk with him.. if he doesn’t want and then just proceed to nc.. I don’t know if he’s telling the truth because it does seem too fast for him to make those decisions.. so for now, observe and talk to him in the best time possible
Jennifer
April 20, 2016 at 2:20 pm
Hi so me and my ex have been broken up for about a month now and as soon as we broke up he went to a rebound. He was always walking with her and hanging out with her. So after about two weeks of feeling like crap I went and hung out with this guy and we kissed. That whole week my ex texted me everyday and I was ignoring him. That weekend he asked me to go to his game so I went with his family. My ex was asking to get back together after that and I was so excited I stopped talking to that other guy and immediately got back with my ex. Well it’s been pretty rough because he said he can’t get me kissing another guy out of his head. He said that I’m really annoying and always whining because he doesn’t show me that he cares at all. The other day I had enough of it and ignored him all night ( he blew my phone up with texts and calls) and he told me that he loves me and loves being with me but I just annoy him and piss him off. He said that half of him wants to be with me but their her half doesn’t. But the just yesterday he was saying how we r never getting back together and that he only loves me like family. Now today he’s saying he just doesn’t want to start anything right now because he’s busy. I’m so done with his mind games I don’t know what he wants from me so I’m done I’m leaving him alone and not talking to him. I just want to know how I can get him crawling back and get him to respect me like he used to?
Jennifer
April 23, 2016 at 3:36 am
He also tells me sometimes that he just doesn’t feel it. Like when I would try to hold his hand or give him a kiss he would tell me that.. I can tell he’s lost feelings but I’m trying to get them back I love him so much and he still says how he loves me too. Do u think if I stop chasing after him so much and try not to show that I care as much that he will come back to me? And want to be with me?
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 23, 2016 at 2:44 pm
You should really stop chasing but with the care, it’s more of you went busy with your own life and not just deliberately stopping to care and yet you’re dying to text him and just stalking what he does.. It would be helpful for you, if you really focus on yourself first.. No one chases a chaser right? It has to be balanced actually.. So aim to be more emotionally stable first.
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 22, 2016 at 7:35 am
Hi Jennifer,
talk to him calmly first.. tell him that you’re giving him space to think about what he really wants because he’s undecisiveness is not healthy for the relationship… and then just maintain being calm and don’t chase him
Sauan
April 19, 2016 at 11:32 am
i have been begging me ex for 3 months now to sort things out – because i felt i went the wrong way about things
i thought i should be the one to make things better …..
is it to late for the n0 contact rule its the damaged done ….
he broke up with me .. i hurt his ego massively
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 21, 2016 at 10:10 am
Hi Sauan,
it’s not guaranteed 100% that it will but give it a try.. since thigs are not getting better.. be active in improving yourself physically and emotionally during nc
Nathalie
March 26, 2016 at 11:13 pm
Hi,
My boyfriend broke up with me 12 days ago…He was acting distant and I got so fed up with it I decided not to contact him anymore…One day passed and he then deleted me on facebook and blocked me on instagram…we never talk on those sites so he obviously did it just to make a point. The first thing I did when I noticed he had blocked/deleted me was call him…he didn’t pick up the phone, so I wrote him on whatsapp to ask him what his intention was…he then told me he was “sick of the way I was trying to be with him and that if something bothered him in a relationship he just turned the page”. To this I just answered: OK, as you wish…haven’t spoken to him since…he still hasn’t blocked me on whatsapp ( we always used to talk on whatsapp) which I don’t understand…if he doesn’t want to have anything to do with me anymore, why doesn’t he cut off communication entirely? I didn’t beg, just accepted the situation and immediately went No Contact…do you think there’s a chance of winning him back?
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 3, 2016 at 2:46 am
Hi Nathalie,
That can mean he doesn’t want to regret blocking you in whatsapp.. I think there is, stay strong in no contact.. unless he really messaged to say he wants to work things out, then don’t respond if he messages with other things.
Rafaelle
March 25, 2016 at 11:04 pm
Hi Chris
I knew a guy for exactly one month and we enjoyed it so much. Its a ling distant relationship and on internet. I fell in love with him and he also did however he asked for no commitment due to some family issues! I didnt like what he said and i tried to bring commitment but no use!later on he started becoming jealous and asking why am i always online and whom am talking to for many days. Then he broke up with me when i said i have no one except u in my life but he refused to get back to me after i reaaaaaaallly begged and cried! He wont answer my calls and last thing he said was i will block you! Please help me i love him but he insists he is over our story and that its impossible to get back together. I did nothing bad to him and i apologized. He had an ex fiance who mistreated him and he thought am doing the same. He is so mean to me and sees my messages without replying. I want him back Please dont tell me to let go of him
Rafaelle
March 25, 2016 at 11:06 pm
Please note we never met in reality and i was supposed to visit his country after 3 months to see him
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 2, 2016 at 2:14 pm
Hi Rafaelle,
Sorry for the late reply. You broke up during the honeymooon period, so that’s normal that it hurts that way… But you don’t know him fully. Wer’e not sure if he’s just usig that for a breakup or he’s really being irrational. The next best move is to do nc because everything is just going too fast.
FML
March 25, 2016 at 8:39 pm
Hey Chris,
I’ve practically commited all mistakes in the book after he left me. Begging, crying asking his friends to talk to him, being a texting gnat..
And I feel he’s the hybrid type. I have already finished a 45 day NCR and he just seems as uninterested as ever, when I try to talk to him( he never starts a conversation, and he only replies to what I say. Nothing more, nothing less.)
I guess reverse psychology won’t work in his case? I am desperate for help!
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 2, 2016 at 1:52 pm
Hi,
Sorry for the late reply. I read all your previous comments too. It looks like it’s because he knows you want him back and now you’re the one chasing him.. It would really take time after that because until he sees you’ve actually moved on, the he doesn’t think you’re trying to get him back, then that can increase the chances of him getting attracted to you again. Especially if you have already learned to love yourself and have your own life..
Abigail
March 23, 2016 at 10:50 pm
Hey, I was dating this guy for 10 months and last week out of the blue he broke up with me the day before 11 months. in the morning he was joking around with me saying “why aren’t you holding me hand? huh” and i replied with ” I was waiting for you to hold my hand silly” then I say ” Hey I don’t think you can come over tonight..” Next thing you know he takes me aside and says ” I think we should take a break.. you got to admit that it has been a little rocky lately” I asked him why, what did i do and after all the questioning he walks away. Later that day I find him balling his eyes out with him leaning over a table with his hands on his head. I walked in saying “Hey I’m will to give you the break you need, but I would like to meet up next Tuesday to talk things through and work from there” he continues to cry and I end up comforting him, he said it felt more like a long distance relationship because seeing you 5 days a week isnt enough.and that he didnt want to continue dating when he starts to slowly loss feelings for me and i keep getting more and more attached. i asked him if hes breaking up with me and while crying he says ” i think so” then continues to ball his eyes out then says ” Lets just call it a break.. lets just call it a big break.. i dont know how long but lets call it a break” . But I still ended up comforting him in that room. Two days later I wore a dress that he liked on me in the past but I haven’t worn it in awhile so I forgot that he even liked it. He was having a conversation with his friends but then stops it when i walked by just to tell his friends that he really liked the dress i was wearing ( I know this because his best friend came up to me telling me this but i don’t know why he would). Then later that night dropped off a few of his things at his house and we get into this conversation. He was angry and got really mad when he brought up that fact that I was talking about a really cute guy at work to my friend. towards the end of the conversation he told me that he still cares for me then I asked if he still loved me because when you broke up with me you said you lost feelings he said ” Yes, I still love you, you cant just stop loving someone after 10 months.” then he gets up and hugs me telling me it will be ok and i said under my breath not with out you i wasnt sure if he heard me but I could hear his heart beat a bit faster after that. But during the conversation he was so angry and defensive but at one point his eyes started to water. What do you think is going through his mind, and do you think that we could get back together?
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 1, 2016 at 3:04 pm
HI Abigail,
Have you talked everything through now?
Annon
March 23, 2016 at 9:53 pm
Hi, I met my ex boyfriend when I was 16 and he was 16. We Dated for over 2 years and he treated me really good during the first year and then he just stopped putting in effort. He also suffers from depression and post traumatic stress. Anyways our relationship started going downhill when all these problems started attacking him, problem with family which was worsening his depressions, problems with school, other hectic problems. He cheated on me once and I forgave him because he was begging for me back but then because of all his problems he started treating me worse, which made me miserable and we would argue a lot… Which made him cheat again. He admitted that he fucked up but I also know it’s because our Relationshop was not strong.. After he cheated the problems in his life still got worse and I wasn’t helping because I was always harassing him over my insecurities because the second time he cheated just really damaged me. I would literally be a crazy woman and ring down his phone if he didn’t reply or ask him “do you still love Mel “do you still want to be with me” “have you been loyal” like a few times a day and it would really annoy him but I couldn’t help myself. We broke up a week ago and it was because I pushed him to his breaking point by harassing him with my insecurities again. I begged for him back, really badly. Like I’m ashamed of myself for it and he still said no. He says it’s because he’s not healthy enough to be in a relationship, he doesn’t want to hurt me anymore, and that he needs to fix himself and I know one of the reasons is because his friends have been an influence on him to be single and go hook up with as many girls as possible in college! He said that he still wants to be friends butt doesn’t want to hook up so that I know he’s not using me and he was the one who kept insisting on sstill being friends when I kept saying no. And he also said he’s done with relationships completely and that there’s no chance of us getting back together. After the breakup I couldn’t control myself and I just been ranting to him over text for a week ( about wanting him back and then expressing my anger to him for hurting me) he would still get mad and threaten to block me and even after I told him too block me but he never does. Do you think there’s a chance for us to get back together if I use some of the tips and tricks on your website?
Annon
March 23, 2016 at 10:09 pm
He’s also immature and never appreciated me, took me for granted, tried to blame me for the relationship failing because I annoyed him with my insecurities.
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 1, 2016 at 2:33 pm
HI Annon,
sorry for the late reply.. For me, if he’s that unstable then it’s not the best time to be in a relationship with him. He has to learn to be independent first and him cheating twice can’t be because of depression alone. He’s a grown up. He can make his own choices and he made those choices knowing you’re together. If you really want a man to respect and value you, you have to know your standards and when to walk away.
Annon
March 23, 2016 at 9:58 pm
We are not on talking terms right now because we had an argument today and I’m afraid that I pushed if overboard again and he won’t message me ever. I really want him back
Annon
March 23, 2016 at 9:55 pm
He also said that he doesn’t love me anymore! But that he still cares for me a lot.
Jamieson
March 20, 2016 at 5:34 am
Hello
I think my ex has a big ego and falls under the emotional type. the article mentions reverse psychology. How does it work if my ex already said he doesn’t want to talk and doesn’t want to be friends? The reverse would be for me to try and be his friend right? however I have already reached out a few times and he has responded but is not interested in continuing the conversation. Now I am assuming at this point I have already come across as needy. So would this reverse psychology now mean Not to contact him at all? I am confused about when should one not contact? Also does reverse psychology mean to also delete him from social media since I am assuming he won’t be expecting that?
Jamieson
March 22, 2016 at 3:44 am
Thanks Amor. How long should I use NC? unless he contacts first?
EBR Team Member: Amor
March 28, 2016 at 3:02 pm
it’s better if you can use a time period.. like say 21 days again, you can initiate again after that or decide that if he doesn’t contact after to stop trying..
Jamieson
March 20, 2016 at 4:25 pm
Hi Amor
Thank you for your response. I have not contacted him for a month and haven’t heard back from him. I did no contact a few months ago after I tried begging and he didn’t initiate contact at that time either. I had to initiate contact after a month and half and he wasn’t interested in talking much. He would respond but not very interested in carrying on the conversation. so Now for the last month I went into no contact again. I don’t even know if he noticed. So my question is do I tell him, I am not longer interested in talking to him(is it more effective to let them know?) or just continue NO contact indefinitely until he initiates contact (i think as per Chris article since i already begged)?thanks !
EBR Team Member: Amor
March 21, 2016 at 7:54 am
just continue no contact 🙂
EBR Team Member: Amor
March 20, 2016 at 10:01 am
Hi Jamieson,
You don’t need to delete him.. since he’s not responding positively you should start no contact
H.M
March 6, 2016 at 10:00 pm
About three months ago I met this amazing guy and we had really good chemistry, so after three weeks I decided to give him my virginity. But things ended up not making sense to me. For example on Valantines Day we had plans to see each other but he stopped texting me durning the day and I didn’t want to send him a second text, after waiting for hours I decided to text saying I made other plans. The next day I get a text from him saying he was on his way to my house when he got that text and was upset and decided to go home. It seemed to go downhill after that. Therefore I broke up with my “boyfriend” a couple of days ago. I honestly did not consider us as being in a relationship because we never spent any time together. And for three weeks I had been trying to meet up with him in person so that I could tell him that we were not working out. I ended up just breaking down and texting him that it wasn’t working (I know not very mature of me) and he got really upset more than I though he would because of his recent lack of effort or attempts to see me. Would he even be worth giving a second chance if for some reason he decides to contact me? I feel really used in more than one way and really upset about the whole situation.
EBR Team Member: Amor
March 8, 2016 at 11:30 am
Hi HM,
I think you made the right decision.. if he didn’t make the effort in those three weeks, he might still not message during nc
Annon
February 5, 2016 at 4:29 am
Hey Chris,
My situation is quite different from what I have read here. I and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for almost three years. Two of those years was a long distance relationship. Now one day, all of a sudden, he breaks up with me and says he is tired of being tied down to just one girl. That he doesn’t want to commit to one girl, that one girl isn’t enough for him (which means basically he wants to sleep with different random girls), that I am not good enough for him, he needs other girls, he wants to explore blah blah. Then he left me. I was so devasted and sad and cried for days. I had been in a relationship with him for almost 3 YEARS! And then one day he just decides I am not good enough for him?? I was so heartbroken. Not to mention this is the first relationship I have ever been in (I don’t fall in love in easily). So you can just imagine how special this guy was to me. I have tried the NC rule and it worked actually. After just a week He texted me and we talked for a bit and it almost seemed like he was still interested in me. But as we kept talking, it seemed as if that interest would just fade away then he would completely leave me again. This has happened three times. He keeps going back and forth. He is indecisive. I really love and care about this guy and I just want things to go back to the way they were before. I have tried the NC rule, I have tried reverse psychology, I have tried literally everything! and they all worked but the results never lasted. Do you have any advice for me on how I can permanently get him back and also get him to fully commit to me? Thanks
EBR Team Member: Amor
February 5, 2016 at 10:38 am
Hi Annon,
There’s no sure solution that will permanently get him back but you haven’t tried completing NC right?
Ash
January 19, 2016 at 8:07 am
SUMMARY: Ex has a girl but texts me occasionally after telling me to leave his life
Hi Chris. I have been stalking your website for 3 months since I got dumped. My ex cheated on me and then left for the other girl. After the breakup, he abused and threatened me multiple times, burned my gifts and told me to **** off. He also then blocked me everywhere.
I cried more than I can imagine. I became anorexic, I became sick and dull, I failed studies.
Some time later, my ex’s new girl texted me to ask me what happened between us. I showed her screenshots of the abuse and she forgave him anyway. (wow, how are these people so heartless?)
Now he has unblocked me and texts me sometimes that he had a bad dream about me, he was worried about me etc etc.
What does he want from me?! Can you please tell me?
EBR Team Member: Amor
January 19, 2016 at 8:54 am
Hi Ash,
I’m sorry for what happened with you. we don’t know why he’s contacting you again but whatever the reason is, don’t come back to him. don’t entertain him anymore. he abused you once, that’s more enough. it shouldn’t have even happened.
Sarah
January 15, 2016 at 10:41 am
i’m sarah n I’ve been in love with the same guy for four years almost now.
So here’s my story. It was all good with him until i felt like he wasn’t giving me much priority so i decided to treat him the way he did and it ended up in a break up. I did and said things to lead it to a break up cause i felt he would miss me then n realise my worth. We were in a long distance relationship for 6 months. Then the break up happened while he was back on vacation. Then when i missed him n i wanted him back, he said it was over and the relationship was not going to happen again for a lifetime. I tried for months. One year passed, he’s back in town now and when i met him i could sense that he still liked me and wanted me back because i left contact with him for over 2 months thinking it was done. But while he showed signs, i gave in and even made out with him in hopes the relationship would be back to normal. He said he loved me but not to ask for a commitment. Im back to being messed up. He said i was too emotional, over possessive and that the flow of the relationship was gone. Can this situation of mine get better in anyway? he would be leaving the country again for six months and i really want him back the way he loved me. What should i do and how can i get things to be the way i want it to? PLEASE HELP. I feel like I’m running out of time cause he would be soon married to someone else in a matter of one or two years.
EBR Team Member: Amor
January 15, 2016 at 12:19 pm
Hi Sarah,
I understand everything is like overwhelming right now but take it one by one. First, Do you only talk to him when he’s back in town or you still contact him while he’s away? Have you tried the no contact rule? You should. It can help you get to know yourself better and reflect on things. In regards to running out of time, it’s better to focus on the now than worrying about what’s to come because there would be less finished worrying than focusing. Be strong, calm down and be hopeful because every situation gets better one way or another.
Samantha
January 5, 2016 at 2:00 pm
Hi, I am a med student and I just broke up with my 1 and a half year boyfriend last november. He was also in medschool and his reason was that he thought he might not be destined to be with me (which is a load of bullcrap) and that he just wanted to be alone. I tried my best to not contact him and then after a week I added and unblocked him on facebook. I told him on chat that i don’t want to lose him then stopped contacting him for I think 19-20 days then I started to chat him up again. I thought everything was going well when suddenly he stopped replying (it felt like the conversations looked desperate on my part cause I was trying to keep our conversations going) so after 4 days of casual talk, I said my final word that I was being persistent cause I still love him. I told him that I am truly sorry for bothering him and that I hope we’ll still be friends (which is another load of the same crap cause I still feel attached). He replied that he doesn’t know how to deal with this situation and that we will still be friends. Now I don’t know what to do… I think I still do want him back because I think we have a shot on this but I don’t want any more drama cause my grades are suffering. Is there still a chance that he’ll want to take me back?
EBR Team Member: Amor
January 18, 2016 at 11:05 pm
Hi Samantha,
I think there is, especially when he said you can be friends but from what I see, he just really needs to be alone right now, and he’s pressured when you talk about your relationship status. Do no contact for the both of you and then when you start talking again just start slowly by being friendly then go flirty later on
Laurs
December 17, 2015 at 1:24 am
I am really struggling and need someone to set me straight
Lovemylife!
December 6, 2015 at 6:22 pm
Hi Chris, I purchased the ex boyfriend recovery program and have been implementing all the steps for just over a month now; I just really want your advice as to if you think it’s working etc.
A little information: My ex and I met 3 years ago, he has two children and drives a truck. When we met, it was difficult to find the time to be together with work and his children and the fact he had only recently split up with his ex wife, things just fizzled out.
In January this year (2015) we met back up and really got on amazingly. We were together 10 months, went on holiday together and with the kids, it has been such an easy relationship. In August this year I felt a change in him, we danced around the situation until eventually in September I broached the subject. To cut a long story short he suggested we move in together in the new year; I was so happy.
A few weeks later he started acting really weird and suggested we meet to talk. He told me he didn’t know what he wanted. He has a lot of stuff going on with one of his children and his job coming to an end in January. We talked about it, I was really calm, I told him I had felt something wasn’t quite right and that it was good we can talk. We went to a party together that night and I ended up back at his house. We were intimate that Normandy I told him I didn’t want to split up with him. He told me he just needed some space. We spent a brilliant day together with his kids but I could still feel him pulling away from me.
The next day (I bought your program that day) I text him and told him I needed some time to reassess our situation. He text saying thank you and from that point on I implemented the 30 day nc. In that time he has text me once and contacted me on Twitter, neither of which I responded to. On the first of December this month I text him a “guess what” text, he responded within three minutes, asked where I was and we continued the messages for about 30minutes. I ended the conversation and didn’t get back in touch till yesterday. I messaged him again telling him about a restaurant I was at and that it was great and he should definitely go. The conversation carried on for a while and again I finished it. Later that evening I sent him a reminder text about a funny little drink you can only get in Amsterdam that I’d found in this bar. He sent me a picture I had taken of him in Amsterdam and the conversation progressed. We have a really fun chatted conversation, both flirting a little bit and I invited him to a play I’m in. He said he would come. I was so ecstatic! I told him he could bring a friend but some friends of mine that he really got on with would be there. He then told me he had met them for a drink that night! I told him I was really pleased he felt he could still hang out with them. I needed the conversation again. I feel like things are progressing really positively. He never hung out with my friends without me before and during the messaging last night, I thanked him for supporting me in a situation at work last year. He told me “don’t be daft, it’s what boyfriends do”.
I need to know what the next steps will be and if you think I’m reading too much into it. My friends do but if I wasn’t attracted to someone and felt something for them I wouldn’t respond so quickly, I wouldn’t agree to go to the play and I wouldn’t carry on the conversation for an hour! I just need your advice! Please help!
Ps during the nc I’ve lost a lot of weight (a stone) and been going out enjoying myself with my friends and hobbies. x
Sally
November 29, 2015 at 7:13 am
Will this work on taureans? We have broken up in the past and played the silent treatment and finally I became so fed up I really did move on (not with anyone else just moved on with my life) when I begun reinforced about him he called and eventually we were back together and more in love than ever. We moved in together, I took on watching his kids all alone (he works out of town) it became too much doe me and although I warned him time and time again I finally up and moves out before he got home. We have since called it quits and now it is a battle of who will txt who first. In the past I have caves first and I know this time he assumes that. This last thanksgiving it was a stand off of who will text happy thanksgiving first after hours and almost dinner time He caved and texted HTG to me and my family personalized to me (not a mass text) so after two hours I replied. Now it’s day two no contact. I want to text him badly BUT I won’t. I’m set on waiting for him. Wanting to see if he does truly love me. So my question is how will I even know I am making progress in the NC?
Chris Seiter
December 2, 2015 at 12:51 am
I’m a Taurus and it would work on me. You will know when you send out that first test text. If you get a negative response go back into no contact for a week and then try again.
Bahar
November 15, 2015 at 2:01 am
Hi
My bf and i was 5 months together after that we got engaged then i came to anothet country as immigrant and we wanted marry after couple of months .
After 2 weeks i told a lie by mistake to him and he understood that before that one time it happend one time and he told me never tell me lie again but i it was a mistake only
He left me when he got that is a lie i started begging him and begg from his family but he said its not possible we be together again i called his friends and told them about our problems when he understood he cslled me and start to say so bad words to me.
Even he blocked me every were .every thing i did he went more far from me and he said to every one he doesnt trust me more and its not possible he come back to me.
My life is nothing without him i can’t continue with out him and also ism so so far from him also.
Please help me to get him back .please