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Yvette
April 23, 2014 at 1:16 pm
What if my reason of wanting him back is because ” I want him in my life”
is it an acceptable reason?
admin
April 23, 2014 at 4:10 pm
Nope you need to find something better than that.
Yvette
April 23, 2014 at 1:21 pm
And his birthday is in this coming May.. I think ofcourse I should greet him…. but will it affect the 30days no contact rule?
Yvette
April 23, 2014 at 1:23 pm
And his birthday is on this coming May.. I think ofcourse I should greet him…. but will it affect the 30days no contact rule?
Jovi
April 23, 2014 at 7:48 am
Hi, I spent time with my boyfriend’s family over the weekend and it was so much fun. But when it was my turn to ask if he wants to go out with my family he said he will think about it which made me felt really insulted. I felt like my efforts were not being reciprocated. So we got into a huge fight and he decided to break up with me. I got too emotional to the point that I looked so desperate, begging him to stay in the relationship. He said he’s no longer happy and he doesn’t know if he still loves me. So I gave him his space thinking that maybe he just said that because he’s mad at me. We agreed to meet on a certain date to finally decide on things. Do I still have hopes of getting him back? Thanks.
Sally
April 23, 2014 at 3:15 am
hey chris I have been re reading the website and the books that you had published. should I wait for a positive response in each stage before moving to the next stage?
admin
April 23, 2014 at 3:34 pm
Generally yes.
Yesi
April 22, 2014 at 11:12 pm
My bf of 5 months broke up with me last Friday due to an argument about him leaving so late to see me ( we leave 5 hours away) made him so unstable and cranky . We are different since he is laid back and self employ and I am planner and hAve a job at office . Anyway he has my car and we had to here to go to Vegas in less than 2 weeks . He want it to be left alone until he felt better and calm, to talk about this after I told him I can’t change name on the companion award ticket . I left him alone Sunday and today he says he is ready to talk . He had told me when he ended things that he will return my car within a week and he was not going to Vegas. What shouid I do ? I kind still want to go to Vegas as friends but is that a good idea . A friénd suggested i just ask him What Was fair to both of us . I paid for airfare and he was paying fur everthing else down there . Please advice soon
admin
April 23, 2014 at 3:54 pm
Get your car before anything else.
Catherine
April 22, 2014 at 1:54 pm
Hola! I would love to get your insight on my situation. My loving boyfriend of 2 years ( plus good friends since we were 15) randomly broke up with me. He is the nicest guy and we have had a very strong, happy relationship. We were the couple people were jealous of. Unfortunately, he has been unbelievably busy this year with school. Plus this semester has been tough for me due to harassment at work that triggered a lot of anxiety. He stood by me through all of it but it was really stressful and hard for both of us. But He was amazing. But then he turned 21 ( im 20) and wanted to go out to the bars. One night I got mad at him for going out but quickly apologized with a nice text. He said it was okay and told me he loved me. That night we got into a uge fight and he just left. I didn’t find him until 4:30 in the morning. He all of a sudden said he could t do this anymore and we needed to break up. I apologized for acting like a jerk that night but he still wanted to end it. Instead we took a break for a week and then we met up and he said he didn’t think I was the one anymore. He said we didn’t have anything in common and he wants to see whats out there. I acted like it was okay. He seemed sad. It’s like he turned into a different person after our fight. He was always the one to say that our relationship will be okay. No matter what. Now he isn’t happy with me anymore? Like wth lol. I haven’t talked to him since we broke up on Saturday. Do you think I have a good chance getting him back if I keep following the plan? I mean how can things be so happy and then go to hell after one fight. Maybe he is just too stressed? Idk…but I want to be a family and marriage therapist so this is very interesting to me too! Let me know, as a guy, what you think!
admin
April 22, 2014 at 5:01 pm
What about him going out to the bars bugged you? Were you afraid he would cheat or something?
Gabriela
April 22, 2014 at 12:29 pm
Hello. My boyfriend (7 years older) broke up with me 2 weeks ago after 2 and a half year relationship. First two years we had a long distance relationship, and for the last 6 months we’ve been living together.We want the same things in life. We were happy, he was always telling me I was the one for him and that he loves me very much, but lately we were growing apart. He never wanted to go somewhere out of the apartment. He says he thinks he’s never gonna be happy with me because I’m nagging and pressure him and sometimes take my stress out on him and that he needs his peace and prefers being alone. That is partly true, I really started taking him for granted and now I am sorry and I told him that but he is sometimes very sure that he doesn’t want me anymore, but sometimes he says he loves me but he is not sure what to do. We will be living together for the next two months because I am finishing college (this is one of the reasons I was nervous and hard to talk to lately). What do I do to get him bach, I can’t try the NC rule since we’re living together, can’t see anything similar in previous comments?
Thank you very much for your help.
Denise
April 21, 2014 at 3:50 pm
I have been following the steps for the past two weeks trying to get my ex-boyfriend back. We dated for 6 months, but he broke up with me 4.5 months ago. I wanted more time together and, as a person with ADD, he was struggling to balance time with me with all the other things he was cramming into his life. He has been responsive to my text messages and the tone has been positive. However, I only get one response. If I send a follow-up text to his response, he does not respond. Also, the “showing support” and “complimenting him” got no response at all. I am almost to the part of the plan where I am supposed to call him, but so far, my efforts don’t seem to be drawing him out (i.e., he seems happy but not eager to be in contact). Do I keep proceeding with the plan, which means I would be calling him in a few days, or do I keep sending him texts until I get a warmer response?
Brenda
April 21, 2014 at 3:46 pm
Yay! I got a positive response 🙂
So I sent a happy Easter text as my initial contact and he responded back quickly and positively. Even agreed to to telling his parents I said happy Easter to them.
Do I send more of the initial contact formatted texts or do I move onto the good times one now? Do I just send one of each and move down the line…. One initial, one good times, one jealousy, etc?
And most importantly, how long do I wait to send something again? Days? Weeks? Help! I don’t want to be pushy with him but I’d like to progress in the communication.
admin
April 21, 2014 at 4:24 pm
No you spread the texts out.
Brenda
April 21, 2014 at 6:22 pm
As in waiting over a week between texts? And I should send the memory text as my 2nd contact, correct?
admin
April 22, 2014 at 4:38 pm
Only if you think the time is right. You kind of have to play it by ear with this stuff.
Kimberly
April 21, 2014 at 12:45 pm
I text my ex boyfriend happy Easter I hope you have a blessed day:)…and after I already went to sleep I woke up to yeah happy Easter….What should I say now?
Elle
April 21, 2014 at 5:13 am
Me and my ex have been separated for several months now. I didn’t contact him, nor did he contact me whatsoever. We have several mutual friends so we’ve been in each others presence a few times but never really talked. A few weeks ago I decided to write him a letter, letting him know that I had accepted the breakup and apologized for my insecurity and not respecting his decision. He responded via FB message telling me how much he appreciated what I had written.
About a week later, he texted me out of the blue, making small talk and curious about something I had gotten. A few days later, we’re at a mutual friends’ party, we talked very little though. He had brought a lady friend, not sure if she’s a girlfriend or something else, I already knew of her though. I had a friend with me as well. He made his curiosity of who my friend was obvious when I had to go out to my car, buzzed to be let back in the apt., and he came down to let me in asking if I was waiting for him. He actually made conversation with my friend when he did show, chatted with him more than me funny enough.
There was also an observation I made of how he had become a tad affectionate towards his lady friend when my friend showed up, but when my friend had to leave, he stopped. I don’t know if he was trying to get a feel of me and my friend’s relationship or what.
Party was good too, no drama, no negativity of the sort, a little awkward at first but it was good. Next day I unexpectedly get a friend request from my ex on FB. This has thrown me for a loop honestly. The big question is why? Did the situation just pique is curiosity of how I’ve been doing? Trying to keep tabs now? Get into the friend zone? The biggest question here is why? It was just really out of the blue.
(I have neither confirmed nor denied the request as I’m still unsure on how to go about it..)
admin
April 21, 2014 at 4:23 pm
I say confirm it and work it to your advantage.
Elle
April 24, 2014 at 3:47 am
I won’t deny that it has piqued my curiosity as to what has suddenly made him so curious. But at the same time I also feel a little uncertain. Not to toot my own horn, I’m going to anyway, but I did look pretty fantastic and felt really good about myself at the party. I can only assume that may have played a roll in it. Not to mention my male companion, who has made it quite obvious of his interest in me.
Really I just want to pick his brain. :p
Beautiful Brunette
April 21, 2014 at 1:20 am
Dear Chris,
I am a fan of your website and I have
been taking a lot of your advice on
how to get an ex boyfriend back. I am in a
pretty unique and slightly twisted situation
here with my ex bf and I am hoping and
praying you will take the time to read my
post and shed some light on my situation
and help me from where to go from here
because I am feeling a little stuck.
First of all, I’ll start by letting you know that
My ex and I first got together in June 2012,
it was a whirlwind romance, he swept me off
my feet completely and we both fell very
hard very fast. He told me he loved me on
our third date, and we were inseparable
for four months. He started to become really
busy (working a lot, and also professionally
Races motocross ) and he tried his best to
make time for me but I was not happy with
only seeing him twice a week and we just
ended up fighting and I was always upset
he was never around. I made a rash decision
to break up with him, regretting it a couple days
Later and every day since then and to this day.
He began dating another girl only about two
Weeks after the breakup (I was crushed and he
Later admitted that he did this intentionally
to make me jealous. We didn’t talk for about two
months or so and then one random night I ran
Into him at the bar and we ended up going home
together despite the fact he was still dating the
rebound girl. Someone saw us leave the bar together
and notified her. She dumped him, and him and I soon
began to pick up where we left off and it was
All sunshine and rainbows..for about two months.
Things were going so well, we were more in love
than ever, until a small argument one day turned
into a big falling out and eventually drove him to
the arms of another girl. He dated this girl for about a year
(They just recently broke up about two months
ago or so ) during this time, I was devastated
And I did some stupid things such as: hook up
With one of his friends, and date his best friend.
That drove him crazy with jealousy, he was calling
and texting me a lot, after things fizzled out
with his best friend and I, and things ended with
his gf, we began talking regularly on text and
Occasionally the phone. These were mostly
not casual “how’s it going ” conversations, they
were always flirtatious, and sentimental. We would
sometimes talk on the phone for hours
Reliving the past and all of our great memories.
He has told me many times that he “will always love
me ” and that I will always be in his heart and
He will never be over me. I feel the same way,
I have loved him since the moment I met him
and have never stopped. Whenever we are together
It just feels right. I just know that he is the one
that I’m meant to be with.
We were trying to make plans to meet up over
Text for about a month now. We haven’t seen each
other since this past December… We both
have very busy schedules so every time we
Try and make a plan to meet up something comes
up with one of us. Anyways this is where I think I
May have really screwed up…..
Last night I went out to the bar with my girlfriends.
Low and behold – who do I run into ? Him.
Strange because I know he goes out often as do
I but we have yet to cross paths there past few
months. Anyways, I’m standing at the bar ordering
a vodka cran and someone slides up beside me and
Says “so do you come here often?”
He then proceeded to compliment me, I have
made a lot of changes this past year, I joined the
gym, work out four days a week, changed my hair,
went back to school and have a great career now.
I wasn’t stand offish but I didn’t act overly
excited to see him. This drove him nuts and he
spent the whole night making sure I saw him talking
And dancing with girls… Near the end of the night
he came up to me as my friends on the dance floor
and started dancing with us and we began talking
My friends were wanting to get going, so I said to
him and he seemed sad that it was time for us to
part ways. He suggested I stick around and hang
out with him and said that his friend could give
me a ride home after the bar as I lived near by.
We had a great time, things were rekindled,
completely. When it was time to go, we got
into his friends truck along with his two friends and
one or their gfs. He told me how good it was to see
me and how he didn’t want to call it a night just yet
(And neither did I ) so he asked if I wanted
to come hang out at his friends place and I thought
Sure why not. Of course we ended up hooking up
(3 times ) and spent the night together. This
morning wasn’t awkward at all, we just laid there
cuddling like old times and be kept saying
how he was so glad that this happened and
how impressed he was with how I’m in such
great shape etc etc. I had to leave very early and
he didn’t t have his vehicle there so
he called me a cab and paid for it and walked me
out when it came. gave me the tightest hug ever and
a long kiss goodbye. We didn’t really discuss
anything last night in terms of us possibly
getting back together as I didn’t really want to
press the issue and also we were drunk.
I don’t know where to go from here, I know
It was probably not a great idea to hop back
into bed with the guy the first time running into
each other again… I don’t know what to think or
how to feel or what to do ? Do I contact him ?
Do I wait for him to contact me ? Did I screw things
up by hooking up with him ? I need some
Good advice on where to go from here ….
admin
April 21, 2014 at 4:18 pm
Wait for him to contact you at this point.
Heather
April 19, 2014 at 5:49 am
Hey chris.. my boyfriend broke up with me last week. Im nearly 16 and Im taking it pretty hard. Normally I think I wouldn’t try to get him back, but he is very.. confusing. The reason he gave me, and everyone else, is he didnt want to hurt me anymore. You see, we dated for 10 months, but because hes a doofus we always have had problems with seeing eachother often enough. He knew it frustrated me but (despite what many other people said) I never left him, because he was worth it. According to him, he isnt. I tried to tell him how wrong he was.. he stayed firm. (We are both stubborn). I found your website and started the NC right after the break up, however I broke after 7 days, because well, I needed closure. My main question is, we go to the same school, and have the same friends. Should I avoid him at school and not sit at lunch? But I dont want him to know how depressed I am.. what should I do about this? I get an overwhelming feeling of longing whenever I see him.. Im thinking as far as game plans go, Ill finish the NC, then spend some of may getting friendly with him, and in June I hope to win him over.. assuming I will still want to. His inability to see how happy he made me frustrates me to no end. Wish me luck!
Karla
April 20, 2014 at 4:15 pm
We sound like a very similar situation! I’ve been looking up guides as well because like you, I’ve been in mourning. Good luck to you, and good luck to me too. 🙂
admin
April 20, 2014 at 3:30 am
Good luck!
Was he your first boyfriend?
Tams
April 19, 2014 at 2:31 am
Hey! Thanks for all of this! I wanted to ask: all of these tips, and especially the 30 days no-contact role – do they apply also for short term relationship of 3 months? It was a very intensive relationship, but he didn’t fall in love with me 🙁 He was into me in the first month/two months and than got cold. Another thing: He is also going through a very sever crisis at work these days, and is extremely stressed. He said he felt like the relationship just added more stress into his life and that he couldn’t handle it. And, as I mentioned, he said that he likes me, but not more than that. (I will just add that he had problems with falling in love, according to what he told me; with his last girlfriend it took him a very long time, according to what he said). Would really appreciate you advice! I think I love him, and I feel that we didn’t really examined the relationship thoroughly enough 🙁 Should I keep the one month no-contact role? Or should I email to ask how are things going with the work crisis? Do you think there is any chance we’ll get back together? Thank you so much!
admin
April 20, 2014 at 3:29 am
They absolutely apply.
Ana
April 18, 2014 at 3:59 pm
Hello,
There is my story. I broke up with my boyfriend,2months 1/2 ago.we were together 1year and 1/2 (in distance) but we were ok,we had plans for the future,marriage,children ect. The reason why we broke was me,i was too pushy,stubborn,cranky and he said that he couldnt take it anymore.appart that was the distance because he lives in another state(rome,italy).he said that he need a woman not a teenager to live the life together,and i wasnt good enough for him with this attitude.i wasnt tolerant ect. Also he said that he didnt feel nothing for me anymore.he said also that he was contradictor thats why we cant stay together. 1month After our break up i sent him a message just to know how he was and he replied but was too formal and cold,then (i think i made a mistake) after 10days that i sent the message,i called him and he didnt pick up and then after 1month i sent him a long message saying that i was really sorry for what happened,i was sorry that he didnt give me the last chance and i missed him and that i want him to be ok( i sent this message at 3am) i know i made a mistake but pleaseeeeeee help what can i do??? The no contact rule is not working i think. I want to say also that i talk oftenly with his mother and his relatives because we are very close to each other.
What should i doo???
Thank you
admin
April 20, 2014 at 2:12 am
Did you try using any of the messages outlined on this page?
Ana
April 20, 2014 at 9:00 am
Well no.as i wrote before,the last time that i wrote to him was a long message just to let him know that i was sorry that things came to this point and he didnt reply.it wasnt too desperate but yeah maybe it was a mistake that i broke the no contact rule.
Remember that we are far from each other.he lives in rome,italy and me in another state near italy. What the birthday wishes? Very soon he has his birthday(39) if he dont want to talk with me i cant send him a birthday message. I dont knooooow why this happened.i did everything i could.i had a bad behavior i know,but i took the plane and went there on february but he was too cold:((( but i was surprised that still we went for lunch and dinner to his parents though he was convinced that im not good for him. Please chris help me? He is very difficult. I mean even when we had fights with each other when we were together if he was angry he didnt reply to my messages. I think its a problem even the age difference maybe 13 years older than me.
What do you think?
I really will appreciate your advices because its been almost 3months that i dont talk with him:((((
Happy easter to you and everyone here!
Ana
April 21, 2014 at 9:24 pm
Hello Chris?
Please when is possible what should i do
I replied to your question and i looking forward to read your advice
ana
April 18, 2014 at 1:01 pm
Hello Chris,
My ex boyfriend and i broke up after a 1 year and half relationship(in distance)its been 2 months 1/2 that i dont hear nothing from him.after a month of our break up i sent him a message just to say hi and he replied but too cold,then after 10 days i called him and he didnt pick up and then in 5th of april i sent him a long message saying that i was sorry that we broke up ect ect. and he didnt reply.I must say that our relationship was strong,full of plans for the future,he presented me with his family and friends everywhere that i was his fiancee. the reason that he left was because i was to pushy and stubborn and cranky and he could not pass his life at this way,than he says that he was contradictory and thats why we cannot stay together.He is 39 years old and im 26 and i really dont know what to do anymore.I keep talking with his mother because we are very closed to each other. i see that the no contact rule even the contrary doesnt work.
Pleaseeeeee help!!!!
Kimberly
April 18, 2014 at 5:06 am
Well still haven’t heard a peep from my ex..but i have a week and a half before i.can break the no contact…however his mom and I have been texting back and forth a lot..i never ask about him..but she checks on me..I sent her a Easter Card wrote a heartfelt message inside..along witg her favorite coffee..I was actually crying as I was writing it..so im hoping it will touch her heart as well…not sure if it will help my ex and I out..I don’t think she knows im not talking to her son..but who knows 🙂 do you u think it will make things better..since she has a lot of pull with him?
Nicole
April 18, 2014 at 1:27 am
Okay so here’s my situation… I’ve was dating my boyfriend for almost 6 years. We were on and off a couple times, but for the most part we were completely fine. I did cheat on him in the past, a little over a year ago, but we moved past it and were stronger than ever. This last week, we argued a few days and then said we “needed to talk”, I went in with the intentions of fixing things and working on our problems but he went in with the attitude he wanted to break up for sure. He told me he needed his space and he felt like I was always nagging him and we were just going through the motions. SO I kind of went crazy, because I’m so incredibly used to having him here to talk to all the time, for such a long time! I blew up his phone, wouldn’t leave him alone, and as the result of all of that he blocked me off everything and just ignores me completely. He told me that me going crazy and not giving him his space is ensuring his decision of breaking up with him and he feels great about his decision.
It just doesn’t make sense.. there was no reason for him to even break up with me. I feel like there has to be someone or something. Then, literally the day after we broke up, I was stalking his social networks, and he was snap chatting a girl from his work a lot a lot and this is a girl whom we have had issues with before. I can’t help but think this is the reason why he broke up with me. BTW.. this girl is really pretty.
I just don’t know what to do, I feel like i have to talk to him and I’m going crazy not talking to him. I feel like if i leave him alone for 30 days he’s going to move on and I’m so scared of this thought 🙁
admin
April 18, 2014 at 3:30 pm
Are you sure he had completely forgiven you for the cheating?
That can be tough for a lot of men.
I P
April 16, 2014 at 1:29 am
Hey, Chris!
So, I’m really new to all of this, and I’m going through my first break-up (I like to call it an “amicable separation”).
Here’s the deal:
My ex and I met over a year ago in high school physics class. We started out as just best friends because I am typically not a relationship type of person. Not because I can’t commit, I am just generally not interested. But, somehow, the summer after my graduation (he was a junior, I was a senior, because I graduated two years early), we became something more. For the next 10 months, things were great. We bonded, laughed, and found a way to break down the walls we had spent our entire lives building around ourselves so we could let each other in. I was his fifth girlfriend, but the first to ever meet or spend the holidays with his family. We never, ever fought about a thing. We just never found anything to fight about. Our relationship was great, our relationships with our families and mutual friends was great, everything seemed to be going well. But, there was one problem: we never spent time together. We could go months without seeing each other. It was practically a long-distance relationship even though he only lived 15 minutes away. What could I do? I am in college studying pre-medicine. He and I both knew I just never had the time. Yet, he always respected my goals and knew that school comes first, always. Even with the separation, everything was great. We treasured time with each other more. But, a couple of months ago, I lost my phone and my Wi-Fi constantly cut out. So, no communication, either. I still tried the best I could. During this time, I also decided to apply for transfer to a bigger, better school hundreds of miles away. But, I never told him. How could I? We hardly spoke. Three weeks ago, he called it quits. The separation was just too much, and he knew that with my transfer (he found out from a mutual friend) it wouldn’t ever get any better. So, it was over. Still, we were best friends before the relationship, and we were determined to be best friends afterward. We still hang out, talk, and even use the same old pet names. Like nothing ever happened at all. But, I can still sense this underlying awkwardness between us. Awkwardness was exactly what we tried to avoid. Even worse: I decided to reject the other university’s offer of a transfer. He seemed genuinely happy for me, because we always said that I have to do what’s best for me. But, recently, he just stopped talking. To make matters worse: He’s attending my current university next year (he applied while we were still together so we could study together). I don’t badger him or constantly text him. I always wait for him to respond, no matter how long it takes. But, I didn’t follow the “no-contact” rule either. I wish I could follow the rule, but it’s Spring and everyone we know is starting a new relationship. What if he decides to do the same thing? How do I get him back? Have I blown my chance? Should I continue being a casual friend and see if he comes to me? If I try to go ice cold on him, what if he loses interest? It is frustrating because I used to be able to tell everything he was thinking, now I’m left in the dark. And, I can’t ask my friends because they’re his friends, too. And, he’s very private. But, it feels like he never even cared, no matter how much he used to tell me that he did. What can I do?
admin
April 16, 2014 at 4:19 pm
Amicable seperation… I like your style hahaha.
Do you think the age has something to do with it? Like he is still in HS right?
Alex
April 14, 2014 at 1:29 am
Hey Chris, Me and my ex boyfriend just went in our separate ways last week. He said that he doesn’t love me anymore, he’s not in our relationship anymore, his mother doesn’t like him to have a girlfriend for a while AND HE IS INLOVE WITH MY COUSIN. But he keeps telling me he still loves me and he will be back with me somehow he doesn’t know when. He keeps sending me messages that he is currently texting with other girls while I start my no contact policy yesterday. What shall I do to get him back? Take note: He is my classmate. Please help me. Thank you.
admin
April 14, 2014 at 5:33 pm
I think he is not a good cantidate… Are you sure you want this guy back?
Alex
April 15, 2014 at 5:58 am
I really want him back. He keeps sending me messages thats why I text him back. Now, he tells me that this Franceska went sweet to their first conversation and she’s just a friend that I’m the one he loves. He told me he will be back to me when we both finish college. He is planning to take Marine during his college days.
Shannie
April 12, 2014 at 11:07 pm
Things have been actually going well, but I’d love some advice. I’ve been following the system, did about 3 and 1/2 weeks of no contact then circumstance brought my guy and I back together. Frist, our house was broken into. He came to help and stayed over, but reaffirmed his decision to stay apart. There were some mixed signals, but alcohol was involved so I tried really hard to read too much in to it. I know he loves me, but he’s stubborn. After the break in when had some long, personal conversations (not about out relationship) about things going on with our lives. Then our dog got sick and we’ve since had even more conversations that have been great. Now I’ve been sending clever texts, he has been super responsive, but is not at all initiating. When I call, he always says “I was just getting ready to call.” Yet, he hasn’t nor has he texted. My thought was to pull back some and see if he notices. What do you think? Should I stay the course and keep texting or go quiet for awhile. Thoughts?
admin
April 13, 2014 at 4:49 pm
go quiet for a while.. but just a little bit.