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Sarah
March 10, 2015 at 7:54 pm
I am confused after my recent break up. I was with the man I thought was my best friend and soul mate. We clicked instantly and from the first day that we met, we were together every possible second. Okay, not as healthy as it should have been, but we were smitten. Everything is going great. We are talking about a future together, getting married, having a child potentially, but most seriously we discussed moving in together. A couple of weeks after we got serious about living together, he hurt his back severely at work. He suddenly was having a lot of trouble sleeping, was in pain all the time, etc. It really changed his personality. I loved him all the same. Just after this happened we find out that he lost his job. (There are a lot of politics involved.) So that really is like the final blow. Over the course of the next couple of weeks I noticed that he was just getting more and more distant. The lengthy conversations turned into short ones. The long passionate nights turned into frustrating tossing and turning. I would notice him sitting with headphones on on the couch with his eyes closed a lot, just zoned out. He was starting to get really crabby. I think maybe I pestered a little too much, just asking, “What is wrong” or “Are you sure you are okay?” Finally, after a solid 24 hours of not talking at all (we were that couple that literally texted 24/7 or were together and not shutting up) he texted me and said that while he loves me so much, he just does not feel prepared to continue the relationship right now. He asked that I am patient and said that he appreciates how patient I have been all this time. He does not want to lose me, he says. So I bowed out gracefully and told him that I loved him and would try to be patient. But now, we have not talked for like four straight days and even then it was brief. I do want him back. Things were great before the stress played a role. Do the same rules apply? How exactly should I handle this?
admin
March 13, 2015 at 6:49 pm
NC is exactly what you should do.
Lauren
March 10, 2015 at 4:53 pm
Chris,
I have enjoyed reading your site. I believe NC may help my situation, but I would like some input. My boyfriend of 2 months broke up with me this week. We had 7 perfect (this is not really an exaggeration – we got along so well together, uncomplicated, fun, etc. it was crazy) – we had one bad week. I took full responsibility. We got into a couple of petty arguments I did not handle well and after a night of drinking a little too much, I said some pretty hurtful things. He knows this is not in my character.
He also has had a lot of personal things going on in his life that have maxed his stress level. I think the combination of the two things is what led to the breakup and he even said so himself. He said he had “mentally checked out” and that he had been so into me it wasn’t natural, etc. That maybe he was just protecting himself and it would take time for his walls to come down and I “deserved better.” I want to take this at face value. We ended things amicably. He said we could still be friends and I was kind and told him to take care of himself.
Do you think NC could salvage this down the road?
admin
March 13, 2015 at 6:40 pm
I think it definitely can Lauren!
Please keep me updated.
julia
March 10, 2015 at 2:33 pm
I succeded in NC and got my positive txt response thank you Chris your advices are amazing
How much should i wait before contacting again and what should i say ?
admin
March 13, 2015 at 6:39 pm
1-2 days before next contact.
julia
March 10, 2015 at 2:46 pm
I d like also to do a honest positive review to some podcasts after they worked for me, would you explain to me how to do s
admin
March 13, 2015 at 6:38 pm
Yes Julia! Go to this page,
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/ex-boyfriend-recovery-podcast/id969200480?mt=2
Nicole
March 9, 2015 at 8:32 pm
My boyfriend over over a year is in his first semester of med school and broke up with me two weeks before midterms. He’s having a hard time and a few weeks before he broke up with me, I had asked him if it would help if we took a break so that he could focus on his school work. He said he didn’t know if it would help and then decided that he didn’t want to take a break. I’ve given him a lot of space in terms of not texting, hanging out with him (he’s in a different country so we agreed I wouldn’t visit so he could focus), and not asking him for much (just to stop taking everything out on me). When he broke up with me he said a lot of hurtful things and when I asked why he was being so cruel he said that it was making it easier for him. Im just a little confused because he said he loved me and then also said he doesn’t want to be with me and doesn’t see a future. I don’t know if this was him just being overly mean or if he really feels that way. I like all of your suggestions in this post but was wondering what I can do because he’s stressed out and thousands of miles away. I haven’t talked to him at all and don’t plan on reaching out and don’t want to be annoying or stress him out even more while he’s studying. I’m usually so good at reading people and judging what to do but I’m so in love with him that its clouding my thoughts/judgement. Do you have any advice? Especially helps from a man’s perspective.
admin
March 13, 2015 at 4:19 pm
Have you done the NC yet?
That actually might help uncloud your mind when it comes to him.
Just time away can be a good thing sometimes.
Nicole
March 13, 2015 at 5:43 pm
Yes, I’m on day 12 of NC! I’ve read all of your posts and committed to getting back to being the ungettable girl, went on a date, joined a gym (and actually go!), and realized I feel more myself now than I did with him. I still love him and hope he reaches out but I’m in a place where my happiness isn’t contingent on it. I have you to thank for that!
Also, just a little to note to any girl reading this: You were someone before him and you’ll be someone after him. Remember that and remind yourself of it every day and you’ll be okay. Promise.
admin
March 15, 2015 at 4:13 pm
Wow you actually did read all my stuff.
Color me impressed!
Heena
March 9, 2015 at 8:08 am
Hey Chris!
So my boyfriend dumped me about a week ago and I’m so desperate to get him back. We were perfect we were like best friends and we always saw each other and everything was amazing. But the past month was a little rough and we got into major arguments and he broke up saying the fights got too frustrating for him and it wasn’t like before and he didn’t like what it was becoming. Our common friend spoke to him and asked him if he was over me and he responded saying OFCOURSE not. I messaged him 2 days back like an idiot and he was being really weird like not him at all. I love him so much what do I do??
admin
March 13, 2015 at 3:58 pm
Go right into NC. Thats my best quick advice for you right now.
Kals
March 9, 2015 at 4:31 am
My ex boyfriend broke up with me last week, weeks away form 2 year relationship and i really want him back. ive made every single mistake i could of. i let him be i control, i sound desprite, ispammed him, everything. he told his friend hes done with me and is never going back, and hes told me that to, we’ve been talking like friends since the break up. like having fun, chatting, then a little argument then he blocks me then ect.
i have some mental issues, not anything bad. just i can’t do the no contact rule because it will send me to the hospital. (not saying im a physco path! just emotinal issues). he helps me so much but he “doesn’t” want an us back. but he said i have a chance and that he still loves me. but then he tells me hes done for good.. what can i do to make him want to coome back? we broke up for a month before andwe got back together becaue i was being pushy. he doesn’t like the no contact rule, becausse ive tried it many times& i get the same resukts. he likes me being pushy i guess. can you help me with my issue? :/
sorry forthe spelling errors.
admin
March 13, 2015 at 3:52 pm
Ah, you turned into a text gnat huh?
I think NC is ideal for you from everything you said in your comment.
Leah
March 9, 2015 at 12:03 am
My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago stating that he didn’t want a relationship anymore. At first he said he just wanted space to think (which I gave him), said he still loved and cared about me and repeated this numerous times. That weekend we had been on a romantic trip away and everything seemed perfect. He then proceeded to break off the relationship the day after asking for space. I did all the things I shouldn’t have done, begged and pleaded but he said he no longer loved me (despite saying he did the night before) and actually said he was trying to block every feeling out so he could move on and that I should too.
A few weeks before I questioned him about a girls who I didn’t know and he got angry and stated she was just a work friend so I left it at that. We spend nearly every day together so how could he possibly be seeing someone else? 2 days after we break up and BAM the pictures start coming of them both with #boyfriend etc. and they become in a relationship. I don’t want to see this so block them both on all social networks. I feel embarrassed! It almost feels like they are trying to rub it in my face? There is a new picture uploaded every night (from her).
This is completely not like him at all which makes me so confused. We dated for a month before classing as in a relationship and it was a deep love on both sides throughout, he doted on me as did I him. Have I just been stupid and fallen for it when really this is what he’s like? Able to move on in a matter of days or is it rebound material? Grass is greener syndrome?
I am 2 weeks into NC and have simply contacted his family about getting stuff back etc. Is it worth following the steps after NC if he’s still with her? I’d appreciate your help.
admin
March 13, 2015 at 3:48 pm
Yes it is.
You might want to check out this article though,
https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back-if-he-has-a-girlfriend-version-2-0/
E
March 8, 2015 at 6:51 pm
My boyfriend and I were together for 2 years. We were crazy about each other from the start, he took me to Paris, we went on holidays together and he was part of my family and me of his. We supported each other through a lot, me starting uni and developing an illness and him having family and personal issues.
We broke up 2 weeks ago after him saying he didn’t want a relationship anymore and wanted to be single. We said we wanted to leave things amicably but the next day he had deleted me off all social networks. A couple of days later friends began showing me pictures of him and a new girl and yesterday they became ‘in a relationship’ on Facebook.
I have not contacted him in 2 weeks so have another 2 weeks left of NC, however I am struggling. He supported me through hard times and I am experiencing them again and I am longing for him.
I am unsure what to do at the end of my NC time.. I don’t know how his new relationship is going, whether it’s a rebound? She is not his type and he has only known her a matter of weeks.
I am willing to see out my NC time and continue building myself positively however don’t want to be rejected by him at the end of it due to his relationship not being a rebound.
What would you recommend?
admin
March 13, 2015 at 3:34 pm
Definitely finish out your time in NC.
Accept that being rejected is a risk but if you play your cards right you can drastically minimize that risk.
Jenny
March 8, 2015 at 3:44 pm
Hi Chris thank you for the complete guide. It was very thoughtful of you to do such things to help us. I tried to text him a bit and did the steps and I saw our progress in his response, but then when I tried to ask him for a movie he gave me a no saying he thought we are not ready. So does it mean that he had moved on and so should I..? And how to I end this gracefully? Coz I think I did the stupidest thing ever.. thanks
admin
March 13, 2015 at 3:23 pm
You pobably should have went with something lighter than a movie.
Maybe like a cup of coffee or something.
Marie
March 8, 2015 at 6:17 am
So, my ex and I broke up in November, and we live together. He cheated on me when he was both drunk and high, but he did tell me about it. I know that he regrets it, and I desperately want him back. I’ve done all the things I shouldn’t do: begged, pleaded, etc. However, when I tried the no contact zone, it did work a little bit and he kept wondering why we weren’t speaking and did tell me how he felt. However, this is the only problem. He’s with this girl who treats him terribly. She’s messed around on him and everything and keeps talking bad about me, but he keeps trying to be with her every time she hurts him. Then he comes to me for comfort and says he regrets cheating on me because I was so much better and then denies it all the next day. He did say once that too much has happened between us, but I know that I still have a chance with him because his actions say otherwise. I would love to break them up and get back together with him because I know I can make him happier, so my questions are these:
1.) How can I make him want me more than her?
2.) How can I break them up discreetly?
3.) How can I get back together with him?
admin
March 8, 2015 at 3:15 pm
1. Read this, https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/has-he-moved-on-how-to-get-him-back-if-he-has-a-girlfriend/
2. Again, read that (I also came out with a version 2.0 of that article.)
3. Again… read!
Marie
March 8, 2015 at 11:17 pm
Thank you. Can you explain one more thing to me, though? Each time she does something to him, he keeps trying to work on things with her. If she treats him so badly, why does he keep doing that?
admin
March 13, 2015 at 3:43 pm
She has him on her hook.
Marie
March 16, 2015 at 1:30 am
Is there any way to get him off her hook? I read your article, and it didn’t really explain how to drive them apart and get him off her hook.
admin
March 18, 2015 at 6:57 pm
What specifically do you mean?
Give me the exact situation.
Marie
March 24, 2015 at 9:45 pm
I don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t know if there’s anything that I can do. I just know that getting over him is so hard and that I really, really want him back and want him to think about me again instead of her. What can I do? I feel like I have tried everything.
Marie
March 22, 2015 at 3:50 am
Okay. Part of this is copied and pasted from the first comment. Here is the situation: my ex and I broke up in November, and we live together. He cheated on me when he was both drunk and high, but he did tell me about it. I know that he regrets it and that it really was a mistake, and I desperately want him back. I’ve done all the things I shouldn’t do: begged, pleaded, etc. However, when I tried the no contact zone, it did work a little bit and he kept wondering why we weren’t speaking and did tell me how he felt. However, this is the only problem. He’s with this girl who treats him terribly. She’s messed around on him and everything and keeps talking bad about me, but he keeps trying to be with her every time she hurts him. Then he comes to me for comfort and says he regrets cheating on me because I was so much better and then denies it all the next day. He did say once that too much has happened between us, but I know that I still have a chance with him because his actions say otherwise. Now, about the girl he is with. She and him became friends two weeks before he and I broke up. When he and I were together, she kept edging her way into his life, and on the night of the breakup, she was basically the one who put him in the situation to cheat on me (although he doesn’t realize that). Then once he and I broke up but agreed to try to work on our relationship later, she was suddenly hanging out with him all the time, and I mean all the time. She was spending the night with him, and he was spending the night with her, and they started doing everything he and I did before we started dating. At first they were just friends, but then they turned into friends with benefits after a few weeks, and when it came time for Christmas Break, when he and I were supposed to work on our relationship, he suddenly had feelings for her and didn’t tell me that they had become a thing until after the break when she caught us sitting together at lunch and created a scene about it. This was the first time she was an ass to him, and of course, they reconciled, but during the first two months of them seeing each other, she was accusing him of messing around with me and a few other girls in the house. Then she started messing around on him with other guys, and he found out, and then she made out with one of her girl friends in the club and danced on other guys when he was right there. I remember that night so well because he was emotionally destroyed and came to me for comfort. He even told me that he still thinks about me a lot and that he’s confused because he thinks about the two of us all the time. They took a week to themselves and didn’t speak so that she could figure out what she wanted, and then they got back together. I just don’t understand it. No matter what this girl does to hurt him, he keeps going back to her. I really want to make him more attracted to me and figure out a way to drive him away from her, but I don’t know how, and it seems as if she really does have him on her hook.
Abbey
March 8, 2015 at 1:07 am
I was in a relationship for about a year & half.He at the end started to pull away & never making any time for me. I started to get upset because he was always too busy for me & then was hanging out with friends. He never really broke it off he just stopped calling & texting. I became very upset & started calling & texting him like crazy. I will admit that. At one point I believe he blocked me from his phone & when I messaged him on my Facebook account he finally responded & told me he wanted nothing to do with me. I was really confused & upset I then at that very moment called him & he answered saying to leave him alone. He said he didn’t want to hear me cry & to just stop calling him. He said I was acting like a stalker. At that point I was a mess. He hung up & that was that. I’m still at this point lost at why he just disappeared on me & never gave any explanation. It’s been 4 days & I haven’t called or texted. So I guess my question is should I even try this whole 30 day no contact? When I’m not sure myself what went wrong?
admin
March 8, 2015 at 3:04 pm
Definitely worth a try!
Look, give NC a try for a few days and try it on for size.
Abbey
March 8, 2015 at 3:10 pm
Okay & if he blocked me again? I guess I’m worried about that. Then there’s no hope.
admin
March 13, 2015 at 3:21 pm
He unblocked you before, right?
History often repeats itself.
Abbey
March 14, 2015 at 6:53 pm
& if the last thing he said was I want nothing to do with you & what do I have to do to make you understand that. I believe that was because I became this crazy girl & texting & calling all day long. I think I’m wondering if this could work.
Lily
March 7, 2015 at 5:26 pm
Hi. My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about half a month. We dated for 6-7 months and then he just dropped me. He told me that we were breaking up because he didn’t like keeping our relationship a secret from his dad but we were arguing and he would tell me that everyone thinks I flirt with my best friends boyfriends twin brother. A few days after the break up it was my birthday. He called me and we met up for a brief conversation and he kissed me. The next day the same thing happened again. After that he started giving me mixed messages, like one day he would flirt and the next he wouldn’t want anything to do with me. Two days ago he started holding my hands and he would almost kiss me and he told me he loved me then yesterday we went to a track meet. He walked with me and my friends. He carried my bag and we held hands for a while but then later on in the day he was with another girl. He and his friends sat a few bleachers down from us and i could clearly see everything. He was rubbing the girls back and holding hands with her but the worst part is that he would sneak glances at me. I asked my friends to move and they gladly did but he would still do the same. I ran off and one of my friends followed me and I had started stress eating and crying. We went back up and he kept looking at me when finally the track meet was over. When it was over my friends were furious at him. They pushed me to talk to him but I wouldn’t so instead they went and told him off. He was mad and he started texting me and we argued over text. He wasn’t only texting me, he was texting all my friends too. One of my friends told me that he said it was my fault I was feeling like this because he clearly told me that I should move on and that there was no chance we would get back together…which he didn’t. What he actually told me was that I shouldn’t believe when people told me I meant nothing to him because it was a lie. He also told me that he wanted to get back together but he didn’t because he thought he was a bad influence on me. After that he told my friend to tell me that I won’t have to worry about him leading me on anymore because he had clearly moved on. And this whole thing has just left me emotionally drained and confused and I don’t know what to do. A part of me wants to let him be happy and the other part never wants to let him go. Please help?
admin
March 8, 2015 at 2:48 pm
You don’t know if he is dating another girl yet though right?
Lily
March 9, 2015 at 4:35 am
Yeah, I don’t know if it’s official or not.
Kitty
March 6, 2015 at 12:19 am
Omg chris im lucky that I turned my ex bf down when he tries to come back becos he told me he is going business trip the next day but I realised he lied he went overseas holiday trip with a new girl and lied. Why does he wanna do such thing!!!??? And still want to me back! Such a jerk!
admin
March 7, 2015 at 5:43 pm
He wants to have two women at once I am betting.
Natalie
March 5, 2015 at 8:58 pm
Me and my boyfriend of 4 years have had ups and downs. Tons of them. We stop talking for a few days and then talk things over and we are fine. It seems that it’s always about winning, like who has the point this time. If he did something I expect him to say sorry and I feel like I have the power. When I do something he feels the same. And pride is a big issue why we don’t fix things I guess. It’s was very petty why we got mad but the relationship kinda seemed Ricky lately. We broke up sat and he blocked me on all social networks. I’m hoping for the best expecting the worse. This might be the final break up. I texted him trying to be the bigger person and apologized for any miss understandings but nothing yet. I’m getting really anxious about the situation I don’t know what else to do. Any advice???
admin
March 7, 2015 at 5:42 pm
You might find some success using the no contact rule.
Kitty
March 5, 2015 at 9:07 am
So chris what am I gonna do now? My ex bf actually came back and I turned him down I told him we are just frds we have moved on. And he was angry! But now I regretted! Hope he come back again. Will he?
admin
March 7, 2015 at 5:37 pm
I bet he will.
Just try to get him on a date at some point.
Kitty
March 8, 2015 at 3:59 am
Yes he is reli coming back again to ask me out for dinner again. But I have found out he went holiday with another girl, so I dunno shd I still accept this person or moved on. I have been dating some nice decent eligible guy… just that still misses this past 3 years relationship…
admin
March 8, 2015 at 3:08 pm
Seems like he is playing the field for both of you.
pauline
March 4, 2015 at 12:58 pm
What should I do if his parents don’t want us to be together becuz its getting too serious? We both love each other very much, we told each other that while breaking up. I want him part of my life somehow but idk how to get there. Btw he’s 18 senior in HS and I’m 19 in college, bes very close to his parents too. What should i do ? Should I text him asking if we should stay close friends? We just recently broken up I don’t want to loose him entirely!
admin
March 7, 2015 at 4:50 pm
Are you seperated by a lot of distance due to the college/high school thing.
drunkenlove
March 4, 2015 at 3:06 am
Hi, me and my ex went out for 3 years.we were madly in love with each other and then after 3 years i found out that he been sending nudes to other people and receiving them. I got upset and said i would break up. He said he was sorry and said he needed me in his life and to give him a chance. I did give it chances. During those time i was hurt so i was making it hard for him to make me happy again. He tried alot. We did have fights about how i am not contributing to this relationship and my response was that he screwed it up so he needs to treat me better. We broke up a month ago and i went to another city to see my friends. I did hook up with 2 guys when i was interstate but it was solely because i was hurt. I came back to our hometown. It had been a month. I missed hhim so much and just couldnt bear the fact that we wont be in my life anymore. So i begged him to take me back i cried and i did endless amount of things. He finally said he is willing but he wants to take things slow. I was honest with him before that i kissed other guys during our breakup and he said he kissed another person too. It hurt me alot but i cant be a hypocrite. However a week went by and i wanted to make him feel special by sending all this loving msgs. He just seemed so distant and cold. Later the other day i opened up to him and he ssaid he was angry that i didnt contact him much during the month of our breakup. And he said it cant go back to the same because he doesnt feel the same way about me anymore. Like he doesnt get excited when i text him or when i see him or kiss him. I am devastated. He cried as well and said he wants me in his life still. Probably he is purposing to be friends. But i said i cant do that and i just couldnt stop crying. I need him back and i want him back because i just know i wont get another one like him. please help me.
admin
March 5, 2015 at 8:34 pm
I think you just need to find a way to restart his feeling a bit…
It will take time though… Like it could take up to a year in some cases.
Rachel
March 4, 2015 at 12:14 am
My boyfriend of almost 6 months broke up with me 4 days ago. I was completely blindsided by it. He said that our relationship was 99% great, but that 1% was missing for him. We never fought and always had a great time with one another. Our chemistry was on point. The only issue was the fact that we kept our emotions suppressed and ended up having somewhat of a superficial bond. When he broke up with me he said that he wanted an organic connection, one that was deep, and that it was just a gut feeling he had that things wouldn’t work in the long run. At that point, I poured out my heart to him. I told him all the things I’d been feeling, but hadn’t been able to say before. I told him that I loved him (because I truly do).
The last that I’ve heard from him was in an email and he basically said that those were the nicest words anyone has ever said to him, but unless his gut changes, he has to stand by his feelings. In his closing of the email he said for me to ‘stay strong and understand that the right decisions are sometimes the hardest’.
Is there any hope of me winning him back? I feel like I don’t have a clear understanding of what he wants or what went wrong for him. If it was a deeper connection that he needed, I showed him that I was ready to give that to him and I have still not heard anything in return other than what was in his email I described above.
Please help. I know in my heart that he is “the one” because I have never been able to open my heart to someone so freely until now.
admin
March 5, 2015 at 8:30 pm
Sure there is hope.
I think NC would do wonders for you.
Also, I think creating a deeper emotional connection after NC is up would serve you well too.
carly
March 3, 2015 at 11:29 am
My ex (of almost 2 years) and I broke up for the third time last Monday (8 days ago). The first breakup was me and the last two were his choice. When he left the first time I begged him back for almost a month and honestly that was the biggest mistake. I should have given us time to heal before jumping right back into it a month later. This time the past 8 days I have been going back and forth saying okay I’ll give you space to drunk texting him that I have a bunch of guys on my new tinder if they want me how come he doesn’t. We had sex yesterday and had a plan to give it two weeks where we see if we can work things out but then he flip flopped and said that it wasn’t a good idea and then when I did the whole drunk text about tinder thing he told me that I proved to him that we just aren’t mature enough to be in this relationship anymore. I apologized for trying to make him jealous and admitted people do stupid things when they’re hurt and he said he understood and that he just wants us to have a peaceful split. I asked if he saw us getting back together and he said not in the near future but no one can be certain because he saw how my parents divorced and then found each other 10 years later so he says never say never. My question is I think your plan would have worked if I would have just given him the space he wanted 8 days ago… Did I screw it up by texting him so much these past 8 days or if I start the 30 day no contact thing now can it still work? Also, we have a college class together so we have to sit beside each other once a week. He said that he still wants to be friendly and wants me to find happiness and he says he still loves me but he doesn’t want to fight anymore and I also think his friends don’t help because they don’t want him to be in a relationship when they’re all single. Please give me some advice!
admin
March 3, 2015 at 10:08 pm
Nc can still work.
In fact, that’s what it’s kind of there for.
carly
March 3, 2015 at 11:31 am
I also should mention we needed to end our relationship because we were fighting about everything but I just feel like a break away from each other is all we need.
Kitty
March 2, 2015 at 10:52 pm
Hi Chris, my ex bf really came back asking me for dinner. But I rejected and very slow in replying him and he just throw his temper on me again said now that he wants to work out the relationship but I am half hearted. And blame me for not replying etc. I told him that let’s stop talking about the passed since we are now frds and have moved on. He got angrier and then reply me good for me and like forget it and he sounds pissed off and stop texting. Anyway I just feel that after this 2 mths I realised he is not the guy I want and he is not reliable, just want me to be around whenever he wants to come back. It’s really bad and I deserve someone who appreciate me more. But I’m happy now at least in the end i’m the one who walk away and leave him let him know that i wont be there as and when he want so he will remember me! Do u think after a few weeks he will come back to texting me again?
admin
March 3, 2015 at 9:44 pm
He actually came back to you and you turned him away?
Why?
Kitty
March 3, 2015 at 11:59 pm
I have moved on.. and I felt he is not the one for me. But still I felt abit guilty and abit uncertain if my choice to turn him down is right or wrong. So I’m wondering will he come back to text me again?