How To Get Your Ex Back When He's Moved On To A New Girl

3,819 thoughts on “Has He Moved On? How To Get Him Back If He Has A Girlfriend”

maria

March 20, 2015 at 6:42 pm

I’ve been dating this guy on and off for almost 2 years now (1 year 6 months) we were still on good terms and I can see he wanted to get back together but I didn’t because I wanted to see if he can change or prove to me he wasn’t gonna hurt me like he did. We still acted like bf and gf and we would even go to each others house to hangout like normal couple but this past Tues he started acting distant for 2 days and now he has a new gf since he unfollowed me on IG :/
Jade

March 18, 2015 at 3:09 pm

I was with my boyfriend for 2 months ‘officially’, but we were dating for a total of 6 months. Even though it was short, he really thought we were meant to be together and we both felt like we were going to be in it for the long run. I got super jealous and as it was my first serious relationship I was quite immature. However, I always put him first and did everything for him and didn’t break up with him even when he didn’t treat me like a boyfriend should, because I wanted to be there to support him and because I loved him. We agreed to be friends after the break up and he said he thought we could get back together some time in the future but that at this time he wasn’t ready for a long term relationship because he was with someone for 2 years before me. but he kissed someone else less than a week later and then kissed her in front of me again a week after that. Then they were in a relationship less than a month after we broke up. They’ve been together for about a month now and he keeps tweeting how happy he is. He blocked me etc and unfollowed me on instagram (which is a significant thing for him to do) I’ve read through all of your relevant pages. I did some really stupid and horrible things after the break up so he was really angry with me (hence blocking me). Do you think there’s a chance of him ever wanting to speak to me again? Either as friends or as anything else?

Taylor

April 18, 2015 at 3:57 am

Emelia i know how u feel with the ‘complicated’ relationship ive had one of those, and me and my ex bf dated for about 4 months doesnt seem that long but, it literally felt like it was a year anyways, he started dating my best friend after i asked him to get with me… and i broke up with him since he wasnt talking to me and he was questioning why he had to… so yeah…i broke it off.. and now i want him back i started to cry a couple days ago… thinking about it cause i had thought he said yes to me… but… apparently not… but… now i talk to him every once in awhile…. i completely ignored him for a whole day like i didnt look at him, smile at him, nothin’. and he got sad. he told his new gf that…. hehe… thats really evil… i take it back…
jeanine

March 28, 2015 at 1:07 pm

I know almost everything your going through because I myself just recently went through that and currently still dealing with it. we were together for almost 6 months and he said he wanted to be friends for reasons I’m not going into details. He told me he wanted me to be the friend that he can talk to me about all his girlfriends with and vice versa. And I also did some stupid horrible things after the break up but thankfully were still on good terms. And just recently he started going with this thing. hopefully he and I have our chance again but I’m happy that he and I are still friends as opposed to not in each others lives at all. But it kills me knowing that I’ve been there for him through so much in his tough time on life and I tried to help him get through that but he’s out putting some other chick as priority. Oh well, if I want to keep him in my life, I have to accept it. Just be there for him through thick and thin. Hope you get through your problem with ease as I do with mine and hopefully you and I both get what we want and back with our exes.
kayle

March 24, 2015 at 12:34 pm

I was in this situation before. it’s really hard. but if you think about it it’s kinda easier for you by him blocking you bc you’re unable to stalk him. don’t stalk him, that’s what I did at first and it didn’t fix anything fast. just try to convince yourself that you don’t need him, if he’s not claiming you and treats you like that then he doesn’t deserve you, but as I was saying, it’s a huge possibility he still thinks about you. as I was saying with my relationship he dated the girl for 8 months and out of no where he started messaging me and then broke up with her and told me how he missed me all the time and that he never stopped loving me, granted I never took him back, only bc I was mature enough to see that if he did this to me then he doesn’t deserve me. and same goes with you. he really doesn’t deserve you. but you do have a chance. just don’t talk to him and act like you’re better off without him. he will hate that and miss you.

Emelia

March 18, 2015 at 7:13 am

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and we were really happy together. A few weeks later he broke up with me and U was really upset. Three days later he asked me out again and I said yes to give him another chance. A week later I broke up with him and said that I had a lot of stuff on my mind and we could go out again after I have cleared so stuff. He said ok and we ended the chat. Two days later he was in a relationship with another girl. I tried to speak to him and his gf told me to go away and dragged him off. I tried texting him and asking if the relationship is going well and he said it was ok. We haven’t spoken after that and I’m on my NCR. I want him back but he is with his gf all the time, what do i do?
Sweety

March 17, 2015 at 10:06 am

I and my ex-bf dated for 3 & half yrs..bt than he broke up almost 2yrs and he nw says he has a gf bt he started contacting me on the basis of sayg sorry to me and says i jst felt sorry the way i hv hurted you..sumwhr i always felt we are soul mates.. he calls me, texts me, we even met couple of sumtimes and he even says dat hez gf has stopped talkg to him and does not understd him.. and that things are even messing up between them since a yr..what should i undrstd??? are thr any chances between us?? does he like me??i serly like him.. and have strong feeling for future

admin

March 18, 2015 at 8:47 pm

You have the same chance as everyone in your situation.

Itll be tough but its not impossible.
Sweety

March 19, 2015 at 5:31 am

bt the other day he has told me dat i shudnt wait for him and dat i shud move on..i feel hez trickg me by askg and wants to hear my views..if i have any chances shud i start applyg nc rule?? hez gone on a trip for a week.. and we even talkd before he left.. i had also left a safe journey msg in his inbox(so dat i m in positive note in his head d whole trip) bt i didnt recieve and reply..i m so confused 🙁 i love him bt also i dont want to be his victim… how should i go abt?? are thr still any chances?? if yes when shud i strt nc rule?? also if i m on nc rule and he calls me wen hez back from trip than???

tee

March 17, 2015 at 9:18 am

hi guys i have a bit of a complicated situation. i used to date this guy +6years ago. We broke up because i was way too young i was barely 18 and i thought the relationship was getting too serious for me so we broke up. We both moved on but recently started communicating. i lost my fiance two years ago and i have been single ever since. He has a fiance also but apparently things have not been good from what he told me. He says he always loved me and really struggled to move on after the break up. so now we are reminiscing about the past and decided maybe we can pick up where we left off. i also really love him but my issue is that i don’t want to be a home wrecker. The fiance saw our chats on whatsapp and things have not been the same, he is distant and weird but he assured me he loves me. he said he has always intended on leaving his fiance even before i came into the picture. but i cant help feel guilty……

admin

March 18, 2015 at 8:47 pm

Hey, if he is leaving his fiance it is his decision…

Bereaved and heartbroken

March 17, 2015 at 1:45 am

My boyfriend and I lost a baby at 23 weeks gestation in 2012. We had been very close friends since 2007 but were in a relationship for a year and 2 months when I became pregnant. He totally freaked out saying he wasn’t ready, I refused to abort and told him I need to know NOW whether he still wants to be in the relationship or not. He broke up with me but agreed that I moved in so he could be there during what became a difficult pregnancy.

I was severely stressed throughout my time living there because before long, he was constantly out late drinking with workmates and friends. One night he even stayed out with a ‘business contact’ and I was left to go to the hospital ER on my own as he switched his phone off. The next day when he returned home I confronted him and told him of my solo hospital visit. I then told him I wanted nothing further to do with him and that I would move out as soon as the baby arrived safely and be out of his way for good. He broke down and apologised profusely begging me and telling me he didn’t sleep with her; they just watched movies at home and he spent the night on her sofa. We had a series of talks and eventually things were a little less unpleasant. He started to behave a little better but our little girl died in utero only a few weeks later.

After my miscarriage, he cut all contact with the woman he stayed out with but the drinking continued. We had been in counselling together before the miscarriage, he continued to come with me for a while after but then he claimed he no longer needed it so I continued to go on my own; he would drop me there and wait in the car or sometimes go home and return instead of joining the sessions. He said he didn’t want me to move out until I was comfortable and confident I was okay living on my own. We were sleeping in separate bedrooms. After many months, we started sleeping in the same bed again and got intimate on a few occasions. We went away for the weekend on two separate occasions and things seemed to be going good again but I was very cagey about letting him back into my heart completely as I was still grieving.

After 10 months, I moved in to a new apartment just a short drive away from him. Bear in mind he was adamant he didn’t want me moving too far away as he wanted to know he could be nearby if I ever needed him. Although we still hadn’t got back together, I appreciated that as I was on antidepressants, still seeing a psychologist and still very emotionally fragile. However, my end goal was to focus on making myself well and leave him to get on with his life, given that he hadn’t shown any real signs of us getting back together. He continued to come over frequently anyway; I think he was worried that I was shutting the door completely. We continued to do fun things together – long drives to the countryside, dinners, visiting our daughter’s gravesite, among other things to preserve her memory.

Fast-forward 2014 and I expressed that I still loved him and wanted us to give our relationship another chance. He came up with many ifs and buts, which i found rather painful at first but by June, I had decided I was just going to move on. In August, we went to dinner on his birthday, he seemed really shocked that I hadn’t bought him a gift nor made a fuss about his 30th birthday (very unlike me as I’m a very very happy and excited gift-giver…and revel in the joy of picking the perfect gifts for my loved ones). After dinner we went to a quiet spot for drinks and I decided to tell him why I had been keeping my distance lately. Long and short was that I wanted more between us and if he wasn’t willing to give that, I wanted out COMPLETELY. So all or nothing. After a long discussion, he expressed that he didn’t want to lose me and that he was happy for us to go slowly. I agreed to that.

In December, he started acting a little weird as I questioned his intentions on taking our relationship to the next level. He then told me he felt like he wanted to be on his own for a while, without the full responsibility of a relationship. More time on his own at home instead of having to make specific plans to see me on certain days of the week, he just wants to go to the gym, work, hang out with the people after work etc without feeling like he’s neglecting me. He dropped the bomb…he broke up with me.

We were doing good being amicable, still taking flowers for our daughter together and taking on the phone. he even came over a few times and watched movies at my place. Then all of a sudden, he stopped taking my calls and gave the excuse of being super busy at work for everything. I left him alone for 5 weeks, then I texted to see whether he wanted to take flowers for our baby. He said he was busy, I proposed a different date, he gave me some lame excuse about his car. So I told him to call. When we spoke, I told him it appears he no longer wanted to visit our child’s grave, what with so many excuses. He said, “of course I still want to go!” I then asked “Are you seeing someone?” Then very aggressively, he said “YES!”. I asked him why he lied about just wanting to be on his own instead of just telling me it’s me he didn’t want to be with. He said, “I was being honest at the time”. I said, oh so you’ve just suddenly met someone so damn amazing that all of a sudden you want to be in a relationship? He told me he doesn’t think he needs to explain himself to me. I said after everything we’ve been through, I felt like he should really be a little more forthcoming with answers. he then said, he doesn’t want to talk about it anymore. At this point he said he still wants to go visit our daughter WITH me but he’s just struggling with that at the moment and doesn’t know when he will want to go. I said goodbye and hung up.

The next day, I packed the remaining things he had left at my place and took it to his office in a box. I didn’t want to go up so I asked the building receptionist to take it as I didn’t want to see anyone from his company. To my dismay, they said someone froths company had to come down to collect it from me. I panicked as I didn’t want to see him so I gave a fake name and company, knowing he would send his company’s receptionist down because he didn’t know the name and probably wasn’t expecting anyone. She came down…I know her as I worked with the firm briefly back in 2008. She was very upset to see what was happening and she then told me not to worry as it’s not going to last between him and the girl he’s seeing. It turns out that the girl he’s seeing works at his place and started the job 6 months ago. She broke up with he boyfriend about a moth ago and now she’s with my ex and they’re all over each other at the office ‘like cheese on a ritz’! I was partly relieved as she’s an immature 22 year old who I think will bore him easily once the ‘honeymoon’ passes but I was also very hurt that he’s avoiding going to visit our daughter because of some casual rebound trip.

Maybe I’m just being stupid but I still love him and I hope that someday we’ll be back together…sooner rather than later.

Do you think I stand a chance or has he moved on for good.

admin

March 18, 2015 at 8:43 pm

I would read the newer version of this article and I think theres a chance but do you think you can forgive him for leaving and dating a 22 year old?
Bereaved and heartbroken

March 18, 2015 at 11:25 pm

Thanks Chris. Please post the link to the newer version of this article you’re referring to.

I really do hope we have a chance and I hope it won’t be long before he sees the error of his ways and initiate contact. As for forgiving him for dating a 22 year old, at the moment, I think I can forgive that given how much I love him and care about him. It just pains me to think he no longer cares about me and the memory of our child. We were great together and never had fights about anything… Yes, we had the simple disagreements about small things like in any normal relationship of course but those were few and far between and always easily resolved.

I’ve decided not to initiate contact but instead to wait until he contacts me. I sure hope I’m not waiting in vain. In the meantime, I’m hitting the gym, hanging out with friends and family and getting on with the usual activities I enjoy. It’s ever so difficult but I’m doing my best to focus on ME.

Pearl

March 16, 2015 at 11:42 pm

hi admin I have a problem I was dating this guy for 4 years everything was good then I got sick, he was there for me that time I was sick so I ask him to give me a break because I was feeling like he is taking all my burdens into his shoulder. then he gave me space, but he went back to date his ex girlfriend, but he is still coming to me sometimes, he call me once a week or after 2 weeks, So I want to know what must I do to win him back again. Just to bring our relationship back to normal because I Love him so much, we have alot in common. Because am no longer sick now.

admin

March 18, 2015 at 8:38 pm

Nc is a good start pearl.

lucy

March 15, 2015 at 4:35 pm

Hai, my names lucy. My situation is I still love my ex, I recently found out he had a new girl within the time I have been busy n asked for a short break.
I thought to go see him after everything settled and he told me he can’t let me go, and told me about the new girl friend. He was holding my hand when she saw us.
He began to freak out and talk about her. She texted him while we were still together anD he showed me the text.

I felt bad. Buh he didn’t text me for two weeks tho he would give me push home and give me emotional hugs. I told him not to contact me after she saw us because it hurt me too. He is hurt right now.
Should I wait till he cools down or should I move on?

admin

March 18, 2015 at 6:24 pm

Wait till he cools down.

NC is ideal for this.

molu

March 15, 2015 at 11:32 am

I was in a relationship wid dis guy for 8 months. We talk n chat everyday . We share everything we were very happy with each other. One month back we broke up coz his school time crush came back to his life n he wanted to give himself a chance.yesterday he call up n told DAT girl accepted her n he was sorry for wat he did. He feel guilty for wat he did to me. Shall I forgive n move on or shall I wait for him???d funny thing is inspite of wat he did to me I still love him.

admin

March 15, 2015 at 5:36 pm

Check out the new version of this article please!

barsha nayak

March 14, 2015 at 10:19 pm

Hey Chris…i used your no contact rule for a year. After breakup he blocked me in fb. But before some days he unblocked me and then again blocked me. I initiated contact with him through WhatsApp and now we chat with each other as friends. I get to know that he has got a gf and he told me that his gf is very dumb and he gets bored with him. What he mean? Do I have a chance of getting him back?

admin

March 15, 2015 at 5:17 pm

Umm… NC is supposed to be only for a month…
barsha nayak

March 16, 2015 at 5:30 am

So I dnt have a chance of getting him back?
admin

March 18, 2015 at 7:03 pm

I didn’t say that I just said it would be a little more challenging. Obviously there is no guarantees for anyone trying to get their ex back.

arlene

March 14, 2015 at 12:39 am

my ex broke up with me two months ago and everytime he sees me he starts asking me questions so he said “have you moved on” and i didn’t so i didn’t respond back and he hates me saying i should move on. His sister said that he still likes me but we made a promise that we can’t date anymore and i want to apologize to him about yelling at him bc i insulted him so much and now all of his friends hate me. He lied to me so much and its really hard moving on. Advice?

admin

March 15, 2015 at 4:28 pm

Well, ideally you are just doing a NC rule.

I would say complete it and you might be in a better position afterwards as opposed to one right now.

Ju

March 11, 2015 at 6:13 pm

So I dated a colleague of mine for 3mths. Then he decided to go back to being friends as he didnt have those feelings for me. We did everything together, worked, hung out everyday. Everyone said we were perfect together and he was crazy about me but turns out it was me who was falling for him not the way around. I tired to be friends but it hurts too much. And now he is seeing a girl he met online :((( I am so upset as I see him everyday, I feel replaced and I am so scared thats it he will settle down and we will never get another chance.
I really love him and know we would be great together but how do I make him see this. I am not ugly and he says I am beautiful and he loves my personality and would spend everyday with me if he could but he wont date me :(((

Please help…

admin

March 13, 2015 at 7:28 pm

Well if he is saying that nice stuff to you but the actions aren’t backing it up then he is probably lying to you.
Ju

March 15, 2015 at 9:12 am

Is there anything I can do? I feel like quitting my job
admin

March 15, 2015 at 5:30 pm

Don’t quit your job.

That would be an emotional move that you might regret down the road.
Ju

March 16, 2015 at 4:34 am

I should give him nc then?
admin

March 18, 2015 at 7:02 pm

Yup.

Helena

March 11, 2015 at 10:04 am

So me and my ex were together just under 6 months, I fell deeply in love with him and I thought we were happy. I met his family and friends and we had a great time together until it started to go a bit pear shaped. I became quite needy and wanted his attention a lot more and at the end of feb he broke up with me saying I was the kindest person he’d ever met, he loved spending time with me etc etc but he doesn’t think I’m the girl hes going to start a family with. We met up a week after our split to talk about it and ended up having a great time laughing and joking, even laughing about our break up (?) we discussed his ex a lot and it became glaringly obvious he wasn’t over what she did to him and seemed to think if he let me in that i would do the same. We discussed it in a lot of detail and it was very emotional, but i left with my head held high as I knew I’d been the best i could be. I’ve never been bitchy with him or angry, i was initially hurt of course but ignored his texts/calls until i had calmed down.
The break up knocked me for 6 though… We carried on occasionally texting about mutual interests after we met and then out of nowhere it was facebooked that he was in a new relationship (with his ex’s best friend!).
I text him in a bit of a rage and just said “really?” he replied the next day a long message about how he didn’t do it to hurt me, its all moving quicker than expected and he didn’t know she was putting it on Facebook.
We aren’t friends on Facebook anymore so I don’t see their activity which has helped.
I have finally started to get over it all, been on a few dates but still really missing him.

He text me this morning after about 2 weeks NC – a text meant for his current girlfriend! We don’t have similar names at all and with phones now I don’t see how you can text the wrong person back as its in feed format and not the old-school way you have to select who you respond to.

Of course, I have not replied to the message and have no intention of doing so. My question really is – should I just give up on him? I am more focused on myself, my life and career but my reaction to this text kind of confirmed that I still love him and want him back.

admin

March 13, 2015 at 7:12 pm

He meant to do that on purpose.

He is trying to make you jealous most likely.

Ashlie

March 11, 2015 at 4:30 am

Hi my name is Ashlie and my baby daddy left me recently. We were together for 2 years and now we are having a child together. Are son will be here in 3 months (June 27th). He left and is now with someone else who has a son. They aren’t dating officially just yet but are talking. I’m really heart broken about this and would give anything to have him and our little family together ounce again. I’m not sure what to do or what I should do. My goal is to win him back before our son arrives I am just not sure how to go about that.

admin

March 13, 2015 at 7:08 pm

I recommend following this strategy,

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back-version-2-0/

alyssa

March 10, 2015 at 1:49 pm

Hello chris , my ex and I was almost 4yrs we’ve been together, and we broke up last novemeber 2014. He caught some sweet txt msg in my cellphone and he assume that i was with someone else while we were not together. So he doesnt get mad, He get even. And he and her gf was so very happy together while Me? im 4months pregnant and He just said that he doesnt want me back. He also said he loved his Gf so much, but seriously? He and his Gf is only 3months together and we? 4yrs 🙁
does it possible that I can make him fall inlove with me again ? for my baby ? for our family ? :/

admin

March 13, 2015 at 6:39 pm

What do you mean he caught some sweet messages?

Angela

March 10, 2015 at 11:21 am

My boyfriend has trouble talking to me because I assume the worse and get upset. I have worked on this and am much easier to talk to now. Problem is he lives in the past. He has lied, stayed out all night drinking and cheated twice. He cirrently thinks he may love his last cheat but its because he and I are so bad right now.
We have a son together and my two girls from a previous relationship know him as dad…I have a forever love for him and know that if he were willing to try as hard as I am we could get our spark back and be a happy family.

Any advice on what I should do?

admin

March 13, 2015 at 6:37 pm

Have you read the latest version of this post?

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back-if-he-has-a-girlfriend-version-2-0/
Angela

March 10, 2015 at 11:26 am

Also we have been together 2 and a half years. Trouble started around my pregnancy. I couldn’t drink n party as much, I started settling down more and he rebelled. He loves me and the kids and I am willing to give him guy time I just wish he wanted to hangout with me more…keep the spark going. Because of the new girl I am hostile and begging him to choose me over here but he dwells on our issues and sees that things with her are easier. Please help

Jo

March 9, 2015 at 8:09 pm

so my boyfriend broke up with me two days ago because he wanted to believe lies. he got all mad cause he though I was cheating. but all I talk about is him and he is the only one I want.. I begged him to stay because im nothing without him. he told me he was “thinking”. a few minutes later that day I try logging into his fb and he changed his password on me. “thinking” doesn’t mean go and change your password on me cause that just tells me otherwise. ive spent all weekend crying. his ex frien john messaged me asking whats wrong and you know im gonna tell them whats wrong I needed as much help as I could get cause im in love with him. the next morning cause he still has my snap chat .. he got mad at me saying ” to think I was gonna take you back, but you go and message a guy I don’t like” I was like omg what the heck. today I just found out he has a new gf. her name is Kristen.. I knew something wasn’t going right in our relationship cause when me and him would post pictures , or he’d write cute statuses and tag me, or id tag him, she would always like it. so I blocked her on his fb. I knew something was up. but he always tried pointing the fingers at me? I honestly love him, even tho he cheated on me when I was locked up.. I believe him instead of the screenshot. when I found out he had a new gf I messaged him/ and her. saying a bunch of crap.. saying I hope it was worth it, .. im lost without him what do I do..

admin

March 13, 2015 at 4:18 pm

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back-if-he-has-a-girlfriend-version-2-0/

Here is the newer version of this article.

anonymous

March 9, 2015 at 7:17 am

Hi, I’m going through a break up and it really sucks. I met him about 7 months after my ex of 5 years (father of my 2 girls) had broken up. I always get messages from guys on Facebook and I messed around (no sex though) with like 2 of them. But most of the time I don’t reply. He has an ex who he had a son with. They were 3 months I to there brake up. He messaged me a few times and I wouldn’t reply. Then I got this feeling and a little voice told me “Talk to him, he’s seems like a sweetheart” so I replied. Things were great. He knows how to play around and how to make smile and just knows how to make me happy. The thing is we live in different towns. But he had invited me to a Christmas party his company has every year. So I went. It was the first time we saw each other in person. It went great. He introduced me to some Co workers and wanted to introduce me to his parents but I got scared. He rented a room so I wouldn’t have to go back home late that same night. And we chilled there for a while watched TV and talked. Then things happened. But it felt absolutely amazing. He was so gentle and his touch gave me chills. He said that I made him shake lol and he hadn’t felt what he felt with me with anyone else. After we chilled a little longer. And then we went to his friends house, he introduced me and we started drinking. I met his friends girlfriend also. And his friends dad. Well he ttook home the next day and things were great. Then 3 days after Christmas he decided he wanted to try to make his family work. I understood because I went through the same thing with my ex. I really wanted my family. So they got back together New Year Eve. But broke up that same night. He called me crying at about 12:30 am and at 12:06 am he sent me a text saying “I know I’m the last person you’d wanna here this from but Happy New Year and I still wanna talk to you in the new year okay (:” I called back and he told me that he was tired and he didn’t know what to do. I told him to sleep on it. And if he’d still wanna talk to text me in the morning. He did. And he told me that she was mad because everyone was drinking and she hates it. And then he told me he felt so stupid because he left me and that whole day he was with her and his family he thought of me. He woke up wanting to text me but remembered we weren’t talking. Then he said he wanted to send me some flowers but didn’t know my address. Well we started talking as friends and then tried again. Then he said he wasn’t ready I said okay. And we were okay with being friends. Then on Valentines Day his ex decided she wanted to try dating. He agreed and we were still talking but not as much. Then last week he called me and said he didn’t know what he was doing. She started a huge fight about him drinking. But he had already payed his bills and payed her the child support. So he just wanted time to himself with his father. He was telling me that now he realizes that being with someone just because you want a family isn’t a good enough reason. If you don’t love that person anymore it’s not gonna work. Then he told me it was weird because he has a lot of girls talking to him but none of them compare to me. They’re all boring, except for one she seems cool. He just can’t talk to her about personal things like he does with me. We tell each other every thing. He also said that when I bring up a guy or my ex he gets a feeling in his chest and stomach like jealousy and he doesn’t like it. No one, not even his ex he says make him feel like that. He said it’s because he still has feelings for me. But the thing is. I asked him 2 days ago if he did and he said he didn’t know. I know he’s been talking to someone new and it kills me. I haven’t talked to him in 2 days. And also he said he really really liked having sex with me. And that he likes talking to me because I know how to play around and we can talk about anything. He confuses me though because one day he’ll tell me he has feelings for me and he’ll act jealous about a guy and then the next it’s like whatever. So I don’t know what he wants or what I should do. I’ve asked him before, he said he loves me and he wants me. Then he’ll say he doesn’t know. He’s also told me I was too good for him. Like really? I don’t know I’m just so upset. What am I supposed to do?

admin

March 13, 2015 at 3:57 pm

Have you read the version 2.0 of this article?

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back-if-he-has-a-girlfriend-version-2-0/

Laila

March 9, 2015 at 1:37 am

Hi, my name is Laila. I was in a relationship with my ex for almost two years. He left me a month and a half ago because he said he doesn’t love me and he likes another girl now… a girl he just met. He swore at me and hurt me a lot when he left and it brought a lot of stress upon me. I loved him a lot and I would give the whole universe for him. I understand him and I’ve been with him through the good and the bad. Its just really heart breaking how he left me here all alone and did all that to me. He would still message me saying he misses me but he doesn’t want to get back together with me. he has only known this girl for 2 months and he’s dating her now and making it official everywhere and he acts as if he’s so happy and so in love with her. He told me I have the best personality and that not even his own parents love him as much as I do which makes me so mad because he doesn’t want me. Like what does his new girl have that I don’t? I’m just very hurt.. I don’t know what to do. I’ve stopped talking to him for 4 days now.

admin

March 13, 2015 at 3:50 pm

You should check out th eupdated version of this article,

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back-if-he-has-a-girlfriend-version-2-0/

Andre

March 9, 2015 at 12:53 am

My name is Andre. My ex girlfriend recently broke up with me in which she stated during the breakup she needed time to herself, didn’t have time for a boyfriend and also needed to focus on her daughter whom which is autistic. This all came out when she had an appointment for her daughter and doctor told her that her daughter will not be a normal child. So I was very confused with the breakup because we had discussed our future together I was planning to live in her city which I didn’t mention we met on instagram she lives in Cali and I live in Texas. So the distance was hard for the both of us because we wanted to be together. Anyways we would discuss marriage I would let her know how different she was from other girls I’ve dated and she expressed the same. After she flooded me with the breakup text I panicked I was upset so I deleted all her pics from instagram unfriended her. She then found out later and was like I “are you serious ” you deleted me from instagram. I replied with I panicked was upset didn’t know what to do. She noticed that I had a profile picture of us kissing and she said take that picture off I was like no give me a reason. She really didn’t respond. I then flooded her with text saying that I can’t let her go and that I’m fighting for our love. No reply. Began to call her ignoring my calls flooded her with a ridiculous long voicemail saying how much I loved her how much I’m willing to fight for her. No response. I was hurt went to bed hurt. The next day which was Tuesday March 3rd 2015 I tried to friend her on ig I noticed she blocked me soon after I tried adding her sister and 5minutes later I get a call from my ex girlfriend. She was angry saying why would you try and add my family I told her because I was going to try and reach out to her sister to talk to her for me, then she was like and you never to that picture off after I told you I was like OK OK I’ll take it off. I’ve never seen her this angry before. I forgot to mention her sister wasn’t to fond of me. She never met me and she didn’t know me. I realized that the breakup was real and that I wasn’t making things better. So I decided OK to try and accept it but still confused and hurt. I then went home after work and began to watch church sermons online she had always wanted to have God first in our relationship and I would always agree but never do. She also commented that she broke her promise with God on not having sex again before getting married so she was spiritually feeling like crap. I would reply with baby your a good girl you don’t party you don’t act like your a good mom you work and have goals in mind. You have a future unlike anyone I’ve met. She still wanted God in the center of us. I did shove that aside. So that night I went home after work I prayed to God watched that online sermon and begged for forgiveness from God for my mistakes. Before I went to bed I felt at peace I Texted her saying she was right about the breakup how sorry I was to try and rekindle everything. How dumb I was to be selfish and not think of her baby girl who will always be first. I told her if it’s Gods will we will come back in eachothers lives if not it is what it is. I didn’t expect a text back or anything but she did reply she said thank you so much Andre I really appreciate that and that she prays God holds me in his arms in this time of heartache and although she’s going through a tough time she knows how tough it is for me. Then she just said be blessed. I replied back 4 hours later sent her a sermon because it had to do with a lady who would question God why her, why would God punish her with a autistic child. Then she realized that she was blessed with that child and she would do everything in her power to take care of him. So I sent that soon after I asked one day do you mind if we can read the Bible together. No reply. So that was the last time I’ve tried contacting her. I’ve been going to church stopped drinking, cursing. I’m attempting to change my life around not for her but for me.

admin

March 13, 2015 at 3:49 pm

Hi Andre, I suggest checking out my other site, Ex Girlfriend Recovery.
Andre

March 9, 2015 at 1:01 am

I’m tired of believing in my self tired of being lonely I want God in my life more I want to believe in God. So I’m letting that happen. I really feel that she was the one I was meant for so I’m doing the no contact for a little over 30 days until her birthday which is April 8th. Can I please get some advice on what you think. I honestly love her care for her dearly. Thank you for taking the time out of your day for reading this book

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