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Minnie
April 24, 2015 at 6:47 pm
How to talk with him again?
Hi, Chris
I have done the full no contact and now I am at the texting period to get him back. But how can I talk with him naturally? I mean whenever I send him a message, he replies, in a positive way I think. However the conversation is often like: I ask -> he answers, I say something -> he says somethings like yeah, yes.. He rarely asks me about something. It seems like he doesn’t want to expend the conversation. You know being in a conversation like that can make him tired. Maybe I should change the way I talk right? But how?
Is there hope?
April 24, 2015 at 5:43 pm
That was me! I have remained in NC and my ex has contacted me six days in a row! Now his mom is in the ICU and I wish I could reach out and say something. I don’t want to seem heartless. What’s the protocol on this?
Chris Seiter
April 24, 2015 at 11:09 pm
Unfortunately you have to stay put…
Brigid
April 23, 2015 at 8:23 pm
Chris-
Boyfriend of 5 years just broke up with me. We work together.
I haven’t done nc because we are still getting our things back from each other.
I was very emotional when it went down.
Currently focusing on myself, gym, goals, etc.
His reason for breaking up was that we were too routine and I stressed him out.
Do I nc him? Do we have a chance?
We had 5 very good years together.
Chris Seiter
April 24, 2015 at 10:43 pm
You can still do NC..
You are allowed to break NC for an exchange of stuff.
Jannah J.
April 23, 2015 at 5:44 am
Side note: that end of the episode haha! I literally exploded into laughter while listening and analyzed my feelings (taking into account what I have read from your book and articles). Good job, and I didn’t expect your elaboration on that as well (which made me happy because I sort of accepted that “end” of the episode). Now I see what you’re showing us haha!
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 1:04 pm
Haha PHEW I was beginning to worry no one would listen all the way to the end.