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sherry
April 21, 2015 at 6:35 pm
well what if you sleep with you ex, and you find out he is sleeping with someone else too? After NC, he was hitting me up all the way until 2am everyday for a week, all day we would text, from morning till night. He did tell me though we would not get back together, and that he’s gone a few dates with another girl. But one night, I ignored him and told him I had company (which I lied), and a few days later he did the same thing to me. But my friend who is his roommate, said yah some girl left his room. I don’t want to be the other woman. I need to have some respect for myself. What do I do now other than NC? don’t you think with 30 days without hearing from me he will have more time to get closer to her? how do you know when to walk away?
Sherry
April 23, 2015 at 1:16 am
Well opposite would be NC. Staying and being the side chick isn’t getting me anywhere. Everything u say works, reverse phycology especially. But at this point, I feel like he doesn’t deserve me. NC is the only way to show that right?
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 12:06 am
Ok, lets say you take the opposite approach…
What can you do other than what you are already doing to get him back?
Sunny
April 21, 2015 at 6:32 pm
Hi Chirs,
We had been together for 2 years and break up since Jan. I don’t like to talk about it, but 2 months after break up I had sex with him although I knew he was chasing another girl but she refused him. I thought that it would give me chance to make him back, but I was wrong. We met at my house and he was the person who initiate. After that, he just said that he wasn’t ready at the moment and he needed more time. Anyway, I could feel at the moment, his feeling was true and he didn’t use me at all. Then I applied a full no contact and when I contact him again, I have some positive replies, I think. Can I say that he still has feeling for me deeply in his heart?
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 12:05 am
I think he still has feelings but getting him back is more about just him having feelings, you know?
Sunny
April 21, 2015 at 6:32 pm
Hi Chirs,
We had been together for 2 years and break up since Jan. I don’t like to talk about it, but 2 months after break up I had sex with him although I knew he was chasing another girl but she refused him. I thought that it would give me chance to make him back, but I was wrong. We met at my house and he was the person who initiate. After that, he just said that he wasn’t ready at the moment and he needed more time. Anyway, I could feel at the moment, his feeling was true and he didn’t use me at all. Then I applied a full no contact and when I contact him again, I have some positive replies, I think. Can I say that he still has feeling for me deeply in his heart?
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 12:05 am
I think he still has feelings but getting him back is more about just him having feelings, you know?
mumal
April 21, 2015 at 1:01 pm
Hey chris i need ur help me and my bf brokeup and i did nc rule of 30 days but i brokeup my rule on 26 day bcoz of his.birthday he askd me for gift on his birthday to met him aftr nc rule it was 3rd day he said he wana have sex but i refused and said hm i wont met hm then he said to have phone sex its my birthday plz plz he just was aftr me clng me textng me again and again so i did phone sex with hm aftrwards when he get everything he was behavng same as he did before i mean when v brokeup but in nc rule he was mad at me talk to me cl me al the time but bcoz of sex he is thnkng i wil nevr leave hm should i do nc rule again to get hm bck? plz plz i want hm bck he is love of my life never thought this wil happen to me i have done a biggest mistake of my life plz help me what to do next i knw u r a busy man helpng every1 plz plz help me out
mumal
April 26, 2015 at 7:02 am
Hi chris im so happy my bf brokeup with that girl OMG its my luck as kie and sahara were 🙂 as u said me to have a friendzone with him i did. He said me sorry and said me i broke your heart thats y she did and al that come back to me i said him we just friends then he said i knw only you can help me to heal my heart i knw i dunt deserve u me give mdd atleast mone chance to make u my queen. I Said him your heart is broken thats y u just mneed me just to make your self happy he said no you are mine and plz dont psay we are friends u r my gf i wil anything and al that just bcoz of her i left you i wil do anything to win u back just give me a chance he said i cant say we wil Marpry or nt but i wil be a aabest aaf for you. Chris i want him back want ggim to mMarry me i knw he is felng gulity right mnow bbut stil i need to do sth to make this bonding tite i mean help mdd that he chase mdd i want him back but i thnk he is so gud with mdd bcoz he brokup wgggth her now now i Really need wyour help. Best part me and my bf talk with me whole night he pqi Really love the way he talk and its just bcoz of you thankyou CHRIS TTHANKYOU SO MUCH 🙂 STIL need wyour help should i do friendzone qstil ? what to do next guide me everything plz 🙂
mumal
April 25, 2015 at 1:12 pm
Chris friend zone you mean i should only be a friend with him? Hmm wil it work i mean to get him bck. If he said me again for sex then or if he said mdd that i love you and al that so should i say hm we are just freinds ? I M Afraid i wil get him back na. Chris i did again NC RULE WITH him. I should break my NC RULE and contact him first and then do friends zone ? I Really love him want him and i m in NC RULE again as back plz help me out
mumal
April 24, 2015 at 11:08 am
Chris plz reply me i need your help. Aftr nc rule as i tld u i had sex with hm on phone so aftwards his behavior was like he has contrl on me and he was thnkng what he wants i wil do so i said u r nt changd u dunt cre for any1 we wil nt talk agagain and said bye. he did nt reply me and i did NC RULE. but its my 3rd day of Nc rule he didnt textd me nor msg. tensed what wil happen did he left me or he love that girl more then me iits my 2nd NC RULE. bcoz the first 1 i brokeup on 26 day bcoz of its birthday and have ppsex so aftr reading your page i thought doing NC RULE wil be good over here. m i doing p right i love hm chris only u cn help me i have done alot of msgs to u even voicemails also plz reply me what to do
mumal
April 23, 2015 at 6:18 pm
Sorry i knw its my mistake had sex with him and u r against it. But u have solutions. I have strong believe in you. i have done Nc rule agan and its my 3rd yet he didnt reply me nor msg or cl ntng. What to do now m gh doing everything pryte chris. U Havda helpd every1 plz help me i m in a realtionshp with ghim since 8years i Really jlove hm my love story is since my schol life but i dunt knw what happend and he just found a grl and was in a prealtionshp with her and with me also i want hm badly plz dunt ignore my textes seriously i need your help. Have textd alot tel me a way i knw u dunt ignore textes u have tonnes of text to preply and i m happy u atleastd reply me and wil help me to get him back. Im sure u wil help me thankyou 🙂
Chris Seiter
April 24, 2015 at 10:40 pm
Friend zone him immeidately.
mumal
April 23, 2015 at 6:07 pm
Chris not fought just got angry and said hm u r nt chnged u r same 1month be4 and when i talk with u aftr 1month just for ur birthday u askd me for sex. Wil never talk with u and do what ever u wana do with that grl bye i said him and then in Nc rule again. Iif i would nt send this msg to hm he wil thnk i m stil thnkng about hm thats y i did this my first Nc rule was awesome but just because of gft he askd sex as i tld u everything wwent on the first stage where i left hm i mean im chaseng hm and hhe is rude thats y i did this IS my Nc Rule In this time i mean in this is ok to do again as u said to restrt the button. Aftr sex as he was same ignorng me nt exactly ignoring but he was doing same was thnking i m in his control he was nt achasing want hm bck CHRIS PLZ HELP ME. i m doing NC RULE AGAIN is this mmohk here
mumal
April 23, 2015 at 4:52 am
Hi chris i Really need ur help plz plz reply me. Aftr breakup i had nc rule of 26 days as i tld u y i broke the rule. Then aftr breakng nc rule had sex and i felt he is with sum1 else stil but he said no i want u i have strong felng he is lieng be4 a month v brokup bcoz of that grl how is this possible he jleft that grl. bcoz i knw when ever he doanything he always tel me what happened even if i m nt talking so i m sure stil he is with that grl. My question is should i do again a Nc RULE here. I fought with hm to just do NC RULE again. bcoz my first NC RULE OF 26 DAYS WENT AWESOME and even first msg also but because of his birthday v had sex everything went wrong. I have told u eeverything shortly bcoz i have textd alot of times to you didn’t get reply i knw u pq a bur
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 1:07 pm
What do you mean you fought with him to do a NC rule again?
Chris Seiter
April 21, 2015 at 6:01 pm
Wait… he asked you on his birthday for a gift?
mumal
April 21, 2015 at 1:01 pm
Hey chris i need ur help me and my bf brokeup and i did nc rule of 30 days but i brokeup my rule on 26 day bcoz of his.birthday he askd me for gift on his birthday to met him aftr nc rule it was 3rd day he said he wana have sex but i refused and said hm i wont met hm then he said to have phone sex its my birthday plz plz he just was aftr me clng me textng me again and again so i did phone sex with hm aftrwards when he get everything he was behavng same as he did before i mean when v brokeup but in nc rule he was mad at me talk to me cl me al the time but bcoz of sex he is thnkng i wil nevr leave hm should i do nc rule again to get hm bck? plz plz i want hm bck he is love of my life never thought this wil happen to me i have done a biggest mistake of my life plz help me what to do next i knw u r a busy man helpng every1 plz plz help me out
mumal
April 26, 2015 at 7:02 am
Hi chris im so happy my bf brokeup with that girl OMG its my luck as kie and sahara were 🙂 as u said me to have a friendzone with him i did. He said me sorry and said me i broke your heart thats y she did and al that come back to me i said him we just friends then he said i knw only you can help me to heal my heart i knw i dunt deserve u me give mdd atleast mone chance to make u my queen. I Said him your heart is broken thats y u just mneed me just to make your self happy he said no you are mine and plz dont psay we are friends u r my gf i wil anything and al that just bcoz of her i left you i wil do anything to win u back just give me a chance he said i cant say we wil Marpry or nt but i wil be a aabest aaf for you. Chris i want him back want ggim to mMarry me i knw he is felng gulity right mnow bbut stil i need to do sth to make this bonding tite i mean help mdd that he chase mdd i want him back but i thnk he is so gud with mdd bcoz he brokup wgggth her now now i Really need wyour help. Best part me and my bf talk with me whole night he pqi Really love the way he talk and its just bcoz of you thankyou CHRIS TTHANKYOU SO MUCH 🙂 STIL need wyour help should i do friendzone qstil ? what to do next guide me everything plz 🙂
mumal
April 25, 2015 at 1:12 pm
Chris friend zone you mean i should only be a friend with him? Hmm wil it work i mean to get him bck. If he said me again for sex then or if he said mdd that i love you and al that so should i say hm we are just freinds ? I M Afraid i wil get him back na. Chris i did again NC RULE WITH him. I should break my NC RULE and contact him first and then do friends zone ? I Really love him want him and i m in NC RULE again as back plz help me out
mumal
April 24, 2015 at 11:08 am
Chris plz reply me i need your help. Aftr nc rule as i tld u i had sex with hm on phone so aftwards his behavior was like he has contrl on me and he was thnkng what he wants i wil do so i said u r nt changd u dunt cre for any1 we wil nt talk agagain and said bye. he did nt reply me and i did NC RULE. but its my 3rd day of Nc rule he didnt textd me nor msg. tensed what wil happen did he left me or he love that girl more then me iits my 2nd NC RULE. bcoz the first 1 i brokeup on 26 day bcoz of its birthday and have ppsex so aftr reading your page i thought doing NC RULE wil be good over here. m i doing p right i love hm chris only u cn help me i have done alot of msgs to u even voicemails also plz reply me what to do
mumal
April 23, 2015 at 6:18 pm
Sorry i knw its my mistake had sex with him and u r against it. But u have solutions. I have strong believe in you. i have done Nc rule agan and its my 3rd yet he didnt reply me nor msg or cl ntng. What to do now m gh doing everything pryte chris. U Havda helpd every1 plz help me i m in a realtionshp with ghim since 8years i Really jlove hm my love story is since my schol life but i dunt knw what happend and he just found a grl and was in a prealtionshp with her and with me also i want hm badly plz dunt ignore my textes seriously i need your help. Have textd alot tel me a way i knw u dunt ignore textes u have tonnes of text to preply and i m happy u atleastd reply me and wil help me to get him back. Im sure u wil help me thankyou 🙂
Chris Seiter
April 24, 2015 at 10:40 pm
Friend zone him immeidately.
mumal
April 23, 2015 at 6:07 pm
Chris not fought just got angry and said hm u r nt chnged u r same 1month be4 and when i talk with u aftr 1month just for ur birthday u askd me for sex. Wil never talk with u and do what ever u wana do with that grl bye i said him and then in Nc rule again. Iif i would nt send this msg to hm he wil thnk i m stil thnkng about hm thats y i did this my first Nc rule was awesome but just because of gft he askd sex as i tld u everything wwent on the first stage where i left hm i mean im chaseng hm and hhe is rude thats y i did this IS my Nc Rule In this time i mean in this is ok to do again as u said to restrt the button. Aftr sex as he was same ignorng me nt exactly ignoring but he was doing same was thnking i m in his control he was nt achasing want hm bck CHRIS PLZ HELP ME. i m doing NC RULE AGAIN is this mmohk here
mumal
April 23, 2015 at 4:52 am
Hi chris i Really need ur help plz plz reply me. Aftr breakup i had nc rule of 26 days as i tld u y i broke the rule. Then aftr breakng nc rule had sex and i felt he is with sum1 else stil but he said no i want u i have strong felng he is lieng be4 a month v brokup bcoz of that grl how is this possible he jleft that grl. bcoz i knw when ever he doanything he always tel me what happened even if i m nt talking so i m sure stil he is with that grl. My question is should i do again a Nc RULE here. I fought with hm to just do NC RULE again. bcoz my first NC RULE OF 26 DAYS WENT AWESOME and even first msg also but because of his birthday v had sex everything went wrong. I have told u eeverything shortly bcoz i have textd alot of times to you didn’t get reply i knw u pq a bur
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 1:07 pm
What do you mean you fought with him to do a NC rule again?
Chris Seiter
April 21, 2015 at 6:01 pm
Wait… he asked you on his birthday for a gift?