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Hopeful
April 11, 2017 at 12:30 am
I messed up, again. Tried doing NC for the second time and caved after twelve days. First time I caved after nine. He reached out to me with him initiating conversation for the first time late last night, asking me why I friended a female friend of his since they were both suspicious of my intentions, when I just wanted to befriend her. I ended up unfriending her after that, and told him that I was hurt that was the only reason he’d been prompted to initiate conversation first since the break up. He admitted to just wanting his answer. I asked him if I bother him, and he said no, then I told him I don’t know how much space/contact he wants and he stopped replying.
I feel like I’ve messed up too much at this point for things to work enough for us to even be friends. On Easter it’ll have been a month since he broke up with me, and I’m worried that NC won’t help.
Hopeful
April 14, 2017 at 3:34 am
Thank you for your patience.
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 16, 2017 at 8:09 am
You’re welcome! 🙂
Hopeful
April 12, 2017 at 2:41 am
How many days of NC do you think would be best?
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 13, 2017 at 5:02 pm
stick to at least 30 days.
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 11, 2017 at 10:10 pm
well, it’s either you stick to nc or move on
Alice
April 10, 2017 at 5:00 pm
Hi Chris
What if you slept with him then begged him to take you back but wanted you to be his booty call and declined then blocked him and did no contact? I’m 25 days on no contact and he seems to be avoiding me strong like building a taller well he looks at me as if I disgust him., cause of break up it’s I cheated.
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 10, 2017 at 8:53 pm
I think you need to do at least 45… and if the past days were not focused in improving yourself and being active in social media posting, restart the count.