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1,959 thoughts on “Why Is My Ex Boyfriend Always Ignoring Me?”

  1. Sel

    June 17, 2014 at 6:45 pm

    Thank you for your website!!!!!!!!!!! – I read everything and it really helps me think level headed!!!!!!! Here is my heart wrenching story, I relocated to be with my BF – we talked marriage, etc. Lack of communication between us- we kept going back and forth with one another in the relationship (4 years) – I wanted to work things out, but he didn’t. Told me he doesn’t feel the same about me anymore. Things got ugly – yes, I did the non-stop calling – terrible emails – I begged – cried because I was in shock and couldn’t believe what he was telling me. I stopped completely; it’s been 1 month (NC). I found out he was conversing with someone online (dating website) while we were back and forth. Now, he is seeing her. She lives 4 hrs away, but he has been flying her in on the weekends. Well, he never flew me in, I lived further away and drove. Plus, I relocated my whole life. Are you kidding me? I am livid and shocked. I cannot move away and the town I live in now is very small. He sent me an email 6/1 regarding business and questions he already knows the answers too – I ignored the email and never responded – he responded back with another email with questions 6/2 & 6/3, still I did not respond. After our bashing with one another at the end of April, he told me, he just wanted to date other women – he wanted to give it a couple of months. It got more nasty, then he said, 6 months. I’m shocked!! Hopefully this situation he’s in with his new GF – green is not greener on the other side!!!!!!!!! I am avoiding all the places where he goes. The last time I saw him was in April. My question, is this considered as a rebound relationship? Maybe his emotions left while he was with me. I know through sources, she has been here twice – and he visited her twice. The online conversing started end of March. They met face to face end of April. Now, it’s June 17th. Must still be on the honeymoon stage. It’s tough for me to deal with. I am having a tough time moving on because I don’t have any friends here.

  2. Julie

    June 17, 2014 at 12:41 pm

    And what if he really doesn’t want anyhing with you but didn’t have a bad break up though? Is there any hope then? how you approach that?

  3. MateyaBaby

    June 11, 2014 at 9:51 pm

    Well my boyfriend blocked me and hasn’t even made effort to reach reach in two weeks and 4 days so today I made a text app number one he has and it showed me he read it but he hasn’t responded I love him but I feel he is done what should I do?

    1. admin

      June 15, 2014 at 3:11 pm

      You should read my article on blocking.

    2. MateyaBaby

      June 11, 2014 at 9:56 pm

      Btw this is the guy that when he said goodmorning I said it back and two hours later he didn’t Say anything which he couLd have been sleep or with his son Since he works a lot of doubles and overnights So when he didn’t respond I spazzed I texted him back to back to back all saturday all sunday and all monday and he dIdn’t respond to any of that and so then I started to call back to back and he blocked me I only did it to get a Response which I now know wasn’t the right thing To do also this was a distant relationship he pursued I moved from ny to ga which I go back often and he Said regardless of the distance he wanted to be with me now I feel like he is officially gone I tried no contact lasted 8 days till today when I made the text app… any advice will help.. I don’t wanna lose him.

  4. Candice

    May 27, 2014 at 12:13 pm

    Hey Chris,
    now there is this guy that I know from 6 years and, first we were really close friends and then became best friends, until 2 years back we fell in love, I felt that he really did love me, but then he broke up (he did not tell me the reason why) and we fought then stopped talking for 4 months. Then I talked to him and told him that “we know each other for a long time…and lets remain friends”, anyways he now is away for his university in another country and we still talk, but he’s not talking like he used to and I still love him. He responds to my messages, and when I tell him “I miss you”, he says “me too”, but sometimes when I do he ignores. And I want to know why is it that I’m always the one starting a conversation, and he never does? He does but very rarely. I stopped talking for 2 weeks then he did.. and when he talks I don’t feel like we’re close like before, I want to also know how can I get him closer to me like before as friends..or more..
    Thank you. šŸ™‚

  5. Lucy

    May 3, 2014 at 3:05 pm

    HI Chris,

    Please,please help me! so I’m going to write my problem as short as possible but please reply. So my boyfriend and i just broke up two days ago and he said it’s because i work too much and i’m never home because of that (i work night shifts 4 days a week), i’m always mad and we fight too much. However, i don’t want to make excuses, he did tell me about me being mad all the time and I was aware that we were fighting a lot but when we first moved into our apartment, it was my first time handling my bills on my own.(almost two months at our new place) so i was stressed out. He gets a little help from his parents. He never mentioned that I worked too much though. Anyways, when he first broke it off with me, I was trying to get him to stay home and talk to me but he refused and left. I have not texted or called him at all since the break up. The next day, I tried to talk to him while he was sitting on the couch, and he did not want to listen to what I have to say and left the apartment again. He tells me “I’m done” and he is the kind of person that when he says No, he means no. However, I can see it in his face, that he’s hurting, too! I spoke with my boss the day after the break up and I was able to cut one day (work only 3 days) and only do morning shifts instead of night shifts. I was approved so now I’m going to be home more often. He wants us to go our separate ways by June 15. So, I don’t know what to do. How can I win him back? I’ve tried to tell him this is an obstacle in the relationship, and this will make us stronger. I’ve told him I’m willing to change and his response was “good, change for yourself, I’m done”. I’m running out of options and time. People are telling me to be extremely patient but it’s hard when I feel like there is absolutely no hope. He doesn’t even want to look at me. He doesn’t sleep in the room anymore, either. I forgot to mention, we got into a huge fight 3 days before we broke up. It was the biggest fight we’ve ever been in and I ended up leaving and staying at a friends house. He was furious about that. We didn’t talk the next day. When I got home from work the next day at midnight, I asked him if he was ready to talk, he said no. Then he broke up with me the two days after. I’m not sure if he’s just trying to punish me for what I did and been doing or if he’s being serious. I’m really hoping that he’s just upset right now and we’ll be able to talk about it later, but he seems really serious. I’m going to give him a week to cool down and try to talk to him one time, but I need your opinion, Chris.

    Overall, what can I do to save our relationship? PLEASE help me!

  6. Jane

    May 3, 2014 at 8:19 am

    Hey Chris,
    My ex broke up with me about a year back, but he told me he still wanted to be friends since he wasn’t ready to completely lose me . Ever since then every opportunity he gets he tells me that he dsnt love me at all, and that we are never ever getting back together . Needless to say I’ve done practically everything , agreed to everything he says , I tried the no contact rule but he kept messaging me and he got very agitated when I didn’t reply to a few of those messages , he threatened to block me , so I gave in and replied saying that I was tied up with some work ,.
    I really need ur help! Please tell me if I should try the no contact rule again , or should I jus pretend to not be so much in love with him šŸ™ !!
    Desperate need of some advice !

    1. admin

      May 6, 2014 at 6:54 pm

      How long did you last in the initial NC?

    2. Jane

      May 7, 2014 at 3:47 am

      About a week ,, he starts calling and continuously texting me after that ,
      What should I do ?

  7. Janet

    April 29, 2014 at 9:58 pm

    This guy and I have been dating on and off for about a year and a half. He is 23 and I’m 22. We started unconventionally and not morally I guess you could say. We were both in 6 year realtionships when we met each other but emotions got strong and we both had a hard time ending our relationships. Well anyways.. That’s a brief bit.. He’s had a hard time dealing with the guilt of hurting his ex girlfriend… Or that’s what he says. So we’ve gone back and forth because he’s been honest about not thinking getting back into another relationship this quickly sounds like a good idea. They broke up in August and my ex and I after trying to work things out again ended officially in November. He has now moved on.
    The past two months we started talking again and hanging out. At one point in our relationship he told me he fell in love with me, and has said it quite a few times since. But we’ve still been back and forth. I get overly emotional and pushy about making a commitment even though I know he’s been honest about not being ready for one yet. That’s my fault.. Anyways, about a month ago we sat down and had the talk about what this was and we both agreed we’re progressing and we would be on the dating level… But we weren’t committing to anything just yet because we’re still figuring out exactly what we want. Things were going very well, I got a bad stomach flu and about a month ago he went out with the guys one night and just stopped answering me all evening. I told him nicely that it bothers me when he does that and I’d much rather him just tell me he would text me tomorrow if he was busy with the guys. He ignored my text but was still sitting on instagram all day. Eventually I texted and asked it there was a reason he was ignoring me and he told me sorry I’ve been sleeping and laying around all hungover, yet… he was on instagram. I got a little upset and got overly emotional and gave him a piece of my mind about how he just can’t keep his stuff together for longer than 2 months with me before he starts doing things that irritate me and he knows irritate me. I was frustrated after our good conversation about progressing and finally moving forward but I feel like when he does stuff like this and I know he’s not being completely honest about why he doesn’t respond to me it makes me feel like he’s about to pull the same stuff on me he always used to. Itold him I needed some space.. Space for me, isn’t long. I just need time to cool off so maybe that wasn’t the best choice of words..
    But the next day I told him I was stuck at home again sick from work and asked him to come over he said he couldn’t because a friend from LA was coming into town. We didn’t speak the rest of the day into Sunday. On Sunday I asked him to call me when he had some time. He never responded. Next day, I see him on instagram again so he’s ignoring me once again. And I get upset and say that I’m not sure what happened but things were going well after our conversation but I’m not sure why he’s ignoring me.. and asked what was going on. He did not respond. Later that evening he texts me and says that he will talk to me tomorrow. I Just say alright.
    The next day I do not hear from him and I’m on my way out with some gf so I briefly asked when I should be expecting to talk… Since I was going out if it was going to be later I would of just said let’s do t tomorrow. He doesn’t respond. I go out and have quite a bit too much to drink and call him late. He answers the phone and I begin literally yelling at him. Of which I don’t recall the entire conversation.. But I remember asking about 4 times at the end do you just want effing out and he just said yes and hung up. I tried callilng back way too many times while intoxicated, and he texts me to say that he’s done talking to me that night because I’m drunk.
    I wake up in the morning completely humiliated for my actions and text him to apologize and ask if we can get together or something because after a heated conversation like that I wanted to know if he really meant he wanted out.. no response which wasn’t so surprising after how I acted. (This was a Wednesday morning). I don’t try to contact him again till Friday and just explain how humiliated I am and how I spoke to him was completely unacceptable and uncalled for and if the damage is done I understand but I just need to know if we can work this out or if he meant what he said. I hear nothing.. Sunday I call him and I basically tell him that the silence is really painful. Any type of response would feel better even if it’s not entirely something I want to hear. He doesn’t respond..
    Later that Monday I get a text saying he needs time and space, that I’ve always been sweet to him and he cares about me but it’s hard for him to be with me (which he’s expressed before a concern that we would cheat on each other since we did it with each other). I just told him I can respect that and I think time and space would do us both some good right now because I’m not sure what I want either but I feel that we should still be respectful to each other and I apologized again for how I acted. He responded that he feels we have stong emotions flowing between the two of us and it makes it hard to think clearly in the situation… he accepted my apology and apologized for giving me silence for the few days he had. I said I appreciated the apology because it wasn’t easy on me. But that we can just give it some time.

    Thursday I ran into him at school and he acted normal, asked for a hug asked how my week was what I was up to, if I had any plans this weekend, commented on my dress, a photo i had posted the other day.. And I was a bit thrown because with space I didn’t know whether we should be having a normal 15 minute conversation. But either way.. Conversation went well.. The weekend past and something I saw online began to eat at me. I took from what he said that this space was time he needed to figure out what he wants with US.. I began to wonder if he wanted time to just see someone else. So I texted him Sunday afternoon and explained how I took what he said when he asked or space and asked if he wanted it because he wanted to see someone else because that would just make a difference on what I was doing. Since I was trying to take this time to figure out what I wanted with him. He never responded.
    He walked by me at school in the library Monday with a big smile on his face and waved at me on his way out to go to class like he hadn’t just been blowing me off. I was enraged by the situation. I gave him a dirty look and I could see his response as like ā€œwowā€. I looked down then looked back up and he was still looking at me as he walked by. I controlled my impluses from contacting him… Till I woke up at 4 am this morning unable to sleep.
    I expressed my noticing that he was surprised at my reaction and I said that he had just apologized for ignoring me and then doesn’t answer my text when I just needed some clarity for one thing but I was respecting his space otherwise obviously… But that I was disgusted and it was insulting that he can wave and smile as if it was good to see me like he hadn’t just blown me off once again. He never responded.
    With my inability to sleep I woke up early and went to a beach he showed me so I could take photos of the surfers. Since that’s usually how I relax when I need to, photography or beach. I looked around and did not see his car there, so I continued down the stairs. Eventually I see him out in the water and choose to walk towards the other group of surfers. I leave before he gets out of the water… But I know he saw me leave.
    I post photos on my instagram of some I edited from this morning. He likes every single photo I have posted but chooses to not answer me. I’m pretty much mind boggled.
    I’m aware I over did it a week or so ago but I gave him space and respected his wishes, I feel. But I don’t understand if he’s just going to ignore my texts why he wouldn’t ignore me all around then. I’m frustrated and I don’t know how to handle the situation. I haven’t tried to contact him since this AM (Tuesday). And I don’t plan on it either but I want to know what’s going on..

  8. Lynndy

    April 29, 2014 at 1:40 am

    Chris,
    I did NC 30 day during which he text once. To make long story short we talked, got a first date was great, he asked for 2nd date same evening for the following Friday. That date was a lil awkward but he kissed me. Then before I could contain myself I asked something that sparked a disagreement. It all went down hill from there. After that we sent eachother mean texts & told eachother we never wanted to to hear from one another again. I sent a couple texs saying I was sorry a couple days later but he never responded that was 3 days ago. I can’t believe I ruined it all & now I’m afraid there’s no way it can be repaired I’m afraid he hates me & will never talk to me again. I’m worst off now then ever… Help!

    1. admin

      April 30, 2014 at 1:13 am

      Why do you think he hates you?

  9. Tanvi

    April 27, 2014 at 4:53 pm

    Hey Chris ,
    I’m currently in the NC phase ,, but my ex keeps texting me . Recently he left his job and he called me up a couple of times , which I didn’t answer . Then he sent a text saying that he needs to talk so I called him back, that’s when he told me all this . I’m feeling really bad for him . Should I text him ? Pls advice
    Oh and yea, he saw me with my best friend, who’s a guy, saying “I said hi to your boy ” ., I don’t know what that meant ..

    What do u suggest I do ?

  10. Artemis

    April 27, 2014 at 1:53 am

    So I bit the bullet and sent the first text after over 30 days NC…its been 2 hours without a response. I was all excited thinking I could do the waiting game on him, but he’s the one keeping me hanging on the edge of my seat. I know he was online and available, but still…nothing. I sent: “Hey, guess what!” to tell him about an exciting new job I have. Was that a bad game plan?

    1. admin

      April 28, 2014 at 4:19 pm

      don’t panic…

      Your text was kind of weak. There is not enough intrigue.

    2. Artemis

      May 5, 2014 at 3:03 pm

      So when he did respond it was about him shipping my stuff to me. He ignored the original message I sent him completely. However, he plans on photographing every single item I have and I can pick and choose what he sends etc. I thought that was thoughtful, but it still hurts. I hinted in the next message that he can ship my stuff to where I am staying for my new job, which just happens to be across the country, close to him again! He hasn’t responded yet (its been two days). Part of why our relationship failed was because we are two different nationalities and it put pressure on where we can live. Now I’ll be just across the border. What should my next move be? He’s being very business-like about all this but I want to break down his barriers.

  11. Nika

    April 23, 2014 at 2:02 am

    Hi Chris,

    I am at a really bad place in my life right now – I am really sick from a few chronic illnesses and am requiring surgery in a few days (im 33) This is just to preface…So an ex I hadn’t talked to in 2 years had recently started texting me again (february, march, april) and saying he wants to see me and he can help me after my surgery. Since we were friendly again I send him a text and a picture….this was maybe 2 or so weeks since I talked to him last. He sends a weird text back stating I cant send him pics or contact him because he now has a serious GF! It was a shock! How did he get into serious relationship in a few weeks after we had just talked about hanging out more maybe 2 weeks prior? I was so upset….then he started ignoring my texts today and I was so angry because I was just basically told he didnt want to talk to me anymore bc of his serious GF of 3 weeks! Of course I went against my better judgement and text him many times asking why he was acting that way and how mean it was…blah blah. So now I am all stressed out bc I let him get to me and I am so upset I reacted. What can I do at this point should I do NC for 30 days to try and wipe out my embarrassing desperate texts he ignored? Or should I just ditch him all together since he has his new GF?

    1. admin

      April 23, 2014 at 3:59 pm

      What do you think?

      Do you think he is worth the effort?

  12. Tani

    April 22, 2014 at 6:12 am

    Hey Chris ,
    Firstly I would really thank you for writing this page and replying to each and everyone’s comments ,it’s really commendable . This page has helped me a lot more than I could imagine .
    I’ve completed the NC period , but now that I have not spoken to him for a while, I can finally see things a bit more clearly.
    All this time when he yelled at me, called me sick names , I actually believed all the things that he said against me,.it was as if I had lost who I used to be and was trying to be more like what he wanted me to be .
    He is a good guy, there’s no doubt about that, but I don’t think I’m that horrible to go through all of that mental and physical stress (lost about 5kg’s since we broke up )
    So I would just really want to thank you !!
    Thank you for helping me gain perspective of who I am and I will always be grateful for all your help !!

  13. Car.

    April 21, 2014 at 10:10 pm

    Hey Chris, I’m seriously thinking about breaking the NC rule right now. It’s been 5 days. The only thing getting me is I regret the last thing I said to him. We’ve been broken up about a month. He broke up with me, but I understood why. I have a lot of insecurities from past relationships. We left it I would work on becoming more self confident & not as insecure.. He didn’t tell me he still cared just we would see about us when I was ok with me. 2 weeks ago he called me drunk & said he really did have feelings for me but we need to take it slow & when I’m better he’ll come back. He’s not good with expressing feelings so that was a big deal. He came over to my house the next day but said he didn’t remember the convo (pretty sure he did.) Anyway, we left the same way as before but he wanted to have sex. I know I shouldn’t have, and I regret it now, but at the time I wasn’t thinking it through (I’ve read your blog on why that’s bad.) I got really upset emotionally about it a couple days later & he said he wouldn’t have even asked if I knew I’d freak out. He said he wasn’t going to answer me anymore because it would help me to move on & figure myself out. I’d also made the mistake of telling him I got a singles account (I don’t even want it but my friends said it would distract me.) I became really paranoid that he’d think I was already moving on & trying to date again but that’s not even close. So long story short a week ago, I went to see him at work since we’re not talking any other way. Yes, it was kind of creeping I guess. But it’s a public place & not uncommon for me to stop by when we were dating.
    But this time, I saw him outside of the building with a girl. She was pretty physical with him, granted it was mostly her.. but he obviously was interested. I know I shouldn’t have done this, but I went up to him when she left. He was surprised and looked really guilty. He denied anything was going on and said he felt bad. But later he said he was just “doing” him & I needed to do the same. He said that’s why I shouldn’t show up at work & that maybe I should just get over him (instead of an extended break I guess.) It hurt a lot to see him with another girl & it just came out in anger. I told him I wished I never met him, he was a jerk, and I must’ve been delusional when I thought I loved him. Thats not true… At all. It looked like it hurt him. He’s really tried to work with me on my insecurities & given me several chances. Before we were dating he said that was the main reason he didn’t want to date me.. but I really pressured him. I know he has feelings for me but the timing was wrong. I pushed him away. I sent him a text saying I didn’t mean the stuff I said but he didn’t reply which I mostly knew he wouldn’t. SO.. now I’m freaking out and really want to send him a short text just letting him know I truly am sorry I said that. Technically we hadn’t been dating for a month so it’s not my business who he’s seeing. I’m afraid he’s so angry/frustrated with me now he’s just going to make up his mind to move on.. and cut ties with me. So after the NC time is over, what if it doesn’t even matter & he’s moved on? Maybe I should use this time to really get over him if there’s no chance in the future. You’ve said leaving stuff on a negative note is bad.. I really feel like I should text him but I don’t want to break NC if that’s just going to make it worse. Especially if he actually just thinks I’m crazy & wants me to go away now. Also.. I blocked him on Facebook because it just hurt knowing he was still around even if it’s just on social media… should I unblock him? I don’t know what to do. This is my first time writing on a blog! I think I’ve read almost all your posts, thanks for this site. I’m sorry this is so long!

    1. admin

      April 22, 2014 at 4:46 pm

      You can if you want.

    2. Car.

      April 23, 2014 at 2:15 pm

      Hey!
      Do you mean I can apologize again..?

      From your perspective, do you think that would mean anything to him at this point?

      I over think the crap out of everything.. I hate it. I don’t know if my judgement is clear right now.

      I don’t want to break NC if it’s going to make it worse.

      Thanks, I really appreciate it šŸ™‚

    3. Car.

      April 23, 2014 at 2:25 pm

      PS –

      I’ve been working on the “ungettable girl” status. I exercise almost every day, I’ve lost weight, whitening my teeth (they weren’t that bad.. :), and trying to be more social.

      (And some motivating audio books lol)

  14. joana

    April 19, 2014 at 9:40 pm

    so… i was in a relationship with a man 17years older than me… I used to work for him as an aupair.. i had to return to my country and told him i was travelling on vacation and to dearch for worck, to another country… all was ok..i messaged him, he messaged me.. until i got a angry message saying that if i was there with another guy to never talk to him again.. I was so furious that i told him he had a sick mind.. a fes days later, i told him that he thought so low of me to delete me from facebook, and so he did… after that i tried to message him and contact him…but he is ignoring me completely… he hasnt talked to me in 3 weeks already… i dont know what to do…
    he told me once that when he decides to step away, its definitive…

    1. admin

      April 20, 2014 at 3:50 am

      17 years older than you huh? Do you think the age difference bothers him? Do you think he is just using you?

  15. Barbara

    April 19, 2014 at 3:35 pm

    Great website Chris! Think I already know the answers to my questions, but I guess we all want some reassurance. I did No Contact for about 2 months. Thought for sure he would contact me first. (this is the 2nd time he broke up with me in the 3.5 years we’ve been together) Well his 50th birthday was coming so I sent him HB text – neutral response-thanks. A week later was his sobriety anniversary. Thought he’d be really impressed that I remembered. This time – thank you. I know these are not the kinds of texts that start conversations, but I was happy he didn’t block me or say leave me alone! So a couple of nights ago I was feeling really positive and decided to ask him if he wanted to get together sometime over Easter weekend for coffee or anything. I thought it was very casual and friendly. No response at all. So… do I wait a week and use a better opening text? Did I ruin things by asking him to get together before we had even a mini conversation?

    1. admin

      April 20, 2014 at 3:45 am

      Great comment Barbara!

      I think you went for the gold a little too fast. You didn’t prime him to ask him out did you?

    2. Barbara

      April 22, 2014 at 4:03 am

      No. But about 3 weeks into the break up, he showed up at my house unexpectedly. He came to bring back a tshirt I hadn’t even noticed was missing. He asked me then to go out to McDonalds for a shamrock shake. The whole thing was kind of creepy because I just came home late from work and was taking my trash cans to the back of the house. All of a sudden – he was there! It caught me off guard and I wasn’t ready to talk yet, so I said no. He told me he was coming back that weekend to get something, so I thought I’d have another chance. Never came back though. Think I’ve bee more emotional lately because of his birthday and Easter. Getting things back in perspective again. Thanks!

  16. Shayna

    April 14, 2014 at 11:19 pm

    My ex stopped by my house to say hi after a year of no contact (I broke up with him), then two weeks later sends nostalgic flirty texts and randomly visited me at work. I was approachable and replied but haven’t heard from him since, it’s weird. I don’t know what he’s thinking. Help?

  17. Rose

    April 12, 2014 at 8:52 pm

    I’m not even remotely ready for the reinitiating of contact yet, but what do you do if he doesn’t respond to this kind of message. Is that it? I feel like I’d have to wait another month before even trying again.

    1. admin

      April 13, 2014 at 4:40 pm

      No you wait a week and create a more complelling message.

  18. Kyrsten

    April 11, 2014 at 9:32 pm

    Hai Chris!

    My boyfriend and i broke up about two weeks ago and he said he wants to be friends but he totally just ignores the fact that i am totally alive. He says that he likes me and this other girl. Should i just give up or just maybe wait and see what happens. Btw i love this website.
    Thanks

  19. Tani

    April 9, 2014 at 3:04 pm

    Hey ,
    Me and my boyfriend broke up about a year back ..but we continued to remain friends, with the obvious regulars of me begging him to take me back n he always responding saying I messed it up and now he’s never going to get back with me ,.
    I was abused as a child,which I haven’t told him,.recently I tried talking to him about the both of us and he got angry saying I’m getting drama into his life and that it was torture ,.
    Do u think I should tell him about this or just let it go?
    The reason all this surfaced again is because it happened again and for some reason I still feel very much attached to him, like he might just save me or whatever ,,
    So please do reply ,, should I tell him or shouldn’t i ?

    1. Tani

      April 10, 2014 at 12:46 pm

      I’m scared how he might respond. He’s already apprehensive about meeting me , I don’t even know why I’m doing this now .

    2. admin

      April 10, 2014 at 2:15 am

      If you trust him completely I don’t see a bad reason not to tell him. It might even help to talk about it a little bit.

  20. tonya

    April 7, 2014 at 7:28 am

    Hi, its been a week since I broke up with my boyfriend. Until now, he haven’t reach out to me or tried to explain. I caught him cheating.
    I’m doing the no contact rule since the break up.
    What might the reason, he’s not reaching out?
    We’ve been together for almost a couple of years and we were almost living in together.
    Does he really don’t care or doesn’t love me anymore, that’s why he not doing any effort to explain and talk to me? Please reply. I badly need your opinion on this.
    Thanks and more power!

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