Understanding Why Your Ex Boyfriend Is Ignoring You- And How To Get Him To Stop

1,959 thoughts on “Why Is My Ex Boyfriend Always Ignoring Me?”

Sunny

December 11, 2014 at 9:13 pm

This guy had a thing for me for sixth months before approaching me.. We were on our way to relationship station & he lost interest.. I liked him SO much!!! Then his buddy started to show interest and began to pursue me., I was not interested in his buddy who was a jerk anyway.. After being stuck in this love triangle of nonsense for two months I walked away from both of them & totally ignored them both for 40 days… No text, no Facebook, no calls, no e-mails. Honestly… I wrote them both off! Two weeks ago, the jerk buddy got a girlfriend and first guy started to come around again.. (the one I really like)…

Slowly he has been posting things on Facebook he knows would get my attention.. He texted me on Thanksgiving… He showed up to a party last night he knew I would be at.. He said hi.. But things were awkward between us.. He said & did things he knew would get my attention.. (played Christmas carols on guitar… Swoon)

I am not sure if this guy is interested in me again or just wants to be friends… I would give him another shot but only if he wanted on.. How should I act? What should I do?

I am not sure if he is interested or just wants me back as a friend?!?

admin

December 15, 2014 at 5:22 am

The guy you like a lot. What signs has she shown that say he is interested in you?

Stephanie

December 10, 2014 at 9:20 pm

Me and my ex dated for four years previously. He goes on this cycle of wanting to break up almost every 6 months and then comes running back. We broke up a year and a half ago for what I thought was for good, he had left me for someone else. A few months into his other relationship he started messaging me to tell me how much he loved me and missed me and I blew him off. Well this summer we decided to reunite. It took me a while to let him in again and we moved in together shortly after I started getting my feelings back. Well about 3 weeks ago, while he was at work he texted me and told me “this isnt what he wanted”. I asked him if he was leaving me for someone else and he told me no. for the next week we stayed in contact. We are not friends on Facebook and he had me blocked right away, but I seen through the girls page that he was ALREADY in another relationship. Meaning he had probably been thinking about leaving me for her for quite a while. When I asked him again about her, he denied it. I told him I had proof, and he ignored me for about 12 hours, and the responded that he didn’t have an explanation. Well in the rage, I ended up telling him about some things that happened while we were broken up for a year. He was IRATE, even though I was single, and he had already moved on. He told me I was a whore, even though I was always faithful and he was the one that was cheating on me. He said he never wanted to hear from me again. He blocked my number and both him and his girlfriend blocked me. I am not necessarily saying I want him back since he has done this twice to me, but I do want to talk to him, he has been my best friend for the last 6 years. and also has some stuff that is mine at his place still. I apologized for my actions even though they were NOT DONE TO HIM. and still nothing, I guess I am at a loss of words trying to figure out what to do next, I cant imagine never talking to him ever again, even though he burned me so bad. And we live in a small town, I cant keep avoiding places I know he will be, it will drive me insane.

admin

December 15, 2014 at 5:09 am

That is a weird cycle… almost like he has a mid year crisis instead of a mid life one.

Have you done the NC yet?
Kristan Stopczynski

January 9, 2015 at 3:09 am

Admin I feel like these women are pouring there hearts out and ur not really saying anything orexplaing the situation. I respect what you wrote but your personLity in your replys don’t match.
admin

January 19, 2015 at 3:26 pm

Hahaha well you are right about one thing.

My replies are short because I have quite a few people begging for advice. Its kind of challenging to give everyone the attention they deserve.

Tiffani

December 8, 2014 at 8:18 pm

My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago and I was the one to break it off because of a medical issue he had and because he wouldn’t take responsibility for our son. We have dated almost two years. The whole time we have been broken up he has told me that he loves me and that he wants our family and that he wants to work things out with me. We had sex and then two days later he says that he doesn’t love me anymore and that he wants to just be friends with me for our son. That he doesn’t want anything else to do with me. I did overreact and was hysterical and asked him a bunch of questions about why and how? I found out that most of the time we were broken up he was putting his time and money into another women who is 8 years older than he is and that he had been staying with her, even though almost every day he would tell me that he loved me and wanted me and my son. His new girlfriend has claimed to have a restraining order against me and stalking charges because I try to get him to come see his son. My ex has refused me when I have thrown myself at him and does not contact me for anything. I only contact him for my sons purposes but I really really want to get back with him not only for our sons sake but because I do love him. How do I handle this situation? Will he realize what he has lost or miss us? How do I do the no contact rule when we have a child together? What do I do? Please help

admin

December 9, 2014 at 1:19 pm

Have you implemented NC on him. Something tells me it will be effective on him especially.
Tiffani

December 9, 2014 at 8:38 pm

I am trying that right now and to be honest I am impatient and I am trying to get back with him quickly for the benefit of our son but I do know that things take time. The thing is is that his friends and his girlfriends family all say that they are in love and that they just clicked when they met. His girlfriend has claimed that she isnt going anywhere and they go do things all the time. He hardly ever comes to see his son and I am pregnant again with his child and she doesnt know. I think she is doing it to keep him busy so he cant come see us and he acts like he has so much fun with her by the pictures that she takes and posts on facebook. I think she is doing it on purpose but I dont know for sure. He doesnt want to do things with us and doesnt ask us to go do anything with him. I mean I am trying to be the ungettable girl and trying to not think about him but its hard when we have a son and another one on the way. I dont know for sure if NC will work honestly. Is there anything else that would possibly work?
Tiffani

December 9, 2014 at 8:43 pm

What should I do if he continues his relationship with his girlfriend and doesnt come around or act like he wants to be here? Even after I tell him about our new bun in the oven?
admin

December 10, 2014 at 3:29 pm

Hmm… then you act like you dont want him to be around by moving on. Sometimes the best way to get an ex back is to move on… they usually come crawling back.
Tiffani

December 11, 2014 at 8:21 pm

I understand and I am trying to be the ungettable girl and not pay attention to him but his new girlfriend keeps posting things on Facebook about them two. Its like she never stops just so she can rub it in my face.
I just dont want him to think that since I am acting like I have moved on, that he thinks I dont care and that he just goes away completely. I dont want to miss the chance or misunderstand anything. How will I be able to tell if I have got his attention or that he is wanting to get back with me?
Tiffani

December 10, 2014 at 11:29 pm

I tried that yesterday. He came over to see his son and he was asking what days he could come see his son and I said whatever days we are home. I told him that I had plans for myself this weekend and with my son. He kept asking me what I was going to do and what I was going to do with my son and where he was going to be. Then today he said he was going to come by to see his son and he didnt show and the girl he has moved in with sent a message saying that she didnt think he was going to come by today. So I dont really know. Yesterday when we talked about everything he seemed bummed and that he did miss being with us and that it did hurt his feelings that we arent together, but I dont want to take it the wrong way if thats not what he meant. I mean he is spending time with this other girl and her family tonight when he said he would be here, I dont know if he is hurt or if he is just doing this to make me mad or what. I think he is trying to act out but idk. I dont want to think he is acting out when he really actually would rather be there. I dont want to get my hopes up and make the wrong decision or think we still have a chance when we really dont.
Tiffani

December 11, 2014 at 2:51 am

I just dont want to make the mistake of “moving on” and then him think that its completely over and just actually move on. I dont want to miss the chance and then not know its gone.

PluviaPolar

December 8, 2014 at 2:51 pm

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for exactly four months. One time when I was with him, he let me play his phone so I did. As curious as I am, I checked his gallery and saw pictures of his ex, and his bestfriend(which is a girl) and some were mine (only my back side).

I know I should be gotten mad at him but I did not. Becuz I didnt thought I should stirr things up for something like that. I wanted to be understanding. He does talk about how awesome his bestfriend was from time to time. I did not complain, i listened. Sometimes he wouod say, ‘I think she knows me more than you.’
He used to put my picture on his profile but deleted three weeks prior to our brake up. And he recently added his bestfriend on his new fb & never even added me on it.
However, as time went by… he begin to give me less and less attention. That was when the problems startEd to occour. I knew I was getting less attention so I wanted more of that. Tried my best… at the end he claimed that I was too attached and desperate. And broken up with me ttwo days ago.
I knew the answer but still wanting to know more like why? Whats holding me back? Why cant I let go? Is he worth fighting for? Getting back to?

admin

December 9, 2014 at 1:11 pm

Was there something that triggered him not paying attention to you as much?

Kay

December 7, 2014 at 1:15 pm

my ex boyfriend doesn’t really initiate contact. I texted him after I finished my NC and he would reply straight away and chat. when we met up for first the first time after the breakup he said he missed me and still loved me and thought of getting back together but he needs to sort himself out first. After he left, I never heard from him. So I contacted him 4 days later, stopped then after 2 weeks again hoping he would say hi during that time.. but didn’t. When i txted him again, i intended to send a goodnight txt. he replied and he said he’s at his “new bestie”‘s (they knew each other before but they got closer after we broke up) house late at night coz she needed a friend since the guy she likes told him he doesn’t like her. They were watching a movie. We chatted for about an hour..he even sent a photo of her watching tv.. and he told me I still own a part of his heart. I tetxted him the ff morning he just said he was at work and then didn’t reply to my other messages which is quite unusual. he would normally reply and say if he’s out or say talk soon. I thought he might be annoyed or was just too busy..so i told him okay just holler when he’s free. ifeel like I made a mistake. Now im keeping quiet for a few days but should I actually stop txting him already? im not sure if he has friendzoned me or doesn’t miss me anymore when 2 weeks ago he was confessing he loves me but couldn’t commit. He must be obviously moving on but why does he has to tell me those things. He lives 6 hrs away by the way.

admin

December 8, 2014 at 12:49 pm

Yes, you slowly want to get back into the habit of texting him so a few days off here and there isn’t a bad idea at first.

Laura

December 1, 2014 at 3:01 pm

I dated my ex only for 3 months but he made am impact. He is a jealous and temperamental guy. I councoldnt tell him some things because he always got mad. I lied to him one to many times and I accused him of being married. There were red flags. I never saw his house. Didn’t know his address. He always paid in cash. He could only see me for an hour or so once a week. Maybe. Weekends he barely spoke to me. He always “went to sleep” before 9 on weekdays. Since I called him onut on the marriage he has ignored me. He responds sometimes but rare. I’m not texting him to death either. Not anymore. Lol! The sad truths that I fell in love. He said he loved me. Why do I want him so bad?! I’ve been trying to deatate and move on but I can’t.

admin

December 2, 2014 at 2:23 pm

Does seem fishy doesn’t it?

Why not at least show you his house right?

Charlotte

December 1, 2014 at 11:02 am

I’m up to day 8 of NC. I’m struggling, close to tears all day. I miss him. We were together just 3 months. We never really had an argument, but maybe I was a little attention seeking and needy. He said he was sorry ‘liking’ me didn’t turn into ‘loving’ me and he still had feelings for an ex that didn’t want him. He didn’t want to lose me from his life and wanted to stay friends. And then he offered to come around on the weekend and garden for me. We made passionate love, and then I said I couldn’t date someone that was in love with someone else, we said teary goodbyes, he hugged me for what felt like forever, he said he’d miss me and I left. There have been 8 days of silence since. Should I have friends, at least I could still text him.

admin

December 1, 2014 at 3:44 pm

You are only 8 days in. It is still sooo early.
Charlotte

December 1, 2014 at 11:24 pm

I feel a bit calmer today. Here are his last texts…

‘I really am truly sorry for this. I do wish I could have transirioned from liking you to loving you. I think too much other stuff was going on for me when that should have happened. You two (my daughter and I) are great. And I’m sad that we’ve ended up here’

And a few days prior our conversation…
(Me) ‘you’re completely ignoring my texts, please tell me if you want to break up because I don’t know what you’re thinking or feeling and I’m feeling lost’

(Him) ‘hey you, I don’t know what I’m feeling. Iam really quite grumpy at the moment. I probably am thinking of a break up as I’m really not in a place for a relationship at the moment and that’s totally not fair to you. Not exactly sure what’s happened to me’

(Him) I’m feeling snowed under at the moment, I’m under a lot of pressure which isn’t helping.

(Me) ‘pressure from me?’

(Him) no, pressure to get all my work done

(Me) how does this affect us?

(Him) well I’m exceedingly grumpy at the moment. As I said last night, I don’t even want to be around me. Work is obviously a big cause of this, but there is more going on with me than just that. Positive feelings just aren’t getting out’

He’s the sweetest, most intelligent person I’ve ever met. I’ve read your site and I’ll follow through. If he comes back I will buy three ebooks! I promise.

Lily

November 4, 2014 at 1:08 am

Hi there. My ex and I were together for 5 years. We were engaged for two. The past year he’s been acting different. We got into a lot of bad fights. But we never broke up. He would say I changed, I went from being happy and perky to being a sad mad person. Which is ridiculous because one: he changed so much as well, and two: my uncle was recently murdered and my family suffers from chronic depression and he knows about that. Well about three days ago he called me and asked me how I felt about us, I said bad but I think we can pull through. And then he just dropped the bomb on me. He said He didn’t feel the same way about me anymore, that he stopped almost like like half a year ago. He’s tired of fighting all the time and I’m still a sad person. So first mistake I made, I cried like a hysterical crazy woman. I kept blaming myself. Ok so after that I didn’t call or text him, but I made the mistake of posting something on snapchat (it was only me watching a tv show with my sister) and that was intentionally done to make him see I wasn’t being hysterical anymore. But I still haven’t gotten any reaction from him. In fact, it’s as if he disappeared. He’s got nothing on fb, he hadn’t even changed the relationship status, and nothing on snapchat. I still haven’t texted or called him. I wonder if he still has feelings for me. He said he loved me but I don’t believe anything he says anymore. What do you think chris?

admin

November 20, 2014 at 3:00 pm

Why did the engagement last so long?

Just curious.

I am not a fan of long engagements.

jenna

October 27, 2014 at 8:20 pm

Dated for along time & lived together, he brokeup with me two months ago exactly and I guess I’ve been the craz ex who kept texting him every single day sounding needy and in misery, h there’s been splotches of the n.c order but I’ve been pretty anooying with no answer s. I did slash one of his tires bc I found out he was seeing another girl (rebound possibly) not sure what’s true but after I slashed the tire he as really angry. We haavent talkd since but our love was so pure and beautiful, but we spent a little too much time together so we broke up due to arguing. I’m wondering if these past two months of texting and calling have ruined it? Is it too late? I know that now if I finally leave him alone for a few months he will start to wonder what’shappened to me. He was more attatched to me in the beginning months when then I became attatched.througghout the end. Is there a chance if I improve he might even talk or be my friend again? In the beginning of the breakup he wanted to give me a chance with space but I didn’t give him much space. We ran into eachother at friends parties and it was unplesant all but once when we said we could be friends but then Ijumped to conclusions about what he was doing. I don’t think he hates me, but I don’t think he carres right now. Help? Advice?

admin

October 28, 2014 at 4:29 pm

Well, you obviously need to stop being that crazy ex… that’s step one.
jenna

November 10, 2014 at 11:26 pm

Is slashing a tire too far? Been NC for almost a month, foundout he isn’t seeing anyone.
admin

November 20, 2014 at 3:20 pm

Haha yes slashing a tire is too far!
jenna

November 10, 2014 at 11:27 pm

I needed time to grieve & id efinitly did, and now I’m changing my life more than ever & my head is clear
jenna

November 14, 2014 at 7:33 am

I feel fucking stupid and pathetic bc I was so crazy that I wasn’t myself at all, now I look crazy to him but time heals all wounds..would you ever forgive me or take me back if you saw I changed and was the girl you fell in love with? I owe it to him if there’s eve a chance to show him the love he deserves, not my craziness

Annette

October 26, 2014 at 10:02 pm

Dear Chris,

I cried hysterically when my ex and I broke up. We had been fighting for three months and had both thought about ending it but I never thought it would really end. Somehow I always thought things would get better.

I committed a few mistakes during the break up (I slept with him that night) but he was so incredibly mean to me that night and told me he hated me and he wanted to have sex with other women just to spite me.

I told him to never contact me again the next morning and he quickly deleted me from social media and blocked my phone number. I was so confused as to why he was so angry with me. I sent him a short message just saying I enjoyed the times we had and I wished him well.

Last week he called my friend and told her he loved me but just couldn’t deal with all the fighting anymore. He was set in his decision and he said seeing me would only make him second guess that decision.

I went into NC for two weeks but like many of the women here, I made a mistake and drank too much last night and went by his house. His mother is in town and staying with him so I threw a rock at his window to get his attention– yes like in the movies. He started screaming at me saying he hated me and called me psycho and told me to go home and then he started laughing in my face. I said okay and left. I am sure his mother heard the entire thing. I won’t contact him again obviously and I am so hurt by the way he treated me. He is 30 by the way.

How could someone treat someone else like that? I have broken up with guys who have left presents on my doorstep after the break up or have showed up unannounced and I would never be mean or cruel to anyone. I am just so heartbroken. I am not even panicking anymore. I just don’t know what to do with myself or with anything.

Can you please give me some advice?

Thank you.
Liliana

September 3, 2014 at 8:30 pm

Hi Chris,
Something I don’t understand, I see different examples of text messages you could send to your ex. but after the no contact rule, which text do I have to use? When do you have to use the differen text examples?

admin

September 4, 2014 at 12:09 pm

Its really up to you but I am a fan of the many different first contact messages I talk about.

Kelly

August 23, 2014 at 4:13 pm

So this summer I talked to my ex boyfriend a lot. We talked more than most people talk to their actual boyfriends, but in the past few weeks he’s been talking to me a lot less. As in he only answers about half of what I send him (I’m also counting snapchats in this). One week he didn’t answer my texts at all but he talked to me on Facebook, snapchat, and a texting app we use so that was confusing.

Anyway, so I kinda called him out after he said he would call me and didn’t after a week. He said he hasn’t had a lot of time lately and kinda jokes about it, and every time he does answer my texts it’s always positive, usually saying more than I said and never using one word. Do you think he’s really just busy or is he just too nice? Because we really did talk all summer, and now I feel like we’ve taken a few steps back since he doesn’t respond every time like he used to
Aggie

August 12, 2014 at 11:36 pm

Hi,

I met a guy in college who would stare at me constantly, for instance my breasts and body. I knew he was physically attracted to me, but I wasn’t sure about emotionally. He told me to call when ever I wanted, but I would fb message him to make sure it was okay with him to talk. I would also send funny messages and things through the messenger because he said he liked it. I was still judgmental because he wouldn’t initiate a date, but would stare when he i wore this shirt that said, “I’m not short, I’m fun size”. Or when I mentioned that my dentist stated that my mouth was too small.

In the beginning he invited me to a memorial day party, but it was canceled so I asked if we could catch up over the summer and have lunch instead. I brought money for the both of us, but my family stated he would probably offer to pay, especially because he held interest. But I came under the impression he wanted me to pay, and found that he was distancing himself from me because he thought I was poor and his mother did not approve with the fact we went dutch, and he paid a little more for tip before taking me home.

I also share a car with my mom, so they thought I was using him for his car as well.

I then was invited to a party he holds every year, and he never introduced me to his family. My dad dropped me off and decided to pick me up at 11 because he had work in the moring as it was a thrusday. He showed me his dog, which he let out of the back gate. I came under the impression he was showing off. Then the dog tried to jump me, so I held it in place and said awww, he’s so cute while he was telling the dog to get down. I let go of the dog, and some other people showed up. The dog went into the street and his mother blamed me for it by keeping the dog away from me. They also blamed me for having an overprotective father.

He started distancing himself again, and became extremely judgemental of me, wondering if I was so poor that I didn’t have a swimming pool or something, and that I was just using him for it. Or that I was using him for the car. He also decided to intiate contact with a different girl, and asked her to go to a brewery for some beers.

Sometimes he would drink while he was on the phone with me. He told me he has problems, and would drink because of them sometimes. Out of guilt he told me he would only let me talk with him while he was sober.I also found out that his loans are deferred.

Eventually, I received unlimited texting as a two year gift from my family, and I started texting him a lot. But sometimes I would stop texting him because he was with family or something. On a couple of occasions, he wanted me to text him so I stopped feeling subconscious about texting.

Eventually, I started feeling a strain in our messenging, but he didn’t tell me that it was bothering him and he continued texting me normally until I asked if it was annoying him. He said it was, so I limited it for a day. And then I sent him a message about his upcoming party because it was 2nd time I was invited to it. I told him I wasn’t sure if I could come because I was dogsitting. And i said that was all I wanted to say. Then I sent him a funny picture of beer pong, and I would also joke about certain things with him again, sometimes apologizing because I wasn’t sure if it was annoying him.

Then after messaging somewhat normal, I asked if the messaging was bothering him, and he said yes, and that he felt we had nothing in common. He said he wanted to break off the friendship and said his plate was too full for me to fit into. He said he wanted to be acquaintances.

I was extremely hurt by it because I was starting to like him, and I emotionally crumbled from his actions doing exactly what you said not to do above. Within the next 3 to 4 days he contacted me back, saying he wanted to hear what I had to say, and didn’t mind me messaging him on fb for now.

So I told him how I felt and he completely rejected me, stating that he had never flirted with me. Then he blamed me for disrespecting him and annoying the hell out of him, stating he had been good to me until I did these things, being judgemental of his stares and messenging the hell out of him. He said he never saw me as a friends with benefits kind of person, that he wanted to establish a friendship. He said I was judgemental of his goals, and was not supportive of them when I know that I gave him a ton of support. He even wanted me to help him with his business, and that he says he is not sorry for the way he feels because I was being a jerk. My family and I have been nothing but nice to him.

He then said we could not possibly be friends because I assumed so much about him. I asked him on multiple occasions bu what he meant, and he said it’s like I assumed too much about his interests.

After this conversation he has been ignoring me completely, and I don’t know if I want him back or not because we do have things in common, and we did have a good time together.

admin

August 13, 2014 at 2:05 pm

How old are you and him?
Aggie

August 13, 2014 at 6:39 pm

I am 24. He is 25.
Aggie

August 12, 2014 at 11:52 pm

He also has not unfriended me on Facebook, so I am confused. If he really didn’t want to be friends you would think he would delete me entirely, especially because he ignores me when I try to talk with him now, unless he is punishing me for it. This imo foes not seem healthy. He didn’t even try to talk it out with me period.

Zoe

July 24, 2014 at 8:01 pm

After our break up, I’ve ignored him for 5 mths, he emailed me in January wanting to talk, but I didn’t respond until 2 days ago because I didn’t know what to say and I wasn’t ready. He knows that he’s hurt me. I sent a simple email saying that I have moved on, but I don’t mind talking again. I didn’t try making the email amusing because it was simply responding to his January email.

My questions are will he respond? How long will I have to wait for a response? His emailed said that he doesn’t want to lose me as an important friend, does he still want to be friends now then?

admin

July 25, 2014 at 2:09 pm

I think he probably will.

Does it matter if you dont want him back?

Victoria

July 22, 2014 at 11:04 pm

Me and my boyfriend started dating and then my grandmother passed away. She passed away she passed away in my arms is really hard for me and I was really scared that I was falling for him than I should. I ignored him for a whole week. Talk to him here and there periodically but he didn’t like it. He told me he had enough. And he posted a status on Facebook saying that he was in a relationship. I asked him if he could forgive me before he passed the relationship status. And he told me that he would talk to me about it later. I text him here in their little thing saying I hope you’re doing okay and I miss you. He still has pictures of me and him and no girl with this for a relationship is to be seen. No pictures of her no girl did he post it with. And I’m kind of confused. I honestly don’t even believe he’s really in a relationship. I feel like I hurt him somehow and he wants to hurt me back. I really want him back. I really do care about him and he won’t even talk to me she completely ignores me. What do I do? Please help? We have been friends for a long time and I really do care about this man.

admin

July 24, 2014 at 2:35 pm

Why were you scared to fall for him? Isn’t that the point of falling in love?
Victoria

August 11, 2014 at 6:33 pm

Because I’ve been hurt so bad before. I need to know how to fix this please??
admin

August 12, 2014 at 11:44 am

Well, I can’t fix your situation personally I can just offer advice or inspire you to better it yourself.

YOU have to take control of things.

Cindy

July 13, 2014 at 11:19 am

I broke up with my boyfriend, then harassed him each day to see if he wanted to reconcile. I was such an idiot to breakup in the the first place, I know. He basically accepted the breakup, and finally told me that he didn’t want to get back together after a month, but that he doesn’t want this decision to be final. On the day he was supposed to give my stuff back (that weekend), he ditched me, which made me hope he didn’t want to give it back because it really meant things were over. It’s been a since he ditched me, and he hasn’t said a word since. I sent desperate messages and called, but I didn’t say anything for two weeks. However, then my dad passed away. He was aware of the situation, and still didn’t say anything. Is he done, for sure? Why does he still have my stuff, when I said he could send it, so he doesn’t have to see me?

admin

July 14, 2014 at 3:13 pm

Definitely NC for you…
Cindy

July 16, 2014 at 3:36 am

What do you mean by that? I should definitely stop?
Veronica

August 13, 2014 at 10:54 am

I think he means by NC that you should calm down.
Ask yourself why you broke up with him.
And try to calm down and focus on yourself.
You’re making yourself too many hopes and it seems all your actions evolve around him.
Let’s be honest, you want your stuff back because you want to know If he still wants you or not.
Just give up on your stuff.
If he loves you he will come back or at least message you and you will get your stuff back.
Don’t wait for him,you waited for him for too long.
Just focus on yourself and if you are meant to be together he will contact you.
He knows where you live and knows your number,if he really wants you,he will contact you.

Do you want HIM to come back and to be loved for who you are ?
or
Do you want him to come back because he has pity for you ?

Eddie

June 20, 2014 at 8:46 pm

I have an interesting question, she broke up with me and now i know its because she is doing this method to me. What do i since i still want her back?

admin

June 21, 2014 at 7:39 pm

Check out Ex Girlfriend Recovery…

Nata

June 18, 2014 at 10:05 pm

The guy ignored me for a couple of years, then suddenly reappeared and after a brief meeting started to ignore me again and nothing helps…. I want to at least have a conversation so I can understand and move on… he ignores me and I think I ll never hear from him again……. is there anyting I can do? I think he doesnt even read my emails… I cant stop thinking about him and am desparate.. Also I try not to email him a lot any more, but once a week or so I slip… WHAT CAN I DO for him to react and meet with me to clear things up??????????

admin

June 20, 2014 at 7:29 pm

Well, I think you should kind of stop emailing him for a bit.

Julie

June 18, 2014 at 12:26 pm

And what if he really doesn’t want anyhing with you but didn’t have a bad break up though? Is there any hope then? how you approach that?

admin

June 18, 2014 at 2:10 pm

Same way you approach most breakups.
Leah

June 18, 2014 at 9:35 pm

Which is how???
Julie

June 18, 2014 at 5:40 pm

Meaning? The last 2 times I tried text him he didn’t respond..I don’t see him in fb anymore..I don’t know what to do!do you think it’s best try be honest even if we fight or wait if he desides talk to me again? please I really need an advice..

Leah

June 17, 2014 at 7:09 pm

Hey,

Basically, my boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago now. It was a really unexpected break up as it was through an argument. At first he was like “I really don’t know what to do, I want to be with you but I also need to be by myself for a bit” after 5 mins he decided it’s best to break up. We spoke for a couple of days after, I made that mistake in asking if he thinks we will ever get back together, he said “not right now he needs space” so from there we decided to be friends for abit but we constantly kept talking about our relationship and he kept considering on getting back with me but then I ended up getting so annoyed with him messing me about we argued and he said he wanted me out of his life. Tbh I dont see how he could just forget me like that and I was si upset. So a week later I said sorry, no reply. Another 2 weeks later I said I wanted to clear the air, he didnt reply. It’s not that I even want us to get back together now, I just hate us being on bad terms and im so stuck on what to do, the thought of us never speaking again really upsets me.

Leah

June 18, 2014 at 9:33 pm

Which is how???

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