Understanding Why Your Ex Boyfriend Is Ignoring You- And How To Get Him To Stop

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Tiff

December 1, 2015 at 12:50 am

Alright Chris, so I dated the guy for 6 months. I did no contact, I got a neutral response for initial contact. I’ve texted but he always seems to wait to respond and not interested but always responded. Well we’ve had some interesting run-ins because we have a lot of the same friends. Well the first time, I ended up walking away and crying in a separate room with some girl friends. He felt bad and came up to one of the girls and asked about me, but didn’t talk to me. The next run in, he got blacked out drunk and kept trying to talk to me. The next day we met up and talked and it was good! The next run in he didnt even acknowledge me again, and I ended up dancing with our friend, someone said he was mad. I asked but he denied it. I told him I wanted to talk about things, and that is when he started ignoring me and my texts. Well the next run in, I decided to ask to talk, and I told him how I was feeling, saying I wanted him to be happy and that I was sorry if there were things that I did that pushed him away. He said he enjoyed our time together but couldn’t handle it. Later that night he showed up where I was but didn’t acknowledge me and seemed to be trying to make me jealous and one up me. Since then I haven’t talked to him, I sent him a thanksgiving text saying I was thankful for our time together, but again no response. I also noticed he finally deleted the picture of us off his Instagram (this is now 3 months post breakup). First question: Why do you think he started ignoring me? Second: Where do I go from here, back to no contact? Do I give it another few weeks and try again? Do I wait until he wants to talk? Third: How do I act at the next run in? If he isn’t acknowledging me, do I just act myself and act happy yet ignore him back or do I say hi?
It seems so familiar because I’ve had an ex react like this before.
B

November 25, 2015 at 5:55 pm

Hello Chris,
Thanks for the great advices. I was wondering whether you think no contact rule can still work if my ex actually asked for no contact?
We’ve been seperated for 2 weeks, and I commited all the mistakes possible after break up, begged, show myself desperate and needy. There absolutely would have been better moments in the past 2 weeks to start no contact, but what’s done is done.
We met a couple days ago, when I was desperate again, and we slept together. Then somehow my ex agreed to continue being together (however he didn’t seem satisfied with it), so I was relieved and i thought there is no point in no contact now. Next day I was going to wait until he calls me, but it never happened, I ended up calling him, and at first he was just indifferent and wanting to hang up early, then he told me he still doesn’t think it’s gonna work, and he wants me to stop contacting him, and wait until he wants to contact me again.
Since then only a couple days passed, I was wondering whether no contact works with a guy who actually asked me to have no contact? I want to ignore him, but unless he contacts me, he thinks that this was his decision, and has no idea I am doing no contact.
Is it too late for me?

Thank you in advance

Chris Seiter

December 2, 2015 at 5:31 am

How long did he ask for no contact for? Was there a time placed on it or was it like a forever kind of deal?

Marielle

November 24, 2015 at 11:01 pm

Hi Chris,
I have been a fan of your page for a while, this is my second break up with this guy and the first time your methods helped me so much he did come back! The issue is after being back together for another year and a half (where he was much more serious and completely different than the first time) he told me he still loved me but he “thinks we need different things and needs space to figure it out” (it’s long distance and we got to the point of wanting to finally bridge the distance after so long of flying back and forth multiple times a month to hang out) a bit of a more complicated situation I was hoping you could help me with. I know a little more about how he operates having been through all of this with the last break up, but essentially he thinks it’s best to just not talk at all after a break up. Not only will a 30 day NC get me no texts from him but last time I heard nothing until after 5 months I randomly got a flow of texts/pictures/memories/apologies asking to talk. He can def stay cold on the outside but what he told me after was that he was hurting the entire time (I’m not an idiot I’m sure that isn’t entirely true) but I’m sure at least some of the time I though it hurt, because he came back. I guess my question is how can I figure out what’s going on when I don’t get any responses ever and I know even after a NC I’ll hear nothing? Is it worth even sending a text after 30 days or just keep the silence? I think it would be interesting if you did a post on men that keep everything to themselves and maybe how they sort through these things on their own since most of them don’t have a close circle to talk things out with like girls do. I’d be curious to hear what the process is that men go through after a break up from happy to lonely to reminiscent. Any insight would be amazing! Thanks!

Chris Seiter

December 2, 2015 at 6:38 am

Thanks for following! I’d recommend not letting it go more than 45 days, you don’t want to give him a chance to get over you completely. You might not get responses right away but after a long no contact you should be able to stir up some good feelings with some really great texts.

Audrina

November 24, 2015 at 7:19 pm

Hi Chris,
My ex and I dated for two years. During the beginning of the relationship he was so sweet, brought me flowers every friday and got jealous of other men paying any attention to me (sometimes even too aggressive). A few months into the relationship, he started to become a little sketchy, like never let me hold his phone. I brought this to his attention and told him it made me feel very uncomfortable but nothing really changed. I would let him use my phone when ever he wanted and never cringed once so to me, this was extremely unfair. A year into the relationship we had no progress but were so in love still, I introduced the idea of being in an open relationship to him. He was hesitant at first but he would always give me what I wanted (except for him to be open about his personal life). The reason I wanted to try this out was because I thought it would give him an incentive to tell me things he was potentially trying to hide from me. We tested it out and he started to become more honest but he only took advantage of our agreement a couple times. Towards the end of our relationship, we started to become rocky. He had quit his previous job and was in between careers so I started to pay for almost everything we did together. Our romance started to fade but we were together almost every night. I felt like I wasn’t a priority at times and that he took advantage of me most of the time. I brought this to his attention again and told him that this needed to change. He came to me a couple weeks later and told me that I was right and he needs to start showing his love for me again but things did not change like the way I needed them to. Finally, we decided to work things out and I subtly told him that I wanted to end the “open relationship” because we were not doing so great but he ignored me and told him me he thought it was great for us so there would be no further resentment. He also told me that it helped him with his jealousy and wanted to continue. A couple weeks later his best friend’s girlfriend cheated on him so him and the rest of his boys went out to cheer him up. I had a strong feeling he had met a girl that night and was going to go home with her. I intentionally texted him at 2:15 a.m. to see if I would get a response from him and unfortunately, did not. The next morning he came over and told me that he met a girl, bought her drinks (even though he can’t afford to buy me things?) but she was nothing like me and that he is glad he has me since I have it everything a man wants. He claims he did not go home with her but my instinct tells me otherwise and his friend can’t confirm with me that he didn’t. I broke up with him that day because I was so hurt he spent the time taking care of his friend trying to hit it off with another girl while we were going through a rough period, along with everything else that has happened. He told me he was sorry he couldn’t make me happy and never texted me back after I responded to his last text. I never tried talking to him again but neither has he. It is going on week 2 now and I still haven’t heard from him. I know I deserve better and the things I asked for were not unreasonable. We were best friends before we started dating, I miss him and wonder why he wont reach out to me. Thoughts?
Vanessa

November 23, 2015 at 3:37 pm

Hi Chris. I have been reading your articles trying to find some help. My boyfriend beoke up with me back in june for 2 days and after that he called me”saying he have made a mistake and that he was sorry and loved me. I was confused of why we were even breaking. After that we went traveling and he asked me about me feelings for him of course I open up my heart and told him how much I love him and I asked what happen on the breaking since we didn’t really discussed what happened that night, he answered that we will talk once we were back home. So when we returned homeva week went by without saying anything and when I asked he brushed me off and said things were not gonna work and that was better if he just go his way. He moved out of the house and I tried the no call or text rule forva while he tried texting me at first asking me how I was doing, of course I was not doing good and I was hurt so I asked him not to contact me. Weeks passed by we got together one time to talk he was active defensive tours everything I said. I got mixed up signals I was thinking on moving out the city and he asked me not to do it. After that conversation I kept on the hope that maybe he needed time. That time is now becoming almost 5 months. I love this guy so much, he is the one I thought of getting marry, having kids… We were talking marriage before he broke up with me.
I still love him and still want my life with him. I have know that in the past 2 months he have been seeing someone and I dont know if that means I lost him. I am close with his family and they all say he is depressed and acting, but how do I know? I don’t want to look needy or desperate. At this point don’t know if the text will work. He texted me the other day asking for something he left at my house asking if it was OK to pick it up and we agreed on a day… I want to take advantage of that and see if we could get together, but how I do it? What should I say? Is this of coming over to get his stuff meaning is really over? I need some light here.
Haley

November 22, 2015 at 1:51 pm

This was surprisingly helpful! I dated a guy for three, blissful years and one petty fight while his mother was visiting ended it all. He has been using the “no contact” rule for exactly a month now and it has been heartbreaking. I haven’t sent any “crazy” or “hateful” messages, just ones of confusion and affection. But this article makes me think that it is really time to cut contact with him for better or worse.
Anonymous

November 21, 2015 at 4:46 pm

I broke up with my boyfriend when he told me, essentially, that I wasn’t “the one” and that he didn’t see that changing. He immediately said he wanted to be friends (not the “Let’s be friends” speech – he was legitimately surprised and seemed hurt when I told him I couldn’t just transition to a friendship). I avoided contact as much as possible (we work together), not necessarily to follow NC, but to actually try to heal and move on. After about a month, it came to a head for me emotionally, and texted him. I told him I wanted him to know that I’ve really missed having him in my life this past month. If he already knows I’m not “the one,” is there any point anyhow? By the way, thank you for what you do – it helps in times like these to know there are a lot of people out there struggling, and I’m not crazy . . .
Sophie

November 20, 2015 at 12:26 am

Hi Chris,

I broken up with my year long boyfriend in early October due to few things such as distance, graduated from uni and coping on his depression. It took a toll on me for a while. Our relationship was very strong both have similar backgrounds of life and upbringing and first timers net we just clicked and sparks everywhere. He was my first real boyfriend and first everything. But I dumped him due to his behaviour issues that I can’t deal with. I want to be in his life again but I’m scared he hates me because I abondined him and turn against his secret on weed addiction. I want him back in my life because I know we both still care and like each other. I’m currently on day 19 of NC rule it’s either helping him cope or its drifting us apart. Will he come back to me after 1st December or shall I make a move since I’m the one who broke it off first and wants to get back together?

Please reply soon.

Sophie x
DK

November 18, 2015 at 12:02 pm

Hi Chris,
My ex and I have been dating 1.5 years. This september, he decided he wanted to join a fraternity. I didnt like the idea of it because i knew that would open up a new realm of temptations – girls, sex, drugs. He’s 25, i’m 28. I fell in love with this man, and from waht he says, he “loves me too.” Now I expressed my feelings about the frat to him and he was upset for a little bit. Now, before this makes me sound like the bad guy, I supported him in EVERYTHING he did – emotionally, physically, financially. Even when his parents didnt support him, i was there. I just had my concerns about this frat. Also, let me mention that he graduates THIS december. Anyway, he wanted to take a brake september 21 and said we could talk about our relationship after thanksgiving (next week) once he crossed over. I have been a wreck since that day. I will admit i did several of the things you mentioned in this post. I was a major text gnat, i called him once a day, i spilled my guts out to him in a email. He used to answer me but it never answered any of my question i asked. My main one was, are we over? Please let me know so that i’m not hanging on to you still. Yes, i am still waiting on him. Well, for the past 3 weeks, he has been totally ignoring me. He knows thats the one thing that gets me all flustered and makes me cry and all the dramatic stuff. We joined a organization together because he wanted to do something together as a couple, and because we “loved” eachother I said okay. Well now that we are “seperated” I see him every thrusday and I pretty much maul him with questions since hes right there in front of me and kinda can’t ignore me. I went into a mini depression, not gona lie. Heres one of the major issues, so the first month of our “seperation” he hooked up with some 18yr sorority girl… he got her preggo. Well, he says she told him she missed her monthly friend, but that it could be a possibliltiy. This devastated me but i looked over it because i believe this is the man i am suppose to marry, and asked if there was anyting i could do. He is freaking out about it, and doesnt want the baby. anywho, as for us, i asked if he still loved me. All he says is “i always will” but i dunno if its the I will always love you like a friend or if its the i will always love you like a parterner. he said i could hug him but went to kiss him he let me but then pulled away from me. he said he didnt wanna add to my depression anymore. But my question to you is, did i completely lose my chances with this guy? I have been completely desperate for him as i would do ANYTHING for him, and he knows this. ive told him that. I’ve tried the NC but it lasted a whole 1 day. I am seeing him thrusday and i planned on telling him i’m going to quit the org. because i cant bare to see him and not be with him. and i think by doing this, i can have the outta sight, outa mind mindset and maybe be able to carry out the NC rule. I tried texting him this, but he always ignores me. have i completly lost my chances with this man? I love him dearly and want him. Should I tell him im going to leave him alone until he felt in his heart he could love me again and when that happened, that he knows how to contact me? He’s very stubborn and im afraid that if i dont tell him and completely ignore him, he will never speak to me again and i will lose him forever. I DON’T WANT THAT! After all ive done texting/calling/emailing wise – is it too late to win him back? Also, should I contact him after thanksgiving and ask if we can have our relationship talk like he promised or will even that interfer with the NC? I hope you can help. I really love this man. I want him in my life forever. Thank you!!

Ridzie

December 1, 2015 at 3:45 pm

Hey, im sorry you’re going through all this. This has happened to me. Although the context was different but what i have since realised is, there are no breaks or confusions in relationships. If he said he needed a break, that probably meant he isn’t feeling for you at all at this point and interested in other things to pursue. He had sex with this girl and got her pregnant! That doesnt say you guys are on a break, this says he is over you. He ignores you all the time. There really isnt anything you can do at this point except to just let him go. You’re going to lose him forever if you keep doing what you are doing. This message is old and i dont know what you told him but if you havent still quit the org and if i were you, i would have quit the org without even telling him and just completely cut him cold. They always come back when you do it like this, when you make them feel that you cant take their shit anymore and are moving on. And you should. And when he does come back then you can decide if you really even want him back in your life or not.

Anonymous

November 15, 2015 at 8:01 am

I dated this guy for 1 year and 3 months. We broke up because of an issue where I got jealous of him seeing a childhood friend of his which I had an idea he would start dating. After I broke up with him (was during the morning that we broke up) by the afternoon I tried to sort things out and he didn’t want to saying that he can’t do this as it was the 3rd time I broke up with him even though the first time did not count and second lasted a few hours. When he came to see me so that we could end things properly he still kissed me and made me feel like there was hope. On the last day that I saw him when I sat in his car I tried to look happy and just be friends. His response was “so won’t I get a hug” and when I did hug him he kissed me again. I had so much of hope. A few days later I texted him saying that I miss him. Previously he had said that he just needs time to think. That day in his car he told me that he knows that when he wants me back I won’t come back… So when I texted him he was like he thought about it and doesn’t think that he wants to get back. I was really hurt by that. I called him about 3 weeks later and I asked him if he was dating his friend and he said yes. I had a major break down and tried the NC. But because of him not contacting me I let the NC to go to 6 months. I sent him a text he did not respond. Tried calling noticed that my number was blocked. Sent a msg saying hey on WhatsApp and he just read and ignored. I really don’t know what to do. I’ve tried dating but I think about him all the time. We use to do everything together and even wanted to get married. We had a very strong relationship and he would do everything for me. We spent time together everyday after he came from work and we could spend hours… But I noticed that I started to neglect him and not spend much time with him because I felt I needed space and friends would always pass negative comments about our relationship. I never loved anyone this much or ever felt such pain losing someone. Do u think he has forgotten all those special memories ..can I get him back.

Thank you
Iris

November 14, 2015 at 12:27 pm

Hi Chris,
I have read every article on your site and bought the PRO…but I still don’t know how to handle my situation now…
We have been dated for almost 9 years. I cheated on him 2 years ago but we resolved it and got back together. About 1.5 months ago he suddenly said he still couldn’t let go of what happened before and broke up with me.
I went through a 30 days NC afterwards and sent him a text at the end of the NC. He responded positively (I guess?). Every text he responded is a question so we could continue the conversation.
We did not contact each othet again after the conversation. After a week I sent him a text and he didn’t reply. What is on his mind? What should I do now??
Iris

Iris

November 19, 2015 at 8:21 am

The first contact text was like a catching up. We both changed to new jobs recently and updated each other about our jobs. Then we didn’t contact for a week.
Last week I saw something funny on 9gag and forwarded to him and said he might be interested. He didn’t reply.
So we basically only texted once…
What should I do now?
Chris Seiter

November 16, 2015 at 9:07 pm

What kinds of texts have you been sending him? Did you read the texting bible? What was the last text you sent him?

Megan

November 11, 2015 at 8:06 pm

I’ve been friends with this boy for three years. I never had a crush on him but he always tried for me. We go to college together and over the summer we started talking and having something more than just friends. One of our mutual friends had a huge crush on him but he chose me. We started dating back at school for about a month and then we broke up. I told him it was a mistake and i missed him (since I initiated the break up) but we didn’t get back together or talk or anything. Three weeks after that he started coming over again and we acted like a couple again for a week and then he just stopped. I told him I was having feelings and he lashed out and said he didn’t have feelings and just got angry it seemed. I completely was cool and didn’t freak out but a couple days later he was talking about how he was going to see the other girl who had a huge crush on him (clearly trying to get me mad and it did). I got upset and walked away and once again we started ignoring each other. He saw that girl over the weekend and then on Sunday asks me about a homework question but said nvm after like 2 min so i never answered. He still sits with me in class but we don’t say a word and today i texted him asking why he’s being like that. He said its awkward now but to give it time and we will be fine. He just always sees me and gives dirty looks and ignores me so i don’t know what to do or where his mind is at really. Should i stick with his word when he says he doesn’t have feelings and move on? How do I react to this?
ms miya

November 10, 2015 at 9:50 pm

Hi Chris my name is miya I need some advice I was in a long term relationships with my ex boyfriend for five years and it has been rocky the last two. We had a lot of arguments due to his cold and distant ways. Well make a long story short he broke up with me 8 times only to return after I initiate n.c for 30 days or he finds out I’m conversating with a male friend. He has narcissistic traits as I have read up on. But we have been broken up two weeks an 1 day as of today. And I’m in no contact. He has not tried to initiate any contact but each and every time he see me at a family member house he will just keep riding by. I don’t understand why he is doing that. Please in lighten me
Lawyer Girl

November 8, 2015 at 5:24 pm

I met my dream man online 3 months ago. He lives 2500 miles away; hence, we did the back-and-forth thing. This is the first man I have ever been sure of I want to be with and have a family with. We are both in our late 30s and professionals. (I’m a lawyer and he is a physician). I made a comment last week (via text) that he and his ex should stop the bickering because it hurts their kid and I do not want to expose myself to this–the situation between them needs to change (and I could have helped them alleviate the drama). He stopped all contact with me–ignoring me 100%. This took place on a Wednesday, 2 days before he was schedule to fly to my city. Due to his snubbing, he did not tell me that he cancelled his flight (I had a feeling and called the airline that confirmed that he did.) I texted him about it–he said he doesn’t want to expose me to his drama, hence “out of love” he is letting me go. If I didn’t contact the airline, I would have gone to pick him up at 5:30am and he would have been a no-show making me look like a fool while breaking down at a busy airport in front of others. My secretary had to go through so much to change my schedule that Friday so I could be free to pick him up and spend the day and weekend with him. I didn’t say anything to anyone yet because I am so embarrassed. I told my family and friends I was going to marry him –only now he has removed himself from me completely. After 3 days of silence, he did send a Friday religious greeting to me via text, which I thanked him for — that’s all. Anyway, I am not an emotional person and always bounce back within 48 hours (I have very little emotions and low tolerance for drama). But for some reason, this short yet powerful relationship with this man is the one I am not going to get over. I never ask for advice because I’m always the one everyone always ask advice from, but right now I am clear what happened or if I should switch to my “move on and forget him” mode.
Sarah

November 7, 2015 at 11:19 pm

Is there a length of time where being a text gnat is too much that the no contact rule might not work effectively? I’ve been in a long distance relationship for around 1.5 years and then one day he suddenly disappeared on me. He blocked me from his Facebook, but didn’t block me in other forms of social media and messaging apps. He ignored me whenever I messaged him. I am shameless to say that I have messaged him for about a month (with a day or two of not messaging in between). He never responded to any of my messages, but he didn’t block me from them either. We used to message each other every day until he just disappear from me. I did reflect on our relationship later after he disappeared on me. I think the reason we broke up was I was quite clingy as our relationship got deeper. My question is, do you think one month of being a texting gnat would make the no contact rule less effective? I’ve started the NC rule, and today is day 5. He never messaged me at all since his disappearance on me. I know for a fact that he checked his phone because he posted things on his Facebook before.
Elizabeth

November 6, 2015 at 10:55 pm

Hi Chris,
Thanks for all the information. I am in a really confusing situation. I broke up with my boyfriend of a year. We had a big argument and I asked him just to leave me alone. We do work at the same place, just different departments. I tried to avoid him for a couple weeks after that but he kept saying hi to me. Finally I decided to talk to him and we decided to be friends. A couple days later he talked about making plans to hang out. Then a couple days after that I found out that he was talking to another girl he was interested in. I ended up getting upset and we got into another fight because I was so hurt he had moved on so fast. After this I basically avoided him and did not talk to him in any way, although he kept trying to say hi to me at work and talk to me. Finally after a month in a half I texted him and told him that I hoped we could eventually get past everything so work isn’t so awkward. He texted me back in less then a minute saying that work didn’t have to be awkward and that he tries to talk to me all the time. I then informed him I just needed time to get over everything. He told me he understood and that was the end of the conversation. Now after that he completely ignores me at work. I don’t understand how he can go from trying to say hi, to completely ignoring me. I would like to be together again, but I don’t understand if I should try talking to him again. Do you have any ideas or should I just give up and let things go? Thanks
Mirabel

November 6, 2015 at 8:19 am

After my ex and I broke up, I cut him off completely so I could forget him. But he would make contact sometime and was always dismissive,and usually not the nice way. And there are times when he would call to check up on me, but I usually wasn’t nice, and I still love but I never show it. And now, its over 4months since he last contacted me, and am trying to reach him but his ignoring me. I try to chat with him… call him on the phone … and even text him but he doesn’t reply to any of them. Am afraid I have lost him and I don’t know what to do. and I know that I messed everything up. Do u think he hates me now? Have I lost him? What do I do now?
Wynona

November 6, 2015 at 3:50 am

I would love some advice. My man and I were together for almost six years. We were engaged and had been for one year. We broke up at the beginning of September. We lived together, so for the first month of our breakup I lived in the spare bedroom. I was finally able to move out the second week of October. Our last month together was pretty horrible. There were times that I was really nice to him and times when I was mean to him, because I was upset. I was an emotional rollercoaster, which I know he doesn’t deal with well. On our last day together, we hugged each other goodby for a solid two minutes. We both cried. As I got into my car, I looked back at him and he said, “Be happy”. That was the crux in our relationship: I was unhappy and always felt that the grass was greener on the other side of the fence. “Comparison is the thief of joy”. Now that we’ve spent some time apart, I know that we were both at fault, and it wasn’t just me. And I feel that I’ve “learned my lesson” and I want to get back with him more than I have ever wanted anything. I didn’t contact him for three weeks. It was tough, and I really tried to go the full 30 days, but I just couldn’t keep to myself any longer. So, on Sunday evening I sent him an e-mail, which basically said “I’ve had a lot of time think… There are things about me that I am working on changing… I am working on finding happiness… yadda yadda yadda. It was short and sweet, but it wasn’t overbearing or desperate. The e-mail concluded with me telling him that we had an amazing future together and I wanted to know if he felt our relationship was worth rescuing. Annnd…. no response. He still loves me, I know he does. And he told me that we could be together someday, if I ever figure my shit out. But in his mind, he thinks it will take me months or years to figure my shit out. My dad recently told me that “it takes a crisis to change” and that’s exactly what happened. I’m not saying I’ve changed everything about me and compromised my beliefs, but my perspective has changed some. And there’s more to it, but I won’t go into it. Here’s where I’m at now: I haven’t tried to contact him since the e-mail, and that was almost five days ago. My plan is to keep the distance and when he is ready, if he is ever ready, then he knows how to reach me. However, if I haven’t heard from him two months from now (New Year’s) then I will reach out to him one more time, and if I don’t hear back… then I”m outta here. See, I moved to his hometown to be with him. And now that we aren’t together, there is nothing keeping me here. What do you think?
Mickey

November 5, 2015 at 5:35 pm

Hi Chris,

I was really close to a guy for about half a year. We did everything a couple would do, but without the label. He was super sweet, but also extremely shy. After a while it was time for me to take it a step further, and I told him I really really like him. He said he liked me too, but that he was not ready to commit because of -reasons- he didn’t tell me. However he did say that we could take it slow and just see where it goes. I agreed to that, but he became more and more distant. Because of that, I started texting him more and because insecure. After a while he confessed he had lost interest in me. I still kind of tried to talk to him in a friendly way after that, but he never seemed interest in talking to me again… I was really sad and I figured it’d be better to go full No Contact. Now, it hasn’t been very long. Almost about two weeks. Whenever I see him, he completely ignores me… but I do catch him glancing over at me a lot. What’s going on here?
nay

November 1, 2015 at 8:48 am

Hi Chris, i need your help. i cant forget my ex boyfriend even now i married with someone else. and 2 months ago i was send him email to say congrats because he already finished his PhD. And as i thought, he was ignored me. i’m so sad.. n i always thinking about him all the time like crazy..

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