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Shawna
March 21, 2020 at 10:45 am
Thank you Shaunna:
No, he is not dating anyone, but he’s flirting with lots of girls (or at least I think so, cause he is constantly follow them in social media and liking their posts). If he forgets about me on plain sight, what would happen if I dissappear? Also, my country is locked down due to covid, so I can’t go out or doing anything interesting.
I can use this time to work on myself, I know, I try. But I feel terrible. Also, he has depression and has bad times, I tried to be there and he used to be thankful for that, what if I don’t support him anymore but other girls do? I guess that they already do, but I am afraid of disappearing completly cause then… But at the same time, I need him to miss me, they say that you don’t know what do you have until you loose it but would this work with my situation?
EBR Team Member: Shaunna
March 24, 2020 at 1:14 am
If you stick to NC and work on yourself so that you become Ungettable and show this on social media it can work to make your ex miss you yes
Shawna
March 20, 2020 at 11:00 am
What can I do if he has a strong “greener grass syndrome”? And the hot and cold thing. He gives steps towards me and then he runs back, without me doing anything. He is moving on after a bad break up and he’s emotionally blocked: he is attracted to me and trusts me, but every time he starts to do something almost emotional, he backs again and stops talking to me for days.
Now we are in a situation of isolation due the covid, would be the perfect time, but no, he is talking to everyone but me, getting closer to another people and not payng attention to me. At first yes,, but during the last days he’s ignoring me. I can’t make him miss me if he sees me constantly in social media, but I feel I am in competition with all the girls in the world and losing. My UG game is not working anymore, there are too many UG out there and he doesn’t see me as UG since I demonstrated him in the past that I like him a lot and that I care for him deeply.
I am losing him forever, what can I do?
EBR Team Member: Shaunna
March 20, 2020 at 10:50 pm
Hi Shawna, so if your guy is having the grass is greener syndrome then you need to work on yourself to be the best version of yourself, leaving him in a No Contact for 45 days (if he is involved with someone else) and then form there you post to social media and use the sphere of influence to show all these amazing things you are doing, start casually dating without getting serious with anyone, posting subtle hints that you could be dating someone and let him wonder. The issue with the GIG syndrome is that they tend to get into a honeymoon phase with the new person for a month or so, this is when you get to work on your Holy Trinity