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29 thoughts on “The Biggest Mistakes Women Make When Trying To Get An Ex Back”

  1. Shana

    July 14, 2019 at 12:55 pm

    Hi Chris, I really need your help.
    I’ve been flirting with this guy for six months (not dates because we live in different cities and we wanted to meet -we have met in person before- but certain circumstances made us put off that). He trusted me a lot and we were going step by step (he was recovering from a difficult relationship=. But recently he started to use a dating app and I am afraid he has met another girl (ore more than one) and he may be about to date someone. He even ignored one of my texts, he never did that, he always responded inmediately and that time…
    I don’t know what to do, I like him very much and he liked me, I know that he using dating apps is a rebound from that previous relationship but I had been working, being there, being supportive and interesting… He was very attracted to me in all senses and now, from one day to another…
    What can I do?

  2. Shiloh Seglin

    July 13, 2019 at 9:41 pm


    My ex and I had a fight and I ended up giving him an ultimatum. He declined to leave. Looking back I really didn’t think he was going to leave. I was trying to get him to see how important something was to me. I texted him a lot off and on for 2 weeks. To be honest this is what I did when we fought too. When he was hurt or angry he puts a wall up and I need to do that to get him to bring it down. I really didn’t think much of it until I read about GNAT. Anyway I came across your website and started using NC. I have not contacted him in any way for a little over 2 weeks. I think he has blocked me every which way he could. I don’t want to test the 1 or 2 ways until it’s time for no contact to end. He didn’t start blocking me every where until I started pestering him.

    Have I killed my chances, should I just throw in the towel?

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