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Marie
September 13, 2019 at 3:54 pm
My ex told me that he doesn’t see a future with me when he broke up with me. He said he planned on moving two hours away in 7 months when his lease was up and that he didn’t see a future with me. We had been together a year and didn’t have any problems until 9 months in (a problem that came from the way his friends treated me). He also told me there were other contributing factors such as: he didn’t want to waste my time, and his depression and him thinking he shouldn’t be in a relationship right now. I didn’t fully believe that because he said quite confidently he would be dating in 3-6 months and he then urged me to go out and find someone that could make me happy in a way he never could… This was crazy to me because up until the one incident we had been really happy. We were always happy, laughing/smiling and having a good time. The sex was great and quite active.
I speculated he met someone else, and sure enough, 13 days after our breakup he added a new girl on facebook and she happens to have a career in the field he wishes he had gone to school for/he is obsessed with. How can I make him see I’m a good investment if she has one thing I don’t (that career)?
EBR Team Member: Shaunna
September 15, 2019 at 12:36 am
Hi Marie, so once you’ve done a no contact I would make sure that when you reach out you talk about his other interests, just because they share a career interest does not mean that they are well suited in other ways. Work on becoming ungettable and being the best version of yourself. This will show if you focus on your lifestyle choices and how you present yourself through social media and mutual friends
Jane
September 12, 2019 at 7:37 pm
My bf asked me to move to Kentucky with him. Then two weeks before I was moving, after I sold all my stuff & left my job, he told me not to come. He said he was happier without me. I feel so sad. I can’t believe this is happening to me.
Shaunna
September 12, 2019 at 9:18 pm
Jane, I’m sorry! Make sure you NC him and work on being the best version of yourself so he knows what hes missing!