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Carolyn Hollingworth
November 21, 2018 at 9:12 am
Hi I’ve been ghosted by ex and blocked and had no contact since August.I tried texting him a few weeks ago but no reply it’s heart breaking.It all seems so hopeless to me.Ive spent the time on myself…I had too ,but I think about him daily.He just seems so cold.
Chris Seiter
November 22, 2018 at 3:53 am
Hi Carolyn… I know that is awfully disappointing when an ex resorts to ghosting. Have you considered NC?
Si
November 21, 2018 at 12:59 am
My ex and I split up about 3 months ago. Every now and again, she gives me hope that there could still be something there. Other times she can be quite cold which no matter how positive I try to be makes me think I’m more of a problem than I realise.
We talked a couple of weeks ago and she seemed pleased that I was able to point out and accept my short commings even though she took all the blame initially. We do still talk occasionally but like I said I’m starting to feel like more of a burden. I don’t know what to do now.
Gea
November 20, 2018 at 5:30 pm
My ex told me 2 months ago that he didn’t love me and broke up with me. It was a GREAT relationship, I don’t even know where “I don’t love you” came from. I tried to persuade him to not break up, but when he confirmed he wanted out I let go. It’s been 2 months and he hasn’t reached out. What do I do?
Chris Seiter
November 20, 2018 at 9:53 pm
Hi Gea!
Yeah….I hear you.. Some guys can be incredibly dense. Maybe he will have his wake up call, but don’t assume that. Go forward with your own healing and recovery and working on being the best “you”. There are many paths for you.
Ellis
November 20, 2018 at 8:26 am
My exboyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago and it was a long distance break up. Do these concepts still work in this case?
Chris Seiter
November 20, 2018 at 10:01 pm
Hi Ellis!
Yes, they can, but every situation is unique. But the principles and concepts and strategies apply across a wide spectrum of ex recovery situations. Just go to my home page of this site and explore the resources and tools, tapping into the material that can help you!
isabel
November 20, 2018 at 6:42 am
ill be honest my ex and i are very confusing. we dated for a year and broke up because i left for college. we still loved eachother but knew it was right thing. still talked and hungout when i was home (which was a lot more than most) after a while he finally blocked everything of mine and we didnt talk for 2 months. he reached out to me last week and have been talking since every single day. i came home and we hungout etc but says he still just wants to be friends but talks to me all the time now, talks about guys asking im jealous to make me confused even tho he could be jealous one. look i dont want to lose him but also im very unsure where this is even going if it would. ever. any thoughts ??
Chris Seiter
November 20, 2018 at 10:05 pm
Hi Isabel!
I think you will do better if you have a Companion Guide that helps you through this process. Check out my eBook Pro as one option. My site has a lot of content that can help you.
Cassy
November 20, 2018 at 4:24 am
We have never contacted for 5 months and the last time we contacted, we haf a huge fight. I cursed him and told him i would never want to see him again. He is inlove with someone else. Idk how to establish a good relationship again.
Chris Seiter
November 20, 2018 at 10:06 pm
Hi Cassy!
Ouch…it sounds like you guys are still struggling. Maybe time to start no contact. Read about it on my site. Pick up one of my guides to help you through all this!
Tarolyn Mahone
November 20, 2018 at 12:02 am
My ex boyfriend told me he needed space after being together for the whole weekend. Said he needed to figure out if this is what he really wanted and he also had some issues from his past he can’t seem to get over. I’ve started the NC rule, it’s been a week and he hasn’t said a word to me, no call, no text. I just don’t want to lose him.
Chris Seiter
November 20, 2018 at 1:36 am
Just stay the course Tarolyn as I describe in my Program! Many elements to NC.