Is Your Ex Boyfriend Playing Mind Games On You? Let's Find Out!

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Daphne

November 16, 2018 at 3:47 am

Hi Chris,

So my ex boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. Reasons for the break up are that my insecurities were causing too many arguments and I wasn’t doing enough to change and he couldn’t deal with those problems anymore…He said those arguments made it difficult for him to love me. We spent 3 years together and overall (apart from 1 or 2 arguments per months due to my insecurities) we had a pretty good relationship, both of us know and love each other families, we have the same goals in life and share similar values and we have lots of fun together. To give you a bit of background, we both know that my insecurities come from my past relationship ( I was with someone for 10 years before him and he used to cheat on me…a lot!), before that I had never been someone too jealous or insecure. But after finding out about the cheating it made me feel insecure and it’s difficult for me to trust someone again. Anyway, recent ex broke up and told me we will never be together again…It was very painful to hear…The first few weeks I was trying everything to get him back, which obviously didn’t work! Then a month after BU we bumped into each other in a club, ended up spending the night together and he told me how much he loves me and how much the break up is difficult for him too. However, he also said that he thinks this is for the best if we are separated as he believes I need to learn how to love myself and be confident before I can be happy in a relationship again. I was devastated as I thought that one night together was a sign that he wanted to get back with me. After that I decided to start NC for 30 days. But as I work with him, I see him everyday…which makes the whole situation even harder! We don’t have to talk though, so we just try avoiding each other during the week. Last weekend he went to Bali for a bucks party and a day before he came back home he saw a photo I posted on Facebook and liked it. (He hasn’t liked or commented on anything since the BU). Then on Sunday night he messaged me in private message to compliment me on the photo. I only responded the next day and we had a casual chat about his weekend and the fact that he is feeling sick because they had such a big weekend. We talked before his flight and then he messaged me again when he landed. and then nothing. It’s now been 4 days with no sign from him, and he’s been back at work since yesterday and hasn’t even tried to talk to me or even say Hi. I’m very confused and upset as I would at least expect him to say hi to me…Do you know why he’s gone silent again? And what am I supposed to do now? Should I wait for him to reach out again or should I text him? Thanks in advance! D.
Kelli

October 13, 2018 at 5:55 pm

Hi. We dated long distance for 5 years with the long distance to end early next year. He received a promotion to a location he hated and wasn’t sure he wanted it and was upset as it was up or out. He was stressing and rethinking his career. Out of blue two weeks after talking about marriage he blindsided me by breaking up saying loves me but not in love. He was upset he was hurting me but bot at breaking up. Did NC for 20 days but needed to confirm he was paying his portion of a bill and requesting he automate it. His response was short and impersonal with a question on payment information. I responded, noted I was happy he was paying his share and then back to NC. He paid and I didn’t say anything. Twenty days later he emails out of blue to ask about payment, tell me about his 2 kids( I adore), his vague changing career plans and hoping I am well. He also started the message by using a nickname he hasn’t used in years. Confused why he would do all this. Just that morning I was feeling over the hump of emotions and now this confusing email.

Chris Seiter

October 14, 2018 at 9:48 pm

Some guys just get squeamish when talk turns to the big C, then kinda go into denial about what may really be best for them. Looks like he was checking in with you after 20 days.

Just return to No Contact and focus on your own healing. Consider joining my Private Facebook Support Group (see my home page). Your is probably just starting to see that he has a lot invested in you. Let it fill in.

Shanaynay

September 30, 2018 at 1:24 am

First of all, my boyfriend never would tell me we “broke up”. He went as far as telling me via text that things weren’t working and that he needs time, but states that “in no way are we breaking up” or that “he’s not breaking up with me”; “no one is breaking up with anyone”. Then in a text later, he says it’s just not working and that I’m not ever going to change (I’m the problem here). We went back and forth via text amicably, but he wasn’t budging on his stance. The bottom line is that he needs time or so he says. He immediately began texting me funny meme’s the very next day. That week, he texted me nearly every day with small texts, but they were personal jokes or a memory. The next week, he texted again but this time they were more serious and not jokes, but things of an everyday nature. Then he didn’t text for 2 days and I panicked so I texted him asking him how he’s been. Again, the texts were more serious in nature. Whereas I was used to his lol’s, there were none, but the texts weren’t cold either. The next day, again he’s texting me about a hobby I like to do because it was a nice day out, and then again all day long texts back and forth about random everyday stuff in our lives. When he answered a short yup on one text, I didn’t reply, but then he double texted me. I am so confused as to what he wants. He’s one to be very busy most of the time, with work and his daughter, so I don’t think he’s bored. He did say 2 days after we (shall I say, broke up, or as he would say, taking time) he did admit to me he was having mixed feelings. I’m praying that he’ll come around soon. What’s your take on this behavior? Do you think he could be using me for his emotional needs, stringing me along to feed his ego or maybe genuinely missing me and reconsidering the relationship?

Chris Seiter

September 30, 2018 at 5:34 am

Hi Shanaynay!

Breaking up by text is so wrong for you ex to do. I do think he has mixed feelings. Breakups are confusing. My advice is to plug in to the resources and tools I have on this site!

Rachel

September 9, 2018 at 2:49 pm

Hi Chris. My boyfriend dumped me close to 4 weeks ago. After he dumped me; he reached out to me for 2 days; to which I ignored. On the second day he reached out to me; I reached out back to him and it didn’t go well. I then again reached out to him on the 4th or 5th day, and it didn’t go well either. He was the last one to reply even though I reached out to him the last time we spoke. When he broke up with me, he deleted me from Facebook and unfollowed me from Instagram. He did a series of blocking and unblocking a couple of times.

I decided to do a NC rule; until on day 17; I was online on whatsapp, and was on his whatsapp chat thread (reading old messages), and I noticed he came online. My phone accidentally fell on my face, to which I noticed that a few alphabets were in the textbox but nothing got sent (phew); but to my surprise, he immediately blocked me following this. (Perhaps he saw me accidentally “typing”. Why would he be seeing me “typing” though? I’m not sure).
Alright, so now; I am blocked on whatsapp.

I recently launched a quora membership and announced it on Fb publicly- which then what happened days later was that; my ex followed me on quora and then unfollowed me on quora. (maybe an accidental press?)
This was after he blocked me on whatsapp.

2 days after the break up, he had a “story” in Instagram about him cycling happily with a girl, to which he knows I have “viewed” since his Instagram was to public. Then I recently realised (around last week) that he now “hides his story” on Instagram from me. (But I have viewed his story).

Since my ex and I are 5000 miles apart; and I had my birthday yesterday- I posted a picture on Instagram where I was celebrating with my family. He then posted a picture of him on Instagram, saying that he is in a country close to where I was celebrating my birthday, but I know for sure that he isnt, because it was an old picture.

In all; he deleted me from Fb, I am now blocked on whatsapp, I was unfollowed on Instagram and then his story is now hidden from me.

I do not understand what is going on.

What are your thoughts on this?

Chris Seiter

September 9, 2018 at 6:48 pm

Hi Rachel!

So this is not too unusual. There is often a bit of a chaos trail left after a breakup and starts and stops in trying to get back together. Sometimes a longer break is needed, so its good you are on NC. I think you ex is wresting with his emotions and feelings. I think is look for an opening to reconnect with you. Just keep doing what your are doing to cause him to appreciate your value and when NC is over, follow my program (see my eBook)!

Jessica

September 1, 2018 at 4:21 pm

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up a year ago, almost to the date after a 4 year relationship. He ended it to peruse his career and felt that it was more of a friendship at the end(this is the short version ha). Throughout the first 6 months of the breakup there was contact and he was hinting he wanted me back but I said I needed more time, I wasent sure if I could trust him again. Very suddenly after, I’m made aware, he has a new girlfriend.
For the last 6 months we have had no contact but over the last 3 weeks he has messaged me a few times out of the blew. Asking if I wanted to meet, “help me with my closure”…, sending me old pictures of us, asking where they were taken cause he couldn’t “remember”. Almost part of me throught..is he starting to miss me?
His last message was strange saying “I’m nervous asking you this but how are things with you?”
I replied saying I was fine, and how was he.
Now I’m being ghosted…he never replied. And he’s still with the current girlfriend.

He’s very confusing. Part of me still loves him but I feel he’s playing mind games, what do you think?

Chris Seiter

September 2, 2018 at 3:55 am

Maybe he is struggling with the breakup. He is probably a bit afraid of being rejected.

Chantel

August 26, 2018 at 10:26 am

Hi! My ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago and I’ve been applying no contact since. Each day he does something different like blocking me and then unblocking me, and then unliking photos ect and instead of doing it all in one go when we broke up, he pans it out over days. However he’s been looking at my stories nearly everyday on instagram yet doesnt follow me. Confusing and I don’t get it? He’s always rude to me or blanks me out of situations on a group chat we have with mutual friends. Bearing in mind I havent messaged on that chat since we broke up due to NC. Is he being rude to test me or get a reaction?? I haven’t responded to his behaviour but it is annoying me. What does it mean? And what do I do?

Chris Seiter

August 27, 2018 at 3:58 am

Hi Chantel….your ex seems to be struggling with the breakup as his behavior is erratic. So long as he is rude to you, then you should have no toleration for such behavior. Responding to him would be enabling that can of immature behavior. Yes, maybe he is testing you to get a rise from you. But being rude is most unwise.

Sarah

August 8, 2018 at 4:11 am

Hello!

I’m pretty confused at the moment and would love some insight. My ex bf and I dated for about 3 yrs. We’ve been broken up now for a little over a yr. In the beginning our break up was really rough and not very pretty. We didn’t really speak or have contact for around 6 months besides random run ins. Anyway months later he requested to follow me on Snapchat. I’d add him and then delete him because my moving on would come to a hault. Around 4 months ago I noticed him looking at my snaps without us being friends because snap changed I guess and I didn’t notice. Anyway after I did… I just went ahead and added him. I was finally okay and in a great place. About a month or so ago I asked him to call me. I had never gotten the chance to apologize for my sharp tongue when we broke up. It went well and after I felt okay. I was actually dating someone else so I was in a happy place. A month or so later we started chatting which led to us making a date to hook up. We both agreed we were over it, both not seeing anyone and both just really wanted sex. Also he seemed to really be down and went out of his way to tell me that he’s slept with other women but they were nothing compared to what we had. When the time came I called him but no answer. I knew he was either ghosting me or something terrible happened so I wrote…” wishing you the best.” Since then, he hasn’t been online to post anything and we are still friends on there but he has seemed to drop off the face of the earth. Was he playing games with me? What was he trying to get out of it? Was he just scared? Honestly, I would have liked to have seen him but I know I wouldn’t have went through with it. I knew better than to re ignite a soultie. Anyway, I okay but not sure what to do now. Any advice? Also we are both 30. Thank you in advance.
Rachel

May 14, 2018 at 8:40 am

Hi, I broke up with my ex a month ago and despite that he wanted to remain friends, when I texted him a week later he was stand-offish and basically blew me off. Since then, I removed all connections with him on social media as well as his family who added me as a friend. The breakup was more hurtful than I thought but I have gradually gotten over it. A few days earlier, I received a message from his best friend (who is in a committed relationship) asking me advice about buying a camera. His best friend has never contacted me before so it was quite random. When I asked him if he knew that we had broke up, he said yes. He also said that he thought about it but didn’t tell my ex about messaging me as it’s not something secretive, and he just wanted some general information about buying the camera. Should I trust him? Is my ex playing mind games with me?

Chris Seiter

May 14, 2018 at 3:02 pm

Hi Rachel! I suspect it his way of checking up on you. There are likely lingering feelings and resentments. Its hard for folks to let go, even when they think they are past it and that is probably what is going on in his mind. Are you interested in getting him back or just curious as to whether he and his friend are up to something?
Chris Seiter

May 14, 2018 at 3:02 pm

Hi Rachel! I suspect it his way of checking up on you. There are likely lingering feelings and resentments. Its hard for folks to let go, even when they think they are past it and that is probably what is going on in his mind. Are you interested in getting him back or just curious as to whether he and his friend are up to something?

Leanne

May 8, 2018 at 9:40 pm

I dated a guy for over a year & we split up. We got back together a few months later. We stayed in contact the whole time.. well mainly he wouldnt leave me alone but when we got back together he was differnt to before, the way he was towards me like he lacked interest or something .. id had enough & told him it wasn’t working, so he left. We’ve been split up 2 months now & I have seen him a few times, we both initiate convo but he tells me he loves me & misses me but does nothing to really try & spend time with me or show me that he cares. He asked to come and see me this week but made an excuse to not come I think he is seeing someone else but he tells me he isn’t I also never hear off him on a weekend but he pops up sometime after I don’t know what he’s playing at?! he says he knows what he wants & puts it in a way that isn’t aimed at me but could be aswell, am I this guys ego boast? Is he messing with me for the fun of it.. I don’t get it he has since messaged me & I’ve ignored him, need to cut him off?

Chris Seiter

May 9, 2018 at 3:00 am

Hi Leanne…it seems that he is far from committed. He seems to want both worlds…one with you and one without you. Perhaps he is seeing someone, but that is unclear. Maybe he is trying to keep his options open for some reason. This up and down cycle will continue unless something happens to stop it and I doubt he will be the one to end it. So you might take a look at implementing No Contact. Have you picked up my ebook, “Ex Boyfriend Recovery Pro”? If not, go look into it as it offers comprehensive blueprint on how you can optimize your chances in the ex recovery process. (visit my website Menu/products section). You may see some other resources there as well that might be of interest. Let me know how things go for you Leanne!

Sam

May 8, 2018 at 4:16 am

Hi,
I dated a guy for a couple years, then he broke up with me. It was just a normal break up, nothing too messy. But I told him that if we broke up it would be forever. I was over him and was not trying to get him back.
About 10 months after the break up ( a couple months ago) he messaged me asking to meet up and catch up. After deliberating I agreed. It was nice, and he asked to see me again almost immediately.
Since then, he still texts/snaps me almost every day and is getting flirtier. But has made no move to ask me out again. Also, he is taking longer and longer to reply to my messages.
I’m fine not dating him again, but I also would love to date him again- if he was to put the effort in.
Should I ask him to meet up and see where he’s at or if he just wants to be friends? Or is he too nervous to ask me out again, or does he not want? I’m just kinda at a loss of what to do, cuz I don’t know what he’s playing at,

Chris Seiter

May 8, 2018 at 4:56 am

Hi Sam…maybe he is waiting for you to pull the trigger of initiating something. Maybe he is afraid of rejection. Maybe he is unsure. Too many maybees! Yep…I would suggest a casual meetup to get a bearing on where his head is. What do you have to lose?
Sam

May 8, 2018 at 12:55 pm

Thanks for the reply!
Should I ask him where he’s at when’s we meet up? (If he wants to date me, or if he’s just looking to be friends, or what) Or is that too much, too soon?
I just know that when we do meet up, I won’t really be able to get that much more of a feel for it…
Chris Seiter

May 8, 2018 at 2:41 pm

Probably best not to get into the relationship talk this soon. Just keep things light…no pressure…and have fun….and smile a lot to relax him and yourself.

Lisa

April 23, 2018 at 1:11 am

I dated this 35 yrs old guy (I am 25) for two months and I am going to see him next week to end. I am just hurt to be ignored. I feel unheard and unimportant. I feel like I have to tiptoe around him because he can push me away anytime he wants to. I love him but it is time to let go.

Chris Seiter

April 23, 2018 at 5:23 am

Perhaps so Lisa. Try taking a little risk and tell him how you feel, but do so without emotion or blame. Smile when you tell him. Tell him you think its healthy to be honest about core feelings. But don’t make a big deal about it. Move on and enjoy the day with him. This approach is called setting down a friendly marker. In time, you will learn how he processes it and if he changes his behavior. Then you will know more about if you want him in your life.

Justine

March 30, 2018 at 10:29 am

So I broke up with my boyfriend in the fall. We hadn’t been together long, 4 months max, but I did love him (still do) and never told him. There were things going on in my life that I couldn’t communicate to him (personal, family, school) and he wasn’t there for me in the way I needed him to be, so I cut it off. I did the whole 30 days no contact on him and it was absolute torture for me and I know it crushed him too. In hindsight, not the best move on my part but there were things I was genuinely upset with him for and needed time to think everything through. We tried to reconnect in the winter and originally he seemed super excited to hear from me but eventually seemed to dodge us actually getting together to talk things out. We live in separate cities, so when I knew I would be in his area, I reached out. I finally met up with him few weeks ago at a bar but he didn’t originally tell me it was a work party thing for a friend of his, he just said he had nothing going on and he would be at “such and such.” At first I was whatever about it because I was excited to see him. We talked privately for about and hour or so and I felt good about it. Then after our drinks we met back up with his friend and I felt like a third wheel. I know he didn’t owe me anything, but after not seeing each other for 5 months, I would have liked a little more effort on his part. My emotions got the better of me and I took off abruptly only to explode on him via text when I got home. Now we are back to where we were– not communicating. He checks my snaps, then doesn’t, then sends me stuff, then doesn’t. Rather than being dramatic and completely blocking him, I finally quit watching his story, but right when I did, I also noticed that he quit watching mine as well. I can’t tell if he is trying to get revenge on me for hurting him the first time or is completely clueless. So immature, I know and mind you we are both around our 30’s. At this point, I’m not sure if I should let go and move on completely or reach out one last time and really tell him how I feel about everything. Thoughts?

Chris Seiter

April 3, 2018 at 1:58 am

I am not going to presume to know everything but I can tell you with complete confidence that reaching out and telling him how you feel probably won’t yield a great result. At least, from our research and experience we’ve seen it blow up in faces too often.
Justine

April 3, 2018 at 9:11 pm

I also know that playing those games are childish, but a part of me just wanted to see if he still cared and if I would have an affect on him. Also, thank you for your insight!
Chris Seiter

April 4, 2018 at 12:49 am

You are so welcome!

Anything else you’d like to ask me about?
Justine

April 4, 2018 at 1:58 am

One last thing 🙂 — From your experience, does it sound like he’s playing games, oblivious or lost interest? I’m trying to not invest my emotions into this anymore, but moving forward, I’m not sure how to act/react towards him and given it’s all social media it’s hard to know
Chris Seiter

April 5, 2018 at 10:45 pm

My views on your question have changed over the years. Interestingly, I used to believe he lost interest but now that I’m more experienced and have seen firsthand thousands of situation I believe it’s more a combination of playing games and being a bit oblivious in your case.
Justine

April 29, 2018 at 4:46 pm

We’re meeting up again this week! Hopefully I can keep it together a little more this time. But no matter how it goes, patience does pay off! 🙂
Chris Seiter

April 29, 2018 at 8:39 pm

Hi Justine! Good to hear. You right…patience is a virtue and taking little steps is golden.
Justine

April 3, 2018 at 9:04 pm

I didn’t realize my first comment posted, oops. But I think you’re right. Over the past week I noticed he quit watching my snaps as soon as I stopped watching his. Then to test it, I deliberately watched his. The next morning he was the third to watch my Easter post and messaged me that it looked like a fun Easter. I’ve read your article on Moving On Without Moving On— and I think I’m at that stage now. It sucks and I think it’ll always be a what if, but we have mutual friends and I’m sure I’m bound to run into him or have him pop back up in the future if I just let it be. Reminding myself that if he wanted different, things would be different
Chris Seiter

April 4, 2018 at 12:50 am

Ah, I just saw this!

Moving on without moving on is actually SUPER EFFECTIVE!!!!!

Believe it or not I am doing research into it right now and it’s all very positive.

Hung up

March 29, 2018 at 11:02 pm

I ended it with my ex in the fall– we weren’t together longer than 4 months, but I did love him and never told him. Things were just going on with me that I couldn’t communicate at the time and he wasn’t there for me like I needed him to be. I ended with the hopes we would eventually get back together after my fall term was over. I did the whole 30 day no contact even though it killed me and I know it crushed him. We talked about meeting up around December, but he always seemed to dodge it. I finally initiated us meeting up a few weeks ago and when we did, it was actually his friends work party. We talked privately for about an hour and it was great to see him, however after our drinks we met back up with his friend and I felt like a third wheel and left abruptly shortly after, only to explode in texts when I got home. Either clueless, completely self absorbed or just doesn’t care. Now it’s this back and forth snapchat bs and I feel like it is a game to him. So childish. Half of my friends think I should move on completely and the others think I should call him and talk again. I don’t want to be dramatic and completely block him, but I also don’t know if I should move on or try again. Thoughts?

Chris Seiter

April 3, 2018 at 1:57 am

I think we should figure out what you want to do first.

It’s been a few days since you left this comment. Any recent epiphanies on what you want to do yet?

Olive

March 11, 2018 at 3:13 pm

So my ex bf broke up with me in the worst way. He went MIA for my birthday and ghost for a week before I contacted him to ask him what is up, only for him to say he’s sorry he can’t be my bf and he never meant to hurt me and whatever nonsense. He then came later on to say it to my face and even asked to be friends. I told him he should just block me to which he refused and said he needs me in his life. Total tool. He was like wants to make it up to me over the weekend to which he did not and to top it all of he had texted me and I replied and then he was like ok. I went to the supermarket yesterday and we made eye contact and he just literally ran away lol. I honestly do not know what he wants. I am soo confused and so mad and frustrated. He wants friendship he’s sorry he Beebe meant to hurt me but like Rana away from the supermarket when he saw me? Plus he’s very much active on my social media. What is happening????

EBR Team Member: Amor

March 14, 2018 at 12:44 pm

Hi Olive,

He just said what you wanted to hear but basically, he’s broke up with you and now he’s avoiding you.

Pippa

March 1, 2018 at 5:42 pm

Hi Amor

It’s not just returning my keys and a few things – he has a bag of his things to collect from my place and I know he was driving his Dad to the airport yesterday, the only route bypasses where I live, it would literally be a 5 minute detour. I’m not bothered about anything except my keys – he knows that I really want them and I know that he was right near my place yesterday and could’ve given them back to me. This is really bugging me but I think I might have to deal with it at some later date and keep my focus on NC and improvement before I give in and contact him before I’m ready.
Pippa

February 28, 2018 at 9:27 pm

When I say that we split up 2 years ago I mean that we previously split up 2 years ago and this time now is the second time we’ve split up – he ditched me by text 2 weeks ago and said he’d bring back my keys and anything else I’ve left ASAP but hasn’t. I’m in NC and don’t feel ready to speak to him or see him right now but suspect this is a ploy to make me contact him – or maybe it’s a way he can still be in control?

EBR Team Member: Amor

March 1, 2018 at 2:08 pm

Or he just doesn’t think about it because it’s not his things and that he’s more busy in his life right now..

Pippa

February 27, 2018 at 7:30 pm

I’m 2 weeks into no contact, my ex was supposed to return my keys and pick up his stuff last week but didn’t – I thought maybe he meant this Tuesday but he didn’t come today either when I stayed out all day in order to avoid him. I wonder if he’s playing mind games with me, trying to make me contact him? I went straight into NC when we broke up and I don’t think he expected me to be so quiet but right now I really don’t want to see him. We split up 2 years ago and back then I ‘gnatted’ him but I’ve no intention of doing that now. I’m sick of seeing his bag of things hanging around and feel unable to relax or let my guard down at home. Has anyone else had this experience? Is it some kind of game?
Teresa

February 21, 2018 at 5:04 am

Hi there!

I’m really confused about my situation. Me and my ex are friends and he’s really sweet to me when we talk and sometimes we talk sweet to each other or joke around like when we were dating as if he still has feelings for me. Then suddenly out of nowhere he’ll friend zone me. And then the cycle repeats. I’ve read the articles here about the friend zone, but none of it has been helpful to my particular situation. I can’t tell if he’s playing mind games with me and stringing me along, or if I’m really just a friend and I’m reading too much into his behaviors and words. How do I figure this out? I don’t know what to do and I don’t want to get hurt.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 25, 2018 at 4:24 pm

Hi Teresa,

If he keeps doing it then he’s just stringing you along.. Have you done nc?

Confused Lily

February 2, 2018 at 9:23 am

My ex and I both decided to go NC after our break up (he broke up with me). We didnt talk for a whole month and exactly on the 30th day, he sent a random message asking me if I’m in town and told me a bit about his life and then asked me when I’ll be back.
I replied him and asked him a question. He didn’t reply me despite of being online all time.

Why would he initiate the contract after a month of nc and then ignore me?

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 7, 2018 at 12:21 pm

Hi Confused Lily,

what did you mean that you both decided on nc? You agreed that you would not talk for a month? Has he replied by now?

Emery

January 25, 2018 at 8:13 am

Okay ask my ex decides to contact me at 2 in the morning. He calls me 4 times and he texts me telling me he needs to ask me a question and that he wants an honest answer. I decide to reply till the next day, and he asks the most funniest/dumbest thing ever which was, “ how in the world do you have a two year anniversary?” I was so in shock because why would he go to that extent to make up such a lie since he clearly knows I am single and we have been up and down. I then tell him I don’t know what he is talking about. He then says you have a guy right?& I then tell him I don’t where you heard that from and that I don’t have a guy. and I told him I answered his question and then i told him good bye. He never replied back. I just don’t get why he would go to that extent to lie like that? I know him so well but I’m confused as to why he is doing that? Is it to get attention?

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 25, 2018 at 9:26 pm

yup, it’s to see if you’re going to reply.

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