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Samantha
October 14, 2014 at 4:44 pm
Hey Chris, I was dating my boyfriend for a year and because of a number of little arguments we had here and there, he kind of started snapping at me for a few days and I finally told him that needed to change in order for this to work out. That’s when he told me his heart wasn’t in this relationship anymore and he wanted to break up. I told him to really think about it for 2 weeks and we would talk then. I did NC in that period and went on a holiday and he was shocked that I took off so quickly and even asked me a week later how much longer I was going to be there for. After 2 weeks we met, but he said he wanted to stick to his decision and wanted to just “be alone”. He made it clear he wasn’t trying to date other people but really just wanted to be alone. In the next few days that followed, I kept my distance from him but we ended up texting each other back and forth and followed your rules of texting your ex and it really worked! I decided to initiate a coffee meet up, and we met and it was as if we were on our second date again. There was a lot of smiling and laughing and he would flirt with me by lightly touching my leg. At the end of the date, he kissed my cheek and said “I’ll see you very soon, ok?” Then a couple hours later he texted me to tell me it was nice seeing me. But then I texted him back and he didn’t respond. I didn’t say anything else for 2 more days, then I asked him a question, and he responded with two large texts, both positive.
What do I do now? Is this a friend zone? How do I get us to grow the love and romance back? It’s been about 5 and a half weeks since we broke up and I’m worried after the progress we made in the last two weeks, if this dies off then we’ll be in the friend zone or he’ll move on. What tactics can I use?
admin
October 27, 2014 at 2:23 pm
How long did you makeit in the no contact period?
Frustrated
October 10, 2014 at 4:17 am
Please don’t forget to respond to me… You asked a question and I responded to your question above… I need your help please. (Please see above)
admin
October 13, 2014 at 3:35 pm
I lost your question. I am so sorry. Can you repeat it for me?
Frustrated
October 14, 2014 at 6:02 am
Reply
admin
October 9, 2014 | 1:34 pm
Did you ever talk to him about why things were so different when you got back together?
Reply
Frustrated
October 9, 2014 | 3:00 pm
Yes, we spoke about it. He said said it was because he had told me that basketball season (he play professionally) would take a lot of his time, but I failed to understand (that is a lie, because he started distancing himself before basketball season already. I was not wen invited to a single game. His family ene wondered why I wasn’t invited to games cos his exes were always invited… Well, because he only came back after basketball season, there was nothing I could do about it but just accept his apology. I do suspect that there was someone in the picture that wa invited to the games other than myself. He also did mention that there was someone in the picture during our breakup. When I asked why he came back to me and left her… He said because to him it was just abou the sex…
I have a feeling he’s a player, and I was used just for sex too. What’s your advice?
Do you think he’ll come back?
Destiny
October 10, 2014 at 2:48 am
My ex bf and I dated for 2 years and 3 months. We recently broke up and for about two or so days I didn’t talk to him. I then later started texting, when I first texted him, he texted back. I said I miss you and he replied good. I asked him if he missed me and he said no. I asked really? And he said really. Then I said wow okay then and he didn’t respond so I text later saying I got a phone today. He said cool I don’t care. Now leave me alone please. I said no I love you and you like it. He never texted back. I texted him the next day, no reply. I finally called him and he answered. Deep deep now inside of me I do believe he wants to be with me. He broke up with me. He got mad cause I had a snapchat then he began to say I don’t wanna be with you anymore. I don’t wanna be in a relationship anymore it’s not going anywhere. You don’t wanna marry me and other things. I know I’ve bugged him I just know inside he wants to be with me. I think the main reason is he wants to hang out with his friends and I never stopped him. I just don’t want to lose him. What should I do? He answers some of my calls but none of my texts.
admin
October 13, 2014 at 3:32 pm
You are acting WAAAAYYY too desperate.
What do desperate people do?
They ask if you miss them.
Anonymous
October 9, 2014 at 9:49 pm
Hi,
I’m currently doing the N/C thing after what seems a little while coming. To keep things short il just say a childhood sweetheart came back into my life after years of not speaking not due to any kind of bad feeling aimy because life took us in different directions.. Well one random day I got aessage from him via Facebook of him sayin how beautiful I have grown up to be.. We began speaking again, texts, phone calls etc. He then took me on a date after a month of just rekindling our friendship & building chemistry .. We were dating for 6 months. This is where it now becomes clouded..
A date we planned to go on didn’t happen due to a miss communication on my part.. He was upset and contacted me that evening sYing how he feels like a fool because after the date he had booked us a hotel and brought me earrings as a surprise after what I thought wS just a casual trip to the cinimae.
We had a argument that night I left it and have him space then contacted him to try resolve the misunderstanding nake plans to get things back on track.
I askd if we could do it for a day we planned sumit together futher on In the week.. He said due to us not speaking he made other plans but would try change them so we could spend time together. I then went out d my way n made effort n tryd to surprise him back. The day comes a massive argument happens and that wAs when it ended.
We spoke occasionally after for a short time befor I then asked if we could make plans just to have a face to face catch up as I missed him.. His funny behaviour continues he is being vage saying yes but not giving days to when he’s free. My frustration builds, I say something we fall out again. We’ve fallen into a rutine of going in circles now and I’m beyond fed up but still wanting us to just be us again 🙁
We go a while again without speaking and I won tickets to c some football thing, totally not my cup of tea so I askd him if he wanted them. I got the friendly eager to talk to me response not really asking about the tickets but more asking me what I’m doing can he see me etc?
I ayes it cool and didn’t reply till the morning.. That got his back up and he was annoyed and again he pulls back. While we are on good terms I ask him why he is showin no intrest in bein a friend” he replies he will always be my friend regardless and he does care n have feelings for me”
I leave it as that and were getin on fine.
I then go up to London for the day and that is where he lives so I text just asking if we could meet up for a hour while I’m here. He starts again being vaige”il let you know bub” I didn’t hear from him. Obviously I was upset because all it feels like is since that whole mis understanding and argents he’s pulling back more and more and I’m chasing which is frustrating me. Basicly from there I have left it as to say you say you have feelings and u care yet u can’take time. Slight contradictory behaviour but to think I’m here trying cause like a fool Iv fallen for u or something to that effect basicly telin him Iv fallen for him n he’s just taking the mickey playing games now n he won’t be hearing from me again. I get the hint.
I hAvnt heard from him since not even a reply to that. None of this makes sense to me because befor the whole me not showing up misunderstanding his behaviour was never ever like this ino he has feelins for me. I’m feelin so confused and bad. Can you just shed some light on all this from a guys point of view cz I do t understand how it’s all flipped so fast I get Iv hurt him and pissed him of he but I’m tryin well did try to fix it and obvs Iv given up now because I’m feeling more and more let down and took for granted.
admin
October 13, 2014 at 3:17 pm
He seems to overreacted about the missed date in my opinion.
However, I think maybe some type of NC can help you a lot.
LouLou
October 9, 2014 at 8:24 pm
So, my ex boyfriend & I split about 2 months ago – his ex missus only lived round the corner from him and they have a child together, she also has other kids by different dads, who he seems very much attached to. He broke it off with me because he said he couldn’t open up to me emotionally, yet every week since our split, I hear from him. Within 48 hours of our split, he shared a bed with his ex, knowing how I felt about her.
He says he loves talking to me, that he hasn’t been dealing very well since our break up and has been acting irrationally, and that when he is due to go into hospital, he wants it to be me there with him and no one else. The last time we spoke, I told him I needed no contact for a while, and yet this week I hear from him again. I was just starting to feel good without him in my life, and everytime he talks to me, my emotions go into turmoil. Some advice please?
admin
October 13, 2014 at 3:12 pm
Seems like he is still hung up on the ex a bit.
Sharon
October 9, 2014 at 2:42 am
My bf just told me today that he doesnt want to talk anymore,that he can’t handle it right now. I am going nc but his birthday is in 2 weeks. I don’t know if I should do or say anything for his bday… He has a lot of stress right now and I hope we can get back. He lost his job. I’m not sure what to do we were together 2 months and he lost his job the 2nd week, we are in our 40’s.
Olivia
November 20, 2014 at 8:13 pm
*definitely* don’t say anything for his birthday! Be strong and take your power back, girl
admin
October 9, 2014 at 1:48 pm
Dont break NC for wishin him a happy birthday.
Allison
October 9, 2014 at 1:24 am
Hey.
My boyfriend and I just recently broke up and we have a child together this time. When I met him 2 1/2 years ago, I thought he was a complete a**. But over the time of knowing him and with him coming over to my house(oh, he was my ex’s best friend at first), I got to know him and he seemed like a nice guy. We started dating not too long after that, and after 8 months of being together, he broke it off with me. He couldn’t stand the constant nagging about stuff he didn’t do. I was too heartbroken and suffered a lot from it. Finally after 2 months of us being broken up, I got over him, moved out on my own, I was feeling good. About 3 weeks after that, he started to miss me and came crawling back and apologized deeply for everything that went down when we first broke up. We got back together and within 2 months of that, we got pregnant. Almost done my pregnancy, an issue comes up and I decided to end it because of how bad the situation got(long story short, he lied about being with another woman while we were separated the first time and got her pregnant). We broke up for 2 months. Again, he lied about something else, but we agreed to get back together because we loved one another, and NOT make it work for the baby, because that isn’t a good thing. Everything was going great, we got a house, and a dog, we were a family. But then again, my constant nagging got in the way and he got fed up with it and ended it. Both of us never changed, because of the way we were both acting towards another. I made it my official goal to him that I would change, but he would have to as well. He accuses me of being a crazy b***h, and that is his reasoning for breaking up. He’s done this to me before, same outcome, different situation. He says that he doesn’t hate me, and he’s willing to help me out with finding another place and helping me move, and that he still really cares for me, but he can’t be in a relationship. In your opinion, what is going on with his head. He’s giving up on a family because I’m a crazy b***h, that’s his only reason.
admin
October 9, 2014 at 1:47 pm
What have you done that makes him think that about you.
Frustrated
October 8, 2014 at 4:04 pm
My story is a bit dramatic… Hope you can help… My bf and I dated for 2 months (it was the best experience I ever had in terms of romance). Then he started becoming a bit distant. I complained about the distance, but it didn’t change. We then broke up, then I read your guide. I implemented a 30 day nc rule… On the 37th day he contacted me by email… I was excited to see the email (I responded the following day). We had a catual chat over a few days, then he apologised and asked that we reconcile… We got back together… It was never te same again (he didn’t tell me he loved me and he didn’t address me by pet names, etc) – I actually suspected that he was back for sex… We were together for a month, then he just stopped taking my calls… Trust me, I still love him o bits and I miss him a lot… I’ve started another nc rule and am on day 10… A few days after my last attempt to call him, I put up great videos of myself at gym (Facebook), a few more days later, I put up pics of a grey weekend I ha with my friends at a biker rally, then lastly I put up pics of myself at a late dinner date (I made sure that he could see that there was two plates of good on the table in the pic)… Then the following day he unfriended me and blocke me on fb… Do you think I’m waist ing my time??? Or is there a chance that he misses me and will come back?
admin
October 9, 2014 at 1:34 pm
Did you ever talk to him about why things were so different when you got back together?
Frustrated
October 9, 2014 at 3:00 pm
Yes, we spoke about it. He said said it was because he had told me that basketball season (he play professionally) would take a lot of his time, but I failed to understand (that is a lie, because he started distancing himself before basketball season already. I was not wen invited to a single game. His family ene wondered why I wasn’t invited to games cos his exes were always invited… Well, because he only came back after basketball season, there was nothing I could do about it but just accept his apology. I do suspect that there was someone in the picture that wa invited to the games other than myself. He also did mention that there was someone in the picture during our breakup. When I asked why he came back to me and left her… He said because to him it was just abou the sex…
I have a feeling he’s a player, and I was used just for sex too. What’s your advice?
Frustrated
October 9, 2014 at 3:00 pm
Yes, we spoke about it. He said said it was because he had told me that basketball season (he play professionally) would take a lot of his time, but I failed to understand (that is a lie, because he started distancing himself before basketball season already. I was not wen invited to a single game. His family ene wondered why I wasn’t invited to games cos his exes were always invited… Well, because he only came back after basketball season, there was nothing I could do about it but just accept his apology. I do suspect that there was someone in the picture that wa invited to the games other than myself. He also did mention that there was someone in the picture during our breakup. When I asked why he came back to me and left her… He said because to him it was just abou the sex…
I have a feeling he’s a player, and I was used just for sex too. What’s your advice?
Joe
October 8, 2014 at 3:57 pm
Hi,
I was in relationship with a guy for three 3 months, we ended up a break
Up 6 month ago as i did crying like shit infornt of him
Because of my ex, he then left my country and told
Me he does not promise to be back as our relationship
Is not strong enough, however if when he’s back and if we both are avaible, we may together again!we stil then keep talking some time via phone, i guess i made him mad sometimes as well as i got hurt after a break up! The most recent chat in July he told he has no feeling with me anymore! And even get annoyed when i told him i just bought him a t-shirt! However, we still chat sometimes and he did share with me his family pic as well as the bad news of his family in August, in beging of sept he travel
To an other country, we still chat sometimes but mostly he ends up
Silent if my talk is too personal! In the midle of sept I
Was bad to ask to much about his time there that finally he told me of course he will on dates whenever appropariate, he is single! I then discontact with him! But start Oct14 he is back to my country as his project here, he promise to let me know when he arrive but he did not do that untill
I asked him if he is here ! He just passed by my place on last sunday night to take the t-shirt i bought for him and some
Stuff he left at my place! We had a good communication mostly about his job and place for living here! I asked if i can see him again he told
We can have dinner sometimes, he then left we chated when he got home, but i make a mistake next day and a day after when keep
Chating with him he told me he cannt keep
Up with daily chat as it takes his eneger and time
And he does not have them at the moment! I was panic so as keep talking a lot and even asked him if i can have dinner with him on friday! He said
No…! I was crazy!! I know i should make it slowly but i already
blow everything up:( !
Is there anyway to save this!? I still have feeling for him even 6 moths already from day he left! Especially he is now here so as i dont want to miss this chance, he told me he can leave after a month or depends so
as i really under the pressure! 🙁 i really want to
Have him back!
admin
October 9, 2014 at 1:31 pm
6 months later and you are still in love with him?
Joe
October 10, 2014 at 5:06 pm
Yes! I guess! I still feel full emotional when i huged him last sunday and i know how i feel when i looked at him! But thins
Ga seems harder for me now! I just sms today asking if i can pass by and give him a cake, he said “no”, i then felt totally panic and sending several messages ! We end up that he told me i stop
Harassing him and dont want to receive those kind of sms anymore! I felt so awful and ask if i can see him to say sorry and i dont want to text as seems create a lot of misunderstanding(i was crazy) he told me he dont want! 🙁 i cannt save anything right!? I miss him a lot and really dont want he leave my country in next month again! Is there any hope!?
dee
October 8, 2014 at 1:16 pm
My bf and I were going on 6 months next week. I admit we broke up almost two weeks ago because I was jealous of his girl that’s a friend and him talking so much and hanging out at the fair. But we started to work things out and all of the sudden he says he’s done and can’t handle it cuz my guy friend that he doesn’t like took a picture with my son. My son isn’t my bfs kid. I’m scared the no contact will make him move on. What’s the most affective way to make him miss me? And how long would no contact have to be?
admin
October 9, 2014 at 1:15 pm
They hung out one on one? Him and this girl?
Jan
October 7, 2014 at 11:32 pm
me and my ex boyfriend break up a weeks ago but i still miss him. we’ve date for 3-4 weeks but i accidentally break up with him. he liked me for real but i thought he didn’t like me truly because he hasn’t text me or contact me for 3 days. we’ve know eacher for 3 years already. after the break up, he didn’t talk to me anymore even when he saw me at hallway or lunch. i been thinking about him and missing him alot. i want him back….. what should i do????????????
admin
October 8, 2014 at 1:03 pm
What was his reasoning for the breakup?
leticia
October 7, 2014 at 12:04 am
Hi
Ive been with my ex for almost 2 years now and we have a 6 month old daughter together.
Well i went to washington to visit and stayed a bit longer than i would have liked. Like 3 months. I couldnt stop thinking about all the bad times. Well he called and this conversation to into that conversation and i ended up going off on him about all things hes done and how upset i still get about it. And we broke up.
I found out hes already on this site called meetme and its been a week! He doesnt text me ever unless i initiate it. (I could only manage to ignore him for 3 days before i got annoyed he didnt seem to care how our daughter was doing).
Would nc rule still work? I dont want to give him time to meet anyone else.
admin
October 7, 2014 at 1:53 pm
It would yes.
Maddie
October 3, 2014 at 5:25 pm
My boyfriend and I broke up a littler over a month ago. He said he wasn’t “feeling it anymore” but we had been together for over a year and he wanted me even when he had a previous girlfriend. Needless to say we have had history with each other for a few years now. After we broke up we decided to be friends and then I found myself hooking up with him and left me confused. Since then he has hooked up with two girls and we aren’t friends. I really have no idea what to do because he wants to be friends but I can’t be friends with him because I love him. I want to believe he will come back but I have no idea what step to take to get him to miss me. I can’t tell if he cares about me anymore or not.
admin
October 6, 2014 at 11:31 am
NC is a good start if you are wanting to get him missing you.
He seems a bit unstable if he is hooking up with that many girls though.
Pc
September 29, 2014 at 1:20 pm
My ex and I have been friends and worked together for the last 7 years. There has always been a lot of chemistry between us but we were always seeing other people. We quit working at the same place and kind of lost contact. Then about a year and a half ago ran into each other and after that started hanging out pretty regularly. At that time I honestly was not interested in a boy friend, so we kind of decided to have a fwb situation. And it worked out really well. For about a year. But we were more than that. I guess maybe it was becJse with out the title of boy friend and girl friend we really opened up to each other. We told the other things we never shares with past lovers. It sounds so cliche but we just connected on a deep level. We just get each other. We talked several times about taking things a step further but we would always back out of it. Usually me bringing it up. He and I both have a pattern of running when the going gets tough and we realize that. Well, after a year of the fwb situation he say me down one night and told me he was tired of pretending he didn’t love me, that he wasn’t happy just being considered my friend, and that he wanted to be with me and only me. That this was a huge step for him because he’s never been so open with another woman before. And things were great. I thought I was one of the lucky ones, in love with my best friend. On one occasion he got over whelmed with life. Job, money, over thinking his future and he told me he needed to focus all of his energy into his new business and that he didn’t need any distractions ( me) I was extremely hurt and blind sided but I just said, I’m here for you, I always have been and always will be. And I’ll support you in however I can. Just a few days later he apologized and said that he made a mistake and that I was a huge positive influence on his life, that when I was with him I made him want to be a better version of himself and he could feel himself growing with me. He has also said that this relationship was the most natural thing he’s ever had before. He really isn’t an overly emotional guy so I took these things to heart. Well, 4 months after we became official we had an argument ( it was something stupid and pointless over nothing to even do with us. But we are both stubborn and have to have the last word) he took it to another level and insulted me, so I left his house and extremely frustrated I sent him a message saying ” I won’t be talked to that way, or treated that way. If that’s how you’re going to handle things I am done. ” I shouldn’t have let my anger get the best of me. But the next morning I didn’t hear from him and saw that he changed his relationship status on Facebook. Of course I text him right after that and asked him about it. To which he replied ” you broke up with me, and I don’t want to get back together” the next two days were arguing and us expressing our hurt through anger. Then I just ignored him for a whole day. Then we kind of fell back into our normal pattern of texting each other. ( this was just last Sunday, so a week ago) it’s so hard to do NC simply because he really was my best friend. Any how, Friday night he kept hinting about me coming over and I caved in. He talked a lot about the personal stuff going on with his family, we acted just like a couple again, planning out a camping trip we want to take and everything. but he never brought up getting back together. I haven’t either. Are we both waiting for the other to give in and say something? It’s only been a week and I don’t have any of the needy desperate feelings of oh I can’t live with out him, that’s silly. And I’m sure once the smoke clears we could have a great friendship. But it would never be just that. I want him to miss me, and even though I sent the hasty break up message I want him to apologize for how he treated me. Should I so this whole no contact thing, or just simply say how I feel? I don’t want to come across needy, because I’m not really. I just think it was a ridiculous way to end something you invested a year of your time into just to make sure that’s what we wanted. I’ll start the no contact today regardless. Until I hear a little feed back.
stacy
September 23, 2014 at 12:25 am
Hi,
So I have been dating this guy for 5 years. Last year I felt very confused about the relationship. My boyfriend was barely working, did not have a car, and never had any money. So I broke up with him and was very distant from him. I would answer his texts, but it would always be short answers. I then moved to Florida and he was devastated. I truly had no idea what I wanted at the time, so I did not see anything wrong with it. I hooked up with a few guys during the 5 months we were apart, but never seriously dated anyone. Then all of a sudden he stop contacted me after 3 months of texting me not stop. After 3 weeks I started to miss him, I texted him and we started talking again. I told him I wanted to get back together. He said he was seeing someone else. After about a month we got back together. Now 8 months later he broke up with me. He got a new job and all these new friends and started to grow distant. He said he wanted to be single and not have to answer to anyone anymore.he said he still loves me and always will. He said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He spoke to both my mom and sister and said he doesn’t want to be with anyone else and how he knows I’m the love of his life. He even told his mom that we’ll be back together. Now 2 months after the breakup I find out he’s been with someone else for a few weeks and was really scared to tell me. He claims it’s not serious, but since I didn’t just give him the space when he asked I just pushed him away farther. He said things just have not been the same since I came back. Last time I spoke to him was a week ago. I told him I will always love him and hope our paths cross again. He said he still loves me but something is not right between us and only time can fix it. he also said that he promises one day we will be happy together. I am now sticking to the no contact and we agreed that in a few months we can try and be friends, because he said I will be his best friend till the day he dies. I want to believe him, but it is just really hard. Do you think I lost him forever and does he really like this new girl? I’m just confused on what to do
Samantha
September 18, 2014 at 2:41 am
Hi me and my boyfriend broke up a few weeks ago and he was all wrapped up in college and wouldn’t text me all day and when he would it was like one word answers and he said he would get better when i asked if he would take the time and talk to me sometimes and then he started the non texting again. After i told him i didnt wanna break up that i just wanted to work it out with him he said “its me not you” and he said his college life is really too hectic for a gf. And i wassss sooooo stupid i actually texted him and told him i miss him and then said i wanted to be friends (face palm) anyways i really want him to miss me but after reading your page i feel like a stupid head
nataly ramirez
September 18, 2014 at 2:29 am
Hi,
My ex and i dated for a week, he broke up with me. His reason was because he wanted to be more focused on baseball, i was like thats some BS because i as well play softball and i wouldnt be able to be a distraction because i as well have to be focused. I had known during my freshman year that he had liked my best friend, but i wasnt interested in him till sophomore year. So when he asked me out sophomore year i didnt mind because the past is the past i thought he had gotten over her as time had passed. Turns out the reason broke up with me is because he still had feelings for my friend. I had to find out from my best friend, when he had broken up with me he tryed talking to her, as a good friend that she is, she told me what was going on, she was no where near interested in him because she is taken. So my friend never replied to him and he came back to me saying he misses me, i think he only came back because i was the second choice.i told him everything that went on and he felt bad and said sorry for putting me through a lot. I told him what he did would never change anything and that sorry wasnt going to change things. So we stopped talking for 2 1/2 months. I have him for history class and i catch him glancing at me, every now and then. I do not know what that means??? I also used to go to some of his games, that i could go to, and cheer him on. since we broke up i dont go to his games any more and i wonder if, me not showing up any more is making him miss what ive done for him??? Because from what ive known im the only girl out of the girls he has dated, who has gone and supported him at his games. I dont know if he still likes me??? I miss him! Help me!
ada wong
September 17, 2014 at 11:26 pm
i broke up with my bf 3 days ago my case is different cause a week before the break up we fought because he told me something important and beneficial but at that time i said “hell with it i don’t give a dam” he replied “thank you!” since that he never talked, chatted or called me after a week he unfriended me on facebook although i told him i’m sorry many times before he unfriended me on FB but since that thank you! he didn’t say a word however, when he unfriended me i felt so bad i haven’t said anything about it..never tried to contact him by all means…i’m just hurt. i used to see him before a week ago but now i’m not seeing him any more
what should i do? what if i did that NC method and he met a new girl? i’m really scared he means a lot to me.. pls pls HELP??
admin
September 18, 2014 at 4:41 pm
What did he tell you?
He just ignored you completely after this talk 3 days ago.
ada wong
September 18, 2014 at 5:32 pm
ignored me for a week and a half then he unfriended me on facebook 3 days ago…
Kerri
September 16, 2014 at 3:54 pm
Hi my bf broke up with me 5 weeks ago because he said I text him and mithered him too much! We had a big argument a couple of weeks ago and he came out with ‘I’m with someone else’ I think he may just be saying this too hurt me but he keeps going on about how she doesn’t mither him and text him all the time and that she may be a rebound but he’ll have to see! I don’t know if he has found someone else or if it’s just to try hurt me and make me jealous! I saw him a couple of weeks ago and he got jealous because I was apparently flirting with his friend! I havnt stopped texting him and I know I need to! What do I do? Please help
admin
September 17, 2014 at 4:09 pm
Did he say you were clingy? Is that why he broke up with you?
Nicole
September 15, 2014 at 3:43 pm
i broke up with my boyfriend (now ex) of 8 months and we go to the same college. I’ve tried contacting him and he wont talk to me. I see him sometimes around campus and he’ll glance at me and look away quickly. I just dont know how long it will take for us to talk again.
admin
September 16, 2014 at 3:11 pm
Just be patient… He is definitely thinking about you.
You broke up with him 8 months ago?
He sounds very stubborn. Give him some time to reflect.