7 Definitive Steps On How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You

5,888 thoughts on “How To Make Him Miss You After A Breakup”

amanda

March 5, 2015 at 7:44 pm

He broke up with me after 2 yrs out of the blue because of drama from his kids! Just the night before he broke up he was all over me n telling me he lived me so much never care for anyone like me! He blocked me n everyone but my dad! I have texted him n he text back sometimes telling me he’s done this time! He has told me he has the deepest feels for mw! Has told me secret that no one else knows! Help he’s my soul mate I love him!
Emmie

March 4, 2015 at 7:36 pm

Hey, my boyfriend broke up with me after 8 months of being together. I know it doesn’t seem much, but we really had a bond, I have never loved anyone this much before and I could feel that he loved me really much. Our problem is that this is/was a not-so-long distance relationship, we could only see each other once or twice a month for a couple days, but that didn’t seem to bother neither of us. I was going to move to his city this summer after finishing University and get a job there, he told me that on a few years he’s gonna marry me, we planned our house together, etc. Lately we both had stressful things going on in our lives and I’ve been a little needy and moody for one or two weeks, and probably this is the reason he broke up with me. He was going to visit me in 1 or two days and I was too pushy because I wanted to see him as soon as possible, but he had some problems at his job, and maybe he thought that I didn’t understand him.
I think he just needs time to sort things out and calm down, and I’m trying to do everything that’s possible to make him believe that I can change for him. I’ve been talking to some common friends in the past days and they say that he’s in a really bad mood and they think time will solve things between us. I tried not talking to him, but I’m really worried because he always says that he doesn’t want anyone in his life anymore, he wants to be alone, he wants to die and he’s been sending me pictures of him with his eyes cried out and sad. He says he misses me, but I couldn’t convince him to meet me and try to talk about our issues. I really don’t know what’s going on in his life, because he won’t tell me, but I’m scared that he’s gonna do something stupid. I don’t wanna lose him and I just want to let him know that no matter what’s going on with him, no matter what he did, we can talk about it and we can solve everything.

I really need your honest opinion about this case, I want him back.
What should I do?

PS: He hadn’t told about our breakup to his family, only a few of his friends know it.

Emmie

March 5, 2015 at 3:05 pm

Never mind that PS, he just called me and I found out his parents know about it. Although they liked me really much, his father always said that he was waiting for me to visit, and they have introduced me to relatives and family friends. His freidns also think he’s a fool for leaving me. Should I try the NC? We’ll be seeing each other in 3 weeks because there’s a festival we have tickets for and I really don’t wanna sell mine because I’ve been waiting for this band for years. However, is 3 weeks enough time for no contact? And what should I do if he keeps calling me all the time? He’s really sensible, and I don’t want him to think that I don’t care about him at all… it’s just I can’t be just friends with him, even if we were friends for 2 years before getting together.

Please, help me…

Bree

March 4, 2015 at 3:57 pm

Me and my boyfriend have known each other for a year now. We have been seeing each other for 6months, but didn’t officially start dating until a month ago. About 2 weeks ago he initiated to take a break, not a breakup, because he doesn’t feel the butterflies like he did when we first started seeing each other so he didn’t want to be unfair and continue the relationship until he came to the understanding of his own feelings. I tried to tell him the feelings and the cold feet are understandable in the beginning of a relationship and that the honeymoon phase is fading. He said we can continue to hangout and stuff until he comes to terms with what he wants, but without the title for these past 2 weeks. When we are with each other he says he wants this relationship and I’m his ideal girlfriend and how his family tells him I’m a keeper, and he sees nothing but good and potential in me basically saying he wants me to be happy, which I am happy when I’m with him. He brings out the best in me and he said he feels like he’s not good enough for me because I’m getting internships and I have my life figured out, which I don’t lol. But he finds when we aren’t with each other he just wants to hang with his boys and not me, which I said that’s ok because we don’t have to be with each other 24/7. We have never had an argument that made us reevaluate the relationship, so we are on good.. Scratch that great terms. I don’t want to keep asking him for reassurance if it’ll work out so I finally started the NC this week because I want to give him space to really think about stuff and I want him to miss me (which is why the break started was so he can miss me). He says I’m special and that he does not want to see other people, and he’s scared if he pulls the plug that he will regret the decision. I’m scared that he’s going to come back and say he doesn’t want to continue to have romantic feelings anymore. I feel like our relationship barely begun and I want to continue to show him how much I care for him. I’ve known him for a year now and I can’t imagine losing him as a friend and a future lover.

admin

March 7, 2015 at 5:09 pm

How long have you been in NC for?
Bree

March 4, 2015 at 4:16 pm

Well I wouldn’t lose him as a friend, it will just be hard for me.

s

March 3, 2015 at 10:47 pm

me and my boyfriend were dating for about 2 months the first month it was so amazing and averything was perfect after that i felt like he dosen’t care about anything even he won’t go out so i told him that he’s so boring and how he changed suddenly and he told me the he dosen’t feel the same way like before so i get mad i spoke to him in the bad way and we broke up but and i tried the no contact rule and we have already had a month and he still not talking to me ! i just aren’t want this things with my exes so that’s why i wanna have a chat with him again! what should i do?? and btw i want him to start talking to me!

Sydney Girl

March 6, 2015 at 1:07 am

If he started acting weird at 2 months that may indicate he is withdrawing because 1. he freaked out you were getting very close (the antidote for future is to pull back as well) or 2. he recognized you weren’t compatible (for too many possibly reasons to comment here). Then by yelling at him/speaking bad you’ve gone against the two reasons mentioned already.

I would suggest you start afresh with someone new. At 2 months, you’re not as attached so it’s best for both of you. If he comes back later, you have the option to take him back or not.

I wish you well.
admin

March 5, 2015 at 8:25 pm

How old are the two of you?

Did you last the entire month in NC?

M

March 3, 2015 at 1:47 am

Hi its been 2 weeks that I havent contacted my ex-boyfriend, he broke up with me after calling me with names and abusive words. I feel so used at times because of him as I think I was there to do work for him, he used to touch me but at the end said to me that “I never even wanted to touch you, I only did because you forced me to”. I feel terrible. I feel so worthless, a part of me wants him and I do not know if its right to think this way. He told my friends he never considered me his girl, so I guess he took me as a cheap slut. I’m embarrassed, I can’t face people related to him. What should I do? Sometimes I want to send him a strongly worded email but I dont know if its right or wrong I think if I send him that email he will think that I am crazy after him because he’s from a celebrity background. Please help me, I’m losing my mind.

admin

March 3, 2015 at 9:54 pm

You should stay in NC. Thats what I think.

Jas

March 3, 2015 at 12:50 am

I was in a relationship for year and two months, I’m only 15 but I had high hopes for us lasting forever. I had to move away because my dad’s job and when I did move I moved thousands of miles away. When I told him about it he said we’d make it work.. Although, he is the one who broke up with me because he says he changed.. I don’t understand. 🙁 we broke up 3 days ago and I blocked his number just to make sure I’m not tempted. He did change my Instagram password so I can text him and ask for it I’m guessing, I miss him but I know it’ll never work out now..

admin

March 3, 2015 at 9:52 pm

How old was he?

Around the same age?

J

February 28, 2015 at 10:21 pm

So I was casually dating this guy for about 6 months. In January, he blew me off for the entire month (friends staying with him, etc) but still remained in contact with me (which was confusing because I thought he was too busy!). I saw him once again and at the beginning of Feb, I broke it off with him via text. I told him the last couple of months have been fun but I’m not looking for something casual, but looking for a relationship. Said goodbye and take care. Also, while we were dating, he kept saying that he wants to move back to his Europe to be with his family. First he thought it was in Jan. But now I think it’s May. But it all depends on his job really. Anyway, he didn’t respond to my text for twelve days! And all he sent was an alligator emoji (I had sent him an animal emoji at the end of my text). I didn’t respond. it will be a month next week I broke up with him. I really wanted him to change and fight for me. What do you think his text meant? Is it over? I hope not!
Jessy

February 28, 2015 at 12:07 pm

Hey Chris I’m wracking my brains here. I’ve been seeing this guy for 8 months. We both came out of painful long term relationships shortly before we got together. We never told each other that we loved one another. There was a lot of attraction affection and chemistry between us. And we had lots of fun. Towards the end someone close to me passed away and I was very upset and cold towards him which I regret now. He told me he wasn’t sure about our relationship, if he would ever be over the ex girlfriend that hurt him. And that he just wanted to be friends. I agreed I said I may not be completely over my ex boyfriend too, and if that’s what he wanted then I’m afraid we couldn’t be friends. Now he’s gone it’s only been 4 days of no contact. I have realised how much I really do love and care for him. Do u think there is any way he could want me back even though he said he still has feelings towards his ex? Thanks
j

February 28, 2015 at 8:51 am

I was in a relationship for almost 3 years andd all of a sudden my boyfriend decided he had had enough. We had been arguing alot in the past few months but we had actually just been going through an amazing stage and litrally a week before this he had told me he always wanted me in his life and that he would never leave me. But here we are a week on and I needed comphorting over a situation which probably wouldn’t seem like a big deal but I was very upset over it. However he thought I was being silly and we ending up having a massive talk where he said he still loves me so much and always will but he doesn’t want to be in a relationshiP. I failed at this point and broke down crying begging him to stay stay, I know awful decision but I physically coukdnt stop myself. Anyway long story short I have managed to convince him to think about it over the weekend and we will talk on Monday. I have already made the delicion to not contact him at all this weekend but is there anything else I can do to maximise my chances of making him want to stay with me when we talk about it again on Monday?
Samantha

February 28, 2015 at 7:05 am

I was dating a guy for 3 months. when we first dated he said he was sharing a house with a female flat mate. I felt like something happened with the flat mate, I confronted him and he said when he moved in the house 2 years ago he had something with the flat mate for 7 weeks. Then he realised it was a mistake with the flat mate then he broke it off. He still stayed in the house after 2 years. few times I have been in the house she has been there, it was hard for me to deal with that. I spoke to my boyfriend but he never understood it was hard for me. He just says I should be alright to be friends with her. I feel she boss him around and tells him what to do. Last Saturday I went to his place for dinner, she was there and he asked me if he could wear his shorts but she answered, I felt she was interfering in our relationship. I was upset I told him but he said he was doing it deliberately to engage both of us in the conversation. But i am his girlfriend so her opinion shouldn’t matter. When I got home I texted him saying it’s over that I was not the person he should go out with but to date his flat mate. He didn’t respond but Tuesday I called him but we argued again the conversation ended better, since then I have never heard from him. I never wanted to break up with him but I was upset and said all the things to him
catherine

February 27, 2015 at 8:17 pm

My boyfriend has recently broken up with me, and he said that he just doesn’t feel the way he used to. And I still love him and want to be with him but if it’s not going to work out it don’t want to waste my time anymore. We’ve broken up once before and after that happened he had a new girl and was telling people he didn’t like me and was really rude to me, but we eventually got back together the next week. It’s happened again and he’s been telling people he doesn’t like me and I think he’s got a new girl (I’ve heard that’s usually a rebound but I’m not sure). I’ve been using the no contact rule for a week now. I just need to know if you think we have a legitimate chance of getting back together.
Shae

February 27, 2015 at 8:31 am

I am confused on the jealousy text. How does “thinking” that you saw him make him jealous? Also…what the heck do you follow it up with if he just says “no”?
Michelle

February 27, 2015 at 8:11 am

Hi, my bf and I have been together for almost 3 years. We hit our first rough patch in the later part of January and initially we agreed on a time out for 1 month. However, after 3 days, I thought it’s all about how much we wanted to make our relationship work and that waiting for a month to pass might be too late to salvage our relationship. I went down to his place and asked him to reconsider giving us another shot, he told me he would call me that night and let me know his decision.
That night, he called to break up with me. I was devastated, i begged him for 2 weeks as he kept talking to me everyday since.
He wouldn’t change his mind, he kept saying “I’m sick of you”, “I’m sick of quarrelling”, “You forced me to break up with you”, “I don’t want commitment”, “You are good enough for me but I need a change”. What should I do now? I really want him to give us a second chance but he claims that the glass bottle is broken and no amount of glue will fix it back.
He stills texts me everyday, saying “I know I will regret later”, “I watched a video and it made me think a bit of us”. He even proposed a friends with benefits options but I declined because I want his commitment, whereas he wants to be able to date other girls.
Is he confused or is he keeping his options open while keeping me close? What should I do not? Please advise, thank you.
Diyah

February 27, 2015 at 5:45 am

I been living with my boyfriend for 1 year recently he moved out with the reason that his parents came from oversea but i found out lately that it was a girl from his country who came.he beging me don’t talk anything in front of the girl because she is his cousin that his family want them to get marrige By the way he is muslim. I was so angry and feel shocked like all this time he been using me only i help him to look for new place ,buy things for the house and moved then he just did all of that for her. I told her Everything about us but i know nothing would change and he asked me in front of her that what will i get now? Then i said nothing and i dont want him.i said. now i am feeling so down as i am also pregnant. and he will come to talk to me today but i said if you will keep lying or blaming for what happened and dont feel sorry then dont come. what do i have to react when i see him?
Amanda

February 27, 2015 at 3:03 am

So I broke up with my boyfriend just over two weeks ago, and unknowingly was doing the “no contact’ rule…he had facebook messaged a few times over ten days, just random things like, ïm not angry, just disappointed – hope you’re ok’and others like your friends said to say hi'(I had not responded to them but he had seen that I “saw them”), then his daughter messaged me asking us if we wanted to hang out with them (I did answer the daughter)
then yesterday he turned up at my house! of course I answered the door not expecting it to be him and asked him politely what he wanted, he said he came for his spare key to which I replied I dropped it back in your ‘spare key’spot over a week ago while you were at work. we then had coffee together and talked and talked and im very ashamed to admit this but we ended up sleeping together. he then said hopefully we could talk some more on Saturday and I replied with ‘whatever you want,. if I see you I do, if not, that’s cool.

help! ive done the wrong thing, haven’t I? ive stuffed it up completely..? I was going so well and then BAM!
how can I rectify this?? btw, I want to be with this man!!! 🙁

Amanda

February 27, 2015 at 3:05 am

oh! when I answered the daughter I said ‘sorry we cant, we’re out but your dad could drop you off to play with kids if you’d like’
thought I better specify I didn’t give in to him wanting to see us..

Chantel

February 27, 2015 at 12:45 am

It’s been almost a month since our break up. Things ended pretty badly between us, and I’m not sure if what we had can be recovered. We were together for two years and lived together for one out of those two years. Somewhere along the way we lost the ability to communicate with eeach other which caused a lot of stress and emotional abuse. The kicker is, we had gotten a puppy together who is now 9 months and since the break up I have persuaded him to sell me the dog, as I have a more stable living environment. He agreed and honestly didn’t put up much of a fight. Which was VERY surprising. I am picking her up this coming Monday, and as part of the agreement is that all contact between us stops after I get the dog. Wanting her has nothing to do with an underlying desire to hurt him. After Monday I plan on committing to the no contact rule for one to two months. Problem is I am moving away. I have no idea if reaching out eventually will work, or if there is even a point. I think of him everyday and miss him more than I thought could be possible. Despite how chaotic things were between us, I fantasize about him finding me again one day once he’s figured out his shit. I’ve never experienced such a soul crushing break up. When our gut tell us something is meant to be, is it naive to want to believe it ? I really do want him back. I’m so confused
ashley

February 26, 2015 at 3:20 pm

So I was in a non-relationship with this guy, we were supposed to be talking and getting to know one another after meeting and hooking up the first time we met. Long story shorty, we’ve not got to the getting to know one another part and he was lying about seeing another girl…and was trying to hide it until the infamous friends caught it. Haha, anyhow….I have no desire to be with him or any sort of relationship….never had…but I want a benefit relationship and on my terms. He just recently ignored me for 3 days in a row and I finally said I’m done, it was nice knowing you and have a great life. But now he’s texted me saying he wasn’t trying to ignore just been busy and “so how’s life and thangs” what the hell is he playing??? We have no connections other then sexual….is he trying to see what he can get away with and if I really meant what I said??

admin

March 1, 2015 at 6:22 pm

What do you mean no connections other than sexual?

Were you just FWB?

asoum

February 26, 2015 at 12:47 pm

I v a problem with my boyfriend he complains about me all the time and he told me he loves this is our first we still have problem for more than week, he told me that my friend is better than me, what makes me cry and feel not confident about my self and feel jalous, he is always comparing me with other girls, but he told me that he loves me and can not live without me.this is what i can not understand. I told him that he is
pretending that he loves in front of my
family and friends but in fact u r not you are
zero he got angry he want to break up with me im so sad i know that he loves me bul he s insulted, 4 days after our fight he called me back and talked to me so cold.these days i tried to speak to him and discuss about it but he gives me no chance.yesterday i texted him twice but he didn’t respond, i called him 15 times but he didn’t answer. I don’t know what to do.he is the one who insulted first.my problem is i forgive easily .i want him to miss me and chase me to forgive.

admin

March 1, 2015 at 6:17 pm

Ok, first things first 15 times is a little… much.

Might need to go into NC.

jek

February 25, 2015 at 8:32 pm

My bf and i had a huge fight and i dont know if its over between us.i told him my side why i did something to make him so mad at me and doesnt even want to talk to me or even send mesg to him. I tried NC for 2 days but i sent a mesg for him to know the real reason why i did that for him to understand my situation.he listened but i dont know whats going on his mind now.i told him to give our relationship a chance coz i love him and he knows how much i love him and given him everything.i told him to look into the good and happy times we were together not only the mistake i did. (This is the first mistake i made) He just replied to me.. “i dont know” i didnt mesg him the whole day but still hoping he will.. i know hes still mad at me and and also confuse.am afraid to use the NC coz if our communication is lost i will totally lose him too.. please advice..thanks.
cat

February 25, 2015 at 7:20 pm

me and my boyfriend were dating for almost 6 months. the past two months or so I have been picking fights with him and basically pushing him away. 2 nights ago we sat down and he said he just wants to focus on school, and his wrestling career right now and doesn’t want a girlfriend anymore. he said he’s not in love with me because of all the fighting. is he just saying that to make the break up sound easier? we were honestly perfect together and we’re best friends. I love him still and I’m not over him. I want him back so badly it kills me. we’ve had a few conversations and I’m just hurting and hurting more and more. I don’t know how to get him back. I know he’s going to realize he misses me. he said he’s been crying and has been a mess but it doesn’t change anything. what does that mean? do you think he still wants me?

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