7 Definitive Steps On How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You

5,888 thoughts on “How To Make Him Miss You After A Breakup”

Rebecca

March 20, 2015 at 1:42 pm

My boyfriend out of nowhere said he wasn’t ready for a relationship but two days before was cuddling and kissing me on the sofa saying he missed me and loved me. Did he mean what he said? Shall I try texting again?

admin

March 22, 2015 at 4:20 pm

You should check out my latest post on mixed signals.

italy

March 20, 2015 at 12:05 pm

Hey there, my story is a little different. I met a guy back in italy. And we liked each other even though we didn’t tell each other because I am a muslim and he is a christian. After I left I thought that was it but I was surprised to find him texting me all the time. He never said he likes me but he used to say stuff like I always want to talk to u and I wish I can do a lot to u but I can’t (because he is a christian). Last month I went to italy he was so happy and We went out for a couple of times but he never said anything just signals. Finally in my last day we fought because I asked him if he wants to tell me anything and he kept saying that there is nothing to say. Finally he told me I care about u so much but we can’t be together because u are a muslim and I know ur parents will kill me (he is good friends with my parents btw). I got angry because if he didn’t want to be with me then why was he texting me all the time. So I told him he is a player and we fought thn a few days later I appologized he was so cold and he told me we will be just friends I agreed but he was still cold so i stopped texting him. Now he texted me 4 times for the past 3 weeks but I’m not replying. I don’t want to All I want to know what does he want from me?!?!? Did he ever like me? Does he still does?

admin

March 22, 2015 at 4:20 pm

I think he has feelings for sure but he doesn’t quite know how to process those feelings yet.

Eli

March 19, 2015 at 4:09 am

My boyfriend doesn’t want me to bother him nor text him. I feel like I’m waiting in vain. Please advice.
J

March 18, 2015 at 12:01 am

Okay so this guy and I were together 8 months. And before that we dated for month and were really good friends. After 4 months of us being together, he finally told me he loved me. We were literally best friends and did everything together. And I also did everything for him. But anyways. A little while ago he broke up with me. I asked for the reason and he told me he just needed time to himself and I said okay but then he said he couldn’t do it. And then a couple days later he told people he broke up with me because he didn’t like our arguing, even know we didn’t argue that much. But then so I texted him asking for answers because he did not talk to me for a week. But he asked people about me and told them I was his everything and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. Then I texted him about getting answers and he just told me he couldn’t handle the arguing and he became less happ with our relationship and wanted to be friends. And so I accepted that. And so I texted him to make sure he was okay because of a situation that was going on with his family and then he said thank you and told me he was okay and all of that. And so, three days later, he told me friend that I was the one that wanted to break up and also told my friend that he felt hurt and lied to because I was talking to my ex. But then I went up to him and asked if we could talk to clear the air and he said he would but it’s been 2 weeks and he still hasn’t talked to me. Also a week before he broke up with me, I told him we should take a break and he begged me to stay with him and I did and he said he felt like the luckiest guy in the world for giving him a second chance but then 5 days later he left. I guess I’m just a little confused on what is going through his head and seeing if you could help.

admin

March 21, 2015 at 2:53 pm

Sounds like he gave you some mixed signals or wasn’t 100% sure of you yet.

Grace

March 16, 2015 at 9:06 pm

At Christmas my boyfriend and his ex kissed at a party, my ex told me about this the next day and when I confrunted my boyfriend he admitted it, we argued but sorted things out and stayed together. On New Years eve I got really drunk and angry and also kissed someone. I regretted it so much and couldn’t tell my boyfriend, last week he found out and broke up with me. He said he needed time but I couldn’t wait, what does ‘I need time’ even mean? After four days I messged him and he said we could be friends and I’d have to put loads of effort in to get him back. We spoke for two days and then he ignored me for another two. He went to a party on Friday and text me telling me about him knowing a good song called ‘we are never ever getting back together’, implying that me and him are never getting back together. This text made me angry and I haven’t replied to it, it’s been two days and I’ve had no text from him. I want to be stubborn and not text him but I love him so much and I’d do anything to have him back, please tell me what I should do?

admin

March 18, 2015 at 8:31 pm

Sounds like your ex before your ex wants you back.

I would definitely check out the page I wrote on cheating.

Alyssa

March 16, 2015 at 4:18 pm

My 19 year was in a horrific car accident and when I got back from seeing her my bf of two years, who asked me to move here to be with him and live with him, decided he now wants to be single and that things don’t “feel right.” I was on tinder the next bc I was reading the article about how if you’re over 30 you get charged and my neighbor was saying she just signed her dad up for it. I have never been on tinder, I know all his friends are on it and I was not looking at it to “hook up” or be spiteful. But one of his friends saw me on there and he will not even talk to me. He came hone from work and told me I had 20 minutes to leave. Although, even if I was on tinder for that reason why should it matter if he said he wanted to be single the day before? I seriously was looking at it with the neighbor laughing bc we thought it was ridiculous and only had an account for 1/2 hour. What do I do? Thanks

admin

March 18, 2015 at 7:23 pm

That’s a cruel move especially right after your daughter was in an accident.

Was this his reasoning for the breakup? Or did this happen after the breakup?

M

March 15, 2015 at 3:54 pm

Hi, I know this is for women to make guys miss them but hope you can help. Just stumbled upon this article, I feel my ex is doing exactly that to me. She gave it time and changed her hair and showed me pictures, then a few weeks later brought up about a memory of a date we had because there was something related to it that happened in her life. Now she’s not contacted me again but says about how she’s got so many new friends now. What would you suggest I do back? Would love to know other women’s opinions on this. Ultimately I’d like her to miss me, but mostly don’t want her to know she isn’t gone from my head. Finally, I don’t want her back, she broke my heart, despite it being due to long distance reasons which we fought through before, she doesn’t get another chance.

admin

March 15, 2015 at 5:32 pm

Hop on over to my other site, Ex Girlfriend Recovery

yami

March 15, 2015 at 3:46 pm

I was in a relationship of just 15 days but in 15 days I don’t know what happened but I love that guy very much he broke up with me because he love another girl n now I just miss him very much plz help me to get him back plz

admin

March 15, 2015 at 5:33 pm

For 15 days…

Was he seeing the other girl while you were dating?

zsm

March 15, 2015 at 2:13 pm

hi,i was with a guy in relationship and loved him so much. he left me after 6 month and backed to me after 6 month and claimed that He loves me and He was fool to leave me. we started again because i loved him. we had perfect time together until we had bad fight a week ago and i said i wanna break up bcs i was so angry and he said OK that is fine and it doesn’t work anymore and we are too different…. yesterday i sent him a text msg and apologized for bad words i said but didn’t say that i want him back or something like this and said that i do agree with him and it doesn’t work and he texted me back its OK … I want him back but I know he Is so stubborn and he wouldn’t call me or text me after a month and now he thinks that I am not appropriate girl for him and i don’t want to call or text him anymore until he text me first.
what do you think about this case ?what can i do ? 🙁

admin

March 15, 2015 at 5:34 pm

When was the last time you actually had contact with him?
susie

March 18, 2015 at 12:07 am

I was situation like that before….to be honest with you it seems to me that he wants to play hard get sometimes man attend to have eagle they dont want to look like there the one they miss you…(when deep inside they do)or it can go diffrent way he might not be feeling you as the way you feel for him that or problably he just dosen’t have desire to approach you first…but my advice to you even though you miss him or love him DO NOT TEXT HIM…i know is hard trust me i been throught it before..but by you text him your give him reason not to look for you or miss you…plus if is meant to be you guys will be back together if not he will go his own way that’s way you have to look at it..there’s reason why some people in your life would walk away…just focus on yourself and do things that keeps your mind busy…things that you enjoy doing…that’s what i did and it work!!!!! now he is the one that looks for me all the time 🙂
zsm

March 15, 2015 at 6:30 pm

last night

jane

March 15, 2015 at 12:46 pm

please dis is my story,I and my boo started dating after few Months of being cool friends and d first time we had sex,I ddnt know I had taken in,and after a month,I noticed d pregnancy signs and told him,,he asked me to keep d pregnancy,dat he would let my people know he is responsible,but would start talking of marriage after childbirth,I felt devastated with dis,before I knew it,ii had an abortion and he was mad at mi and ddnt talk to mi for days and after few more months,I noticed I took in again,dis tym I was sooo scared as d last child of my home wif all my siblings legally and properly married,my mum a widow and all d oda circumstances I couldn’t stop imagining..my boo was just a few weeks out of d country,he initially sounded happy wif d child,wanted mi to keep d baby,I,myself also was scared of wat God wld do cos of dis act secondly,my boo wont find it very funny cos d first attempt was a lesson to mi,but I was always thinking,losing weights,looking weird,ma people asking wats going wrong with mi,told dem it was school stress cos den I just graduated a month ago from d university..after some days cos I was always talking about d condition and all dat I wld pass through especially as he is not in country,he felt like I was pressurin him,he began to sound like reminding mi all d stress I wld pass through cos none of his people wer in country and dat he cant really promise his mum wld come home from d states during xmas and all dat he said got mi off balance,ddnt know wat else to do and at dis same time,he ddnt want mi to harm d baby,at d end I had anoda abortionand dis made him much devastated ,he ddnt talk to mi for some days,afterwic we became cool..I wif his mum and sis wer all together durin xmas..den it was january,mt boo changed,he said dat d blood of d innocent children has been tormentin him cos dat is his sincere nature dat dos actions of mine almost took his life,he sufered so much and spent weeks in d hospital cos of dis and we had no good communication from end of January to march second week,he came wif telling mi he fought to love mi again after dat first abortion cos he disgusts such acts and dat I stil own dis place in his heart cos his intention was a good one,dat s y he introduced mi to his family,even my family knows him too,and his mind sounds so made up..can I still get my boo back?cos he hurts so much cos my actions almost cost his life and left him wif only pain and agony..we wre supposed to ve a future together wich he has made sacrfices for our being together..wat do I do now?
CarrieM

March 14, 2015 at 1:34 am

Hi So Its been almost a month that I haven’t contacted my ex, I do have feelings for him, I want him back but I don’t want to go begging and all, so I was making use of the no contact rule. But now my patience is wearing off and there are things that I need to say to him, things that he did and said which weren’t true and were wrong, so basically I just want to clarify a few things to him. Do you think I should send him an email I’ve already written one but DIDNT send it. Should I?

admin

March 15, 2015 at 4:32 pm

No, don’t send him an email.

I would recommend reaching out with a text message (you can scan this site or the book for ideas on the texts.)

Molly

March 13, 2015 at 9:40 pm

My ex broke up with me when we found out I was pregnant. He had the “my life is over” freak out. I stayed distant to about 2 months while he sent mixed message texts to me. Finally we met up and decided to try and work things out (or so I thought). For about a month now he has become increasingly withdrawn from me. I barely hear from him at all. When I have asked whats going on.. He just says he’s been working so much and he’s tired. But I feel lits more than that. I feel like I’m being fizzled off. I have been very patient. I’ve asked him to go to appointments with me.he’s been to one. I wanted to do Lamaze.. He’s blown it off completely. I feel that I am doing this alone, because, well, I am! At this point I feel I’m at a cross between being friendzoned and being a friend with benefits that just happens to pregnant with his child! When I have attempted NC recently, he has suddenly shown more concern. Wanting to see me. Saying he misses me..this has happened just one day into NC. And of course.. I buckle. This week that distance has gotten even worse though. I’ve heard from him in almost 2 days which is weird for us. I don’t know what to do at this point. I’m recommitted to NC. but I suspect at this point.. He wouldn’t really notice. I feel very hurt and alone. Do you have any advice for this situation? It just seems to be getting worse. Thank you for your time.

admin

March 15, 2015 at 4:21 pm

Hmm… I would also take a look at my pregnancy article.

Lizzy

March 13, 2015 at 6:26 am

My story is a little tricky because I know for sure that he still loves me and wants me back – just not now..
We met a few months ago while traveling. It was more than special and because our home countries are not that far from each other so we planned to continue as an LDR when we stop travelling.
Sadly, he has to leave earlier because of personal reasons. We cried, fought, argued..in the end he wants to break up before he flies in a few days to first sort out his career and stuff. But how I can wait? He is definitely worth it but I’m afraid he might not miss me that long. I could visit him in 5 months (for several weeks, probably as a surprise – unlike the most he’s pretty into that romantic stuff..) before I head home. I already know his parents and although we’re young I can picture a realistic future with him.
I’d appreciate if you would help me.
Do all these rules apply to my specific situation too?

admin

March 13, 2015 at 9:29 pm

Yes, they apply to you too.

Melissa

March 12, 2015 at 6:10 am

Hey I broke up with my boyfriend last night he told me he wanted things he’s way and I’m the one to do all the chasing we have broken up before but I end up running back to him after 2 days I know he loves me but he is confident that I will be back. I don’t want to stay with him and he gets he’s way. I’m trying to b strong this time and see if he will come back but I’m scared I will lose him for good. I don’t know what to do he has taken advantage of my kindness we have been fighting the whole year throughout our relationships because he was willing to compromise he tryed to have me and get he’s way with everything possible. I know he’s love for me is strong and so is mine but he is very stubborn and won’t contact me or put he’s pride down I don’t know what to do do u think he will come back if I don’t contact him at all

admin

March 13, 2015 at 8:03 pm

I can’t guarantee he will but I can say that it will most likely improve your chances!
Melissa

March 17, 2015 at 1:20 pm

It’s been 5 days now he told me if we were to officially brake up he will help me pay my car off and put 5000 dollars in myaccount usually wen we brake up I sit at home and cry and he knows this because I isolated myself from all my friends but this time I have been strong and contacted friend and uploaded photos on Facebook and he has put the money in my account could this mean it’s really over or he’s playing games because 5 days is abut too soon to put money in my account I don’t know what to do I nearly called him but I don’t want to give in

Tosha

March 12, 2015 at 1:35 am

So, In April it would have been 5 years with my fiancé, and 3 years being engaged. We fight over stupid stuff, get in arguments, and break up.. People keep saying once we break up, we’re just gonna get back together.. But, this time I think it’s for real, and I don’t want that.. I want him back. Clearly were in love, but do you have any advise for me?.. I’m going to keep reading your page, because I’m very interested. Hope to hear from you soon! Thanks!

admin

March 13, 2015 at 7:52 pm

Hi Tosha!

What are the arguments usually over?

Who starts the fithts?
Tosha

March 14, 2015 at 5:06 am

Stupid stuff really.. Like, I get mad at him for doing sertain things that he shouldn’t do tho, and we just call each other mean names (sometimes) and I acuse him of cheating on me, when he never has, I’m just worried.. Don’t wanna lose him, but me accusing him like that, doesn’t help, but I don’t know why I do it.. And I don’t know who really starts the fights, they just go, and sometimes they keep going, or others we can end it.. I don’t know, he says one thing, but then he’s always the one to actually leave.. I may say something mean, but I don’t mean it.. You can say I did instigate the whole leaving process, but I found him on a dating site, which just made me upset and go along with it..
A.j.

March 22, 2015 at 1:05 pm

I am not an admin therefor my words may seem hollow and i am also a male so my views may help in other ways but again i’d wait for an admin to answer you but my opinion is 5 years in a relationship should definitely earn him some more trust with the cheating accusations and fights are bound to happen although an unhealthy amount should be recognized i have been with my loving fiance for 3 years i am an extremely jealous man ive accused her of cheating many times but really she never has in the past year ive realized more than 2/3’s of our relationship she has been faithful even told me when men have hit on her or an ex has messaged her she understands my trust issues due to us talking it out as a guy i can truthfully tell you this he’s 1 of 2 types of guys and you will know which one 1. He wants you to need him back believe it or not every single guy wants to be needed it makes us feel important or 2. He’s regretting everything and will be back soon (Although he doesnt sound like that type) Either way please update us with what you decide and again im not an admin just a guy reading through these and trying to help

A

March 11, 2015 at 6:37 pm

My boyfriend and i have been together for a year at 2 months, a few months ago i started getting the feeling that he was cheating, he wasn’t calling me as much he wasn’t asking to see me all the time and he barely even texts me back. anyways I had this feeling and suddenly he started getting large amounts of cash which he couldn’t get before. it surprised me because i wondered where he got the money from? when i asked him he said his parents gave him the cash. I found this extremely weird since he asked his parents before and they just ignored him. A couple months ago he got AED100,000 and started buying new cars and started buying me things which got me a little worried even though i loved the fact that he was getting me gifts. but i there was just one thing, that voice in my head that kept telling me that something was going on. Last week he blocked me from instagram , and he i’m the only girl he was following but when he blocked me i didn’t have access to his account anymore, my friend gave me her account to stalk him. i found the letter S with a heart on his profile and that he was following on this one girl with the name SH*****…Anyways. i called him immediately and asked him he said on no thats nothing i only did that to piss you off. i off course didn’t believe that and i investigated more into this. i found out he was talking to a girl that he met at work that was older than him by a couple of years and was married with two kids, who was also extremely wealthy. He kept denying everything even when i had proof and telling me that he doesn’t love her and that he only loves me and that he was going to tell me about her after he payed off his loans and stop talking to her. i know this sounds bad and of course i broke up with him. but i couldn’t stop myself from texting him and calling him even though he didn’t call back or reply to my texts. i felt like why am i doing all this when he was the one who cheated? So the next morning i skipped my classes and went to his house, woke him up and forced him to talk to me. if you are in a relationship like mine, you would understand that it is extremely hard for you to break up with him while he is comforting me while I’m crying and telling me how much he loves me. its different when you’re talking to him face to face instead of a phone call or text. So anyways i love him but i can’t stand him going out with this other girl and talking to her instead of me even though their relationship means nothing to him. I told him its me or her and he said it will always be me, but then he keeps telling me how she’s helping him out with money issues and to him he’s only talking to her because he’s helping her. i think this is completely wrong in so many ways and he knows that. but i can’t break up with him because i love him so much and it kills me to see hi with somebody else but me. what should i do? Stay with him till he figures out his problem or break up with him? he means the world to me and i honestly love him so much.
Please help.

admin

March 13, 2015 at 7:32 pm

You might do well to hop on over to the how to get him back if he has a new girlfriend page.
A

March 11, 2015 at 6:41 pm

I broke up with him today and he just called me once. i want him to really show me that he wants me and misses me!! how can i do that when there is somebody else in the picture?

sarah

March 9, 2015 at 11:24 am

Hey, it’s slightly complicated. I was with my ex for over a year & trying to fight depression. We were great at the start & so madly in love but I started to push him away a bit because of my depression & he stayed with him but then I noticed small things like the odd message to a girl. He said he wasn’t getting enough attention off me. It hurt. And that’s when I started to build up paranoia. He kept inviting me to go for meals with his family & I felt awful because I would get really anxious due to my condition & sometimes try to not go. He’s a family guy so took it quite personally. Basically I was just not myseld & our relationship started to go downhill. Around Christmas he was out on a night out & messaged this girl if she wanted to go back with him. I felt like my heart was broken & I immediately broke up with him. We were still in contact but he apologised & said he felt ashamed & that he’s confused whether he wants to be on his own to get his happiness back. We’re both in our 20s & been through a lot already together so I convinced him to give it another go. Things were okay but not any better. So we came to a mutual to break up. I love him but we’ve not been happy for a while & I’m still trying to deal with my depression. After a week I messaged him saying I missed him. He said he missed me to but the space was doing him good. I suggested goimg on a breakup but not seeing other people but he said he didn’t like that idea & wouldn’t give me a valid reason. 3 weeks later I wrote a tweet saying sad how due to people’s actions you won’t look at them the same way. And he wrote one back & it was quite hurtful. He had a dig about me not sorting my career out etc.
I messaged him on facebook & it blew out & I said some things I didn’t mean. Like I wish I hadn’t got involved with him. And he made out that I was apparently faking my depression which I felt really hurtful as I opened up to him in confidence. And then he said he’s done with this conversation & deleted me on Facebook.
5 weeks later we have not spoken a word to one another & he’s been adding lots of girls on Facebook & liking a lot of girls photo’s & posting things on instagram about pulling girls or anything to state it.

I saw him out at a club at the weekend but we didn’t make eye contact. His mate saw me & they walked out. My friend said he saw me & looked a bit scared/shady.

I can’t work out if he misses me. I agree we need our space to get our happiness back. But after our big argument I don’t think he’ll ever speak to me again. He’s a very closed book & hasn’t put any sign that he still misses me. I’m struggling a lot lately as I still love him.
I just can’t see that he’ll ever come back. Or is he hurting but putting on a brave face? I would love someone’s opinion or advice.

admin

March 13, 2015 at 4:05 pm

He will most likely speak with you again.

It’s just going to take time.

pjx

March 9, 2015 at 6:30 am

Hello
i am in relationship with 6 years older guy.
we love eachother but he cant marry me coz of age difference . His family wont allow him to do that. He wants to continue meeting me but i feel that he just need me so that he wont get bored. he doesnt truely love me. He wants me to move on and marry some onle else but some times he says he miss me ..
The thing is he cant marry me.. He also doesnt want to hurt my feelings so we decided to ended up whatever we have but i’m missing him a lot and cant think of other guy to marry.
What should i do to get him back and he will ask to marry me?
Is this possible? also we are having long distance relationship.

admin

March 13, 2015 at 3:56 pm

6 year age difference isnt that big of a deal.

Its a culture thing for you, huh?

ndey

March 8, 2015 at 3:51 pm

I was dating this guy for 2year,i love him very much and he also loves me but we always keep on agruing,an one day he text me and say we are not dating anymore now becouse am more expensive than u,an i told him fine thats good,even though he said that i use to text him but he did not use to reply me,what can do now i need your advise guys help me please

admin

March 13, 2015 at 3:25 pm

Have you implemented any of the NC rules or anything of that nature?

t

March 5, 2015 at 7:58 pm

Hello, i have been dating this guy for about 4 months now. We met at a bar on halloween. at first everything was great. he slowly started trying to change things, for example, i rarely drink and ordered a beverage when we were out for dinner recently and he changed his mood right away. he has told me that he doesnt want a girlfriend who drinks. i understand that since he doesn’t drink often, but at the same time, having one drink over dinner should not be an issue as far as im concerned. Also, he met me at a club, he knew that i enjoy a drink from time to time. this bothers me and im wondering if im over reacting or if my feelings are appropriate. when we argue about things he will ignore me for days. when i reach out and try contacting him he says ‘he’ll talk to me later’. we got into a fight over the drink issue a couple days ago, then saw on instagram that he went to vegas. of course i called and was upset and again he said ill call you tomorrow. not really sure if he will or not buy i dont really know what to say to him at this point to see that i dont deserve this treatment. im really upset and he doesnt feel that i have a right to be. what should i do?

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