7 Definitive Steps On How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You

5,888 thoughts on “How To Make Him Miss You After A Breakup”

Sam

March 31, 2015 at 8:55 am

Hey,

My partner of 4 years and I have just recently spilt due to arguing and not enough agreeing on anything. We both still really love each other and I want things to work out in the long run but for now we both need to get happy and healthy before we can revisit our relationship.

How do you get happy when your not with the one you love?
How do you cope when you know you really want things back the way they were before the fighting?
What should I do to show him im trying to get better?
How long should I wait to revisit what we had?

Thanks heaps, looking forward to hearing what you have to say.

admin

March 31, 2015 at 10:45 pm

I definitely think that is important (being happy and healthy)

JESS

March 30, 2015 at 3:22 pm

Do you think that maybe if he doesn’t contact you after 30 days of NC stubborn or not if he wanted you he’d at least try and call ?

admin

March 31, 2015 at 10:22 pm

Some men have to be worked on to re-ignite their feeligns though.

Anna

March 28, 2015 at 3:01 pm

Hi, i had very short relationships with a guy (3 months) and probably we decided to give it a try because of me. our relationships started with a sex and then i couldn’t just stay booty call so we decided to start a relationships even if he knew for sure he’s not in the mood for relationship. So, we were trying to see eachother at least twice in a week and weekends but i didn’t feel the fire from him and actually in three months i didn’t learn many things about him, so i decided to break up with him yesterday night. When i told that i’m done trying,- he honestly said that he tried to keep our relationships, he would love to give me all his time but he didn’t feel passion and love and in general there’s no mood for the relationships. I deleted him in social networks but he still keeps writing me about the last night, just in case that he was with a friends and there was no girls around and stuff and i never reply him. Should i text something back now or it’s better to keep for the future? Or should i give it a time, i have a birthday next month, so maybe i should wait and see if he text me something? I probably think that we didn’t have a passion because we started relationships wrong, there’s nothing serious starting with a sex… It’s just i like the guy for the first time in a long time (since my first great love, i broke up with 2 years ago)…
Lola

March 27, 2015 at 11:00 pm

My baby’s father and I recehtly broke up and the next day he started seeing somebody else. He talks about a future with her and how she makes him so happy. I want to fix our relationship, actually I want to create a new one with him. I called him things I shouldn’t have and I said things about him I shouldn’t have. I hit him and I just want to fix things before our daughter is born. What do I do?

admin

March 29, 2015 at 2:34 pm

Sounds like a rebound to me…

cant get it right!

March 26, 2015 at 8:59 am

I have been going backwards and forwards with one person for nearly 20 years and we still can’t seem to get it right, the story goes like this…x and I met when I was in a school uniform his little brother was my first “boyfriend” and We have always remained close, he has also been my brothers best friend and brother figure for this time. We have both had other relationships himself with 2 children myself 1 but always seem to get drawn back together in any crisis. My daughters father died in 2004 in a tragic event which divided families and friends, so let’s just say theres been a bit of drama! All of which x has lived apart of as well even though we were not together 8 years on and our 3rd attempt in 4 years I find myself in this spot again were he runs. He doesn’t want anyone knowing we are together its a secret, he hates my job (to demanding) and takes it personally if I’m not intimate every time I see him but he assures me its not about that lol. I will admit he is my best friend if there is anyone who knows everything about me its him and visa versa but it always seems to be so hard? Tonight I was left with the good old “I love you to much I need to let you go please find someone who makes you happy” really wtf?!? I have yet to respond and am tiered… should I keep fighting for us, or walk away next alternative would be jail or mental institute and thats not very fun!!! So please any advice, opinions greatly appreciated 😉

admin

March 31, 2015 at 8:30 pm

I don’t get it?

Jail? or mental institute?

What do you mean?

Wendy

March 25, 2015 at 11:16 pm

Hi,

I have been in a relationship with the guy of my dreams for a year now. We started off the relationship in a magical way. Things turned sour 8 months into it when I found out his mom had been pushing him to pursue a girl he works with. The parents adorded this girl and kept encouraging him to date her. I was devastated when I found out and worse when I asked if he had any feelings for her he said “well I like being around her, she’s a nice girl and I can’t say she’s unattractive”. This created so much resentment, anxiety, and insecurty in me that it lingered throughout the relationship and I would start bickering with him hoping he’d show some grand way of affection to me. Instead every time I asked more from him he told me the opposite – he couldn’t and didnt want to move away with me because he just didn’t love me enough. By now I hadnt been the same anymore, I changed and really lost myself in the relationship. I stopped doing ” me” and spending my time on this and activities that I liked but instead let him be my world. I made my world revolve around him and became crazy and clingy. Our sex life quickly became nonexistent at this point too. Finally, when we tried twice to have sex and it didn’t work he told me the passion was gone. He had fallen out of love for me a long time ago and tried to make it work but I had changed too much and things had changed too much. I begged and cried for his forgiveness and he never budged. When I left his house that one morning he told me to “keep his house keys for now”. I wrote him my final goodbye letter the next day revealing how I now understood where we went wrong etc since I only gained this perspective after he broke up with me. He wrote back and told me how much he loved me and I was amazing at the beginning of our relationship etc and that looking back he agreed the dynamics of our relationship changed after the whole issue happened. He told me he loved me and always will and that I’d always be his baby. (When I begged him several times to take me back he said he loves me but doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me anymore) this makes me think he’s really done with me. But I’m still wondering why he told me to hold onto the keys for now and why he’s telling me I will always be his baby etc. It hasn’t been a week yet but I’m going crazy. I wonder how he’s doing and if he misses me or if he’s thinking of ever getting back with me or thinking about me at all. What should I do????
LiLi

March 25, 2015 at 7:30 pm

Will this be usefull in a long distance relationship? I’m from Mexico he is from England, we broke up a month and a half ago. I was moving to England in August.But now he says he doesn’t feel the same, that the best for me is to stay here, that he is afraid his love wont be enough.

admin

March 31, 2015 at 8:04 pm

It can be but I would check out some of my more relavant LDR articles.

C

March 25, 2015 at 9:57 am

My finace and I started dating 8 months ago engaged after 6 months. Everytime he does something to piss me off I tell him he can just leave. Well the last time he actually did and I didn’t stop him. I wanted to but I didn’t cause I wnatsd him to fight for me and she me how loves me (dumb I know). Well he has only responded to one of like 15 texts and returned one phone call since Saturday. During the phone call I told him if this is really over tell me so I can go to the couples couselor tomorrow (which was going to be our premarital counselor) and tell her that I’m there to work on me and how to get help to move on or to make a plan for us. He said he loves me and just needs time. Today I got no call no text nothing. I texted him and asked him if he was interested in what the therapist had to say… No response. Then told him she soda that too much time isn’t the best thing that we need to Councel rigs away and there is an 8 yr old involved that needs to move forward to (he told my daughter he will maybe come home) then at the end of the message i said that if I get no response or explanation to his message I will concider us over move on. He never responded so I guess I got my answer… Or am I reading too much into it. I’m so confused.

admin

March 31, 2015 at 7:57 pm

What was he doing to upset you in the first place to make you give him that threat?

Meg

March 24, 2015 at 5:33 pm

Hi,

Long story short, I dated my ex for 7 years. We work together and we lived together. We had a month long breakup in our 7 years that was my doing around the 4 year mark. I moved out because I was not happy.

Fast forward… About a year ago I caught him cheating on me. I moved out very quickly within a few days. We still talk and still work together. He tried to jump right back into the relationship about 5 months ago but I wasn’t ready to totally forgive him. Even tho he has a gf he still calls and texts me.

A few months ago he got a girlfriend that he hasn’t told me about, I heard through friends… They are on a trip now and I am going bananas…. I miss him now that I know he is gone somewhere with someone else…

How do I get him back now without looking desperate

admin

March 31, 2015 at 6:50 pm

So, he cheated on you again?
Meg

April 8, 2015 at 8:48 pm

Technically no. He cheated on me when we were in a relationship. We have been talking for the year we have been broken up. He didn’t come out and tell me he was seeing someone until December when I was meeting his family and he probably knew they would tell me. We have been talking on and off since then. I know I am dumb for talking to him it’s just hard not too. We were together for so long. So he is talking to me and dating someone else…. How do I stop talking to him? One minute I don’t want to and the next it’s hard not to stop…

jenny

March 24, 2015 at 3:08 pm

Hey,
We haven’t broken up but his family knows about us so they are not ready for our relationship. So he is not allowed to go out of his home nd he is not leaving his home from a month even for his job.itz been a month that we haven’t talked well.nd he says he will contact me when he can but he doesn’t contact me.what do i do? We both love each other nd we want to be with each other.but his family is not ready to accept us. Please help me out mail me on my personal email id.waiting eagerly for ur reply.

admin

March 31, 2015 at 6:44 pm

Hi Jenny, I can only respond to your comments.

Is that ok?

kylie

March 24, 2015 at 11:40 am

if my ex tells me its over then startes to be nice in text messages.
bring me over a mad crab when he drops off my daughter. texts and hour later to say hope u enjoyed the crab and to inform me our daughter loves crab even after knowing she has eaten crab before when we were together. he still visits my brother as he has no friends where we live. its a new town

admin

March 29, 2015 at 2:49 pm

How long has it been since the break up? Sounds like he’s ready to get back together pretty soon.

Dog

March 24, 2015 at 4:04 am

So I’ve dated this guy for almost a year. I absolutely love him and would do anything for him. He means the absolute world to me. Unfortunately, I screwed everything up. I broke up with him a week before his birthday because I was angry that he ditched me two times in one week for his friends. Just FYI I’m kind of bipolar when it comes to our relationship. So immediately after I broke up with him I started regretting it and started apologizing and asking for his forgiveness. It was just a heat in the moment, I wasnt realizing what I was doing. He told me I hurt him and he could never forgive me. It was my second time breaking up with him in our relationship because I don’t know how to control my anger and the only solution I know of is to break up. I’m depressed and I hate myself for breaking up with him and hurting him. It hurts me even more because he believes I don’t love him because I broke up with him before a week before his birthday and over something so stupid. Do you think he will ever forgive me? Give us another chance? Do you think he misses me? Am I horrible person? What can I do to get him back? And should I still give him his birthday present? What do I do????? I feel horrible and I’m devasted that I really let my anger get the best of me and let him go. 🙁 Please help I’m in love with him and I want him back.

admin

March 25, 2015 at 8:31 pm

No don’t give him the present. Go right into NC.

Tasha

March 23, 2015 at 12:54 pm

Hi, I met a guy online. We have been talking on the phone for just over two months. He sounds sweet and caring and he sounded like d man for me. I’ve grown to love this month but lately he has been so busy. I hardly hear from him and when I complain he said he’s just busy with his company and that he loves me and will make me happy. I break up with him because of this yesterday. I don’t kbow what he’s thinking because he has not responded. I really miss him even though we have never met. What do you suggest? I don’t mean to be a pessimist but I think he has a girl base on the fact that most times I can’t get through to him r he will ask me to text instead of call as he is busy. Please tell me what to do.

kate

March 26, 2015 at 2:37 am

Please help, i have been dating this guy for 3months,(i believe he is my soul mate), however, recently we had an argument and he hung up on me. So i started sending text messages, over the weekend i sent about 30 text messages, and when he finally responded, he said that i was too full on and it he no longer wanted to see me. And no longer wanted me in his life. its only been 3months and i fell for him and he noticed..he was always telling me to take things slow but i wouldnt listen. i acted needy and like a physco with the texting. Please be honest, have i got any chance of getting him back. I wrote a letter telling him i understand how i was full on and acted crazy. PLease HELP, sounded like in the text that he was adamant he did not want me in his life. Because when i tried to call him he answered the phone, but said he was busy. He is a libra and ive read on the internet that they are hard to get back.

Cassie

March 22, 2015 at 9:32 pm

Hi! My ex and I have a son together. We broke up two years ago. Since our breakup we’ve both been through a lot independently from one another. He has had a live-in girlfriend with her kids and I’ve subsequently had another baby whose father is totally absent. Recently my son’s father hinted that he’d either broken up with or was planning on breaking up with his girlfriend. I’ve been dating someone and thinking it’s time to end the relationship because I just haven’t fallen in love with him. I’ve really been missing my ex and since the conditions are a little more open now, I’m thinking about making an attempt at winning him back. We had a baby together, things became sour and rocky and we broke up. We were together almost three years. Very recently our communication has lightened up and we’ve even laughed and joked a little over the phone. He’s even mentioned getting together to revisit our son’s custody arrangement before our upcoming court date. How do you think I fare? This man is the love of my life and I feel if after this much time and separation I’m still finding myself deeply madly in love with him, maybe I should take a closer look at trying to reconcile with him and fall back in love. What should I do? Do I have a chance or should I leave it alone and spare myself the heartache?

admin

March 24, 2015 at 8:12 pm

I think you have a shot but it all depends on how smart you are in your approach.

A

March 22, 2015 at 11:33 am

Hi,
Right so I had been dating a guy for 5 months, and he was wanted to be in a relationship. However, I said that I wasnt ready as I wanted to be clear minded on my studies, but still see him. beginning of this year, we decided to make a go of it (officially being in a relationship), and everything was really good, we had some minor disagreements from time to time, but overall we were good. Last month we had a hiccup, because we spend alot of time together we started to hhave enough. and discussed going on a break. However, he jumped in to say that what is the point of a break, and that we should just break up. We both were really upset. And the day after he came round and realised he had made a mistake in wanting to end it completely. we made up and then we were all fine again, he took me on a weekend away to make up for what had happened. But a week after he became really distant.. and then a week ago he broke up with me, saying that he didnt want a long-term relationship and he didnt feel the same way about me anymore (and didnt want to string me along). When he came round he was crying so much, as was i, and we spent 4 hours talking about it. even when he said it, he was like i dont know what i want, and already felt it was the wrong thing to do. The day after he came round to drop off my stuff, and then we ended up speaking again for 2 hours, he was also crying again. To say the least I am heart broken. I am not really the relationship type, but I really tried to make this work. I am in no way angry at him as i respect if he does not feel the same way anymore. He said to me that he hates the thought of me being with someone else and he misses me. I really miss him too. No relationship is perfect, and it takes work. I just wish he had not given up so quickly.
What should I do?? I want him back 🙁
sara

March 21, 2015 at 3:33 pm

me and my boyfriend were dating for almost 5 years, actualy this year he went to another country we promise each other that we’re going to stay together…and he promised me that since he come back we’ll get engaged…Now he started to ignoring me a lot and then when we talked on facebook i told him “what going on why are ignoring me since you left ?”, then he told me that we have to separate because i wont come back until 4 years pass.. it’s better this way ..i only want what best for u blablabla…’ and he want us to stay friends. i don’t like this friends idea but i’m afraid because one half of me want to stay in touch and the other half want to forget and never talk to him again. i’m confused.. he broke my heart and i always was so honest and loyel ! i feel like i’m so stupid. i really want him to regret what he done ! i need some advice plz. and i’m soory for my english.

admin

March 22, 2015 at 5:11 pm

You are not stupid at all.

Are you two still long distance?
sara

March 23, 2015 at 8:32 pm

yes we still ! we have just break up few days ago
sara

March 23, 2015 at 9:07 pm

he left like 4 month ago and he won’t coming back until 4 years pass. he broke up with me like week ago. yesterday i told him that we can’t stay friends then i disable my facebook account so that we don’t talk anymore, i can’t handle this friends idea …i used to have him by my side. it’s not easy at all. but i wanna show him that i’m strong enough to live without him, i can’t forgive him for not keeping his promises. and he know well that’s i loved him. because i’m the only reason why we stayed together for 5 years…he did so many mistakes and i always forgive him…this time it’s over i can’t be the victim all time. but i really want him to regret what he did to me.
i hate the idea that he let me go every time when he found a chance.
he was my first love i never talked to anyone but him and i wanted him to be the last one … well it’s not meant to be i think .
i thank you very much Chris Seiter for your response.

Bree

March 21, 2015 at 2:19 pm

Me and my boyfriend had only been going out for about 6 months, and for awhile, it was great. We would joke about how kismet this relationship seemed, how our kids would turn out and how he’d be a great dad and me a great mom in the future. we even had stupid nicknames for each other. Then he got a new job and our schedules completely sucked. I would work evenings and nights while he would work early morning to midday. We tried to see each other, but it would only be an 30 minutes or so at a time. Texts and phone calls started to come less and less often. So we had a mutual breakup, decided we could still be friends, maybe go back out again when our schedules realigned. That was about a month ago. Now, im waking up at 5am, writing letters he’ll never read, and stumbling around trying to find something to start a conversation with him. I haven’t talked to him since the break up except the occasional facebook comment on his/my photos or statuses. He doesn’t seem to even notice i’m gone from his life while i’m left in a state that could only be called pining. How can i know if he wants to start up again or should i play the field and try to get back out there? Ive never been in love before but this could be it with him. Please help.
Shakira kay

March 21, 2015 at 12:49 pm

Well I was dating this a lebanon guy he really loved me
Caring sweet he usually bring for me gifts gives me money when I need
Text me how I was doing +we are also in the same school
He was really a good guy now the prob is why we broke up
Is he found out I was cheating him but I really did not mean it
So um when he found out he dumb me and he told me he
Doesn’t love mr no more…but I really need him back
What will I do?to get him back…Answers please

admin

March 22, 2015 at 5:04 pm

Have you used NC on him?
Shakira kay

March 21, 2015 at 1:32 pm

Oh and soon when we broke up he started telling my friend
That he likes her and also to date her but my friend did not accept
It cause she is dating someone!!! But I really miss him no matter what
Sometimes I try to move on dating another guy but at the end I start
Missing him sometimes I also cry by myself remembering all the things
…so what should I do?move on with my life try to text him or
Tell him at school face to face..wait and if I tell him face to face if he doesn’t listen to me?what should I do next?cause when I knew he was mad at me for what I did I apologized but he doesn’t want

Amanda

March 21, 2015 at 9:50 am

So basically, me and my ex were together for about 7-8 months. He was distant and broke up with me because his grandad was very strict and wanted him to work. But like, we were okay after a while and then we got back. When we got back, it was all different and what i felt for him was different. It wasnt the same. So i initiated the break up and told him that we’re merely just friends. I miss him though, and I was wondering if you think he’d come back and talk to me? i havent talked to him for about a week. Its tough to analyze and understand him cause i’m his first ever girlfriend, and first everything. So i dont know.

admin

March 22, 2015 at 5:03 pm

Is he the first boyfriend you had?

meron

March 20, 2015 at 7:05 pm

hi my boyfriend of 2 yrs broke up with me broke up with me because he said he needed space and that he needed to figure some things out. By this time we were already engaged and we were living together. later i found out, after i moved out, he had this crush on some girl. When i confronted him he said he just told that he was hanging out with her and that he told her that he doesnt want a relationship with her. I really dont believe that but whatever the case i know he is just confused. I am willing to take him back even after he is done with her, which i know will end soon. I want him to come to me when he is done with this confusion. In the meantime, do you think i should contact him in any way???

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