7 Definitive Steps On How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You

Casy Grande

April 7, 2015 at 1:30 am

I just found out that my 6mons boyfriend cheated on me when a strange woman add me on facebook then when i check her profile i found out some post of her connected to him, i was so angry with him and break up with him, i was on vacation that moment so i just enjoy my vacation which is helped me a lot not to think too much about him then 5days after he message me on my other account he said “are u still angry” just shocked a little since he blocked me on my fb account..what he trying to figure out?? your response is highly appreciated..

K

April 6, 2015 at 7:39 pm

Hi there,

We were together 2 years, he broke us up 2 months ago. I tried for 3/4 of those 2 months to get him back making all the classic mistakes. I commenced NC 17 days ago and am staying strong. I can definitely make it through to the day 30 at least… I must admit though it’s becoming quite hard to deal with as I was sure he’d be in touch by now.

May I ask do you think there is a difference now that Im in complete radio silence no contact as opposed to the 6 weeks before of off/on contact? I think from reading your blog you’d say yes.

Any words of wisdom of what this NC might be doing to him behind the scenes is much appreciated. I’m starting to lose a bit of confidence but Im pretty sure he must be missing me hopefully.

Thanks

kerry

April 6, 2015 at 12:39 pm

I was with my partner nearly 2 years everything seemed great although there was a few issues regarding time due to work etc but everything else was fantastic
Then out of the blue he said he’s not sure he’s in love with me and needs some time to sort his mind out as he just needs to be on his own we tried a break no contact but only ever lasted a week I’ve tried to tell him how I feel and what I want from us we argued and now I’ve said no contact till he contacts me
Will this still work

Kat

April 6, 2015 at 12:18 pm

Hi,

I really don’t know what to do. I’m 30 and still at lost with relationships. Normally I’m the type of person who fights for everything just to stay in a relationship call it clingy or whatever or I just believe in love I don’t know.

Recently I broke up with my long distance BF. This time I did not flight for the relationship whatsoever.. Why.. Only because I’m trying to listen to my friends but I’m really not happy.. I’m having a hard time moving on, I’m the type of person who’d try to work things out over and over again to the point that I’m miserable everyday but I’d still hold on to the relationship until I have nothing left.. That happened to my relationship of 10years and 3years……… I haven’t dated the LDR guy for a year and it’s breaking my heart into a million pieces probably because I just let it slip away (I don’t know). He still texts me and tells me that he misses me. I never initiate a conversation with him, it’s always him.

Now my dilemma is I’ve got a couple of days to spare to fly to Australia.. Was wondering.. Should I? I know this is the typical me to fly across the globe just to fix problems (I did this with my 3years ex.. Not In an LDR but work thing).
Or should I at least for once wait for someone who will exert effort as much as I do. Help. I’m at a loss.

Renee

April 6, 2015 at 3:38 am

I was dating this great guy. We had an argument and he called the police to escort me out of his home. Its been a week now. He will not respond to any of my calls or text messages. I really love him. What do I do?

Alisha

April 5, 2015 at 11:32 pm

Hi, I just broke up with my boyfriend. He was not making time for me. He just seemed distant and always hanging out with friends and I just wanted him to make it work but he wasn’t. And he was very secretive with his phone. But I’m hoping that this breakup will help him realize what’s he’s missing? Did I do that right thing? Do you think he will make him open his eyes?

Nina

April 5, 2015 at 7:35 pm

Hey,
So this guy and I were dating for few months. It was great, we seem to really wnjoy the company and our time together, and I didn’t even see this coming. And then one day after our day out, I asked where we were heading/ where we stood in out relationship (it was exclusive dating) and at this point he sorta just said he didn’t feel as comfortable in relationship as he should and didn’t feel we were where we should be in 3 months and sorta just left. Next morning I texted him saying I’m not sure I got you when you said you couldn’t be yourself because I’m too nice. Then he sent a long reply explains he ment there was lack or communication and we should have been seeing each other more often every week rather than once, and it was partially his fault for not asking. And he felt if it was meant to be it would have been. I replied to that with, I get you, but I’m sad that its an issue that could have been solved but we aren’t doing that, and can’t lie I’m not happy about it. But I get it. And I did enjoy time spent together wish there was more. And ended it there.

do you think that was alright?! Or should I not have bothered to even text him?!

And do you think if I did NC he may contact me still?!

Milly

April 5, 2015 at 8:42 am

My boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, I haven’t exactly followed the no contact rule. I haven’t spoken to him though unless he contacted me though. He asked how I was doing but then brought up how he was going to call me to see how I was doing and to pick up his stuff, but he said that he went out on the Saturday night and was too hungover to do so. I ignored it and I just told him to pick up his stuff the next time he was in town.
We didn’t speak again until today. Err well actually yesterday he called me but then didn’t say anything. Today a friend said she was looking through her boyfriends phone and said that there was a photo of some girl and his friends said it was my ex’s girl. I had no knowledge of him cheating on me and during the break up I didn’t believe that he had. It was so sad to hear and I got so fed up that I just txt my ex (politely of course) to just come and pick up his stuff already. When he came over I handed over a bag of his stuff and his body language seemed like he thought I would invite him in but I didn’t because I was just so anxious. We talked about whether a pair of socks were his or not and then he asked if I had seen his sunglasses and I said no and I was quick to say bye, I smiled and waved and then closed the door.
I felt terrible, I really did wanna talk about stuff will him but he’s different. When he makes a decision he sticks to it, he broke up with me and try as I might I still want to work through our issues but the reason we broke up was because we kept having the same argument over how we only got to see each other on the weekends and he spent Friday and Saturdays with his friends and I told him that was okay as long as I got Sunday and he wouldn’t do that for me. He was also pretty controlling. I’m still so angry that he wouldn’t even try. I want to see how he feels about us now but I just sort of pushed him out the door and I don’t know what to do.

Cassie

April 4, 2015 at 9:55 pm

Hey there,
So my ex of 2 and a half years just broke up with me recently. His reason was that he was upset at himself for not giving me the attention I needed. He also said he is just to busy and stressed to have a relationship. I don’t know how to interpret it or honestly how it even happened. Nothing had changed. I miss him a lot. What should I do?

debbie

April 4, 2015 at 6:51 pm

My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. Out of those 2 months we have only not talked for 15 days and have hung out 3 times. My question is, can no contact NOW still help? we spent over 6 Years together in a commited, living with each other and planning a future relationship. He felt like he lost his feelings for me and left me. friends have told me that it seems he has moved on, but could he really have so soon? I’ve been working on myself lots, out of debt, dropping weight and going out more! But still want to be with him. CAN I STILL GET HIM BACK?

debbie

April 4, 2015 at 6:43 pm

My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. Out of those 2 months we have only not talked for 15 days. My question is, can no contact NOW still help? we spent over 6 Years together in a commited, living with each other and planning a future relationship. He felt like he lost his feelings for me and left me. CAN I STILL GET HIM BACK?

CHA

April 3, 2015 at 10:17 pm

Hi! I dated a guy for 2 months. After our second date hes gone for one month business trip. During that time we do have a consistent communication everyday. A week before he came back he asked if I will be his gf, i answered ask me in person. When he arrived and over dinner he ask me again and i told him to give me a bit time . I wasnt sure about how i feel but i do like him its just that very quick coz its our third date. After that day we still always together until one day we do have a little arguement about moods and chores. We have a great last night and he even sent me at work in the morning. I message him that day but no replies. I was worried and mixed of madness because i know he got my message. I even go to his place after 3 days and i know his inside but i didnt kpen the door. My point is he atleast explain why he just suddenly gone without any words. Its 3 days now that i didnt message him but its already a week since these happened. Should i still apply the NC rules or moving on? I am now hesitant to message him because i dont wanna feel like idiot and desperate . But i do like him very much and have a strong feelings. Pls advise me. Thanks!

murra

April 3, 2015 at 8:52 pm

So I have a question regarding this. Me and my current ex just broke up. We were not together loNg. But extremely happy none the less. Had so much in common, same lives, history just about, same hurts and pains, we were also 8 years apart. He was fresh out of a 3 year relationship to a 20 year old. It was dysfunctional, disruptive, abusive mentally, emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually. They have history of breakiNg up and getting back together. We were together almost 2 weeks. But then he out of no where went back to her. I think they will fight again and he will see he’s finally just not happy because he was sick of her crap he kept giving her chances after chances over and over. And basically we were very happy. I only had love like I do this way once with my son’s father. Of 4 years. It feels like I reliving a situation kinda and I have ptsd and this is really messing me up. I haven’t contacted him. In fact I was not mean I just wished him happiness. And then summing it up I hung up. So please help me

maddy

April 3, 2015 at 10:34 am

I n my ex bf really lvd eaxhothr and we were in rltnshp for abt a year. BT then our rlthnshp became complicated. he had no time for me. I got fad up ov his rude behavior and then I decided to brkup with him. its been 5 months we broke up and I just miss him a lot. I didn’t text him for 10 days after brkup bt when I txtd he didn’t rply. he was out ov state for 10 days and these 10 days I didn’t text or call him not even once n during those days I just got a txt from him n we talked for a some mins. I txtd him when he returned and he showed no intrst. I HV been trying to talk to him BT he doesn’t give any responds. wht should I do nw? cz I hv alredy tried NC

littleme

April 3, 2015 at 3:47 am

Hey , so I broke up with my ex boyfriend like a week ago … We were together nearly 3 years I can’t help it but I miss him a lot. But I’m not sure if I want him back
.I want us to be together but I wish he wasn’t so rude and cold when he gets mad. I don’t know if it is time to move on or if I should still hoping for him to realize how much damage he had done to me …I begged him so many times to stay together and it’s very ironic that at the end i broke up with him

reynareyn

April 3, 2015 at 3:37 am

Hello, my boyfriend of 6 years just broke up with me. We have two children together and I love him deeply. This breakup us tearing me inside so bad I can’t explain it. His reason being that he loves me but is not IN love with me. He tells me he will always be there for me and girls but that’s not enough for me. I’ve humiliated myself already by begging him not to leave us. I know I shouldn’t but it hurts to see him leave. I love him with all my heart. I want him to know how it feels to miss someone and I may sound stupid but I want him to want me back. I need advice as to what to do or where to start? Please I need some pointers. Thank you

Sunita

April 2, 2015 at 1:02 pm

I love my ex boyfriend a lot. I didn’t want to break up with him but he wanted to because he felt it was for the best as it had become hard to meet as my parents are quite strict. But i really miss him and want him back but he has blocked me off all social media. I texted him after a week of no contact just to ask if we could meet to talk it out and he didn’t want to as the last time we met to sort it out he was crying and felt that he wasn’t ready to meet again just yet. I have many questions on my mind which is why i wanted to meet and he finally agreed to meet but when i asked him what day he didn’t reply back. What do i do?

joliah

April 1, 2015 at 7:56 am

Hallo,

I am 20 and by ex is 21 we weer in a relationship for a little over a year. I admit I have made mistakes I was too clingy and sometimes jealous. But I always loved him and gave him my all. Even though I did not always get his all. He broke up with me trough text a week and a half ago he told me he didn’t love me anymore and he wasn’t happy with me.but when I came to pick up my stuff he was crying its so confusing he says he loves me but we can’t be together because we wouldn’t fit together. I disagree obviously because love is enough. I started no contact but broke it after 3 days asking if we still be friends and he said ofc and we will be meeting for coffee in a month or so. After this I restarted no contact now for 4 days. I haven’t heard from him yet and I am hoping I will but I’m so confused I don’t know if he ever takes me back. What do you think? Please help me xxx

mary

April 1, 2015 at 3:49 am

me and my boyfriend have been together for one year plus. we went on a break and came back together. then a few days later, he said he lost his interest in me, he didn’t want to be in a relationship, he’s lazy to be committed. and now i don’t know whether he’s going to break up with me or not. i tried to talk to him. he simply doesnt want to. what should i do? should i meet him today and tell him that i miss him? and talk to him? and ask what does he want the relationship to like now?

Jules

March 31, 2015 at 9:11 am

I am in my twenties dated a guy who twice older than me, never been married or kids, he’s a bachelor. I can tell you it’s not about money because he never buys me anything beside dinners when we go out on a date. We both very attracted to each other but there is criticism from both end but I didn’t really care I just kinda go with the flow. We dated for about 3 months and had such an amazing time together, I decided to break it off last week when I found out that he lied to me about going to away on a business trip. I’m that kinda girl who is very judgmental and opinionated when I see men travel across the continent (Thailand) to fulfill their fantasy, one thing I only see in this picture is sex tourist. His business trip was in China he texted me most of the times while he was there, then one day all of a sudden he disappears I texted him to check up on him about his broken ribs. He then sent me a picture of his ribs and within that picture it shows the time and location (Thank god for iPhone!), I found out he’s actually in Thailand not China! Before I had a chance to speak and confort him, he suddenly text me right back after the picture saying that “you going to hate me” and I said “why” he said guess where I’m at then I said Thailand! He said “I could sit here and lie to you all day, but I’m not going on that route” well hello right after you sent me a picture without realizing it indicated everything?!?? Then he tried to swing it around he only there to meet couple of his buddies and to relax, harmless according to him. At that moment I was so furious and confused, I didn’t know what to do or say to him, I was really hurt and disappointed. But I was kinda prepared that this might happen because he mentioned to me before that he goes there often and a man gotta take care of his needs but I didnt think it was going to be this soon while I’m dating him. At then I didn’t really care because we weren’t romantically involved but now I think I got it twisted. He was trying to spin it around that if he would have told me before I would get freaked out which I had previously when he told me about thailand first time. I acknowledged my feelings that I was numb to find out about his lies and tried to hide it from me pretending to be a good normal working man. for him to be an idiot sent me that image with time and location because I would’ve never find out about it! he just caught to his lies so it left him to admitted to me that he was in Bangkok. I played it cool by being understanding told him that a man set his ways but he didn’t need to lie to me at the beginning to create this perfect image of himself. But then… I lost it when he told me to change him! I told him there’s nothing I could do to change a man and who am I to change him if he has already been this way that’s when I got furious and on NC rule with him. This man is used to have women try to tied him down for marriage and have a family but I told him that Im not looking for that right now and it’s probably why he’s hanging out with me because we don’t want to have a serious commitment as of now. I don’t know what to do at this point but I know I like him a lot and enjoyed our times together but I’m very dramatized by it.. I’m very frustrated that he doesn’t take my feelings seriously and doesn’t acknowledge anything or trying to give me a clear answers why he did such thing. He contacted me a few days ago asking If I’m good.. I didn’t response back. I have a feeling that he might show up to my work or might leave me alone for good.. But at least I want to hear from his side or to have a better conclusion. I’m a very stubborn myself I know I won’t reach out to him but I need him to explain himself. i’m glad that I haven’t slept with him otherwise I would bury my own self!! What can I do at this point? Is it even worth it to talk to him again? I liked what we had but I wish he could have being honest with him of who he really is and yes I did get mixed signals for him.

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