7 Definitive Steps On How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You

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July 25, 2015 at 6:51 pm

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Steph

July 25, 2015 at 5:36 pm

My ex and I dated for three and a half years and he split up with me six months ago – yet it’s only now that I’ve found this guide. It was a messy breakup, I was suffering quite badly with depression and he felt like he was taking care of me as a chore more than being in a relationship. I must admit, the first few months were messy and I behaved in a way that’s definitely not conducive to getting him back. Nowadays, we text literally all day every day, we’ve slept together on more than one occasion and he knows I still love him – his response is that he doesn’t have the energy to devote to a relationship and that he ‘loves me but isn’t in love with me’. I know he uses dating apps but hasn’t had results. I’m worried that it’s too late for these strategies to work considering now we basically operate on a best friend (with benefits) level and if I instituted no contact after telling him that I would wait till he was ready that he’d see it as inconsistency and move on even more. I don’t know what to do but I know that I want this more than ever. Is it too late for me to make this work? I’m no longer suffering with depression and the mitigating factors are significantly lessened though I know his family and friends aren’t keen on me. Help, please?
Cece

July 24, 2015 at 6:09 pm

What if he cheated and left for another girl ?
Keirstin

July 24, 2015 at 5:44 pm

Hello , so he and my ex BF got together and then he texted me 3 days later and said “I have a lot going on write now I think it would be best if we were friends. I said okay and he said ok. So we went to his house to pick his sister up and so his mom was like say hi so he looked at me and waved and I just smiled and didn’t make eye contact with him after that. I need help!!!!
Jessi

July 23, 2015 at 5:13 pm

Hello Chris,

My bf broke up with me last week Tuesday, out of the blue, after 7 months – he is 31 and I am 28. We had been having some issues, but nothing too crazy. He is somewhat of a depressed person and it is very difficult for him to accept the fact that someone loves and cares for him. For the last couple of months, he had pretty much completely checked out on me emotionally. Naturally, that made me more inquisitive and needy which I believe is why he broke up with me.

Anywho, I was completely heartbroken and upset and did the NC thing for 3 days. I ended up calling him, primarily because we work in the same building and occasionally cross paths and I did not want it to be awkward. When I called, we spoke for a little over an hour and he told me that he didn’t want me completely out of my life, because I am a great person and he would be a fool to completely alienate me from his life. I told him that that could potentially be a possibility, but that I could just not turn off my emotions and that I would need some time.

Later that evening, he called me – to tell me a story about his dog – random conversations that we would have. For the following few days, he would randomly message me what he was doing and send me pictures of misc things – to make small talk I am assuming.

So, I eventually confronted him and asked what his intentions were because I was beyond words confused. How can someone that broke up with me a little less than a week ago want to speak to me daily? The reality is that it’s killing me because I do not know where I stand and because of this, I have not been able to fully grieve and try to “move on”. Well, he ended up freaking out on me, getting anxious and telling me that he didn’t know what he wanted and that he was just as confused as I was. He then went on to mention that his counselor wanted me to accompany him to his next session next week …

After that talk, he still continues to message me sporadically. However, he hasn’t messaged me at all for the last 24 hours.

I am beyond words confused and have no idea what I should do. All I want to do is call and talk to him but I am not sure that is the right approach. Should I continue being nonchalant and friendly and see where it goes from there?

Please help –

Jessi
Monica

July 23, 2015 at 9:03 am

my ex boyfriend and I broke up in 2013. We we childhood best friends who reconnected after not seeing each other for 20 yrs. we were together for 2 years. He decided that our relationship wasn’t working,so we broke it off mutually, as much as I didn’t want to. Anyway, we still talked and visited from time to time. Anytime he started seeing someone new he would call me and tell me all about it and ask my opinion. This last girl he’s seeing I met as he moved her in with him, basically for financial reasons (his words). He wasn’t all that attractive to her and she kinda got on his nerves. Well, every time we talked he would end up telling me how muc he missed me and when he went to bed he thought of me, and when he woke up he thought of me. Why he would see me, he would call me that night, or the day after and tell ,ex that I looked good or that I looked hot and things like, man, I had that girl, I had her in my house, in my bed next to me. She was mine! I’d tell him yeah you did. You blew it. One day he called me and said it would be better if we never talk or communicate again and he hung up. I emailed him confused and asked him why? What did I do? Was he mad at me? The only answer he gave was that it had nothing to do with me, it was him. He would not give me any answer but that. Do you have any insight on why he just dissed me like that. We were talking fine. We were best friends and then, nothing.
Elle

July 21, 2015 at 7:30 am

Hello!! I would like to know if you have any additional advice!
Facts: My ex and I recently broke up after an almost 8 year relationship. 2 of these years were spent -long distance.
Although we struggled throughout the relationship, we really enjoyed each other. We’re best friends! I had a history of breaking up with him when I got upset, and then eating my words later. In 2008, after nearly 1 year, he put his foot down and we broken up for about 6 months. When we did reunite, he came back with a HUGE BRICK WALL around his heart that I have not been able to break through! As you can imagine, this WALL was a huge source of my frustration with him for next 7 years. Lack of affection, compliments, etc. In August OF 2014, he decided to move back to Atlanta, which was the start of a frustrating long distance relationship. 2 months ago, he decided to leave me alone during our “military” , 1 weekend per month to see the Mayweather/Pacquiao boxing match, and it devastated me. Really hurt my feelings! No, he didn’t invite me along, nor permit me to go… hmm! Out of anger, I told him that I was officially threw with him and left his car. Nearly a week later, he came back to town to help me move, but I hadn’t gotten pass the offense. Days later, I told him that I felt he shouldn’t call me until he was ready to apologize. That was in may, and he has held me to that proclamation. I have begged, cried, snotted, threatened to drive to Atlanta…. you name it. NO GO! He says that he needs time to himself to heal from his recent surgery, enjoy himself, and put himself first for once. In searching his recent call history, I found early morning, lengthy calls that weren’t me! Once again, I am devastated!! Today, I asked him if he wanted me to stop calling all together, and he said, “No, just back off a little.” Out of all of the drama, the love is still there and MUTUAL. Question is: How do I proceed? Do I stay the course, letting him know that I am still in the fight…. a little “Good morning”, “Good night” here and there? BUT risk getting my heart broken if he never responds in kind and ultimately pursues someone else? OR Do I take a hike and see if he really and truly wants me? I would really like to just change my number all together and depend solely on FB to communicate when necessary. Only thing is, we have unfinished financial business to handle and SOON! I REALLY WANT MY BABY BACK!!! BUT DO I EVEN STAND A CHANCE??? He says “yes”, but that could just be a way for him to cope while really trying to get over me FOR GOOD and move on with someone else!! I’M NOT SURE! HELP!!!!

Elle

July 21, 2015 at 8:05 am

BTW/ He doesn’t respond to my texts and hardly ever responds to my calls the first 3 times. (yes, you read it right)
He say’s he still loves and cares for me very deeply, but won’t stay on the phone with me for 15 minutes. This really saddens me.
I do know that he’s hurt, and highly apprehensive, but how should I know if this is worth the emotional investment?

Kitty Cat

July 21, 2015 at 12:32 am

Can these rules also be applied to a good friend who became a friends with benefits as then ended? Especially if he knows you have feelings for him but it ended and I want to get him to miss me and the fun we had together even before we took our friendship to another level.
Megan

July 20, 2015 at 11:42 pm

I only dated my ex for a little over a month. It was going really well, I mean REALLY well, when all of a sudden he got mad at me over a misunderstanding with a text message. It just blew up and got out of control and we both did and said stupid things. So, I broke up with him. But I think I shouldn’t have. I even tried to take it back almost immediately. He hasn’t spoken to me since, and I haven’t tried to contact him since. It’s been just over a week and we’re both back on the dating site we met on. Question is, considering the actual relationship was so short, do I have a chance? And if so, do I still wait a month considering that short period of time? I’m thinking if I’m feeling this much anxiety over him being back on the market, he must be feeling it a little, too. But I dunno… damn boys are so confusing. :-/
Ridhi

July 15, 2015 at 9:13 am

I’m a 21 yr old and I broke up with my now-ex boyfriend last night.
We got to know each other via Facebook and eventually started dating. We really liked each other’s company and had fun till the time he honestly told me that we don’t have a future because he needs to move out of town for work and it had been about 3 months since we had started dating. He broke up with me saying that he doesn’t believe in long distance relationships. A month later, after no contact from my side, he came back, saying that he misses me, that he’s not moving because of his family and he wants to get back with me. We started dating again. After 2 months, I realized that I’ve started falling for him, but when I asked him about his feelings, he said that he really likes me, but he’s not sure about love. Also, that we don’t have a future because a ‘serious relationship ends in marriage’ and we can’t end up marrying each other because our family backgrounds are different (his family is from a lower financial and social status, which is something that I don’t care about). Eventually I told him that it’s not that we don’t have a future, but that he doesn’t want it bad enough and I’ve been wasting my time and emotions on him, and I broke up. Is there a way that can make him miss me and ultimately feel that he wants to be with me in the long run? Or should I let him go because I deserve someone better? Some friends whom I’ve turned to for advice said that I’m too younge to think of a future, but some said that there’s nothing wrong with my thinking and that I deserve to have a better guy. I’m confused. Should I try to get him back (and how?) or should I let him go? Thanks for reading.

Jessica

July 23, 2015 at 6:10 am

I’m 17 years old now and my ex boyfriend broke up with me one week ago. The reason he broke up with me is that he had no feelings for me anymore. I didn’t really say anything to him that night because I was so hurt and didn’t want to talk to him. The next day, he kept on texting me and asked if I was okay and we actually met with each other once after our break up, with a bunch of friends. He tried to talk to me, but most of the time, I was pretty cold to him. That night, I told him I needed space and time and he said he understands and that he won’t talk to me until I’m ready. But after two days, he texted me again, and from that day on, we still talk to each other and like snapchat with each other as well. But throughout this all conversations, it was him who started all these, I was only replying him. But on Monday, he asked me if we can be friends with benefits, I was so shocked and hurt that he actually asked me that, and of course I said no to him. After I rejected him to be friends with benefits, he stopped texting me or snapchatting me and I feel like he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and I find it really weird and I was actually thinking that he was talking to me just because he wants to be friends with benefits with me. That hurt me so much but I still want him back. I miss him so much and I miss talking to him. I tried to not think about him that much, but it’s so hard for me.. I’m so confused on what I’m suppose to do now..

Monica

July 15, 2015 at 2:42 am

I recently broke up with my boyfriend because he wouldn’t stop talking to other women. I am really in love with him and feel broken without him. This was his first long term relationship. He doesn’t show he’s feeling easily. I don’t know if he is even upset. Please help me get him back without him cheating on me. I’m so lost without him.
Shaz

July 14, 2015 at 5:34 pm

So this is hard but my BF left me around 7 weeks ago he is 25, I am 40. We were happy but he moved away from his family to be with me we were together for just under two years. He had also left me around a year ago but he came home after a week. One of his reasons was that he wanted children and I couldn’t have them. So I was made redundant and spent 7000.00 pounds in order to get an operation to allow me to conceive. Just over a month later we got engaged and then two weeks later he left me. The only reason he can give is that it all happened to fast, but it was what he wanted or so I thought (I can only go by what he said to me). He still texts and calls but doesn’t have much to say but advised me he is never coming back. I really don’t know what to do now I did everything he wanted I’m so confused. I have tried ignoring him but I cant I was so happy and thought he was too.

N.M

July 28, 2015 at 5:49 am

There are people around him who maybe influencing him, creating doubts in his mind, telling him he is wrong to tie himself down at this age, that the world is full of more beautiful younger girls.
Boys at 25 are not mature and he may especially sensitive to outside opinions.
Take care.
I speak from experience. Even I can’t have my bf’s children and people around him put the idea into his head and he finally is on the verge of leaving me.

Ritz

July 14, 2015 at 11:28 am

Hey there..

I have been dating a guy since 9 months and everything seemed good until the last two months as he claimed to have spoken to his parents about our relationship which they didn’t approve of. He said that he’d keep trying to convince them for me but has also started to act very distant lately..he says that he loves me but at the same time can never hurt his parents.
We have had the best times together and now it feels as if I don’t mean anything to him anymore as he’s given up on us..I tried a lot to make him understand so as to make things work but he just doesn’t seem to comprehend.
I love him a lot but at the same time I feel I’m being to pushy with this whole thing. So I decided to try the NC rule..it has been 4 days now and there are no signs of him being affected by my absence. I see him post pictures and videos on sites which show how happy he’s with everything in life…
I don’t know what to do..should I wait around for him to realize what he’s been missing or should I initiate the talk? I’m in a fix where I see no hope..
Please help.
Emily

July 13, 2015 at 1:30 pm

I have a problem with a guy who ended it with me just yesterday….,

We were introduced to each other by a third party who passed on my number. We were texting for a month before we met up, before I met him I was convinced that I have found a friend here. When we met face to face…..we both soon realised that it wasn’t just going to be a friendship. Since then for the next nearly 4 months, we have been meeting up every weekend. We would go out for dinner, drinks and some day activity and spend a night together once every weekend. Two weeks ago, we couldn’t meet up for the weekend and I missed him so bad. He was saying that he missed me too. When we finally met up the next week, it was amazing. We were holding hands, kissing all the time and that night in bed was completely different…..it was more intimate. I was so happy. The next day we spend the whole day together and it was great but in the back of my mind the question ‘what are we?’ was driving me mad. I found out the day before that my job was ending so I am unsure about where I will be but that was never an alarm bell situation for me as I just assumed that if I had to travel 1-2 hours a week to see him, ill do it. That night the stress of not having a job and not knowing what was going to happen to us as we are both going home for the summer but live really far apart. He reached for my hand and I broke down. I never cried like that before, I was telling him how much I liked him, how much I enjoyed being with him, how I liked him more everytime we were together and how I don’t want this to be the last time we see each other. I was never so open and vulnerable in front of a guy. he gave me nothing in return. The following day we met up and he went straight to the point ‘ I don’t like you as much as you like me’, I was devastated. He was ending it after I told him how I felt. He said that he was doing it to protect me as he is ashamed that he is the guy who broke my heart. I was so upset, I felt like I was losing everything in the one weekend.

I was thinking about it last night and I just want advice……did he end it because I care too much? did he end it because he freaked out when he saw how much I care? or did he freak out because he realised he liked me a lot too? I cant get over him until I know for sure the real reason, his breakup speech sounded too rehearsed that he had an answer for all my questions but never went into depth……I really need your help/advice, my heart is broken….. </3
Liza D

July 11, 2015 at 8:04 pm

Help ! ?? Been living w the love of my life for 3.5 years…we both are divorced, etc. But recently it cooled and after a few misunderstandings he has said he’s “done” and I need to move out. Wasn’t prepared, so to get my own place, I’m leaving in a few weeks..??? How can I convince him (subtly) that he doesn’t WANT me to go ?? I can tell he still loves me, I think he’s afraid. (Still packing etc to move…no drama…no tears…yes to being sweet and wearing his fav outfits around the house !!)
Amy

July 9, 2015 at 9:57 pm

Hey,my and my boyfriend were dating for about 10 months and he talked about marrying me and having kids together someday but just 3 days ago he broke up with me because I had a kind of childish fit of jealousy (that happened quite a bit) we talked on the phone for awhile yesterday and the day before and he keeps saying he still loves me but has trouble handling the stress of being with me.He blocked me on facebook because whenever we talked on there he kept getting too emotional.The last time we talked on the phone I ended up crying and hanging up…
Is it too late because I didn’t do no contact right away?
And is it possible to get him back without being connected on facebook?(I think he may be looking at my wall through the sibling he lives with’s account though as his sibling is suddenly liking a lot of my pics which they’ve never done) but even if he isn’t?

Chris Seiter

July 16, 2015 at 10:11 pm

I think he is using his siblings to spy on you.

Its not too late.

Zarina

July 9, 2015 at 5:28 pm

So here’s the thing. My ex broke up with me for over a month a go but a week after break-up, I messaged him and told him that I respect his decision of wanting space. However, a month has already passed and still no sign of him. We remained friends on FB and Instagram and I focused myself more – going to the gym, catching up with some old friends and kept myself busy with some things. I posted updates on FB and insta (not really that active) and he’s been liking some of my posts but not much. So, a month has passed and he’s still not planning to talk to me. should I just give up and move on? I can’t deactivate my FB as updates from school are always posted. We’d be seeing each other soon so if he still doesn’t want to talk to me, I want to at least receive a proper closure. He broke up with me via FB messenger which is very painful for me.
Ashleigh

July 9, 2015 at 12:57 am

Hi!!

My live-in partner left the house almost two weeks ago because he was too mad at me when my company sent me to Germany for a week. He told me that he will rent somewhere(he mentioned the area though) for good but made a story to my parents that he will come home every weekend(which we both know is not true) just not to make them be mad at him. He also left some of his things at home and just brought some of clothes and shoes. He deleted his facebook profile (our picture) but kept the rest in his page and remained in a relationship status with me.He hasn’t contacted me since then and im also trying not to contact him. He is someone who checks on me all the time (yes, he is possesive) and do you think this no contact rule will help us sort things out? He did not went home last weekend and i wanted to ask him if he will so that i can make excuses to my parents but i dont know if that’s okay. Will definitely appreciate your response. Have a great day!
candace

July 7, 2015 at 2:11 am

What about the girl who broke up w the bf at least 4 times (me) and came back bawling my eyes out and now im serious about committing to him? And… To top it all of he has a new gf who (honestly) is not as pretty as myself nor as intelligent but she shines in some ways. He’s straight up told me to respect his relationship with this new girl and I think he and I are a better match (of course). Is my case hopeless?
Emma

July 5, 2015 at 4:08 pm

My Boyfriend broke up with me almost 2 months ago and I miss him a lot says its because I was annoying, I did message a lot and ask to see him a lot but isn’t that what every girl does? I have texted him everyday since we broke up telling him how much I love him and how happy he made me trying to make him feel guilty for leaving me. Also he was talking to other girls telling them he’s single, any idea what I should do? Also says he doesn’t want anyone at the moment but his friend said he keeps going up to girls and trying to talk to them but makes a fool of himself. We were together for 8 months and I know that’s not long to people but he was my first and I need him Please help…

Rachel

July 13, 2015 at 1:08 am

You know you are much better than that. This guy does not deserve you, just based on how he is acting. Remember, you do not NEED any man or anyone. You are complete as you are. You complete yourself. Now what you need to do is change your approach from within yourself. Stop contacting him to begin with and then start working on yourself. I really like the advice from this website so I’d recommend reading the entire article and following those steps but more importantly start distancing yourself fro this guy and his friends. In future only reciprocate contact as much as the guy does or less. For example if you contact him and he doesn’t respond, wait until he contacts you the second time to respond, then act casual and un-bothered.

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