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178 thoughts on “How To Find Your Soulmate – A Complete Guide”

  1. Ashley

    December 23, 2014 at 12:09 am

    Congratulation! You two make a lovely couple!

    1. admin

      December 23, 2014 at 3:16 pm

      Thank you Ashley!

  2. Lola

    December 21, 2014 at 2:39 pm

    first of all congratulations Chris!!! I am so happy for you.

    I have a question to ask you, irrelevent to this article, the only thing relevent is that the guy I want is the love of my life and my soul mate.
    A while ago I told you that the one I am so madly in love with, and he was (hopefully will be again) so madly in love with me broke up, after a good 7 months he went back to his LDR manipulative ex. you told me that I am a much better choice than the LDR girl, and that it just might take a while for him to realize that it’s not real love with her and that she is simply playing him.
    Here are the signs that are happening now, and please tell me what you think:
    1-she always posts on his wall, and he always replies after a good six hours with a mocking comment,she answers back in this “what do you mean?” way, and then later deletes the comment. There is actually one post of a song that he never replied to, the post remained untouched without a like or a comment, she later commented “fine, I won’t post anymore songs for you” to delete the comment later.
    2-he doesn’t even touch his phone in college, I always check his last seen when I get back home, and it’s always the night before (he used to be on his phone all day long at the beginning of the semester).
    3-this while, he is looking at me, a lot, even other people are noticing it, we are also being generally nicer to each other. The other day, we even sat together in the lecture, after he asked me. (but he is not the unfaithful kind, I guess he was just trying to be nice to me, but it’s not because he just wanted to be friendly,trust me).
    4-he updated his profile pictuer of him and his friends, with the LDR girl cut off from the picture,and only half of her left side is showing in the picture.
    5-she was supposed to come here in christmas and new year, but it doesn’t seem like it’s going to happen.
    6-he was talking on whatsapp with someone the other day, and I noticed that there were a bunch of messages from her that he didn’t even bother opening, and it’s not because I was sitting next him, because they were already there when he opened the app, and that was before we went to an area with a Wi-fi, so they were sent from before…..
    what is that?

    1. Lola

      December 21, 2014 at 2:40 pm

      also, the other day he updated his cover photo, a lot of people commented, including her (commenting twice). He replied to all of them except for her!!. a few hours later he replied to her comment 😛

  3. Danielle

    December 21, 2014 at 4:01 am

    Christ this story is amazing I’m so happy for you!

    I left a comment for you on Why Your Ex Boyfriend Contacts You When Hes In Another Relationship eagerly awaiting your reply but haven’t heard back from you after I answered one of your questions, could you please respond to it.

  4. Lexica Hawthorne

    December 19, 2014 at 8:43 pm

    Hi Chris I’ve gotten advice on getting my ex back but this time I need advice on how to get the new guy 😉
    He’s really sweet, we met on facebook. He lives in my town. He is the type of person to have a convo on a chat box rather than a message lol on a pic I read a convo he had with a friend about how he’s been used for his money. He’s a pilot and collects bently’s. We all need a hobby right? lol
    I asked him out and said it was my treat =] He replied “that’s amazing no one has ever done that before” I said “yeah I would love to” and he said “xoxo” the next day.
    I posted a goofy pic of me on facebook and that’s the first thing of mine he’s liked. I want to get his attention more and have more convos with him. Not to mention he didn’t really answer my question lol
    What do you think about the situation and what are some cute posts I could do to get him to notice me more?

    1. admin

      December 22, 2014 at 4:24 pm

      Some cute posts?

    2. Lexica Hawthorne

      December 31, 2014 at 6:25 pm

      Yeah like something I could post to get his attention.
      Here’s the thing, he initiates everything but when I reply he doesn’t respond. He gave me his number, he added me on facebook, he likes a lot of my posts.
      He messaged me Merry Christmas and I replied and 3 days letter I messaged him a hi and he said “Im good how are you? =]”
      I replied and he never answered -.- Is he playing games? Or just……………really slow at responding? lol He say the message, messanger says that

  5. Sydney

    December 18, 2014 at 5:31 pm

    Chris, this is truly an amazing and beautiful story! You are very lucky to have found your soulmate and you deserve all the happiness and to never have to feel lonely again 🙂
    I was wondering if you could offer me some advice on a friend I’m feeling very confused about?
    I’ve been friends with this guy for a few years and this passed summer he broke up with his long term girlfriend. After they broke up (on good terms) we started hanging out a lot more- about 3 or 4 times a week. Recently I’ve been having these feelings when I’m around him, but I tried to tell myself that it was nothing. On Halloween, we went to a party and he was very drunk and at the end of the night he kissed me. The next morning he said he couldn’t remember anything about the night before so I didn’t bring it up. A few weeks ago we were drinking again and when we were going to bed he sent me a text from his room saying “if you’re cold on the couch you can always sleep in my bed” so I did. When I got into his bed he started kissing me and things escalated to undressing and we almost had sex, but certain circumstances prevented that so we cuddled and went to sleep. Since then, it hasn’t been talked about and he acts like it never happened. I don’t understand what’s going on with him! I know I have feelings for him, but I don’t know how he feels about me and I’m afraid if I ask I’ll end up losing him as a friend.
    I would be so lucky to have a story like yours with him. We have so much in common and get along well together, and he must be attracted to me too if he wants to kiss me. I just don’t know what to do.

    1. admin

      December 22, 2014 at 4:23 pm

      Thank you so much!

  6. Aurelie

    December 16, 2014 at 12:05 am

    Sorry I posted it two times! Also wanted to add that I really do not show any signs of being hurt. I do not reply and I post photos as usual on social media (I was following your guide advices :)) Do you think it is good that now he thinks I moved on and maybe that is why he acts like that with FB?

  7. Aurelie

    December 15, 2014 at 11:54 pm

    You made me cry, Chris! This is so beautiful and touching. I wish I could have such a happy story at the end!

    Chris, I have a question and hope you will answer. I wrote before that my long distance ex was cheating on me and kind of still seeing one of the girls.. I went to NC from the day one and he was texting a lot that she is not me and he would want me to move to his country so we can be together and how he is sorry, but none of his messages were as sweet as they were just right before the break up. I ignored all of them and he went angry. And today I found out he added me to restricted list on Facebook so I won’t see his posts.. And I do not understand why he is doing this. He knows he hurts me, he was sorry and now doing this on top of everything…

    Do you think it is his way to get my reaction and make me angry or something else? I don’t know what to do 🙁

    1. admin

      December 22, 2014 at 4:22 pm

      Thank you so much!

      Well, the fact that he restricted you means he is still thinking about you.

  8. Kelly

    December 15, 2014 at 4:00 pm

    Congrats for your wedding! I consider you very lucky or …I want to ask you, do you beleive in Law of Attraction??

    1. admin

      December 22, 2014 at 4:20 pm

      Thank you!

      I don’t believe in it so to speak but some of the stuff appealed to me.

  9. anon

    December 15, 2014 at 1:12 pm

    Congratulations chris! I’ve been following your site since day one and i feel so happy for you! Sending love and blessings from a continent away 😉 you’re a truly lucky man, your wife is absolutely stunning!

    Anyway I have tried all of your tactics to get my ex back (i’ve tried for almost 3yrs) only to fail time and time again. I finally let him go nov last year and have since found my fiance; we’re planning to get married in aug next year!
    Because of our career, long distance relationship is really tough. Currently i get to see him once a mth. And every 6-7mths, he’d be home with me for a solid 2-3mths. (Next time he’s back home, we’ll be married!:D)
    Its amazing how when you meet the right person, everything falls into place somehow. i hope everything works out well for you lovebirds! And thank you for sharing your lovestory 🙂

    1. admin

      December 22, 2014 at 4:20 pm

      Thanks for your kind words.

      Congrats on your engagement.

      So happy for you.

  10. lola

    December 12, 2014 at 1:39 pm

    Beautiful, inspired. May you both wake up every day for the rest of your lives and think, “What can I do to show my partner how much I love them today?”

    That is how love lasts.


    1. admin

      December 15, 2014 at 5:36 am

      Hmm… Love that attitude!

      I think I am going to write that somewhere so I don’t forget it.

  11. G

    December 11, 2014 at 11:57 pm

    Chris, I am SO happy for you! Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. You’ve given me advice so many times in the past, and I know you’ve helped so many other people. You deserve all of the love and happiness that comes your way! Congratulations!!!

    1. admin

      December 15, 2014 at 5:30 am

      Thank you so much!

  12. amie

    December 11, 2014 at 10:40 pm

    HUGE CONGRATS! You deserve all this happiness. She is one lucky lady 🙂

    1. admin

      December 11, 2014 at 10:43 pm

      Thanks Amie!

  13. Michaela

    December 11, 2014 at 10:30 pm

    This is a lovely story but it made me cry from sadness. I’m using your guide at the moment to try to win my ex back. We were together for 4.5 years and I lost my temper over a “future” conversation and stormed out. He will not take me back so I’m having to use this guide.

    I’m devastated and miserable because I know that he is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Like you said: when you know, you know.

    I’m on day 3 of no contact but I’m living in another city now because I had to move out when he wouldn’t take me back. I can only hope your guide does the trick!

    Michaela. X

    1. admin

      December 15, 2014 at 5:26 am

      Question, the future conversation that you didn’t like… How did you approach it?

  14. Annie2014

    December 11, 2014 at 10:14 pm

    So happy for you! Congratulations 🙂 🙂 🙂

    Looking at you really gives me hope.

    And I think that your story shows that the two must be mature personalities to develop a strong and loving relationship.

    1. admin

      December 11, 2014 at 10:14 pm

      Thank you Annie!

      I am so glad you found hope from this!

  15. felicia

    December 11, 2014 at 10:07 pm

    Aww Chris! Happy to hear you finally got your “ungettable girl” 🙂 I’ve been seeing a guy that lives in another state (on top of making an effort to get my ex back.) If we get serious that might be me in a few months and its a little scary, (i know its gotta be hard to pickup everything and move to a place and leave family/friends behind) but your story has kinda calmed my worries.

    1. admin

      December 15, 2014 at 5:25 am

      Hi Felicia!

      Yes, getting that ungettable girl required a lot of effort but it was totally worth it.

      It is definitely a transition picking everything up but if you have a relationship that you really believe in and you think you can go the distance with then my experience has bene positiv with it.

  16. Vivian

    December 11, 2014 at 10:06 pm

    Hi Chris,

    I’m so happy for you! You truly deserve all the happiness in the world for all you do for your readers. I wanted to give you an update on my life. You helped me tremendously last year, when I was going through a break-up and he immediately went into a rebound relationship. I followed your advice, as tough as it was, and now I am happy to tell you that we got back together about 4 months later and we are now engaged and will be getting married in October!

    Thanks again!


    1. admin

      December 11, 2014 at 10:09 pm

      Check you out!

      That is SO GREAT to hear. I am really happy for you.

  17. Melanie

    December 11, 2014 at 9:34 pm

    A lovely story. Still looking for my special someone….and one day I am sure I will. Have a gorgeous and lovely life together 🙂

    1. admin

      December 11, 2014 at 9:40 pm

      Thank you Melanie!

      I am sure you will find your someone special!

      Hope this gave you some hope.

  18. ys

    December 11, 2014 at 9:15 pm


    You and your wife are a special couple with a fairy tale romance. Thank you for sharing your honest, touching story.

    Thank you for making my day brighter and enlightening the world with your love.

    1. admin

      December 11, 2014 at 9:22 pm

      It has been a very incredible ride!

      Hope that I made your day just a little bit brighter.

  19. Mandy

    December 11, 2014 at 9:04 pm

    I traveled for love before, instead cross the country it was cross the world, yet it didn’t end up well cause he never loved me. I’m so glad that you have a wonderful ending with Jennifer, you guys look very cute together!
    Of course this didn’t make me cry I’ve always call myself cold hearted but it’s the most romantic love story I’ve heard in years, hard to imagine a guy would do this much for a girl, to me I thought you’re the kind of guy that has been through too much to be in love :p
    (I gotta admit that the 2nd video you posted almost got me though, nice try, almost teared up)

    Anyways, I’m happy for you cause you’ve done so much for so many heartbroken women, I don’t believe in God but I do believe in Karma, and I this you totally deserve a happy ending. Happy early Xmas

    1. admin

      December 11, 2014 at 9:22 pm

      Dang Mandy…

      I pulled out all the stops and you still didn’t cry?

      Haha just kidding.

      Thanks for your very kind words!

  20. Allie

    December 11, 2014 at 7:58 pm

    CHRIS! This is so adorable I read every single word, I am so happy for you both! And she is STUNNING, you are a lucky guy! Congratulations! I hope to be able to find a love like this some day

    1. admin

      December 11, 2014 at 9:21 pm

      I am totally the luckiest guy ever!

      You definitely deserve to have a happy ending like this! A lot of people reading this site do.

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