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Hannah
March 4, 2017 at 5:01 pm
Me and my boyfriend broke up 2 days ago, its our second time breaking up. We love and care about eschother but we both arent good menally. We need time to get better before we can have a healthy relationship. How long could this take? He wants to try again eventually
EBR Team Member: Amor
March 4, 2017 at 8:20 pm
Hi Hannah,
That’s hard to say. How long were you together? If it’s not short, you can try the 30 day no contact rule.
JS
March 2, 2017 at 1:15 pm
I have had a terrible break up. He gave up too easily on me and didn’t try very hard to convince his parents. I was done and dusted with the on-off relationship. I heard everything from “you are everything I could ask for” “You are the best” “I love you more than you do” to “I don’t want a life partner like you” “Handle your mess of this breakup on your own”.
He has always loved me for almost 5 years but he was a commitment phobic. His parents gave a strict denial to our relationship so I always left him thinking he would try harder. But all he did was get back with me in some way or another without any commitment.
This time I decided to call it quits.
Day 1 to Day 3 I cried miserably. I wanted him to miss me but that didn’t happen
Day 4 I called him up, we spoke for 10 mins and he said he still loves me but there is no future so he will do as I suggested i.e. to never contact me again. I blocked him everywhere. I had taken my decision to move on. I started sketching on weekends. reading books after work. some or the other activity when free.
Day 10 He emailed me a one sentence “I am leaving”, I simply ignored
Day 15 He called and again I ignored
Day 16 He emailed me ” I understand why you didn’t answer my call. I won’t ever call again.” I ignored that too.
I know he loves me a lot but he can’t expect miracles to happen. His parents don’t like me and he won’t marry me without their consent.
I am so damn stuck in this on-off relationship. I have decided to move on. But honestly I want him to convince his parents and get married to him. I don’t know what to do.
EBR Team Member: Amor
March 3, 2017 at 12:07 am
HI Js,
tell him, if he’s not willing to do that, move on. Because you can’t live life waiting on someone else to do something you want. You can’t control other people.