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Sarah
May 31, 2015 at 3:42 pm
Hi chris im really interested in the new products you mentioned. I would like to sign for the coaching. When do you think it would come out? I hope its not too expensive as im still in college.
Chris Seiter
June 1, 2015 at 6:03 pm
Most relationship ppl charge $200 to $300 an hour…
I think that is ridiculous.
I want to make it somewhere in there for the entire month…
Since you get access to me all month plus all the products.
I want to make it super affordable.
Girl
May 31, 2015 at 9:07 am
Hello Chris. My ex boyfriend broke up with me a week or two ago. He blocked me off of everything possible but he has done this before and I was able to contact him on Instagram direct. We spoke on and off as I was trying to be nice and ask him if it was what he wanted however he would respond by calling me names and he could find someone else who would be faithful to him but not a miserable swear word**. He said you think you’re the only faithful girl in the world but you aren’t and you need to be a happy person. There’s plenty of women that can make me happier. ECt. In the end I left it a few days and then asked for his full address to send his items back to him. He responded with are you happy now? And then I just said please send me your address when you can to which he responded right away. Sorry I forgot then sent it to me. It’s so confusing because when I didn’t respond. He was like sorry it didn’t work. I did try. And it’s your loss ECt. In the end I just said good luck and Aslong as your happy x. He put I don’t need luck. You need to be a happy person. And I never responded. I just deleted the instagram pic we were commenting on. I’m really upset. We have broke up before and I don’t want to go around in circles but I do care about him. It’s been nearly a week since our last conversation. I haven’t looked at any of his profiles or messaged him. I’ve been going out with my friends every Eve for dinner. Cinema. And nights out. I’m hoping I will recover from this soon. I hope you can give me some advice. Only the week before was he saying no one would break Us and he would marry me. Although we’ve been in a rough patch for a while and because of the distance and our jobs we hadn’t seen each other a lot. Thank you.
Girl
June 2, 2015 at 5:11 pm
Yes I have ignored his last messages and not responded since. Been about a week. Had no contact and I will continue to do the no contact. I actually feel okay. It’s nice to not have someone argue as Everytime I see a message I’ve been feeling sick Cus it’s upsetting. Now I wake up and although I don’t feel great. I get on with my day. Really appreciate your blog and I know whatever happens I’ll be fine. I have a holiday booked for a few weeks time with my friends so just focusing on that which is keeping me going. Thank you so much. I’ll be fine with or without him.
Chris Seiter
June 1, 2015 at 6:02 pm
Have you been doing the NC rule at all?
Any of the strategies I teach?
Girl
May 31, 2015 at 9:07 am
Hello Chris. My ex boyfriend broke up with me a week or two ago. He blocked me off of everything possible but he has done this before and I was able to contact him on Instagram direct. We spoke on and off as I was trying to be nice and ask him if it was what he wanted however he would respond by calling me names and he could find someone else who would be faithful to him but not a miserable swear word**. He said you think you’re the only faithful girl in the world but you aren’t and you need to be a happy person. There’s plenty of women that can make me happier. ECt. In the end I left it a few days and then asked for his full address to send his items back to him. He responded with are you happy now? And then I just said please send me your address when you can to which he responded right away. Sorry I forgot then sent it to me. It’s so confusing because when I didn’t respond. He was like sorry it didn’t work. I did try. And it’s your loss ECt. In the end I just said good luck and Aslong as your happy x. He put I don’t need luck. You need to be a happy person. And I never responded. I just deleted the instagram pic we were commenting on. I’m really upset. We have broke up before and I don’t want to go around in circles but I do care about him. It’s been nearly a week since our last conversation. I haven’t looked at any of his profiles or messaged him. I’ve been going out with my friends every Eve for dinner. Cinema. And nights out. I’m hoping I will recover from this soon. I hope you can give me some advice. Only the week before was he saying no one would break Us and he would marry me. Although we’ve been in a rough patch for a while and because of the distance and our jobs we hadn’t seen each other a lot. Thank you.
Girl
June 2, 2015 at 5:11 pm
Yes I have ignored his last messages and not responded since. Been about a week. Had no contact and I will continue to do the no contact. I actually feel okay. It’s nice to not have someone argue as Everytime I see a message I’ve been feeling sick Cus it’s upsetting. Now I wake up and although I don’t feel great. I get on with my day. Really appreciate your blog and I know whatever happens I’ll be fine. I have a holiday booked for a few weeks time with my friends so just focusing on that which is keeping me going. Thank you so much. I’ll be fine with or without him.
Chris Seiter
June 1, 2015 at 6:02 pm
Have you been doing the NC rule at all?
Any of the strategies I teach?
sharon
May 29, 2015 at 4:53 pm
Your coaching plan sounds really good. I m keen to be in.
My case encompass a number of cases. My husband is a good person worthy for my effort. We seperated for two years n we have a child together. We are not divorced. He has resistence to me n his love to me is lost. I want him to chase me back, reignite his love to me. If i get him back, i will announce my result here n be your testimony.
Chris Seiter
June 1, 2015 at 6:02 pm
Yup, it’s looking like its definitely going to happen.
Super pumped to see who signs up.
Relationship coaches charge something like $200 -$300 an hour which I think it kind of crazy when they can make like $ $1,200 a month on one client assuming they see the client for an hour every week.
I want the coaching to be afforadable for everyone so I am not going to be charging anything crazy like $1,000.
It’ll be closer to that $200 to $300 a month mark.
sharon
May 29, 2015 at 4:53 pm
Your coaching plan sounds really good. I m keen to be in.
My case encompass a number of cases. My husband is a good person worthy for my effort. We seperated for two years n we have a child together. We are not divorced. He has resistence to me n his love to me is lost. I want him to chase me back, reignite his love to me. If i get him back, i will announce my result here n be your testimony.
Chris Seiter
June 1, 2015 at 6:02 pm
Yup, it’s looking like its definitely going to happen.
Super pumped to see who signs up.
Relationship coaches charge something like $200 -$300 an hour which I think it kind of crazy when they can make like $ $1,200 a month on one client assuming they see the client for an hour every week.
I want the coaching to be afforadable for everyone so I am not going to be charging anything crazy like $1,000.
It’ll be closer to that $200 to $300 a month mark.
Tamara
May 29, 2015 at 4:28 pm
Yay! New podcast! This was awesome, I kinda love hearing you say “Yeah, you have a chance to get him back – but do you really WANT to?” Great advice in this one. Thanks!
Chris Seiter
June 1, 2015 at 5:59 pm
Thanks for listening Tamara!
Are you liking the format of the podcasts?
Tamara
May 29, 2015 at 4:28 pm
Yay! New podcast! This was awesome, I kinda love hearing you say “Yeah, you have a chance to get him back – but do you really WANT to?” Great advice in this one. Thanks!
Chris Seiter
June 1, 2015 at 5:59 pm
Thanks for listening Tamara!
Are you liking the format of the podcasts?
lesley
May 29, 2015 at 12:50 pm
hi. my bf broke up with me 6 weeks ago and im doing NC. we broke up cos he wasn’t happy a guy had msged me ad he felt that I had been msging guys. I did the usual bad stuff of begging for a month and he kept sayin he would see me but wouldn’t. so I started Nc. hes since sent me 3 snap chats just saying morning and I ignored. obv hes seen that I have opened the msgs and up to today he watches my snapchat stories. I just don’t know what to do. I really want to be with him ….ive read nearly every post and listen to ur podcasts to help heal my heart at this time. thanks
lesley
June 2, 2015 at 2:18 pm
hi. hes still keeping an eye but stupidly msged him. he responded. some msgs back and forth but then I freaked out as he sent a snapchat with a girl kissing a boy emoji and I went bit crazy. I asked him what did he mean by this but got so upset fearing he has someone new that I unfollowed him on social media. hes still following me and watching my storys and instagram pics. we hadn’t been together long, since new year and I feel that our bond is not as strong as others who have been together longer. ive stopped msging him again. #ncrule the guy chased me for 6 months before I said id see him and I feel hes lost all interest. do I still stand a chance? all my friends say just move on which I find unhelpful. needing your expertness (is that even a word?)
Chris Seiter
June 1, 2015 at 5:59 pm
Hes keeping an eye on you. That’s a good thing last time I checked.
lesley
May 29, 2015 at 12:50 pm
hi. my bf broke up with me 6 weeks ago and im doing NC. we broke up cos he wasn’t happy a guy had msged me ad he felt that I had been msging guys. I did the usual bad stuff of begging for a month and he kept sayin he would see me but wouldn’t. so I started Nc. hes since sent me 3 snap chats just saying morning and I ignored. obv hes seen that I have opened the msgs and up to today he watches my snapchat stories. I just don’t know what to do. I really want to be with him ….ive read nearly every post and listen to ur podcasts to help heal my heart at this time. thanks
lesley
June 2, 2015 at 2:18 pm
hi. hes still keeping an eye but stupidly msged him. he responded. some msgs back and forth but then I freaked out as he sent a snapchat with a girl kissing a boy emoji and I went bit crazy. I asked him what did he mean by this but got so upset fearing he has someone new that I unfollowed him on social media. hes still following me and watching my storys and instagram pics. we hadn’t been together long, since new year and I feel that our bond is not as strong as others who have been together longer. ive stopped msging him again. #ncrule the guy chased me for 6 months before I said id see him and I feel hes lost all interest. do I still stand a chance? all my friends say just move on which I find unhelpful. needing your expertness (is that even a word?)
Chris Seiter
June 1, 2015 at 5:59 pm
Hes keeping an eye on you. That’s a good thing last time I checked.