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Jannah J.
April 22, 2015 at 7:24 am
Hello Chris, first off the website: I missed the easy navigation on the right side of the site to your articles, but either way- I really really love the new layout! I woke up one day and checked in your site and whoah! It’s so fresh! It also keeps my mood up because I like the colors used in the website. (I also got curious about your new ebook as I have read the old one more than three times already.)
I have a question about my situation. I have finished around 45 days of NC with my ex after our breakup where he told me he didnt want to talk to me or see me anymore and that he didn’t love me romantically anymore. After NC, we started talking and I started giving the memory chats in facebook (around three of them in a span of two weeks. Also in our place, chatting in facebook is almost the same as texting because of phone internet availability.) His responses were very positive and bright however I feel that our conversation was insincere and that he was responding that way just so we wouldn’t bring up the fight again (because there were a lot of unresolved issues too.) I found out through a friend that he was dating two new girls and he seems to be having fun. He also seems to be replying pretty slow to my texts and I feel that he is not very interested or he is preoccupied with his two women he is dating. I feel that I should walk away. However I am still wanting him back because we were happy most of the time in our relationship and we have a lot of similar goals in life too. I think that maybe if I ignore him or not talk to him at all, that would give him time to miss me (and maybe friendzone the other two girls? Because our breakup seemed to have made him very sad and it’s like he is rebounding on the others, but I wouldn’t like to assume it is just a probability.) Or maybe if I give enough time (months or half a year) for him without me, it would give me a better chance to get him back after rather than trying to keep sending memory texts which would probably irritate him. Because I think that by that time, I would be a new and fresh person. What can you say about this? I would like to hear your opinion on my situation 🙂
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 12:23 am
Hi There Jannah,
I figured people would miss the old layout. Unfortunately, there is this massive mobile update going on that requires website be mobile friendly which means I had to take the navigation on the right down :/.
Anyways, lets get to your situation.
I always love the idea of moving on without moving on. I think thats a last resort to go to though after you have thrown the kitchen sink at him.
Jannah J.
April 22, 2015 at 7:24 am
Hello Chris, first off the website: I missed the easy navigation on the right side of the site to your articles, but either way- I really really love the new layout! I woke up one day and checked in your site and whoah! It’s so fresh! It also keeps my mood up because I like the colors used in the website. (I also got curious about your new ebook as I have read the old one more than three times already.)
I have a question about my situation. I have finished around 45 days of NC with my ex after our breakup where he told me he didnt want to talk to me or see me anymore and that he didn’t love me romantically anymore. After NC, we started talking and I started giving the memory chats in facebook (around three of them in a span of two weeks. Also in our place, chatting in facebook is almost the same as texting because of phone internet availability.) His responses were very positive and bright however I feel that our conversation was insincere and that he was responding that way just so we wouldn’t bring up the fight again (because there were a lot of unresolved issues too.) I found out through a friend that he was dating two new girls and he seems to be having fun. He also seems to be replying pretty slow to my texts and I feel that he is not very interested or he is preoccupied with his two women he is dating. I feel that I should walk away. However I am still wanting him back because we were happy most of the time in our relationship and we have a lot of similar goals in life too. I think that maybe if I ignore him or not talk to him at all, that would give him time to miss me (and maybe friendzone the other two girls? Because our breakup seemed to have made him very sad and it’s like he is rebounding on the others, but I wouldn’t like to assume it is just a probability.) Or maybe if I give enough time (months or half a year) for him without me, it would give me a better chance to get him back after rather than trying to keep sending memory texts which would probably irritate him. Because I think that by that time, I would be a new and fresh person. What can you say about this? I would like to hear your opinion on my situation 🙂
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 12:23 am
Hi There Jannah,
I figured people would miss the old layout. Unfortunately, there is this massive mobile update going on that requires website be mobile friendly which means I had to take the navigation on the right down :/.
Anyways, lets get to your situation.
I always love the idea of moving on without moving on. I think thats a last resort to go to though after you have thrown the kitchen sink at him.
Rachel
April 21, 2015 at 11:06 pm
My ex and I broke up 5 days ago, dated for 1.5 years and will be graduating college in 3 weeks and then will potentially never see each other for a long time. I stopped talking to him 3 days ago and he’s been texting and Facebook messaging me nonstop because he is under the impression that we are still best friends. Given the time constraint, what do I do? I’ve posted multiple times and I’ve never been answered. I’m running out of time.
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 12:15 am
I guess you might have to do a shortened NC rule…
Maybe 2 weeks?
Rachel
April 21, 2015 at 11:06 pm
My ex and I broke up 5 days ago, dated for 1.5 years and will be graduating college in 3 weeks and then will potentially never see each other for a long time. I stopped talking to him 3 days ago and he’s been texting and Facebook messaging me nonstop because he is under the impression that we are still best friends. Given the time constraint, what do I do? I’ve posted multiple times and I’ve never been answered. I’m running out of time.
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 12:15 am
I guess you might have to do a shortened NC rule…
Maybe 2 weeks?
Katie
April 21, 2015 at 8:06 pm
Hey Chris, I’m a Graphic Design Graduate with website abilities. Thought you’d like some feedback about the new site design. So, firstly just wanted to say, think the redesign looks pretty slick. Evidently though, it was designed by a guy, though, right? :-). The design works really well all in all. The new photos work great and personally, I think, really emphasize the articles and entice the reader to want to click on them to find out more info. My only concern is that the comment section is a little hidden. This could probably be made slightly clearer in some way, but apart from that, great website improvements. Bravo to your designer 🙂
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 12:08 am
Thanks Katie!
LOVE THE FEEDBACK!
Yes, he was a guy but his wife help pick out the pictures.
Can you expand on the comments section issue?
What makes it hidden?
Katie
April 21, 2015 at 8:06 pm
Hey Chris, I’m a Graphic Design Graduate with website abilities. Thought you’d like some feedback about the new site design. So, firstly just wanted to say, think the redesign looks pretty slick. Evidently though, it was designed by a guy, though, right? :-). The design works really well all in all. The new photos work great and personally, I think, really emphasize the articles and entice the reader to want to click on them to find out more info. My only concern is that the comment section is a little hidden. This could probably be made slightly clearer in some way, but apart from that, great website improvements. Bravo to your designer 🙂
Chris Seiter
April 23, 2015 at 12:08 am
Thanks Katie!
LOVE THE FEEDBACK!
Yes, he was a guy but his wife help pick out the pictures.
Can you expand on the comments section issue?
What makes it hidden?