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699 thoughts on “Do You Even Have A Chance At Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back? Let’s Find Out!”

  1. Kristin

    April 21, 2015 at 7:15 pm

    can you read what I wrote above and what you think?
    Like is he interested?
    How good is my chance?
    And what should I do?

    He hasn’t contacted me yet

    1. Kristin

      April 23, 2015 at 3:34 am

      Sort here is the story…
      Hi Chris so my ex who was dating a girl I told you about told me they weren’t serious and she broke up with him. He told me he was sorry for the wy he treated me and has been making stupid decisions since we broke up. He said he has slept with 2 other girls and it hurts knowing that but I played it cool he said he wasn’t gonna give me a rating and I said I’m not gonna give you one either and he said oh really. Idk after that he started saying during lunch that idk who you have been with when I tried to give him my burger and I wouldn’t tell him. We had fun he talked to me. But idk if he wants me back idk how to make this better. He wants to be single for awhile which I get. He said he wants to be my friend but during lunch it seemed like we were teasing idk and I got up to go to the bathroom and he turned around to look at me. 5 mins after lunch he texted me and said I had fun we could do this again I guess and I said I did too and we can I guess. The next day I found a pin that he gave me a long time ago and texted him and said guess what I found and told him. He said it was weird timing to find that the day after. Please tell me what you think about this please!!! Is he interested? I don’t want to be a rebound to his I think rebound and hookups he has had…please help!!!

    2. Chris Seiter

      April 23, 2015 at 12:07 am

      I don’t see anything above this comment?

  2. Meo

    April 21, 2015 at 6:21 pm

    Sorry I am not spammer.

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 23, 2015 at 12:02 am

      I know, I have properly moderated the comment.

  3. Claire

    April 21, 2015 at 3:15 pm

    Hi Chris, your website is great!
    I would definitely try the NC rule but does it apply to all guys? My ex was the one who mentioned the break up and he’s pretty stubborn so I really don’t know if he would come back to me again. He’s my first boyfriend and I’ve really put in a lot of effort for this relationship. It’s under general break up so I guess it’s a good chance for me. However, I heard from his friend that he seemed to be okay without me. Do you think the NC rule would succeed here..? Because judging from his stubborn nature, I don’t know if this would work on him.. 🙁

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 21, 2015 at 6:03 pm

      Yes, I think it will be effective on most guys. I can’t guarantee all guys but most guys it will work on.

  4. Maria

    April 21, 2015 at 12:41 pm

    Hi Chris,
    My boyfriend and I broke up over the weekend. It was a LDR, and we were still very much in love, which makes it that much harder… but he hated the distance and not being able to see each other more than once a month because of our jobs and expenses, etc. I’ve read a lot of your site, and I think we are good candidates for this to work again… I started NC yesterday and plan to strictly stick to it. However, there were two additional points that factored into our breakup that, well, I would just like to ask a guy’s opinion on – whether it’s even worth trying to get him back, in the end.
    The first, is that while I know that some time down the line, I want to have kids, he stands rather firmly on not wanting kids – or as he says, not for at least another ten years.
    The second, is that we began our relationship after meeting somewhere that he was just visiting/ passing through, so basically it was LDR from the beginning – but we clicked really well. He had plans to move from one country to another, even before we met, and as it seemed to be an important goal of his, I never demanded that he give this up for me and move together right away, and that I could wait to move together down the line. I started imagining solutions of what I could do to go to him, but he never really seemed to contribute to planning the future in which he would have to make a sacrifice.
    I know for certain that he deeply cared for me, and if we’d met and lived in the same city, a really beautiful long relationship could have come of it. But with the not wanting children, and not seeming willing to make a moving sacrifice, my question, finally, is whether you think it is even worth trying to get him back? I am almost certain I could, but… I want it to last, and with these obstacles, I don’t know how good the chances are. What do you think?

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 21, 2015 at 6:05 pm

      I would only try to get him back if you think the relationship you could get him back would last a long time.

  5. Minnie

    April 21, 2015 at 5:09 am

    Hello,
    We broke up since January. But he still sets his nick name on facebook as ‘Vịt’s’ (means that he belongs to me). This name is public. And his password is my name too. Especially, he knows that I know his password but after a long time since the break up, he doesn’t change anything.
    What do you think about that? He just simply forgets or he is still confusing about us?

    1. Meo

      April 21, 2015 at 6:24 pm

      Yes. I can still log into his account to stalk. It’s quite guilty, I know. But it helps me to know how about his life. I think that he may know that I am stalking, but why does he still let me do that?

    2. Chris Seiter

      April 23, 2015 at 12:05 am

      Well, if he ever finds out that you are doing it he is probably going to be mad.

      Though you make a good point, he has to know you are doing it if he hasn’t changed his password.

    3. Chris Seiter

      April 21, 2015 at 5:57 pm

      Are you like logging into his account still or something?

  6. Rachel

    April 21, 2015 at 1:14 am

    Is this account a sham or am I posting on this incorrectly? I’ve commented multiple times and emailed and left voice recordings but have never received anything back. I really would like some advice considering we just broke up about 4 days ago and he’s already freaking out texting me and Facebook messaging me because we graduate from college in 2 weeks and won’t see each other ever again, so I’m kind of under a massive time strain.

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 21, 2015 at 5:40 pm

      Rachel, it’s not a sham.

      You have to understand my postition.

      I get hundreds of inquiries a day and not everyone can be answered when they want.

  7. Lily

    April 20, 2015 at 5:29 pm

    hey chris, non ex-related question but you da man on guys :3
    a guy and i have been chatting up recently and all is great and stuff, but in the last few days I have noticed that he is starting to pull away. He is still talking to me, and there’s still special treatment infront of our friends, but I just get this “pulling away” feeling. What do I do?

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 20, 2015 at 9:33 pm

      Friend Zone him haha.

  8. Moon

    April 20, 2015 at 5:18 pm

    Hi,
    I am really confused now. I did almost everything. I did full no contact for 30 days, then I contacted him via text message even phone call on his birthday. I am always the person who text first but he messages he replied, I think they were positive. He asked how about my lives, studying, whether I was tired after school. Everything seems really positive in my eyes and I can feel that our story is getting better and better slowly. However, all of my friends, they said that he is just trying to be nice. He knows that I am still in love and he doesn’t want to hurt me. Positive reply doesn’t mean that he has a special feeling for me. Why do all of them only look at the negative side? Some people said that I shouldn’t contact him anymore. Let he be the one who contact first. But I know him, he will never contact first. I want him so I have to do something. I can’t wait for him doing that.
    What should I do now? Please help me. Thank you.

    1. Moon

      April 21, 2015 at 5:00 am

      Yes. I contacted first all the time. Since the break up in January, he just contacted first for 2 times. I think he missed me, but after that, I did no contact and acted like I don’t care. Maybe he thought that I moved on, and instead of trying to take me back, he wil think it’s ok for both of us if I move on, I am sure. T.T

    2. Chris Seiter

      April 20, 2015 at 9:33 pm

      You did the full 30 days?

      And he didn’t even contact you druing that?

  9. SARAH

    April 20, 2015 at 2:15 pm

    Hi Chris. We were one of the coulpes that survived long distane relatinship. When we first met, we only had a month before he had to leave for another country that is almost 10 hours of plane ride away from where i lived.During that one month, we hung out a little and the day before he had to leave we had our first date and the next day he left and thats when we dicided maybe we should give this relationship a shot. I am not sure we were a real couple when we were away from each other because it could be the idea of being in a relationship that we enjoyed, not the presence of each other. I think we barely knew each other and of course it was much easier for me to be his ‘cool girlfriend’ who would always say nice things. After 10 months of long distance relationship, he came back and now he lives only 2 hours away from where i live. Finally we got to do some real things together and as my emotion got deeper we started to fight alot and he just hated how much we fought and how it always ends up with him being the bad guy. He just broke up with me yesterday and it was our third time breakin up. The First breakup happened in last february and when we were breaking up over the phone, we thought maybe we should meet in person and have some closure and when we met we got back together. After about a month he broke up with me again and the next day we were talking on the phone and decided to try again. And recently i’d been feeling some kind of distance between us and when i was trying to talk to him how it had been hard for me to feel like he didnt love me anymore, expecting the “no, thats ridiculous, i love you’ response, he told me that it had been hard on him too and he needed some time alone and didnt want to be in a relationship right now and how he couldnt ‘reciprocate” my love. He said he had been thinking about that for a while and i had no clue and thought we were okay. He said he wanted a week to rest and think about all this so i said okay. After a week (which was yesterday), we had a talk and he said he doesnt love me anymore nor does he think he could in the future, and how he didnt miss me when we were not talking. I asked if it was because of all the fighting we had and told him i could change but he said that wasnt it. He added maybe we could be friends later and i almost begged him to contact me when he’s ready to be firends.
    so my questions are: is he bored and not attractive to me because i am not the imaginary girlfriend in the text messages anymore but actually not who he was looking for? Does he really not love me anymore but said we could be friends because he didnt wanted to be a jerk? do i still have a chance when he sounded pretty determined and it was the 3rd time he said he didnt love me anymore? And if i do, would going on NC make him miss me after i said i would wait him to call me?
    Please help. Thank you

  10. Kate

    April 20, 2015 at 1:45 pm

    LDR, dated over a year, flying over every 3-4 weeks.
    Broke beginning of Jan, kept in touch all those months, until I implemented the NC 16 days ago.

    Is a guy in LDR (28years old) who tells me he isn’t ready for commitment is a lost cause?

  11. Alyse

    April 19, 2015 at 10:37 pm

    My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday and I miss him. For very dumb reasons a fight and they same old things that I can do wrong. He doesn’t like it when I tell him how I feel, he thinks I’m lecturing him. I blocked him on facebook and my phone because I have a ton to do this week. I have all my stuff at his house. Should I call him in a few days. I really miss him, do you think it may work out? Before he broke up with me, he did tell me loved me then told me to leave :/

  12. Katia

    April 19, 2015 at 7:12 pm

    I only met him for three times, but we’re love at the first sight, we decided to have the LDR starting from Nov. last year. Two months later, he said we’re moving ahead of ourselves so he need time to think. I gave him time, took the time-apart for about 6 weeks and I had ever applied the skills taught in this website which worked really well. So I finally flew to meet him for only 4 days. During these 4 days, everything seemed good, romantic and to me, I thought we got along well and had a chance to move to the next level.

    He had his own business which meant he was very busy and still need to work even he was with me during the day time. The last day there’s an incident happened in his company. He need to stay at his company for the whole day make sure everything was okay. So we couldn’t go out as we planned. He wanted me to go shopping and kept contacting me to make sure I was okay along by myself. I first acted a little sentimental n doubtful if we would meet before I left. He comforted me but wondered why I made thing heavy. Guess he was stressful at that time due to his work and my reaction. Anyway, I went to swim and did my won things at the hotel. There’s guy approached me in the swimming pool. I texted my ex telling him about what happened to me. And when this guy asked me to a dinner, though I didn’t even want to go with him, I texted my ex that I might go. He texted me back only said “ok”. At that night when he finally finished his work and drove me to the airport, he asked if I did go to the dinner with that guy. I said of course not, he was a stranger to me, and I asked him “didn’t you say ok?” He answered “sure I said that since you said you might go.” I felt tension on the way. When we almost got to the airport, I raised the question about us. He said he need to think and we would talk on the phone. I understood. Then we said goodbye with a hug. After I checked in, I texted him something emotional. He only read two of the texts. After I came home, I texted him I arrived and thanked him… But he never read the texts again. (we used Line. It tells me if he read or unread my texts. and I guess he deleted my contact.) Its’ been almost a month that we didn’t contact to each other. I am thinking to send him a letter telling him my mind and saying sorry about my behavior on the last day.

    My question is, I’ve ever applied the skills once. Will those skills work twice? Since I felt I was completely cut off and afraid to text him again, should I send him the letter? or any suggestion you have? Thank you sooo much!

  13. Crissy

    April 19, 2015 at 4:45 pm

    Hi, Chris me and my ex-boyfriend situation does not fall directly under one of these situations. He broke up with me March 10,2015 I was hurt real bad and he wanted to be friends and I told him I couldn’t do it so the next day we sit and have lunch in private and discuss how to be friends. How ever this conversation lead to why I was worried about his now new girlfriend and how much I love him etc. etc.. We then both ended up crying. He was crying saying that ” I need you in my life some way if not as my lover and girlfriend at least as friends” in a cracking voice. I was crying because I was hurting the man that I love and I can see the hurt right in front of me. He then changed the whole situation into getting back together. I guided the conversation into how can we be together with these problems that keep occurring. This caused him to cry more and he said he would cut off the girl because all he wants is me and to be with me. I wiped away his tears and asked him ” Do you have feelings for her?” he said ” I don’t know” at that point I started to cry my heart out and tried to storm out of the room. He tried to stop me but I left. We then met up later and he said he didn’t mean it he loves me and only me and I kept telling him no and he just kept crying. We then received some outside help from a professional who just works at our building and decided to help. After that hour long discussion we agreed to be on break and for him to not do things like that. Soon after we were not on break but things were dramatically different. This caused more arguments about how can we do this if things aren’t the same, and you have to accept my friends. That situation always made the littlest things huge. So then he snapped and we agreed to break up on March 29,2015 but I didn’t sweat it I thought that it was really just a break and would give us time to get back to where we were. March 30, 2015 we kissed by mistake and later that night I discovered that the same girl that caused our relationship to change was his new girlfriend. I went to his house that Saturday and asked for him back we kissed again. After that we just couldn’t be friends. I then lost a close family member and went to him for comfort. We kissed again and then we just stopped being friends cause we knew that we were wrong and could not let that continue. However we knew that was why but did not say it aloud we just made another argument , which was him not being there for me when I needed him since I had just lost a family member and we just let it be instead of trying to fix it. His new girlfriend flirts with another guy in front of him and everyone else and that guy has a girlfriend but he is still with her. Lastly it is as if he has changed he did not believe in violence yelling to get his point across, and to be there for whoever needed him no matter what ,or not doing anything with his life.

    1. Crissy

      April 19, 2015 at 4:47 pm

      So what chance do you think I have, and what should I do?

  14. R

    April 19, 2015 at 10:39 am

    My fiance and I broke up about a month ago and I was D-E-S-P-E-R-A-T-E for him to come back. I begged, I cried, & even made HIM cry lol… I couldn’t believe that someone, who was prepared to marry me and spend their life with me, could suddenly just… DECIDE that he no longer wanted to be with me.
    Whatever. I quickly dried my tears, and in my typical R-style, I brainstormed. I googled like you have never seen a woman google. I spent HOURS, and HOURS trying to figure out not only what I wanted, but how to get what I wanted. Vveeeelllll, I decided that I wanted him, and then googled the crap out of “how to get my ex back”.
    I kid you not, I read every single article that google threw at me. Even my FB advertisements starts offering me solutions haha. However, it all came to a crashing halt when I found your site. I read every.single.thing I could find that was relevant to my situation, and I attempted to follow every single rule that you’ve laid on the table.

    No contact obviously killed me, and I didn’t do too well at it other than not starting any conversations through fb, calling, or others. However, everything else? Yeah.. I joined boxing, revamped my personal style.. got my hair done, reached out to numerous friends and family, and MADE PLANS! I took this past month to really, really remember who I am.
    Bottom line is, I became the girl he fell in love with again.
    Well, long story short, he came running back with speeches of undying love and happiness. 😉 R 1, fiance 0,

    I’ll invite you to the wedding. 😛
    Thanks a ton, you saved my ass big time!
    R

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 20, 2015 at 9:27 pm

      Haha Now this is what I call a testimonial!

      Wow, I am speechless…

      Ahem Ahem… I think you missed the part where my website was the best out of everyones you read ahem ahem…

  15. HELPLESS STACEY

    April 19, 2015 at 1:22 am

    Hi chris! So my ex bf and i broke up just before xmas 2013, its now april 2015 and i have been in no contact with him for pretty much a year now. I gave up on trying to get him back and decided on focusing on myself and becoming a more confident independent person! We go to the same college (in our first year of college) and I’ve seen him around a few times and for the first time EVER since we broke up he smiled and said ”hey” a few weeks ago when i saw him before lectures. Anyways last night my friend was on my phone and scrolling through my old messages with him on Facebook and she ”accidentally” sent him a thumbs up sticker message… I didnt intend on responding cause i didnt think he would reply, but he replied saying ”rude” and i went on to say ”haha accident…” he then said ”haha i bet you did that just to talk to me” and i went on to say ”well maybe you’re carrying this conversation on cause YOU want to talk to me”, i had no idea the convo would carry on further but it did.. He then asked me how i was, how i was finding college and everything he even went to say ”i remember how focused and how much you would study when we were going out” -reminiscing the old days?? haha then out of no where he said ”so do you have a boyfriend?” i said no and he said ”oh algood!’ then went on to ask me about this guy that i had very briefly dated about 3 months ago (he’s long gone now) he had obviously seen that this guy had his dp set to the both of us and wanted to know more about it… I dont know what this means? haha i guess ill probably see him around college once the break is over and I’m not sure what to do.. Do you think he has interest in me or he’s just being friendly? Thanks!

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 20, 2015 at 9:20 pm

      The truth is probably somewhere in between…

      Beware of him trying to hook up with you though.

  16. Faith

    April 18, 2015 at 11:24 pm

    Hey Chris, first of all I’ve got to say thanks for this site and articles. Awesome job.
    Here’s my story, hope it won’t be too long. I met him in summer of 2013. We were crazy in love but lasted only 4 months. Back then in the middle of our falling in love I changed college, he was/is constantly traveling because of his job and then there’s an age gap too (he’s 37, 14 years older than me). We’ve got so many things in common it’s insane, I definitely know that he’s my soulmate. Our relationship was so short because I had a problem of telling my parents about boyfriends age right away back then (I have a very conservative family, so my parents didn’t know I had a boyfriend) and I also changed college; long story short my life was too much to bear at that point. We both sensed we won’t last cause of all circumstances. We broke up at the end of 2013. I stayed strong . We kept in touch and remained friends. He was opened up for friends with benefits thing but I refused it and we met just once (no sex) before summer of 2014 when he left to USA (he’s working as a musician, we’re from Europe btw). When he was about to get back home we agreed to meet and have some fun, it was kind of strange- he was saying he still has feelings for me and we had sex for the first time after we broke up (oops ;-(). After a few days I invited him for a barbecue with my friends. They knew about him before but now we actually have some mutual friends. Anyway just before barbecue happened I found out he was trying to get a date with one of my friends and I found out he was chatting with her trough facebook while he was in the US (they never met in person before, they were friends on facebook). She never liked him and found him a little bit wierd so I think he was just having fun flirting with her. Anyways he invited me over his place after barbecue and I said ok and I tried to start some serious talk with him but after all I didn’t, I hated the idea of him flirting with my friend… i refused sex, but we were very physical. Afterwards we were texting each other and I mentioned the thing about flirting with my friend on which he commented that he was „free“ I said it was clear to me and ended conversation friendly but I started ignoring him totally (no facebook likes, no messages etc.). I think he then started worrying I found someone new (I didn’t) and he tried to have me back, we’ve met a few times and also went to a concert with friends together, which brought us closer and we’ve met again later twice for Christmas and had sex (ooops ;-(). Back then we bought tickets for another concert that is in May 2015 (next month yes). Oh and things always go wrong after ex-sex aren’t they?… He wasn’t contacting me at all for a few weeks and then he sent me SMS but I never got it (my phone was broken). He thought I was ignoring him tho we liked each other posts on facebook. I finally contacted him to ask how the things were going after a month and a half after the Christmas!( He then told me about SMS he sent but I never got because of my phone problem). Since then we’re in contact on regular basis (approximately every 10-15 days). He also invited me over his place for Easter but I refused and said I was very busy (I didn’t want sex). I still have some feelings for him, I know he has some for me too but he is leaving for US this summer again. I see no bright future for us but something is telling me I still shouldn’t let him go for good. I’m now great at college, even working with it, I’m close to ungettable girl I think, heck maybe I am. And if me and him were going to try once again I know we wouldn’t have problems we had when we broke up. The question is: should I do anything special when we go to a concert next month? (we’re traveling to another country for a day). I know I won’t sleep with him ever again if he won’t commit, yeah I started reading your blog… better late than never… My situation sucks I know, as I won’t be able to see him for the whole summer…. Oh he also mentioned me in some plans after he returns which I ignored cause I don’t want him to think he can have me that easy. Any kind of advice is much appreciated! Oh my, sorry for such a long post Chris & sorry for my English! Take care XO

    1. Faith

      April 21, 2015 at 4:33 pm

      I thought NC rule only works right after the brake up. I just rarely text him first, but I do answer on his texts via facebook. Do you think I should stop?

    2. Chris Seiter

      April 21, 2015 at 6:02 pm

      It can work after some time goes by too.

    3. Chris Seiter

      April 20, 2015 at 9:17 pm

      Your english is great!

      Have you started your NC rule yet?

  17. Caroline

    April 18, 2015 at 4:31 pm

    Great blog !
    After years of single mothering and limited relationships – I met a man on match.com two years ago – it took a long time for me to trust him but I did .
    He had also been single ( widower ) a long time with some relationships. I fell in love – he did too.
    A year into this we started taking about finding a place together – he lives an hour away so it would require us both selling/moving. He found something about me out of the blue he didn’t like – and bolted . Angry / stubborn . That was a year ago / I did NC – then we talked ( I did semi NC and then went to talk to him after twice he shot me down on emails within that month) We resumed a much better relationship after counseling . We have had a pretty smooth and happy second year – he even comments on how good it’s been . The distance/ driving is getting to us both – and we had decided to keep looking for a mutual home to eventually move into .
    A month ago he was here and he was exhausted and very distant – I did not feel romantic and he was furious and bolted the next morning – texting me that he wanted out . A week after a cool down I went to see him to talk/. as much as I was calm and rational ( we don’t fight ) he maintained his ‘ I don’t want to be in this relationship . That was three weeks ago . He is now on match again .
    I am in full NC with no intention ever of reaching out to him !!! I did that before …
    I am absolutely devastated / we were great together –
    I know if this were to ever resume it would have to be because he realized how great we were. I know he misses me / and loves me –
    What are the chances of him coming around ? How ??

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 20, 2015 at 9:03 pm

      Well eventually you can reach out to him you know, right?

  18. Tiffany

    April 18, 2015 at 4:13 pm

    Hey Chris,

    So my ex and I broke up about three weeks ago now. I confronted him and did the breaking up this time. We have been together two years, but off and on because he never seemed to be sure that this is what he wanted. He always would do the breaking up. He is a very dramatic individual, has really severe ADD, gets easily angry. Obviously he has good qualities too otherwise I wouldn’t gave fallen in love with him. I won’t sound modest, but I am attractive, smart, great personality and good heart, basically the ungetable girl you have talked about. You must be thinking ok so move on if you are the ungettable girl. Only thing is after I went over to his place and confirmed we were done and left his place he called me about a week later, but since I had something very important to me the next day I couldn’t let him ruin my vibe so I ignored him and told myself I will call him in a couple of days, but by then he blocked my calls. I proceeded to message him asking what is was that he wanted to tell me that day he called, but he didn’t respond. Do you think he is just hurt and being immature with Hus feelings or that all along he asked for this? That deep down and for the longest time he always wanted us to break up? That he pushed me into feeling the way I do and that I would give up and not want this any more? I am also blocked on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter although he always used to block me when the two of us would have a fight. I don’t know whether to move on from him or to try reaching out to him, or wait until he comes back around. But there is no guarantee in that. Obviously we don’t know what he is thinking. I don’t know if it is worth it for me? I do love him. And I have tried so hard at making this relationship work. You don’t even know. My family is not the biggest fan of him either and I know that hurts him too. But he is also very selfish. He only thinks of himself and has no regard for how other people, especially me, his girlfriend is feeling. I should find the answers in myself. I shouldn’t even ask. I guess I just want that experienced advice from you.

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 20, 2015 at 9:07 pm

      In other words he is being selfish?

      I honestly htink NC would work wonders on this fella.

  19. Katrina

    April 18, 2015 at 1:45 pm

    Hi Chris. Random question… do you think it’s possible to move on from an ex but still remain open to getting back together? He has a girlfriend (got back together with his ex), and I don’t want to get hurt by putting forth a lot of effort for nothing. I’d like to be his friend, but a lot of people say that you have to let go of all hope of getting back together and usually cut off contact (for good) in order to move on. I’m thinking of doing NC for awhile and easing back into a friendship, not doing anything to intervene but being there if they break up.

    Is it possible to do this but still be okay with whatever the outcome is and be able to move on with your life regardless? Thanks for all that you do. 🙂

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 20, 2015 at 9:00 pm

      I definitely do.

      I like to call this “moving on without moving on.”

  20. Jessi

    April 18, 2015 at 1:30 pm

    Hi Chris, my ex has a new girlfriend and I think they have been going out for almost a year. I see him a lot and every time he is around me he acts nervous and cannot make eye contact for too long. I want him back because we left in good terms and when we were in love with each other. I also notice that every time I make small talk it seems to boost his ego because he acts different, kind of cocky. My question is, how can I get him back without boosting his ego?

    1. Chris Seiter

      April 20, 2015 at 9:02 pm

      Hmm that’s not a good sign.

      Being together that long is usually not a sign of a rebound.

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