41 thoughts on “What To Do When Your Boyfriend Breaks Up With You”

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   Solarflare

   November 20, 2019 at 5:50 pm

   Hey guys, so I’ve been in my NC period. Currently on day 15. I feel better and more confident and doing things that make me happy. I’ve been posting on social media and it seems to bother my ex because he has been texting me. I ignored those texts and then he messaged me on Instagram asking if I blocked him. I again didn’t respond. He then sent me this long message saying that he lied to me about him cheating so I would move on, and that he loves me, and doesn’t want to see me with anyone else and just wants to see me happy. And that it will be the last message I get from him. I feel as though me posting happy things is counter intuitive now. I’m sticking with my NC period but now I’m scared it’s doing the opposite of what I want it to.

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   EBR Team Member: Shaunna

   November 23, 2019 at 1:33 pm

   Hi Solarflare this is great what has happened. He had admitted that he lied about cheating = positive… he told you this is the last message he will send = trying ot scare you into talking to him so well done for not breaking… he doesnt want to see you with anyone else = he still cares. You are only half way through your NC so this really is amazing progress. Keep at it and he will be so pleased to hear from you when your NC is up just make sure you read the materials here to create a perfect first message. Chris has done many articles and Youtube videos about these so do your research