What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

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Ella

November 18, 2016 at 1:20 am

My ex boyfriend broke up with me 3/4 weeks ago very unexpectedly. We had an argument because I accused him of cheating, which I know was wrong, and he woke up the next day saying he loved me a ridiculous but he felt ‘different’ and it was probably short term and would change but he didnt know. Prior to this we were happy, he had only a few days before had tears of happiness in his eyes saying he didn’t know what he’d do without me, and was talking about how he wanted to marry me. He first of all came round and asked for space, he was very emotional and said he didnt want to break up, but then continued to text me. We then had an argument a few days later about seeing eachother and the next day he broke up with me because he didn’t know what he wanted and it wasnt fair on either of us when he felt like this. He was crying his eyes out and said he loved me so much he just felt like he needed some time alone. He said he still saw a future with me just right now he didnt want it. He was honestly so emotional about it. I tried to go NC, but kept failing every few days, and after a week went by he said to me he didnt love me ‘enough’ anymore, he feels happier alone, and he feels awful about it. I then went nc again, but had to ask him something a few days later. In this conversation, it was positive, and he called my by my nickname he has for me which gave me false confidence. I asked if we could meet up, he said not yet, he didnt think right now we should but maybe some day we should. He said he just felt happier because he had no worries and he felt ‘more himself’ which really hurt as it implies he didn’t feel himself with me. I went round to his to have a short conversation, although he didnt want me to. I didnt cry, just asked the questions I needed to and then left. I must have spoken to him for 5/10mins max. Since then I didnt speak to him for a week, to then discover 2 days ago my number was blocked. Unfortunately I then got very upset and went a bit crazy on facebook, asking him why, etc. did he not care about me, and so on. Eventually I calmed down and apologised for my behaviour, and said I didnt want things to be bitter between us. He read and ignored all my messages, and was tweeting whilst ignoring me so I feel he was doing it on purpose. I deleted him off facebook the next day so I couldn’t be tempted to message him again. What should I do? I’m confused why he has blocked me and ignored me when I hadn’t spoken to him all week anyway? We had a very good relationship with minimal arguing until the very end and any problems between us are solvable, which he himself said when breaking up with me, he just felt like he wanted to be alone…

Ella

November 18, 2016 at 1:26 am

It might be worth noting also, we were together for just over 2 years, we are both 20. The last time I saw him I walked away from him saying ‘you’ll never see me again’ which I know I shouldn’t have but I wanted him to feel like he had lost me.
EBR Team Member: Amor

November 20, 2016 at 3:34 pm

Hi Ella,

right now, restart the count and stick to 30 days..whatever happens. It’s ok to talk to him if you have important things to get from him but it should only be that.. No relationship, no feelings talk. Improve yourself and start a new daily routine..

Stepanie

November 15, 2016 at 12:44 am

I met this guy on line, we dated five times. Since we met we hit it off and we talked everyday. We live one hour away, and he always came to me to see me. We talked about relationship since the beginning, however the last week I felt a little shift from him and that scared me to death..there were no reasons for this and I tried not to think about my insecurities or the little fear I felt. I thought it this is meant to be , it is meant to be.. The last time we were together we talked about intimacy and being together as a couple; I thought that he was rushing the things forward but I told him to take it slow. The weekend came and I supposed to come up to visit him at his house and maybe spend the night. He sent a very affectionate text to let me know that he was very busy and stress out because of work and told me to prepared something for us to do later..I did everything and I never heard from him again. The next day he was online and still is online and on the websiteIt;s been a month already.. I am still wondering what happened and everything false and like never happened..He blocked me on his phone and I block him ( on the website that we met) afterr a week waiting for him. I unblock him a day a go to see if he reaches out.. What is your comment about this situation?

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 15, 2016 at 11:38 am

Hi Stephanie,

I think you didn’t have the same agenda. It looks like he wants to sleep you and you don’t. I’m not saying you’re wrong. That’s right that you should move slow. But what was the last text you sent him?

Katie

November 10, 2016 at 1:56 am

I was seeing this guy since the summer. It was only casual. We have decided to be friends now. I told him a lie that I was going out with someone when were were speaking during the summer. I admitted to him a few days ago that I only said that to make him jealous, so he’d ask me out. He has lied to me in the past. When I told him, he completely flipped out and blocked me. Why is he blocking me, if he has no feelings for me? He shouldn’t really care, since we are only friends now.

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 13, 2016 at 4:03 pm

Hi Katie,

It can be ego and maybe he’s angry because he felt fooled.

Michelle

November 9, 2016 at 3:31 pm

Hi, I just found out i was blocked by this guy that ive been talking to since last year. Him and i didnt medt in person till summer 2016, and it went great. We kissed but kept it classy and decided we see each other again when he visited the area. I was sent off close to his area for a job conference and i told him he seemed excited, when i was there i called him to see where we would meet and he told me off saying i was not close at all. I knew that but i said i had no problem driving to see him no reply. I called him
And he send me to vm. Right after that he replied with a hurtfull text saying, “you are a character” which i foumd highly offensive. I replied with, thanks a lot that makes me feel so good. After that i had no contact for two weeks till he started to like my ig pics one day in which i texted him saying i was thinking of him, and he replied right away saying hed missed me. Said i was so nice and beautiful. Even mentioned marriage. Ok we went back to texting then one day i text and get no reply, then two weeks go by and he deletes me from ig. Ok i delete him a days later because i felt he was done, so fast fwd and today as i checked his profile he blocked me.
Im so hurt. What did i do wrong? I feel hes u stable. He has expressed very negative about his ex to me which i stopped. I feel i still like him but why would he not tell me straight up.

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 12, 2016 at 4:01 pm

Hi Michelle,

I don’t see anything that you did wrong too. I think he just doesn’t want things to get more serious.

Donna

November 9, 2016 at 4:17 am

Amor,

I just found out from a close friend that the reason why my ex friend blocked me was because some girls were harassing him on Twitter with innaproprate photos, and he was afraid that his daughters would eventually see them. I feel bad that happened to him even though I had no direct link to that drama. I don’t know how, but I wish I could show him sympathy.

Since I’be already gone through 45 days of NC, should I contact his roleplaying account and let him know I feel sympathy? Or should I just go back to doing another NC?

2 weeks ago I asked his roleplaying account if he is my ex, but he ignored the question and asked me how I am doing. I did answer him back, telling him about everything positive.

So I really don’t know what to do since I got this new information. Since he is busy with his budding career, I have no chance of seeing him in person any time soon. I would really appreciate any advice. I was going to ask Chris about this in a voice mail, but I couldn’t find that link.

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 12, 2016 at 12:49 pm

It’s ok. I’ll be approving both because I don’t know which one you’ll see first.

What’s hard is that we don’t know if it’s really him in the role playing account. He’s not admitting it, although it’s more likely that it’s him. Contacting him about him blocking you in an account that he’s not admitting is like busting him, and it could make him feel embarrassed. Leading to avoiding you more. I think you should just keep talking to him in that account. If it gets better, he might admit since you already asked.

caroline

November 8, 2016 at 7:26 pm

hi everyone, i had short relationship with a guy i had met online and he had already told me he is sensitive etc but i made a
few mistakes and he found out and quit the relationship,i stuck to the no contact rule and didn’t text him etc for more than a month and then i did and he actually answered and told me he still needs time and is still hurt and i told him i’ll text him in 2 months or so and a few days later i found out he blocked me ,so is there still a chance?

caroline

November 8, 2016 at 7:27 pm

why do my comments get published repeatedly on here???
EBR Team Member: Amor

November 12, 2016 at 9:25 am

Hi Caroline,

I approve all repeated first comments, to show that we do receive all of them. Unless you didn’t post them repeatedly, and there’s some glitch in the site.

How short was your relationship? How old are you both? Did you improve yourself during the no contact rule and how much? Actually, it’s not good that you told him that you’re going to wait for two months, because it puts you in the chaser position. But you can counter that by just looking like you’re moving on.

caroline

November 8, 2016 at 7:19 pm

hi everyone, i had short relationship with a guy i had met online and he had already told me he is sensitive etc but i made a
few mistakes and he found out and quit the relationship,i stuck to the no contact rule and didn’t text him etc for more than a month and then i did and he actually answered and told me he still needs time and is still hurt and i told him i’ll text him in 2 months or so and a few days later i found out he blocked me ,so is there still a chance to this all?
caroline

November 8, 2016 at 7:09 pm

hi everyone, i had short relationship with a guy i had met online and he had already told me he is sensitive etc but i made a
few mistakes and he found out and quit the relationship,i stuck to the no contact rule and didn’t text him etc for more than a month and then i did and he actually answered and told me he still needs time and is still hurt and i told him i’ll text him in 2 months or so and a few days later i found out he blocked me on whatsapp,so is there still a chance to this all?
Christina

November 8, 2016 at 5:59 pm

Two months ago my ex and I had a fight, because I didn’t want to tell him about my personal life and he felt like he had the right to know. My ex then ended up blocking me on Facebooks messenger and texting. Last week we crossed paths again. At first he just walked by and said hello. A few seconds later he came back to catch up on how I was doing and we spoke for a while.
Later that day I was looking through facebook. I’m not friends with my ex, beacuse I deleted him after the breakup. We do have mutual friends though. I could see that he had commented on a post and then i noticed that he had unblocked me. Now i’m just confused as to why he would do that. It just seems like a really weird coincidence that he initiates contact with me and then unblocks me? Why suddenly enable me to contact him if he clearly didn’t want me to before?

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 9, 2016 at 1:20 am

Hi Christina,

it looks he blocked you out of annoyance or anger and he isnt anymore..

Sheila

November 7, 2016 at 1:22 am

Hi my ex blocked me from calling and texting him because I was repeatedly texting him. I am trying to do the no contact rule which isnt easy. But is it a good thing my ex didn’t block me on social media like he did with his ex. I know he blocked his ex but he didn’t block me I still follow him and he just doesn’t follow me. Is this a case of him just needing space and he will come back around talk to me again.

caroline

November 8, 2016 at 7:12 pm

i kind of did the same thing and got blocked i actually did the no contact rule for a month but my ex was angrier than before after this month and the mistake i made was to tell him i hate to be blocked so he ‘punished’ me and blocked me
EBR Team Member: Amor

November 7, 2016 at 6:44 pm

Hi Sheila

it depends more on why and when you broke up

N

November 5, 2016 at 6:02 am

I met the guy online few mos ago (july) , everything went well, we expressed our likes for each other, and told me he was planning to visit me this month. If everything goes well we will make it official. Few wks ago he started to get withdraw his emotions and then i found it he blocked me on viber, i got confused why , i decided to dl whatssup in the hopes that he uses it too .and hes on it. I message him if he still use viber, he said no , but i know he blocked me . A day after , he told me why im so clingy when we are not in a relationship, i was deeply hurt. He told mw to pump my brakes and see what happens when we meet. I didnt reply after that text , cause i was deeply hurt. After 4 days i texted him back just to know he already nlocked me. Im confused , his last texts says “see what happens when we meet” , im still hoping he will unblock me but right now im really depressed and sad and cry myself to sleep. Help me

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 6, 2016 at 8:30 pm

Hi N,
For me, you should move on but if you still want to try, do a 30 day no contact rule and then start on doing new things. Go out and make friends, improve yourself in the health, wealth and relationships aspect of your life

Jenicka

November 3, 2016 at 10:05 am

Hi Amor, my ex broke up with me a few months ago and a few weeks later blocked me on everything. Recently however he called me after a mutual friends intervention, the conversational was friendly which was great. I text him a few days later that he could unblock me on facebook but he replied saying there was no point. I’m quite confused as i thought we were now on a friendly basis, should i try to contact him or leave it till he contacts me again? Thanks

Jenicka

November 21, 2016 at 10:46 pm

Hello Amor, a bit late to reply but that’s because things were going so well. We are in our mid twenties and we broke up because of cultural differences. Since him calling we had been chatting quite frequently (nearly everyday) I had been inserting positive changes and not acting needy , although I had dropped in about meeting up. However after a month of speaking again rhe has blocked me again for no good reason, I called off a different phone just to get some reasoning behind it but got hung up on. What’s the best steps forward ? Thanks
EBR Team Member: Amor

November 24, 2016 at 11:27 am

I think he blocked you, so you can both fully move on.. If you both agreed that you will not be back together, he has to see that that’s not your goal
N

November 6, 2016 at 1:54 pm

i got blocked in whattsup and viber, he’s going to visit my country this month and he already said hes gonna visit me. i met this guy july this yr, and evrything went well.,nhe even said we will make it official when we meet. one day i coudlnt message him on viber. i tried downloading whattsup in the hopes that hes using that app too, and viola hes there. i asked why my messages cant get through on viber , he told me hes not using it anymore, but i already know he blocked me . i asked him ehy he seems cold lately, he said just dont want to talk to anyone. i told him why he didnt tell me he wont use viber anymore, if i didnt dl whatssup inwouldnt be able to contact him. he replied, “how is it your clingy, and were not in a relationship” , damn it hurts, hes last text wAs, i need to pump my brakes and see what happens when we meet. i only replied back after 4 days cause i was really hurt, just to know im already blocked on that app too. im really confused right now. im still hoping he will text me back ,and unblock me and still want to meet. im confused by his last text. help me. it really hurts
EBR Team Member: Amor

November 6, 2016 at 8:29 pm

Hi N,
For me, you should move on but if you still want to try, do a 30 day no contact rule and then start on doing new things. Go out and make friends, improve yourself in the health, wealth and relationships aspect of your life
EBR Team Member: Amor

November 5, 2016 at 10:27 am

Hi jenicka,

why did you broke up? How old are you both? it looks like he just contacted you because your friend asked him to.. during the past months did you improve yourself? When you talked with him, did you sound like you’re still into him?

oda

November 1, 2016 at 4:34 pm

So I met this girl about 7 months ago, we both ended up having a bond that was amazing.. Story short she told me she wanted to see other people. But everytime I would it would drive her crazy but I was doing exactly what she wanted. Then a few weeks after that we agreed to fix things, then we argued again. Then she met someone new and I was planning on leaving to florida so she hmu with wanting to talk, she cried telling me she loved me so much but then 2 days later she was back with that girl so I became crazy. i felt like she was playing with my emotions. so I blocked on ig then 2 hours later i was blocked there and on snap. I instantly regretted blocking her but i was so mad. Last time we spoke it she blocked me from even texting her saying that to stop hitting her up when i didnt i just had to ask her a question.. point is how could you tell me you love me in august but by the end of it treat me like I was never nothing. Idk if i should block her back ? but i do know that its still fresh and ive learned a lot. I just wanted to be to end things on an okay note, but im being treated like nothing. and i get why. I think maybe i need to give it more time… im a strong believer in that if she really did love me she’ll come back without me being the one to contact her. what do you think ?

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 2, 2016 at 6:53 pm

hi Oda,

if you just really want it to end on good note say that, and then let that be the last thing you’ll say to her

LaShaune

October 26, 2016 at 2:15 am

Thank you for this article. I am almost 4 weeks into a breakup of a relationship that was a little over 3 months in. I ended it, and then regretted it but by the time I tried to reach out to him, he had blocked me completely from everything. I panicked and had a serious breakdown for 3 days. It still hurts, I beat myself up about it very much and still struggle with that a little bit. But I have reflected a lot over the weeks that we’ve been done, and I realized that I broke up with him because I wasn’t truly happy. He was extremely needy, extremely controlling, could not keep his word, and it was all very exhausting. I looked away from all of that, because I loved who he was when I met him, when we first started dating. I realized overtime that I acted out of protection of myself and my wellbeing. That realization doesn’t make it hurt any less. I am now in this purgatory where I don’t know whether I miss him or whether I am glad he is gone. Most of my ex-boyfriends, whether they chose to leave or I left them, most of them have all tried to come back into my life at some point. I don’t know if he will be one of those. And I don’t know if I actually want him to. I think if we had talked about things and I had ended it without being angry or hurt and out of impulsive emotion, I would not be hurting this much because there would be closure. I think what bothers me the most is that I know what I did wrong, what I did right, and I know what led me to leave. But I don’t think he knows, and I wish we had the chance to have that conversation. I don’t know if we just weren’t right for each other. Maybe we weren’t. Either way, I am working on rebuilding how I feel about myself, and reminding myself that I did what I thought was the best thing for me at that moment. I have been in abusive relationships and my relationship with him was starting to reflect some of those past relationships as far as verbal abuse and controlling behaviors are concerned. He is 7 years younger than me, and at first I thought that he was very mature for his age. But overtime his insecurities really weighed things down and became the focus of the relationship. It was no longer about us, it was about his needing to feel more like a man and I spent all my time trying to make him happy when I wasn’t getting the same treatment. It will hurt for a while, and it’ll take me some time to stop beating myself up for packing and begging for him back. But I am ultimately glad that he did not give into my cries. Because I didn’t cheat, I wasn’t abusive. And if he is so easily led to go back on his word because of something like this, then he isn’t worth all the energy I put into that relationship. I keep remembering the look in his eyes the last time we had an argument, and I had the worst feeling, that this was not where God wanted me to be nor who He wanted me to be with. I don’t doubt that he felt something for me. I just doubt the sincerity of it and I believe what he felt for me, he felt for superficial reasons. Maybe I’m wrong and we one day get the chance to talk this all out. Maybe we won’t. I can’t worry about that. Reading stuff like this helps me piece together some sort of closure to help me continue to move on. It hurts to try and date again, but I am talking to people as I have the strength to. I may not want to actually go on a date for a while, but I will at least go out with friends and meet new people and eventually I will start to forget him.
Cady

October 24, 2016 at 8:16 pm

Hi Chris.

I’ve been on a full block out (as you say) for the past two months (Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram etc.). I switched numbers this week and so decided to text. Unfortunately, instead of replying, my ex blocked me again. My message was a simple “How are you? I hope we can be friends etc”.

Backstory: We were in a relationship for a few months and then I had to move back home for the summer. He knew that I would be moving back a few months later, but refused to do LD for fear that it wouldn’t work (he also admitted that he wanted to see what else was out there). We argued back and forth over a 2 month period and then contact slowly stopped. My ex would respond, but not positively… he would eventually just not reply at all. We had a huge argument at the end of the summer and from that point on was blocked on everything.

I’m starting to think that there’s very little point to this no contact. I have tried it before with this man (3-4 weeks) in the summer but it didn’t seem to work… he would stop replying to my messages. I do think there is another girl in the picture, but I feel after everything that’s happened that I’m not willing to wait around on someone who is willing to block so easily. We had a good relationship until my move (I would even go so far as to say that he was obsessed with me). I just don’t know what happened….

Cady

October 27, 2016 at 8:23 pm

Hi Amor,

I agree, I think that moving on is the better option. I don’t understand why someone would still keep you blocked after 2/3 months of not speaking, surely he would either ignore the message or send a polite reply? But to block again?

Not sure what goes on in some mens’ minds!
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 29, 2016 at 12:50 am

yeah, it’s a coward choice of breaking up.. It’s like ghosting..
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 26, 2016 at 12:06 pm

Hi Cady,

Aside from doing no contact again, the only better move is to move on.. If you continue to try to talk to him, you would like you just won’t get the message, and he will be more annoyed with you.

Honey

October 21, 2016 at 3:28 pm

Thank you. And what about that girl? Do you think she is a rebond relationship? Because she is always ready after any of his serious relationships but she is not serious to him.

EBR Team Member: Amor

October 23, 2016 at 9:28 am

more likely yes, she’s a rebound..

Honey

October 19, 2016 at 5:39 pm

And one of my big problems is that always i think i was guilty and i punish myself all the time that he was a good man and i have to behave right to keep him.i just think about his good behaviors and i don’t think about bad things like blocking me in LDR ! but i know the man always thought about the bad behaviors of his girlfriend. That’s my problem! I punish myself every time. Plz help me

EBR Team Member: Amor

October 21, 2016 at 3:17 pm

honey, when you have to act like someone else just to keep the relationship, that’s means it’s not the right relationship..And men dont always think about the bad behaviors of their girlfriend.. dont think that way.

It looks like he thinks you’re nagging him and that you’re clingy because you gnatted him.. and that you’re going too fast.. There’s no guarantee that the nc will work but you have to do it be less emotional and to help increase your chances..

Honey

October 19, 2016 at 5:34 pm

Hi . The time was short about 4 months but it was very strong and sensitive and we talked about marriage after my trip.i am 26 and he is 36.he was very protective and good to me and he was a faithful person. Because he was on of my cousin’s husband friedn and the say he is a good boy in relationship. In last month he became changed but not cheated on me. I know him. But last time when he says you trapped me and checked me all the time he suddenly blocked me. I think it’s done and he want to forget everything and he think that i am not the girl that he thought before.but all of my calls and texts were not for checking him. Just because i miss him or i worry about where he is and he is good or not?! Bud he didn’t understand. I have thought that he is going to unblock me after his trip when he is getting calm. But today i see the that his instagram’s friend increase.and i want from my cousin to get the screen shot for me ! He followed one of her ex girlfriend that he blocked her when he saw ne and he think felt in love with me. This girl is not for marriage. But he knows her about 17 years and every time he has not a girlfriend , this girl is ready for everything , sex , party , and out with him. They have some emotion about together but i never have thought tha he gets back to her after me. I thought he just wanna punish me and the he will miss me and call me !!! But today i think it’s over and i don’t belive that my attention and love to him makes him cold and he forget our beautiful and special emotion that both of us don’t have it many time with another person. I think distance is going to make him forget this emotion that made him very emotional to me and think of marriage… Please tell me what to do. Today i don’t have any hope after this story … Please help me. I miss him so much.
Cecilia

October 19, 2016 at 11:33 am

Hi,

I’ve been dating this guy since the summer. We live on opposite sides of the country (me in FL and he in CA) and we never really talked until November/December 2015 (even though we have met each other over 5 years ago in 2011). I finally made a trip to visit my cousin in CA and I visited him in February 2016. We had a great time when I visited him then. We texted a bit after that and then I decided to visit CA again in April/May to run a marathon and I stayed at his place. We had a great time and got even closer. Soon after, he would call me frequently (like 4-5x a week) and we texted a lot. He talked about us going to Vegas for 4th of July weekend and we did! We became really close and we started dating then (he said this was a trial and not official bf/gf because of the distance). He would still call me and text me and then in August he planned to visit me for Labor Day weekend. I was thinking that this was a big step because he wanted to visit me. We had a great time despite the hurricane ruining our plans. I guess on my end, I was looking forward to when I would see him again but on his end – he was more worried about work and hanging out with his friends so he texted and called me less. I just felt so distant from him that I sent him a passive aggressive text about him just wanting to play those text games with me (new on iOS10) instead of actually talking to me. He responded back hours later… but things felt a bit different. The next day, he had a work trip in Houston and wanted me to visit him (he even sent a screenshot of flight prices from Florida to Houston) and I was asking questions about his trip (would he have a car, etc) and then he changed his mind saying that I shouldn’t go. I thought he changed his mind because I was making it complicated… so I bought the trip instead and showed him that I bought the ticket. He was very firm and told me to not go. We didn’t talk for 2-3 days or so. I asked him if everything was okay on the 3rd day… He said he was just really frustrated with me and then didn’t explain. I asked him if we were over and he never responded. The next day, I told him “hey, i’m going to fly out to CA to visit you to work things out”. He was saying that I shouldn’t… Then he proceeded to explain how he was pushing me away because I was too into him and we should be friends. I then texted him a lot questioning a lot of things…I called him once too to see if he would pick up… and of course he blocked me. I called his work phone a few times to leave voicemails the next day. I messaged his friend to see if she knew anything and she said no. I even sent him an email days later telling him I spent time thinking about it and I agree that LDR didn’t work out for us… of course no response. Now, I’m just here devastated that he still has me blocked and I regret everything I did and say. We didn’t have any issues when we were physically together… and a week or two before the “break up” he told me how he missed me and that sometimes he wished I lived closer. So I don’t know what to do now. I’m sorry for writing a long essay. He’s 26 and I’m 25…and we’re both young professionals.

Cecilia

December 29, 2016 at 3:33 pm

I think I’m going to do 30 Day NC again. I didn’t respond to his text because I didn’t know what to say. I just don’t think the 30 Day NC will be as effective as it once was before…
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 30, 2016 at 8:49 am

yes, it wont be..the more you do it, the less the effect..and I think that’s too short..If you really want a one last try, maybe it should be at least 3, 6 months or a year
Cecilia Turcios

December 28, 2016 at 10:52 pm

Ugh so I’m in LA for the week and he said “I really don’t think we should see each other anymore. We are not taking this friendship in the same way… you’re very emotionally involved “. Idk what to do anymore. Idk when ill see him again.
Cecilia

December 19, 2016 at 2:34 pm

Hi Amor, so I just spent most of my weekend with him where we met up and hung out for most of the nights when I was in LA. We had a great a time but I do know he is on OkCupid app and talking to girls. I saw it on his phone and I asked him too to confirm. He said he isn’t dating anybody nor has slept with anybody else but it still hurts. I’m scared that I’m losing him/have lost him during the time we weren’t talking. I get why he wouldn’t want to get back – we live far away and we cannot do long distance. I’m actually going to be back in LA next week for the holidays so I’m not sure what to do about him nor how to approach this situation. Should I tell him that I don’t like him talking to other girls? Help!
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 21, 2016 at 9:25 am

you’re not together, so he has the right to date.. you’ve come a long way from thinking you wouldn’t be unblocked and now, you’re meeting up.. You have to accept that its really likely that he would date others. Focus more on attracting him through your look, talks, having fun..make good memories, leave a good impression. Act like the ungettable girl
Cecilia

December 18, 2016 at 3:34 am

Hi Amor, so we ended up meeting up and hanging out for three nights. I did see that he was talking to other girls and that he’s using the OkCupid app. It makes me worried that I lost him/he wants to see other people for sure. It does seem like he likes me still because he spent time with me and made the effort. However, I’m just worried about him seeing other people and losing interest in me. Help!
Cecilia

December 1, 2016 at 9:03 pm

Hi! So after another month of no contact… I emailed him again about this place we went to when I visited him. He responded back after a day and then we started emailing back and forth… and then eventually we started texting again. So he unblocked me! So yay! Also, it just happened that the job I’ve been interviewing for is actually in LA and I’m going to fly out there in two weeks. I’m not sure if I should tell him now since we are just kind of talking again.
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 2, 2016 at 3:41 pm

Nope it’s too early.. Try it when it’s nearer so it sounds more casual
Cecilia

November 7, 2016 at 6:23 pm

Sorry for sounding pessimistic! I’ve read the book but it’s tough to come up with the game plan to get him back when I don’t think he would unblock me/want me back in his life. I’ve been working on improving myself for sure (trying to find a new job or get MBA) … but he won’t see it because of no social media.
EBR Team Member: Amor

November 9, 2016 at 1:55 am

it’s ok Cecilia. We understand. you still havr to be active in posting because even if he blocked you, ot doesnt mean he wont check you through a different account, like a friend’s.
Cecilia

November 7, 2016 at 6:15 pm

Alright… I’ve been trying no contact again for almost a week but I guess it’s time to move on. I doubt he will unblock me again and want to reach out now. I do plan on being on the west coast for the holidays to be with family. But I doubt he would want to see me then.
Cecilia

November 1, 2016 at 11:04 pm

I tried to do the 30-day NC but think I messed up by not responding to him. I don’t know how else to contact him. I tried to text him – he blocked me. I sent an email instead because he definitely doesn’t use facebook or instagram or snapchat anymore (he deleted all those apps). I’m not sure if he put me in spam after the first email. I think any chance of getting back together with him is gone.
EBR Team Member: Amor

November 2, 2016 at 9:08 pm

blocking you was probably an emotional decision, just give him time.. once he realizes it is, he would think it’s ridiculous to block you
Cecilia

November 1, 2016 at 10:46 pm

Hi Amor, he never told me what he wanted to talk about…. and i tried to text him today and it turns out he blocked me again. I don’t know what to do anymore.
Cecilia

November 1, 2016 at 3:07 am

Hi! So it turns out that he texted me “hey what’s up?” a few days ago (while he was in Houston for work – the trip where I was supposed to meet him there)… I didn’t respond. He then called me 9 times and then tried to FaceTime me 3 times at 2am that same day and I didn’t pick up. He then texted telling me calling me baby and said that he wanted to tell me something important. He was begging…This is a lot harder than I thought. I have 2 weeks left of no contact but I want to end it early. I really miss him and want to talk to him.
EBR Team Member: Amor

November 1, 2016 at 7:47 pm

if he says he wants to get back together, you can break it.
Cecilia

October 22, 2016 at 6:20 pm

One my fears is how I can reach out to him when he has blocked my number. We’re still friends on facebook and instagram and snapchat… but that’s because he doesn’t use social media anymore. I’m not sure if he blocked my email – I only emailed him once. I’m just scared that I can’t reach out to him after the 30 days.
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 23, 2016 at 11:17 am

he’ll probably unblock it after nc but if not, it would be safer to message in social media rather than email because email is more formal
Cecilia

October 22, 2016 at 2:45 am

Yes! I’m doing that now. It’s been one week so far.
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 21, 2016 at 1:24 am

Hi Cecilia

lookd like he thinks you’re needy and complicated.. are you going to do the no contact rule?

Honey

October 18, 2016 at 2:49 am

Hi. My boyfirend broke up with me today. We are in the LDR. But when we was together in the same city we was very very emotional and he really really love to talk with my family after my trip (my trip is about 6 months.) . We were very good to each other in first 2 months of LDR but in last weeks i thought he was changed. I know he didn’t cheat on me but i think the LDR is hard for him even though he insisted that we could pass it if you(me) don’t cheat on me or sth like this. But today i called him on skype. Everything was good but he didn’t answer me and didn’t text that he call me later.and 5 hours later i called him again and he picked up the phone happily and said i am in my brother’s house with our firends.every every times he informed me that they had a party or get-together plan with his brother and his wife and their friends and it was the first time that he totally ignored me and i said why didn’t you call me back after my miss call 6 hours ago? Do we have such a thing like this in our beautiful relationship?!! I was worry ! And he said you are such a girl that trap me and heckle me and i don’t want you and i show you who i am!!! And then he totally blocked me from all applications and phone and … He did this before in our problems but not everywhere. He leave a place to text every time. But this time he did this way and i am so so so sad because he is a traveler tomorrow and i don’t know why our beautiful relationship is going to this way? Please help me pleaseee

EBR Team Member: Amor

October 19, 2016 at 3:26 am

Hi Honey,

how long was your relationship and how old are you both?

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