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122 thoughts on “The No Contact Rule Is Killing Me…”

  1. Diane

    July 6, 2017 at 11:34 pm

    Hi
    My ex broke up with me a month ago. We had an argument about my being insecure about his ex and he said that everything he had been doing didn’t matter. We were incredibly close for a year. Up all night talking , we have a lot in common, best friends. And we don’t argue about anything else. Anyway we have lived together since January. He moved out and a week later started dating someone and two weeks ago- after dating her for two weeks- told me they were talking about him moving in. He was watching her two children while she worked. I was in shock! Who just meets someone and moves them in. He told me that he had never met anyone like her ever. For two weeks I harassed him I think I was in shock. I cried I said he never loved me Only thing I didn’t do was beg him to come back. When u called he always answered even tho he would often sound irritated n respond to my text Then ten days ago I started no contact. Yesterday I broke it but I text him he text right back and I responded and ended it there. He called today. I answered. We texted a bit until I stopped responding. Do I restart no contact? I think my confusion came when I was reading an article last night on being there when they are dating someone new. I wonder if my situation with him pretty much living with this girl will work with no contact. I mean how do I know it’s a rebound. Some people do fall in love at first sight

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 9, 2017 at 3:59 pm

      Yes, you should restart. If they met after the break up, she’s probably a rebound.

  2. Ellie Searles

    June 30, 2017 at 6:09 pm

    HI, So my ex and I broke up a week ago. It was his doing I am on day 5 of NC last night he purposefully showed up at the place he knew I was going to be. Today I am a mess. I don’t know if he was just doing it to mess with me, because he hasn’t texted me at all since we broke up. But I just want space because I want to get over him and I feel like he’s not respecting that… What else can I do especially when he purposefully goes to where i am again….

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 4, 2017 at 4:49 pm

      Hi ellie,

      What did you do when you saw him?

  3. Jane

    June 30, 2017 at 4:22 am

    Please HELP!!! I’m ten days into NC, my ex has been a tx gnat almost everyday of NC. He says he misses me but I’m not sure if he will want me back. I know he still loves me and the attraction never died between us but I’m scared he only wants me as a friend. What should I do? Do I continue NC to 30 or 21 days?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      June 30, 2017 at 4:45 pm

      Continue nc until 30 days

  4. Fred Seiter

    June 28, 2017 at 10:18 pm

    Awesome Awesome post, Janell! So well written and spot on advice

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