How To Get A Long Distance Relationship Ex Boyfriend Back

5,237 thoughts on “The Complete Guide To Getting An Ex Boyfriend Back In A Long Distance Relationship”

Belle

January 9, 2017 at 5:47 am

I dated someone I met online in an LDR for a few months. We only got to see each other once or twice every couple weeks. But we texted each other every day. But from the start, we both decided that once re-united, it was worth the wait and time together flew. I thought we had crazy chemistry. But we haven’t seen each other in a month, and we weren’t talking on the phone as often as I’d like (which would’ve been once or every other day for a few minutes) because he was busy or out with friends. He would still text me every day even if I didn’t contact him first. I never was demanding or aggressive about things. I never asked to talk to him every day.. we only talked on the phone like twice in the past month.
So I got to the point to ask him where things were going in our relationship and what his thoughts were. I found out he was still browsing his online dating site, but he told me I was the only one he was dating (and I believed him). He told me that he had been thinking about the future and us for a few days and said we should just stay friends as the distance was getting hard and he was going to be very busy. I told him how I felt about him and how I thought we could work it out if we worked together. I mean, we’re hardly 2 hours apart. But in a few months from now, he’ll be traveling out of the state for multiple-week internships to last to the end of this year. This seriously factored into his decision… I told him even though he’d have to do that, we could figure out a way and work together. I would even move to be closer to him and spend more time together. But he left it at just friends. I told him I can’t be friends with him. This unfortunately all happened over text.
We haven’t texted or communicated with each other since. It’s been almost a week since. He was contacting me every day over text since we started dating. We had been planning to see each other again very soon. I’m just stuck on why it had to end up like this, because I wanted to work it out together. I guess I’m also stuck on whether he used the “friends” and distance reasons to try to lessen the severity of rejecting me… And I feel pathetic asking about all of this on here… but I’m going through a hard time and trying to understand why. I miss him and talking to him. I know he has feelings for me… Like how could you go from pursuing a girl, making out with her, missing her, to telling her a couple weeks later that you don’t know if you want to deal with the distance anymore and that you want to be friends?? I was shattered. And I got attached. I don’t know if this thing you call “No Contact” with not talking to him will even help him miss me… or what your recommendations are for just moving on and forgetting about him. All of it really hurts.

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 9, 2017 at 5:24 pm

Hi Bella,

if you want to move on, just stop talking to him ever.. if you want to try the no contact rule to see if you can rebuild rapport later on, then start it. Do at least 30 dayd and just focus in healing and improving. Do it for yourself and even if there’s no guarantee that it will work, you will not miss a person who is always there..

devastated

January 7, 2017 at 1:31 pm

My ex broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. I was devastated and tried to reach out to him so many times but he was busy all the time ( It’s kind of crucial milestone for his career at the moment )and didn’t want to start any serious conversations. I should have read this post sooner… after 2 weeks of ups and downs and dramatic reach out, I gave up 3 days ago, with leaving a text message that I’ll stop doing this crazy contacts. It’s been 3 days and feels like quitting smoking… awfully difficult not to think of him… Anyways, I will continue this NC for a month… thanks for the good post. My real question is.. what do you think of the idea of encountering him with surprise after a month of NC? Is this still a horrible idea…?

Devastated

January 18, 2017 at 3:54 pm

Hi again… so I started NC week ago and he sent out text like 2-3 days ago I tried to ignore but now I give it a second thought, should I reply him back…?
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 19, 2017 at 5:45 pm

nope.. dont be too available whenever he is.. it would be better to stick in nc
Devastated

January 13, 2017 at 8:47 am

I broke the NC after a week unintentionally :/ and we talked about stuff and he said he needs his own space and time that we should keep in contact in less of frequency… I guess I should reset the NC and this time won’t really break it for more than a month
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 13, 2017 at 4:20 pm

yeeeep you should 🙂
Devastated

January 9, 2017 at 9:33 pm

Oh I mean before he starts texting me first. Like if there’s no approch before I do.
And thank you I thought staying frns means just having moved on so fast
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 10, 2017 at 3:45 pm

If he doesn’t text you during no contact that’s ok. YOu can still intiate texting after no contact.
Devastated

January 9, 2017 at 7:59 am

Thank you… if he happen to mention about staying as close frns as for now Is it a good sign?
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 9, 2017 at 4:17 pm

You’re welcome! what do you mean if he doesnt attempt anything before? before what? yeah, it’s necessarily a good sign because it’s common for ex’s to ask to stay friends but it’s better than him wanting nothing from you..
Devastated

January 9, 2017 at 1:24 am

Thank you! I guess i could initiate the first convo by birthday celebration since his birthday is about a month away if he doesnt attempt to do anything before…?
Devastated

January 8, 2017 at 6:08 am

Sorry for leaving multiple comments I didnt know it’s getting uploaded after the reply is made. Thank you for the advice… It’s the best to just keep on NC and wait for his text right…?
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 8, 2017 at 6:53 pm

no worries! it’s ok to initiate contact after nc but do it by message first, and dont ask to meet up right away. rebuild rapport first
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 8, 2017 at 1:15 am

Hi Devastated,

as in going there in person right after nc? Nope.. dont do it

C

January 5, 2017 at 3:33 am

Hi,
I was friends with my boyfriend for a year but I always really liked him. We went to the same place undergrad and went on a service trip together last spring. From the start my friends and I and everyone who knew him thought he was one of the most kind, respectful, trustworthy, and caring guys. We started talking more this summer when I would come back to visit and things started to get serious. He officially asked me out in September and we decided to try long distance. We would see each other 1-3 times a month and communicate everyday. He was always super kind to me. He’d tell me how much he cared about me and how lucky he thought he was. He said that I was so special to him and he would do anything for me. He is in the navy and was supposed to move farther away for school in January. I was supposed to go to his friends wedding with him New Year’s Eve. In December he started being even more flirty, sending pictures, and making plans for the night in the hotel room NYE. After the wedding I was going to spend more time with him and go back to his family’s home. I thought we were forming an even deeper relationship. I would tell him how much I like him and he would respond saying the same thing and how happy he was he asked me out. I was going to tell him I love him NYE. A couple of days before he started acting strange. He called and said I wasn’t his priority anymore, he didn’t care about me, and he didn’t even like me when he came to my house in November. He said it was all a lie and he just liked the emotional high from making out. He said he didn’t even think it would work when he asked me out in September. Meanwhile he’d still been calling me babe and saying he couldn’t wait to see me and really liked me. I’m a pretty private person and I opened up and let him into my life. Now I’m the one who was left heartbroken and hurt and blindsided by the break up. How do I get him to want me back or what do I do? I feel so hurt and he is acting nothing like the person I thought he was. It hurts even more knowing that he may not even miss me or the relationship if it’s true that he really hasn’t liked me for over a month. I keep wanting to reach out to him and send him a letter I wrote (even though I know I should wait because I was really upset). And I really want him to reach out to me. It’s only been a week since we broke up.
Thanks!

C

January 8, 2017 at 12:47 am

Yes, I do want to try the advice. What do you recommend that I do? I am very active in improving myself and am usually a very positive person.
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 8, 2017 at 9:03 pm

oh I mean, are you going to do the no contact rule?
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 6, 2017 at 7:38 pm

Hi C,

Do you want to try the advice above? How active are you in improving yourself?

j

January 4, 2017 at 8:23 pm

do you think stubborn guys can change their minds over time? no matter how set theyre decision is

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 6, 2017 at 7:45 pm

Yup, it can happen.

Confused G

January 4, 2017 at 5:09 pm

Hi,
I was in a LDR with my ex boyfriend 2 times. We started with a Facebook where we were only writting to each other for about two years. After that he came to visit me the first time we started talking on the phone for some months were I developed feelings for him. He withdrawed few months later and told me that he wasn´t ready for a relationship so we decided to stay friends. He told me that it was very difficult for him to move forward, because of his latest break-up (an ex he had a 4 year relationship with), which ended years ago, because she cheated on him.
Anyways, after agrreing on friendship I couldn´t continue after 5 months, so I told him that I needed time to think for myself (I was in love with him). Once I made that statement he changed drastically and were then chasing me. We ended up getting back together, but 16 days ago he broke-up with me again. I had the feeling is was coming, because he was starting to withdraw again. Only this time our relationship had developed so much more than the first time. Ha was talking about future, looking for a flat and getting married. But I wasn´t ready for that commitment, so I told him to give it a little time, which he was fine with. Then few months ago I felt more ready and asked him what he was thinking about when it should happen. I said I think that in few months it would be reasonable, but he told me that we should give it time since we don´t know each other well enough. He said that in a year it would be realistic. I was very disappointed by his answer, because I felt that he got cold feet which he could see. Since that day he started to get more distance and I asked him what was wrong. He said that he is not ready for that commitment and it´s unfair to me, because I want that now. I explained that I didn´t want to marry him if he didn´t wanted to marry me and that we should just focus on getting to know each other instead of worrying about the furture, but somehow he couldn´t let it go. We talked about how he was distance several times afterwards, but he just got more distant. He started to work a lot, do much more sport, see his friends and family more often and told me that he doesn´t feel like he has time and that it´s difficult for us to reaally get to know each other without being able to see one antoher more often. When we seeingg each other he would come by car and drive about 5 hours each way. Because he only could meet on saturday due to his work we most often saw each other for some hours 1 time a month for 1,5 year. I tried to give him space, but it got worse because he were just withdrawing even more. He also told me that his family was pushing him to get married, because it´s time (he is 28 I am 31), which he would get upset about when they did especially because he could see that his sister who resently got married 6 months ago is not happy in her marriage (which he thinks is because they are too different and they didn´t know each other well enough to get marry). I also noticed that he in general talked about some of his friends (in their 30´s) who were going through some kind of midlife crisis which he often was afraid would happen to him, because he already had some kind of depression about 1,5 year ago where I was helping him and supporting him to get over.
I also remeber him telling me that one of his colleague who became father a year ago find it hard to be dad while writting a Ph.D (which he is doing). He is very career minded, and I a have been looking for a job for a year now after I finished my studies. I am very confused about what exactly happened to us. Does all these factors have frightened him from committing to me or what is the real issue here? I tried not to talk about anything serious with him the last 2 months we were together, but still showed a little of my feelings and interest in him, so he wouldn´t think I gave up on him, because he asked for time to get over his “situation” that he himself couldn´t explain. I couldn´t see any changes after about to months so I asked him if he needed time to find out what he wants and I would go away until he had figured it out. He didn´t want that and I could see that his behaviour got a little bit better after that. But when he went to see his family on the 17´th of December he told me that he wouldn´t have time once he were there to call me, whcih I might have misunderstood. When he visits his family he always call or at least write to me. I told him it was fine that he didn´t call me, assuming he would text me at some point. I didn´t here from him for more than 24 hours, so I thought maybe something had happened to him. I called and texted him, but he didn´t answered. So when he did answered me later he just wrote “sorry I didn´t had time, I will call you when I get home tomorrow”. I was so upset and frustrated, so I told him that he didn´t need to call me two times. I was tired of giving him so much space, because it felt like I was no priority to him any longer. He wrote to me on 19´th of December when he got home, but I ignored his messages, because I was thinking about doing the NC. He then called me later and I picked up the phone. He told me that he is breaking up with me, because he don´t feel that it is fair to me that he is treating me this way and he hasn´t been good to me. That it had nothing to do with me, because I have done nothing wrong and it´s only him. I just said ok, I understand you descision eventhough I couldn´t, because I felt that he was rejecting himself. I told him that it has been nice for me to know him and to have a good night, and that I hope he gets what he wants from life. He told the same to me and told me several times that he hopes I can forgive him one day. We haven´t talked or texted since that night. It didn´t felt like he really wanted to end our relationship, but more that he did it because of being fair to me. I think he has been wanting to contact me, but he doesn´t feel that he is allowed to, because I once told him that I couldn´t forgive hime if he broke my heart or hurted me again like he did the first time. It´s now been 16 days without contact and I miss him, but I have improved myselff a lot. I am doing sport and going out and so on. I am just not sure if I am doing the right thing, because he is the kind of guy who is polite and like to keep good in contact with other people. He thinks somehow that it is childish to ignore other people.
I don´t know if I have a chance with him after NC and how long I should be doing NC? What do you think is going through his head by now and what is likely to expect form him after the NC? Please help me.

Confused G

January 10, 2017 at 10:43 pm

My 21 days are now over and I really want to contact him, but first I would like to know what different it will make if I don´t contact him before the 30 days? Our breakup was not one of the bad ones and I know that he doesn´t expect to hear from me after the breakup, because I told him in the past that iff I ever walked away it would be permanent. That is also one of the reason why it was so difficult for him to actually breakup with me and let go. He thinks that he was a burden to me which I never thought he was. So what does that mean if I contact him now or wait after the 30 days? How will that affect him?
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 11, 2017 at 12:10 pm

a week doesn’t look that long but if you really maximize that week for yourself before initiating contact, it can help you be more rational in handling things with him..
Confused G

January 8, 2017 at 9:35 am

On wednesday it will be day 22 without any contact, and I am thinking about texting him on that day. Do you think that will be ok? I know he is feeling lonely very quick and he is the type of person who doesn´t like to be alone and has to keep busy in order not to think too much over things.
I want to text him about a book he likes and I alreadxy was readingg before we broke up. Is that a good idea?
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 8, 2017 at 4:17 pm

it would be better if you at least finish 30 days.. but you can use that topic as a first contact text
Confused G

January 6, 2017 at 7:34 pm

I am thinking about texting him on wednesday. It will then be our first contact after days. Would that be ok and what do you think I should text him when I contact him?
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 6, 2017 at 5:50 pm

Hi Confused g,
if a guy said he doesn’t want to commit or that he’s not ready and then you offered to stay for a long time after that, you’re non verbally saying to him that you’re ok without commitment even though in your mind, you’re expecting him to change his decision.. which probably will not happen because your actions say you’re ok without commitment.

So, when a guy says that, and that’s not what you want, be distant for a while, like doing no contact period..start a routine that you will put first above him even while building rapport and then observe.. if you are building rapport and attraction after no contact, that’s good. That means you can slowly invest more time and attention for him but if he’s still set on not committing later on, then walk away. Move on. Choose your standards.

Kristin

January 3, 2017 at 5:59 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years he just graduated high school last year and movies back to Cali since then we have been trying a long distance relationship it was working well at first but the distance got to him to where he couldn’t do it anymore and every time I talk to him about us he gets defensive and trys to ignore it how can I get him back because I really do love him and ik he is the one for me please help

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 5, 2017 at 6:18 pm

Hi Kristin,

do you want to try the advice above?

j

January 1, 2017 at 11:43 pm

i have no idea how long his rebound will last because he seems to be interested in her………do you think i should message him telling him im moving on etc? or just let it be cause last week i told him hes not my friend etc and that one day i will talk to him again and maybe we can have a clean slate then bc ik hes a good guy, etc….ik i said too much being emotional…..he just seems SO set on his decision i have no idea what to do but to agree to NC….ts just gonna help him move on from me more than he already did.

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 4, 2017 at 3:13 pm

if he’s really decided then you have to move on.. telling him you’re actions will not help because it sounds like you’re trying to convince him back

j

January 1, 2017 at 9:06 pm

sorry its hard to explain what im thinking…..what im saying is like even tho we might be strangers again IF we get that clena slate, what if he decides now that he will never change his mind cuz he knows what this no contact is for and why i agreed to it. he even hopes this wont work out in the long run when i asked him if theres a part of him that wants it to work out. its like he is telling himself right now that i will make sure i will never change my mind about her.

thats why im so scared.
j

January 1, 2017 at 12:41 am

will his mind ever change tho under all the circumstances i told you?? everyone thinks im crazy already bc he told ppl were over and everything and he will never get back together with me. i WILL move on but the time comes when hes back years from now i will want that try again even if i lose feelings itll be like were strangers again…..

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 1, 2017 at 7:32 pm

that’s good of he sees you as a stranger, that means you’re not the crazy ex girlfriend anymore. If you dont change, there’s no chance that his mind will

Lisa

December 30, 2016 at 1:33 am

Hey! I was in a LDR for about a year, knew him for about 3 years prior. We had a great relationship, healthy and committed and full of honesty. Unfortunately, I had too much to drink one night& ended up fooling around with one of my best girl friends. I called him and told him immediately the morning after. i ended up going to see him the following weekend, he broke up with me the next week, saying he can’t study, or concentrate on anything& that he’s constantly questioning if he is enough. He also said he lost passion for me…which wasn’t extremely hard to hear.

We texted for a few weeks, he’d ask if I wasn’t going to hook up with a past flame & I would tell him I just wanted him. He said to live our lives and let things fall into place like they are supposed to & that he wouldnt Be ready to even try to work thing so out until after he wasn’t graduated and settled in. I went 33 days with NC. On Christmas Day gen sent me a racy meme and said “this was us”. I then texted him wishing him a merry Christmas and said I hope he was doing well. Afternoon chatting via Snapchat all day on Christmas he texted me and said, “ive enjoyed talking to you today, I Miss you. I’m still torn from what happened.” We talked a bit and he reassured me he wanted to move for me in the past and then I said I think in order to move forward communication was key, all he responded was maybe. I didn’t realize reply and have since then sent him a meme that made me think of him. He hasnt responded to it.

Part of me today thinks he need an more time, burn how long do i wait? Am I waiting for nothing? What can I do without coming across needy? I love him and would do anything in the world to see him, but I can’t without talking to him, and he isn’t exactly engaging…

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 30, 2016 at 9:10 am

I dont know if you saw my reply to your first post,.so I’m going to paste it.
hi Lisa,

accept the fact that he is moving on.. it is better if he had forgiven you and moved on, than to try to continue the previous relationship and be reminded of past mistakes.. he has to see that you have moved on and improved too.. you can initiate contact if you want

j

December 29, 2016 at 8:19 pm

also since it was his idea that we should do no contact for 1-2 years…so since he knows that no contact is clearly for a clean slate unless hes just giving me false hope, he knows i agreed to it cause i want him back….that wont impact chances will it?

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 30, 2016 at 11:45 am

I think he honestly, he just said that for you to stop chasing him, so, yes it can be false hope… but what he doesn’t expect is for you to truly change and improve.. so, do that first.

J

December 29, 2016 at 5:17 pm

Thank you for your advice somehow that helped reading that. I just have many regrets on what I did and do hope over time he really will consider again but now I’m not gonna contact him for at least a year or until I feel I have moved on. From what I told you and everything he said about only way he can consider it abit is if we have a clean slate and even if he blocked me, do you think this can possibly work out in the future if all contact has stopped and I moved on?
J

December 28, 2016 at 1:02 pm

So basically I have absolute no chance and hope at all. Would a year no contact really help it’ll only help him really forget more and it’ll help me heal but I need him back. I know he moved on but I need him back. What about 6 months bc?

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 29, 2016 at 4:13 pm

I know this will sound like I’m just trying to convince you to move on but think about if remaining the same and chasing him and being desperate will help you.

And if you can’t let him go, if you just “need” him to be happy, that’s not real love. It just shows you’re trying to fulfill a necessity.

People who love truly, are not defined by other person’s love. The other person is just an addition to an already complete life. Of course it will hurt hurt if they lose the other person, but even if that happens, they will not lose themselves.

And also, people run away from a desperate person who wants love because those people dont know how to value themselves, all they know is that they should only feel the feeling of love from other people because they can’t give it to themselves, they have no standards. All they want is to take.. Don’t be like that. Don’t stop improving and don’t contact him until you can live without him.

J

December 27, 2016 at 12:43 am

I’m also afraid if one year NC will actually help him move on for good and his feelings will be gone cause it’s such a long length of time I really do not know what to do. One year nc he can realize he doesn’t really love me or something I really don’t know what to do. He said anything else we do will
Not work cuz i piss him off in many ways just talking and he said time is better than talking or it’ll get worse so how do Ik he means it? He prob wants to date someone else when he’s out of military and realize that he can do good enough or smth I cannot lose him I really am afraid of what might happen with one year nc. Should I just do 4 months?? Idk what to do pls help the more we don’t talk he will continue talk with that girl. But if we talk it’ll get worse. There’s no in between I really want a 2nd try once I learn to be more independent but how will he not be able to see that me if he keeps saying we’re just friends and he will never date me again. You don’t know how torn I am

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 28, 2016 at 9:23 am

You have to accept that he has moved on and has fallen out of love. So, in that way, you won’t keep holding on to something that is not there anymore. Once you really accept that, it will be clearer to you on what you need to do.

J

December 26, 2016 at 6:04 pm

I think I’m over analyzing this now…what do you think a clean slate means? He wants to us to completely move on since he wants to date someone else in the future and hopes I can heal and then we forget about each other or you think he really wants a clean slate even tho his mind is so stubborn to be changed and Ik he slept with that girl before being deployed, etc. he avoids the subject of her whenever I ask and he wants to never date me again. Sorry I’m repating the same thing again and again I CANNOT LOSE HIM I feel my chances are all over now it’s impossible like will a clean slate really work for us to retry in 2 years? I feel he will have the same mindset since he knows we’re doing NC to retry so he will make sure his mind will not be changed cuz his idea was no contact at all or keep talking and have nothing
j

December 26, 2016 at 2:34 pm

i also read somewhere that when the guy knows youre doing no contact to try to get back together itll help him feel better and move on faster. since he gave the idea of no contact for 1 year to possibly even consider it alil bit for a clean slate, wouldnt this just help him forget me cuz he knows clearly that were not speaking cuz of it? should i message him in 2 weeks saying something random then ignore him? or just stick thru no contact? i think 1 year is very long should i just do 4-6 months? or is it not enough? we did 1 month NC already and it clearly didnt help bc everything i say pisses him off even if its normal talk.
j

December 26, 2016 at 3:05 am

also adding on to my other comments, the other day i sent a final message because he just wont message me back etc and ik hes messaging someone else etc and ignoring me. then he said stop annoying him and he doesnt feel like talking. so i snapped and said you dont understand my regret on my behaviors and how i treated you (controlling, clingy, etc) and need a chance blah blah. so i said we are not friends and i do not consider you a friend. it hurts too much to be your friend. i said im gonna leave him alone now and maybe we will have a clean slate later on for a retry. (even tho i have zero chance now because his mindset seems so set based on my other comments i left on here) what do i do??? NC one year will be a long shot, what if i do 4-6 months? He said the only way he can even consider it just a tiny bit is if we stop talk completely and maybe have a clean slate but he said its not guaranteed. I feel like i made the biggest mistake these past 5 months continuing talk with him. I tried NC i really did, it never worked. I cannot lose him and i really need to change his mind about dating me again in the future. I have so many regrets and I wish he can see the new me and what i learned from my mistakes.
j

December 24, 2016 at 9:18 pm

also to add on, he likes that girl i told you about. he keeps telling me he wont date me again and were nothing more than just friends. so the only way he can possibly even consider it again is if we dont talk for 2 years. so if i do NC now for 1 year and then talk to him would it be ok? he already likes someone else but hes deployed right now so he wont be able to see her anyways but he can still text her whenever hes done with the days work. i will start NC today for 1 year. We had NC for one month and nothing has changed he just thoight about it alot during the 1 month of training and he wants no future at all bc he likes someone else. whatre my chances now? his mind is unchangeable. he said we can have a clean slate if we dont talk for the next few years when hes deployed but even so he said it might not happen but its the only way to possibly consider it again. or we can continue talking and have nothing.

i messed up SO SO badly. its hopeless. I dont know what to do anymore. Hes officially gone likes someone else. I will do NC for 1 year. If needed ill do NC for 2 years. But how can he stop liking the other girl? Hes very into her. I can tell from social media and what hes posting and commenting etc. please help me. I have lost him for good and have absolute no chance. I am blocked on the only way he can talk which is fb because he has no phone in military but then he unblocked me and told me he wants no future at all again and i can think whatever i want and dream whatever i want. its cuz he likes this girl but he said their just friends. i told him ill change. i promised myself i will. but his mindset is SO set. he even hopes that NC will not work out. He doesnt want it to. You dont understand i need him back. I will do anything
j

December 23, 2016 at 7:54 pm

adding on to my comment just earlier, when i asked if he wants this to work out and he said not really, i got mad bc i thought why would u suggest no talking for 2-3 years if u dont want this to work out etc and he said fuck this im blocking u and not talking to u again and then i got blocked on everything and have no way of communication now that hes going to a new navy base and wont have a phone.
j

December 23, 2016 at 4:09 pm

he says he sees no future still and will not date me again and he thought about it and says he will never date me again. he said the only way he can consider just a tiny bit is if we stop talking til he gets back. he said the more we talk, it gets worse and he gets more pissed. then he blocked me on everything.
i asked if thers a part of him that hopes this will work out. he said not really. i think he only said it to give me hope

what do u think? he said time is better than talking. that no talking will only be for the better. do u think this will work? i made everything worse by talking to him. he says anything i say i manage to piss him off in a new way. he said hes not pissed about our passed. he just said the relationship is rlly over and if he can even consider a tiny bit itll be no communication or we can talk and have it go nowhere

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