6 Signs That Prove Your Ex Is In A Rebound Relationship (And What To Do With Them)

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Savannah

May 8, 2015 at 4:09 am

Hey Chris,

My ex broke up with me a couple months ago after a 4 month long relationship. We broke off on “good terms” but I was left very confused. Our relationship was great; we never had disagreements, we were passionate about each other, and our family and friends loved each other. His reason for breaking up was that “our relationship wasn’t progressing” and he had been feeling this way for a few weeks. Well although I was heartbroken for a while, I came to terms with it and I starting feeling super happy with myself and my life.

However, recently I found out that my boyfriend has been in a relationship with someone since the beginning of April (less than a month after we broke up). I’m a little upset because he has apparently gotten over me very quickly. The girl he is now with has been one of his friends for while and I actually met her while we were dating. I’m wondering if he broke up with me to get with her, or if this is a rebound relationship…. what do you think?

Savannah

May 8, 2015 at 4:11 am

Oh and btw, he posts many pictures with her on Facebook but never did with me. I don’t know if that means anything, but I thought I’d add that.

Kay

May 8, 2015 at 3:42 am

Hi chris. My husband and i were married for nearly 2 years. He married me twice and i can say that he was madly inlove with me. Then we seperated like a month ago, i begged and pleaded him everyday buy he said he wasnt inlove with me anymore. after a month i found out that he is a relationship with other girl about 2 weeks after after we seperated. I still love my husband and want him back so bad. Is there any chance that hes gonna come back to me knowing that he is in a rebound relationship right now?

Chris Seiter

May 11, 2015 at 5:37 pm

He married you twice?

Jan

May 5, 2015 at 7:40 pm

My ex and I were in a relationship for 25 years 16 of those years we were married until I made a bad decision and cheated on him and he found out and filed for divorce while going through the divorce we got back together we even finalized the divorce and still continued to live with each other and I thought we were doing good but after 10 months of being back together he started seeing someone from his work I found out about after he was only with her for 2 weeks when it all came out he said he couldnt get over me cheating on him and it has ate at him everyday even tho I thought he got over it and he kicked me out of the house and he chose the new women over me he has been with the other women for 3 months now and he even told our daughter he hopes I move on and find someone else I dont know if he relationship is a rebound to get over the hurt that I caused him I hope it is a rebound but my daughter says he seems so happy but after 25 years together I cant imagine loosing him forever we talked a few weeks ago and he said he still has feelings for me but wants to see where his relationship goes with the new women and if it dont work we can possibly get back together I was shocked that he had the nerve to say that to me then later that night he text me saying i didnt loose him forever just until get gets his head straight and now he dont text or call at all I’m so confused. Is he in a rebound?
Georgynna

May 1, 2015 at 6:40 pm

Hey, Chris! I really enjoy reading you articles. Well here´s my story, I met my ex about 11 years ago, we were friends for almost 8 years. When we turned 6 years being friends I had to move to other city for 2 years, but we kept in touch everyday emailing each other we even talked about our relationships cause by the time we were just friends but since the very moment i met him i liked him and later fell in love with him I also knew he kind of felt something for me but we never showed our feelings until one day i had to come back to the city to spend some time with my family for christmas, in that moment we both knew we were more than friends, we spent a lot of time together before I went back to the other city, we kept in touch for six months till i decided to move back to the city. A couple of months later we started our relationship, it was the first time I took seriously a relationship, It was incredible at the beginning but five months later i didn’t how to deal with some things, so the next three months we were fighting over things both of us didn’t know how to fix, so he broke up with me. We were together as a couple only like 9 months. After that, a month later he started dating a friend of his but they didnt get in a relationship, and the next whole year he dated some other girls and only got in a relationship with one but it only lasted like 2 o 3 months. So after that year, he was again looking for me and pretending like nothing happened, so we met like 4 times, but something inside told me he was doing something wrong, and like I said! he was dating also two other girls. I told him I never wanted to hear about him, he tried to explain everything but i just could not believe him anymore. So I decided to stop communication with him. Two months later he started dating a girl he met at his college, he said he was deeply in love with her, how different she was from me, and she was the correct one. That obviously broke my heart, but i kept on with my life, and 4 months later i had a boyfriend but it only lasted 3 months because i discovered he was cheating on me. So I went again single. Some days I used to check my ex’s Facebook just to know how he was doing and when he was turning 7 months with his girlfriend i noticed he was not that happy, she used to post pictures of them and lots of things, but he didn’t and he didn’t even reply to those posts. And some days later, he was sending me messages, just like a friend, i didnt reply to them because I have always respected other people´s relationships and i told him that I didn’t want him to text me as long as he was still in that relationship. Two months later he broke up with her. He told his best friend (who is also a friend of mine) that He realized during that time that there was no one like me, how dumb he was when he let me go and he was willing to do anything in order to get me back. Therefore we were dating like for a month and a half, or two months and we went back together. It was amazing, it was even better than the first time we were together (2 years before) I really felt i was in a dream, he was more mature, more caring and so much more different. And like in any other couple we had our ups and downs but we always found a way to make things work, things were amazing we shared lot of beautiful moments… after seven months together i started to realize that his attentions (like flowers, little gifts) were decreasing so i made the mistake that every time we met I claimed those things, instead of appreciating that he was doing an effort to spend time with me because he was all the time busy and stressed for his thesis that he started when we started dating again, so the next month and a half we were constantly arguing, i wanted something and he didn’t understand me and viceversa. He again broke up with me. I would dare to say that we broke up over dumb things, I apologized for being such a demanding person, i recognized my mistakes but he didn’t want to come back with me, he even told to his friends that he realized I was not the person I was before, that i became kind of boring (when used to say that he loved to spend time with me), he was also looking for a girl who was crazy!! (When he also told me he loved i was very funny and mature at the same time)…… And well, 2 weeks after he broke up with me he met a new girl, and started dating. They are still dating, it’s been 5 weeks since he broke up with me, so they’ve been dating for about 3 weeks, and He already says that he loves her, he’s madly in love with her, that she’s perfect, and luckily so different from me, and what he loves the most is that she’s atheist just like him (I’m catholic). I really can’t believe all of these, I can’t believe all the bad things he’s been talking about me, when he said two months ago that he would rather lose an arm than lose me and I Was everything to him!. Ireally love him and want him back, but I’m afraid he doesn’t want that just beacuse we went back together once and being back together won’t work again, and even worse with that new girl in his life. Thanks Chris for reading!! I’d really love to know what you think, and if there’s a chance to get him back.
Georgynna

April 30, 2015 at 8:10 pm

Hey, Alex! I really enjoy reading you articles. Well here´s my story, I met my ex about 11 years ago, we were friends for almost 8 years. When we turned 6 years being friends I had to move to other city for 2 years, but we kept in touch everyday emailing each other we even talked about our relationships cause by the time we were just friends but since the very moment i met him i liked him and a time later fell in love with him I also knew he kind of felt something for me but we never showed our feelings until one day i had to come back to the city to spend some time with my family for christmas, in that moment we both knew we were more than friends, we spent a lot of time together before I went back to the other city, we kept in touch for six months till i decided to move back to the city. A couple of months later we started our relationship, it was the first time I took seriously a relationship, It was incredible at the beginning but five months later i didn’t how to deal with some things, so the next three months we were fighting over things both of us didn’t know how fix, so he broke up with me. We were together as a couple only like 9 months. After that, a month later he started dating a friend of his but they didnt get in a relationship, and the next whole year he dated some other girls and only got in a relationship with one but it only lasted like 2 o 3 months. So after that year, he was again looking for me and pretending like nothing happened, so we met like 4 times, but something inside told me he was doing something wrong, and like I said! he was dating also two other girls. I told him I never wanted to hear about him, he tried to explain ebeyrthing but i just couldnot believe him anymore. So I decided to stop communication with him. Two months later he started dating a girl he met at his college, he said he was deeply in love with her, how different she was from me, and she was the correct one. That obviously broke my heart, but i kept on with my life, and 4 months later i had a boyfriend but it only lasted 3 months because i discovered he was cheating on me. So I went again single. Some days I used to check my ex’s Facebook just to know how he was doing and when he was turning 7 months with his girlfriend i noticed he was not that happy, she used to post pictures of them and lots of things, but he didn’t and he didn’t even replie to those posts. And some days later, he was sending me messages, just like a friend, i didnt replied to them because I have always respected other people´s relationships and i told him that I didn’t want him to text me as long as he was still in that relationship. Two months later he broke up with her. He told his best friend (who is also a friend of mine) that He realized during that time that there was no one like me, how dumb he was when he let me go and he was willing to do anything in order to get me back. Therefore we were dating like for a month and a half , or two months and we went back together. It was amazing, it was even better than the fist time we were together (2 years before) I really felt i was in a dream, he was more mature, more caring and so much more different. And like in any other couple we had our ups and downs but we always found a way to make things work, things were amazing we shared lot of beautiful moments… after seven months together i started to realize that his attentions (like flowers, little gifts) were decreasing so i made the mistake that every time we met I claimed those things, instead of appreciating that he was doing an effort to spend time with me because he was all the time busy and stressed for his thesis that he started when we started dating again, so the next moth and a half we were constatly arguing, i wanted something and he didnt understand me and viceversa. He again broke up with me. I would dare to say that we broke up over dumb things, I apologized for being such a demanding person, i recognized my mistakes but he didnt want to come back with me, he even told to his friends that he realized I was not the person I was before, that i became kind of boring (when used to say that he loved to spend time with me), he was also looking for a girl who was crazy!! (when he also told me he loved i was very funny and mature at the same time)…… And well, 2 weeks after he broke up with me he met a new girl, and started dating. They are still dating, it’s been 5 weeks since he broke up with me, so they’ve datin for about 3 weeks, and He already says that he loves her, he’s madly in love with her, that she’s perfect, and luckily so different from me, and what he loves the most is that she’s atheist just like him (I’m catholic). I really can’t believe all of these, I cant believe all the bad things he’s been talking about me, when he said two months ago that he would rather lose an arm than lose me and I Was everything to him!. Ireally love him and want him back, but I’m afraid he doesn’t want that just beacuse we went back together once and being back together wont work again, and even worse with that new girl in his life. Thanks Chris for reading!! I’d really love to know what you think, and if there’s a chance to get him back.

Georgynna

April 30, 2015 at 8:13 pm

Hey Chris!!***
(my bad I was going to type your name but i wrote my second name Alex instead) haha

kelly

April 28, 2015 at 6:07 pm

So me and my ex boyfriend were together for a year but we are also very close friends for many years. Our relationship was amazing until beginning of March. Where sadly he grandad got ill and passed away, he was really close with him. He started to distance himself, everyone tried to convince me it would get better in time just give him space and be there, which I did. Then out of the blue he just ended it saying his head was all over the place but still loved me but can’t do it anymore. I was devastated but he just didn’t seem to care, like he wasn’t himself. So I haven’t contacted him since, thinking he might of contacted me but nothing. Also thought maybe he was grieving or suffering with depression, so didnt want to confuse him anymore. So gave him space. Then I find out he starting seeing someone 2/3 weeks after finishing with me. It truly hurts as I really did love him and I do truly believe he loves me. All our friends and are families are shocked as no one saw it coming. Is this rebound relationship he’s started? He sends his snapchat stories too so I can see him all happy (never with the girl in) but will share a dinner snap with 2 plates. It’s like he’s trying to hurt me or waiting o a response.i truly believe he was the one. But it’s been 6 weeks, it’s getting easier but it’s always there in my head
Syarria

April 27, 2015 at 7:58 pm

Chris,

Me and my boyfriend were together for 6 months and we were happy and we had such a strong connection then in the last month he got really stressed out and he started talking to another girl and then eventually he left me and went straight for her. He now acts like God has kissed is a**. Is this a rebound or should i just give up and accept i’ll never have the love of my life back?
Jennifer Ayala

April 27, 2015 at 4:32 pm

Hi Chris,

My fiance and I were in a fairytale relationship. We were together for a total of 2 1/2 yrs. The first 2 years of our relationship were filled with nothing but happiness. We were inseperable. We were two of a kind. It was almost too perfect. He proposed to me after a year and 8 months. I was the only girl he ever asked to marry him. His mother told me I must be something special because since he was 5 years old he swore he would not ever get married. I have to admit that the first 6 months of our relationship I had doubts about him. He was a bit sneaky and secretive. I always had a bad feeling in my gut. I never said anything to him because I didn’t want him to think that I didn’t truest him and knowing myself I knew I could break those insecurities. I thought they were insecurities until I received an email from his ex girlfriend about 2 months into our relationship, telling me that my guy was a lying, cheating, abusive jerk and I should be warned. I didn’t understand why his ex who he told me that he broke up with 6 months prior to us getting together would go to extremes this long and reach out to me. I asked him if there was any truth to her email and he convinced me she was crazy. Fast forward to about 6 months ago. We started having issues in our relationship. He would complain that I wasn’t keeping him happy. I gave up everything to focus on making him happy again. He just broke up with me on March 25th. He said that I hurt him deeply because I wasn’t there for him like he needed me to be there and he couldn’t get the feelings he had for me back. I found out he lied to me. Those were just excuses. He was going out to the clubs looking for something better and met a girl and was seeing her behind my back for a month before he left me for her. He didn’t want to let me go right away because he wasn’t sure if his new girlfriend would last or not. Do you have any advice for me. I really could use some right now.

Jenn
Catherina

April 26, 2015 at 10:06 pm

If my ex gives a gift to his new girlfriend, is there still a chance that it’s a rebound?
Distressed

April 25, 2015 at 10:02 am

I was in a relationship for 5 years, and about 3 and a half years into it I got sick with a chronic illness, and shortly after he moved to a different city for a new job. He claims he wasn’t abandoning me, just that he didn’t have any other opportunities where we both grew up.
We decided to do long distance. The first few months were fine, but then I started feeling very frustrated with the situation. He didn’t seem to want me to move down, and had no real plans of coming back. When I spoke to him about it he claimed he still loved me and all of that bullshit. In saying this he only spoke to me on facebook, though this was every night. He would barely ever call me (I used to call him every few days), and if we skyped it was usually my idea.
He flat out told me he didn’t want to live with me, that he wanted to do it on his own first. He told me he couldn’t even consider an engagement or marriage for at least another 5 years. As I was approaching 30 this is not what I wanted to hear, especially as my condition affects my fertility, so I have a much lower chance of having children (which is extremely important to me).
He ended it the first time just after 4 and a half year mark and said the feelings had changed. He never said he didn’t love me, he just said it was different. I was absolutely crushed. I had been doubting the relationship, but I was willing to give it everything I had in order to make it thrive again. I felt like he really let me down in my absolute time of need. With my illness I had lost my career, my independence, my income, and now he had walked out on me.
I was really confused, as we hadn’t been fighting, and the night before he had told me he loved me.

Fast forward 4 months…. I had a weak moment every now and then and got in contact with him. It usually wouldn’t work out very well for me. I wanted answer and he had none to give me.
On one of the phone calls I said to him this is it. If you want to be with me this is your last chance. I’m not your friend…. I’m your girlfriend or nothing. He said he needed to think about it, and every time I went to finally cut the cord he pleaded me to give him time. I complied.
At Christmas he came back to where we live for a short holiday. We spent a lot of time together, and discussed what went wrong, and how we were going to fix it. We both said we were willing to work on the relationship. We were back together and I was happy.

Everything had been going much better than the first time. I still was feeling like I was putting in more effort, but he was trying, and that was all I could ask for. I wanted to get to a point where he loved me again.
2 weeks ago I asked him if he did. He said whilst there were strong feelings and they were getting stronger he wasn’t there yet, and not to pressure him. I said okay and left it, although was hurt. It breaks my heart to know that after so long with someone he still wasn’t sure of his feelings for me.
Last week he started getting extremely stressed with work. His anxiety was off the chart. I was there for him, comforted him, and did my best to make him feel better. I even offered to fly to his location in order to make sure he was ok. He declined saying he’d feel bad keeping me waiting at the house as he was doing late hours.
I admit I got a little paranoid, because the last time his anxiety acted up he broke up with me. I asked him about this and he said it wasn’t anything to do with me, it was strictly down to work. I believed him and continued to support him as best I could.
He also claimed that he was feeling really isolated, that no-one in his current location was really close to him, and that it made him depressed. Once again I put him first and made it my mission to build him up and make sure he knew how many people cared for him.

I should say that he started hanging out with a girl from work a lot around Christmas. I found it strange when she was texting him constantly while I was with him. He said she was just a friend, and he wasn’t attracted to her. Up till now he had always been honest with me, so I took him at his word, even though I felt like it was a bit strange.

Fast forward to this week…. I am telling him about an appointment I had, and I happened to mention how I was feeling a little attention starved. He said he was sorry and that he knew he hadn’t been there so much for me. He then asked if we could skype. I complied.
I instantly knew what was going to happen when I saw him on the screen…. he was crying, as he always does when he’s broken up with me in the past. I said ‘you’re going to break up with me aren’t you?’. He said yes. He then went on to say that the feelings he had for me are gone. I immediately asked if there was someone else. After a bit of prodding he admitted that he had started developing feelings for someone. I asked who, he didn’t want to tell me. I wouldn’t ease up. Surprise surprise it was the girl at work. He said not to blame her.
He told me that at work they went to get a coffee, and he admitted he had feelings for her, and she did the same.

I am so angry. I am so angry he did this while we were together in order to confirm he had a soft spot to land after he severed ties with me. I’m angry he lied to me about having strong feelings for me. To be honest I just don’t know what to believe anymore.
I did get paranoid about this girl at first, and he told me I was out of my mind, so I eased up on it. He said she had been cheated on previously and would NEVER do that to someone based on her experience.
I feel so hurt. Words can’t even describe it.

I asked if he was going to date her now. He said he’d take some time to think, and then possibly pursue it. I’m assuming he will as I seemed to be the only obstacle in the way now he’s found someone else who’s healthy and can do all the things he wants to do.

Sorry for the huge essay, but does this sound like a rebound? Or will it possibly last because it seems he got over me the last break-up, and the feelings have already dissipated?

I just don’t understand how people can change so quickly, and why he didn’t support me when I needed him most. 🙁

I don’t think I could take him back at this point, because of how he’s hurt me so many times in the past (always being unsure, making me feel like I was never good enough to pursue a life with), but as petty as it sounds I want him to hurt. I want him to be hurt as many times as he’s hurt me. I want someone to abandon him in his time of need.

I just need a bit of advice. Thank you.

Distressed

April 27, 2015 at 11:22 pm

I believe it was an emotional affair, although by the abrupt way in which he ended it it wouldn’t surprise me if he cheated and just didn’t tell me. 2 days prior he was telling me he was still coming up to celebrate my birthday with me (which is in a month).
I can’t help but feel something physical happened, and the guilt was tearing him apart.

I though I was dealing okay with the break-up, but i’m having panic attacks and doing things to hurt myself. I don’t know how to cope.
Chris Seiter

April 27, 2015 at 10:06 pm

Did he cheat on you with the girl at work?

Or was it more of an emotional affair?

Jordan

April 24, 2015 at 8:27 pm

My boyfriend and i were together for almost a year. I was away at school for most of the time we were together but we saw eachother every time that i had a break from school. i went home one weekend and he told me that he was moving to a different state to live with his aunt and uncle and that it would be too hard to make things work. he told me that he loved me and that i was the best thing that ever happened to him. 10 days later we talked again and he told me he loved me and that he wished he could take me with him but he knew moving wouldn’t make me happy. A few days later there were pictures of him and another girl being posted on social media and a few days after that they were in a relationship on facebook. Since then he keeps posting her as his WCW and changes all his profile pictures to him and her. When we dated he only changed his profile picture once and he rarely ever posted pictures of us on social media. Is she a rebound girl or were they probably talking before?

Chris Seiter

April 27, 2015 at 9:52 pm

WCW?

Sorry I may be out of the loop a bit. What is that?

Phoebe

April 24, 2015 at 12:57 pm

I was together with my ex for a good 2.5 years. Initially, he loved me a lot. As time went by, he will still tell me he does but his action does not show through. We went through many rough patches and eventually, i cut it off. When we broke off, he told me he will chase me again. Fast forward to 4 months later, he tells me he loves this other girl. is she a rebound?

Chris Seiter

April 24, 2015 at 11:04 pm

How long has he been with this other girl?

4 months?

jenny

April 22, 2015 at 11:45 am

Hi Chris
My bf of 6 years broke up with me over the phone because we use to fight alot and 2 months later he wanted to be friend with me so we tried for a week it was perfect but we broke up again i couldn’t handle.. I started the no contact 3 weeks later he was with a girl but i contacted him about getting ny stuff back he agreed but till now he did bot give them back.. my question is now its been 1.5 months he is with her she is totally the opposite if me in everything ! She is a barmaid! She wear shorts , makeup , tattoo , rings , had her nose done she is totally not his type .
When he was with ne he used to get jealous when i wear shorts and we had lot of fights over it and i did bot wear anymore , he loves me without any makeup also he hates makeup , ….
I have 2 questions pls
1-he keeps posting his pix and hers on whatspp and instagram and he never did with me in the 6 years ! ( we live in a village were posting pix with a serious girl without getting official with her is not good)
2- why he is dating the opposite girl of me and a girl who he used to say he hates this type ?

jenny

April 23, 2015 at 9:16 am

1-yes he did but not as much as he is doing with this girl exactly every 2 days he changes a picture on whatsapp with her and he used to hate doing so or show people his personal life
-Do you think he wants to show me so i can come and talk to him or no ?
2-yesterday he took her and some friends to the exact same place we used to dine in every month ! Why ?
Chris Seiter

April 23, 2015 at 12:28 am

1. In six years together the two of you never posted a picture on Facebook or whatsapp?

2. He is probably trying something new because he was with you for so long he wants a change. Hopefully he will realize his mistake and get the GIGS.

den

April 22, 2015 at 4:13 am

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up a month ago we spend 1year beacause i’m just a 14 yo ,after we broke up he had his girl and i don’t know if he’s serious with that girl,he even treated that girl the way he treated me like a princess before but then the problem is,if they can last together or can my ex bf love her like what he did to me?crap i’m just jealous.

Chris Seiter

April 23, 2015 at 12:19 am

You are just 14?

Nina

April 19, 2015 at 10:15 pm

So me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and we dated for 3 years. We never really had any big problems in our relationship but anyway he started dating this new girl exactly 1 month after we broke up and he treats her so much better than me! They hang out a lot, he always post about her on Facebook and Instagram and calls her princess and he never did that for me! he hardly used those sites when we dated! And someone told me that he had been talking to this girl about 3 weeks before we broke up so I think he had her lined up. But I just hope he is in a rebound but not sure and need advice!
Loly

April 15, 2015 at 7:06 am

My ex and I were together for about 5 years. It wasn’t perfect but still we didn’t have any big problem breakups. We broukup 4 months ago. I really hurt him. And I am so sorry for that. I apologised to him like a hundred times. So he found a new girlfriend like 10-20 days after our breakup. I know thet girl because she was his friend for a last month of our relationship. He swears that he didn’t cheat on me with her. I just hope that this is a rebound but I really don’t know. How long is going to last? How is it so easy for him to move on when I am still learning how to live without him in my life? Does he still think of me, remember me, love me,…? those are the questions in my head for last 4 months… sorry but it really hurts thet sometimes it seams like I am going crazy
june

April 13, 2015 at 2:37 pm

Me and my ex went out for 10 months and we both work together. We broke up but were still seeing each other as in sleeping together going on dates ect up until new years when he decided to block me and not want me around 3 months later i find out he Is with a girl we both worked together. This is the same girl that he has known for 3 years and told me he wasnt close to, he lied, while we were together she kept flirting with him, sending him flirty texts and even told him he shouldnt be with me and he didnt do anything about it when i told him i had a problem. Is she a rebound? . Shes told me she doesnt like him last year and she didnt show interest in him until he showed interest in me. Is it abit weird that they get together after 3 years and so soon after we brake up?. It took her a month to want a different guy who worked with us. Im abit confused is this real or not?
Holly

April 11, 2015 at 6:13 pm

Hey, my ex boyfriend and I were in a really happy 2 year relationship, we spoke every day, saw each other nearly every weekend, broke up with me two weeks ago, over text!!! and THREE days after he went out with this other girl that he said he’s liked for a few months. He was always so happy with me and said he wanted me forever a day before he broke up with me, he said that the worst thing that could happen to him was losing me. He was the one who said he wanted to live together and never be apart from me. A few months back he said he wanted a break and then regretted it a day after saying he wanted me back, when I saw him I looked him in the eye and said ”If you have feelings for anybody else tell me” he said he only loved me. He says he’s been loyal (still over text) but he couldn’t have because he was still with me when he had feelings for someone else, so I trusted and loved him again and we were really going well again but then he ended it. So suddenly. He kept messaging me and he’s being really rude, he’s become a different person. He said he doesn’t want to see me again, he’s blocked me from everything and I’ve done nothing wrong, he also put every bit of happiness has to end and so much more. I don’t want to be with him again, but I wish he would just talk to me in person and allow me to say how I feel.
june

April 11, 2015 at 3:05 am

Hi me and my ex broke up but carried on going out to the cinemas and dinner and having sex like we did when we were in the relationship, this went on for about 3 months until he finally had enough and blocked me. We work together and throughout our relationship this girl who also work with us kept flirting with him and he didnt do anything about it when i said i had a problem. They have known each other for 3 years and she only showed interest in him when he showed interest in me. After he blocked me 3 months later i find out they are basically together. They go to the cinemas and hold hands and kiss in private. He says hes fine with having me as a friend at work but nothing else

Is she a rebound? Or has he truly moved on
Gordon

April 9, 2015 at 10:57 pm

My ex and I had only been together 6 months. We had great memories of the first five months, but in the 6th, it all went horribly wrong. For her birthday, I planned a suprise party, which she had done for me before, and she was extremely suspicious about. Therefore, I staged a fake argument with her, something she had also done to me (3 times), in order to keep her mind off the party. This went wrong, and I was forced to come clean to her the next day. After this, she ignored me, lied to me, and kept things from me. A bit before this whole thing, she met some guy on social media who ended up living nearby, and she ended up talking to him very often. She even talked to him as I sat next to her instead of talking to me. I didn’t say anything, not wanting to mess anything else up after the whole party thing. She spent more and more time with him, telling me that he “1-uped” me. Eventually she broke up with me. After doing so, I didn’t react very well, and I kept asking her if it was because of him. She told me it wasn’t, and that she wouldn’t be dating anyone else for a long long time and he was just a good friend, but I don’t believe that, because of him. What is the case here, was this rebound, or is it a waste to pursue her further? I want nothing more than to be with her again, and I would honestly do anything to get her back, but I’m not sure if that’s possible at this point. I haven’t talked to her in a week, restraining myself from causing any further damage, but I have heard from friends that her relationship with her “good friend” is getting stronger and stronger. Is this rebound, or am I out of luck?

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