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Yssa
November 28, 2014 at 2:04 pm
Hi Chris!
My ex bf has a fuck buddy right now and we’ve only broke up for 3 weeks. What does that mean and can I still get him back? π
admin
November 28, 2014 at 3:21 pm
It means two things.
He is a gross pig for moving on that quickly.
And also this person is definitely a rebound.
Do you think you can forgive him for moving on in such a hurtful manner so fast in the future?
Yssa
November 26, 2014 at 10:17 pm
So me and my boyfriend broke up 3 weeks ago and we were together for 1 year & 6 months. We’ve been through a lot. We’ve shared a lot of memories and we were so so comfortable with each other… But 1 day, we got into a fight and the reason is because he can’t fetch me at work. Then I was nagging because he always want it to be his way that he’s always the one who’s making decision. So we didn’t texted for the whole day. Then when dinner came, I gave him a long message telling him all my concerns about the realtionship and after that long message of mine, he didn’t responded. Even my calls and text. He even blocked me in facebook and my number. So i went to their house to ask what’s wrong and why does he want to break up with me again. (Because we had a lot of breakups already but it made as a better and stronger couple) He didn’t want me to be near him that time. He was pushing me away and telling me he doesn’t like and love me anymore. And I was wondering how come yesterday we were so inlove then now you’re telling me that. So I begged him. Cried in front of him but it didn’t worked. Now I can see his tweets that he’s like mad at me and he wants to find another girl. What should I do? I still love him π and how come that he’s like over the realtionship already that fast?!
admin
November 28, 2014 at 3:12 pm
Well, have you attempted any of the tactics on this page yet?
Smiles
November 26, 2014 at 7:00 pm
Hi! Ex and I broke up 2 years ago and have remained good friends for the past year. (It took about a year to get through the breakup). We have recently been hanging out a bit more than usual….(at least once or twice a month). Last week he took me to lunch for my birthday and to catch up. I asked what was happening in his life over the past month and all he mentioned was that he was working a lot. Yesterday we were suppose to have coffee and he called me in the morning saying he was seeing someone and that she wasn’t cool with him hanging out with me and that he wanted to respect her feelings because he would be jealous if she were hanging out with a guy she dated. I accepted, didn’t argue and asked if this meant we couldn’t be friends anymore (remaining friends was something he always wanted after we broke up). He said, “Not at all. Let me get back to you after the dust has settled.” He wants me and his gf to meet if she’s ok with it.
My question for you is, why didn’t he tell me about her when we were having lunch last week? If this is soo serious why wouldn’t he be happy to tell me he was in a good relationship? I’m confused because when we had lunch last week he gave me NO sign he was dating anyone and gave me longer than usual good bye hugs…lol…I know it sounds crazy but I noticed he didn’t want to leave so quickly. Now that I think about it, had plenty of opportunities to tell me he was dating someone.
Anyway, I would love to get back with him and have been playing it cool this past year as he dated other women. Is there anything different I can do? or is this a lost cause and i should move on and do NC again?
Thanks for reading and Happy Thanksgiving:)
admin
November 28, 2014 at 3:04 pm
He is probably afraid of hurting your feelings.
You never know how exes are going to react to this type of news.
Smiles
November 28, 2014 at 7:36 pm
my reaction was pretty cool. I said I was happy for him and that I hoped he was happy. I’m pretty easy to get a long with and we never had any real drama when we were together (something he appreciated). I read your article about what to do if you’re trying to get your boyfriend back after a year or more apart. I’ve done all of that.
Do you think my case is a lost cause and if so, how would you suggest moving on without making it seem like I’m upset with him?
thanks:)
Smiles
November 26, 2014 at 7:18 pm
wanted to add that he is one of my best friends. even though we see each other only a few times a month. When we were together we were best friends and lovers. The reason for the break up was he wanted passion and a best friend. That’s always been a hard pill for me to swallow but he always reassured me after the breakup that he was satisfied and I made him happy. sometimes I feel like i’m waisting my time because he really only see’s me as a friend.
Honestly Chris, I’ll take any advice you give me. This is getting tiresome and I feel like i’m constantly hiding how I really feel about him and I haven’t been able to move on.
thank you:) you help a lot of people:)
MSKN
November 26, 2014 at 2:12 am
Hi Chris, He was my good facebook friend and we used to chat. We were in same school but never managed to talk with each other because he was too shy and i was not interested in him at all. As time passed he started to like me as i always teased him ” shy shy” in school. He was staring at me and sending me facebook messages but i never bothered because i was busy with my exam. One of his close friend told him that he wanted my contact and i gave for “fun purpose” i did not knew he really loved me. After our exam he continued to give me miss calls and when i called he fell in love with my voice and after two days proposed me. My answer was yes as he qualified with what all i wanted in my boyfriend and my love. He was really nice and loving. He never me feel that iam unloved it was always me who made him cry to test him. But as days and months passed by his love and kindness attracted me towards him and i fell in love with him. Its being two years of our relationship. As i started to get closer to him i was not able to see him with any girls i dont know. I saw him talking to a girl but she eas just a friend and i thought something else. I insulted and growled at him infront of his friends and when i realised i cried alot and he forgave me. But he started to say that he wants to stay alone. I was mot able to live without him and explained it to him he promised me that he me that hebwont live me and as day passed i saw him getting away from me just 2 months ago,he left me saying his family members told him to choose between ” love, rducation and family” yah he chose family and education and left me just like that. He even told me to ignorebhim at school which was really hard for me. But i did as i have lovrd him and listened to him. My friends asked him about the sudden break up he just told them that he will come back to me after his finals. He even told his cousin brother that he will come back after his finals. As days past by his cousin helped me alot and one day he messaged me on viber. He said he was glad about something but i never bothered. Later he messaged me on facebook that HE IS GLAD THAT WE ARE ABLE TO STAY WITH EACH OTHER this statement made me really happy. As i knew that he will surely come back. After his exams he never bothered about me and i kept on waiting and one day i blasted on facebook. I begged him i cried like a small kid which he never liked. Later he told my cousin that we broke up and my cousin persued him to talk with me. I think that was the biggest mistake. But i was happy to get him back. Just yesterday he told his cousin that he only HATES ME because i kept him away from his family but i never did anything as such. I read his messages by logging into his account and he changed his facebook password. I told him the reason he hates me and he told me MY ATTITUDE MADE HIM HATE HIM.i love him alot. And now i have realised my mistakes. I want him back but he does not want me. He wants freedom and is happy with his single life. Its so not him. Shall i use the NC RULE o what? I dont want to lose him at all. I just know that iam incomplete without him. :'( the only thing i know about him is that he cannot see tears in my eyes. That was before but how can i get him back. Through NC? WILL IT WORK? Iam ready to do anything to get him back.
admin
November 26, 2014 at 3:11 pm
He definitely doesn’t hate you.
Definitely give the no contact rule a shot.
MSKN
November 27, 2014 at 6:17 am
Thank u Chris
Ashley
November 25, 2014 at 1:13 am
Hi Chris,
My boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me three weeks ago. Everything in the relationship was going great until about two weeks at the end. He was under a lot of stress at work and in his personal life with family and friends. He pulled away from me most days and I gave him his space. Then he broke up with me (felt like out of the blue) and said he can’t “see us in a relationship, but he loves me and wants to remain friends”. He had told me he loved me for the first time just a month before he started pulling away and that we were dating not “just because”, but for the purpose of marriage.
As much as the breakup hurt, we were able to laugh a little at the end before he walked out my door.
I haven’t contacted him since then and honestly there’s a part of me that wants to wait until he contacts me first. Is this too much to expect?
admin
November 25, 2014 at 3:04 pm
Well, lyou did one thing right, you didn’t contact him and still haven’t.
I would just say after 30 days you contact him. Who cares who contacts who first in situations like this. NO one remembers stuff like that in the end.
lucy
November 24, 2014 at 5:51 pm
Hi chris,
My boyfriend and I had been together for under four years . In January this year we got back from travelling – it had been a really hard time on our rship. We had become v u healthy. From jan to May he kept breaking up with me (I am aware of how pathetic that makes me seem) but everytime we met up we would get back together – I do believe he loved me but we were stuck in a rut – I had personal issues that put a big strain on us – he had become a v bitter person , he used to be always v loving , calm and chilled out . Anyway in May he dumped me over text and I was so mad and hurt we didn’t speak for three months- we eventually met up. It seemed while I was upset n thinking he was too – he had started the process of moving on – he was happier being single and he didn’t want to get back together . I know the signs were there but I was shell shocked and physically ill. He said we wouldn’t get back together and that I should move on – but then he said never say never, i’m still a man, and if I see u move on with your life Who knows- which I think gave me false hope. Over the next couple of months we tried to talk as friends – he would be hot and cold – v friendly one min and (we have always got on really well as friends ) then aggressive, bitter and not wanting to talk the next – he would want to shut me out of his life…occasionally I would make mistakes and cry and be emotional – no doubt pushing him away. But we had been through so much together it was hard to accept he was so cold ..say such hurtful things and not even want to be in occasional contact..anyway a month ago I opened my heart – said I’m so so so so sorry for all I did wrong and that I still loved him. He was cruel. Said I deserve all this hurt for the three years of hell I put him through (bit extreme?) that I will never understand him…why is he still so mad??! Does he really hate me n never want to speak again? I’ve done as he has wished n we haven’t spoken for a month. He must really hate me – he used to be the nicest person ever ..so nice he was a pushover in fact
Thank you!!
admin
November 25, 2014 at 2:43 pm
He is mad because breakups make everyone involved upset and angry usually.
ashhh
November 17, 2014 at 8:42 pm
Hey Chris, so I made it through 30 days of no contact. After 30 days I sent out my initial text in which my ex responded very positive. We texted for a bit and then I ended the convo. I then waited 3 days to send my meme text. Finally when it came time to send it, I sent it but he hasn’t responded to it! It was pretty funny too.. What have I done wrong? I don’t get it!! Should I go back into NC? I don’t know what to do next now π It was going so well.
HopelessLover
November 6, 2014 at 5:55 am
Could you maybe help me with a layout plan since it been a long process and nothing seems to work and I am not in mood of giving up. I have waited and follow your directions and nothing good has resulted I would really like to make him want me back even if in the end I do not get him back I just want get the confidence back
Steph
November 3, 2014 at 8:38 pm
Hi Chris –
I need your opinion on whether or not you think this will work for me. I have been with my bf for a little over a year. He is a terrible communicator and gets upset each time I try to discuss our relationship – it always turns in to a huge fight, but there are so many things left unsaid and unresolved that I always feel the need to bring it up over and over (I know, big no-no, but what else can I do if I have underlying issues?). He has broken up with me 4 different times – each time I gave it a week or so of no contact and then ended up going to his place to talk. He never seems to mine and things always end up normal after each visit. Things would go well for a few months and then he would get angry about something or another and break up with me again. It was always over the dumbest things. He always told me that he cared a lot about me and wanted to be with me, but that it seems like when we talk nothing he says is ever good enough or he always feels like I need to hear more. I told him that’s not the case, that I love when he tells me that he cares about me and wants to be with me, but that his actions don’t match his words. This most recent break up – I went over to his house after a party I was at – he said to come over. I get there and he is sleeping on his chair. I tried to wake him up and he had an absolute meltdown. He was sooo angry for no reason. I asked him why he was being like that and he said “because I do not want to be in this relationship anymore” he said that he has felt like that for a while – but I think that’s bs because he is not the type to just be in a relationship for no reason – he’s as honest as they come. He was saying hurtful things like he didn’t care about me. The last time he broke up with me I told him that if he does it again I am done. So I have to stick to my word. I am all for the 30 day NC, but just want to be sure I have a shot at getting him back. As a side note – he invited me over 3x that week and we had a blast each time. The break ups always seem to come out of nowhere or during the most ridiculous arguments. We’ve had a few wrenches thrown into our relationship throughout the last year (he found out his mom has cancer and that he has another kid by some random girl from a long time ago) so I know he is stressed, but as a 32 year old man, I just feel like he should be more respectful of me. He said that he doesn’t want to be in any relationship ever and that he just wants to be alone. He always tells me he always resorts to breaking up with me because I leave him no choice when I am trying to talk to him and wonβt stop asking the same questions. Keep in mind I NEVER yell – only talk. He can’t stand it.
admin
November 20, 2014 at 2:49 pm
Hmm… Have you tried communicating to him in a calm and nonthreatening manner? Just sitting down, taking his hand and speaking very softly.
I know you don’t yell but the two of you always end up fighting so something needs to chang ehere.
Sarah
November 3, 2014 at 6:31 pm
Hi Chris,
My boyfriend and I were only together for two weeks before he broke it off. I think it was a rash decision and don’t fully understand what happened. Over the past few months, we talked on and off with one another. Then we decided to give it a shot. We met eachothers parents, texted daily, and walked eachother to and from class (we are only in highschool). He was very busy those two weeks and had very little time to do anything together since he was preparing to compete in a State Championship. So I didn’t ask him if he wanted to hang out or do anything. (Our only date was meeting eachothers parents). Right before he left for State, I gave him a small gift, which I’m pretty sure he didn’t like. Up until then we seemed to be doing great as a couple. Then the day of State, he didn’t do as well as he wanted. He said he needed time to think and I didn’t hear from him for 3 days. Then the next time I saw him he broke up saying he wasn’t feeling like we had a good relationship connection but he still wanted to be friends. I did not act upset at all when we broke up and kind of felt it coming, but truly I was upset.
Should I give up on the situation or try to get him back? I thought we had a connection but maybe not.
Also, for the No Contact, I see him at least two-times a week because we were involved in afterschool activities together. Last week when I saw him, I just said hi and talked casually with him, but don’t know if this correct. How should I handle the No Contact if I continually run into him?
Thanks
admin
November 20, 2014 at 2:46 pm
He seems very young.. and immature. Did he seem serious when the two of you first dated?
Sarah
November 29, 2014 at 1:54 am
Yes, he seemed serious at first. He made an effort to actively talk to me on a daily basis, and see me whenever he could. In the beginning he seemed like he was interested in making it work, but the few days before he went to State he seemed preoccupied and distant. I had assumed it was because he was stressing out and nervous, but now, I’m not so sure. Do you think there’s any hope in trying to get him back?
Lisaaa
November 2, 2014 at 3:57 am
Hiiii…Me and my ex boyfriend broke up two months ago. We broke up because he wasn’t trying and we barely hung out. I did the 30 day no contact and then texted him to see how he was doing, after a few weeks I texted him again. Two days after he texted me very flirty and very happy. Two days after that we talked about things and he says he wants to stay friends. What should I do?
Lisa
Kelly
October 31, 2014 at 2:19 am
I am dating a separated man for 5 months. We keep breaking up everytime we have a small fight. We break up and then he texts me that he misses me. The last fight was a little different. He told me we keep trying and it doesn’t work. He doesn’t want to be in a relationship. He wants to be alone. I text him that I miss him after a week and he says he misses me but we need to move on. I talked to him on the phone and asked if I can come over and he tells me bring wine. I get there and I address what happened and he says he doesn’t want drama. It was a discussion. I asked him to cuddle with me and of course things happened. Then after, he said we shouldn’t have done that. He said its awkward and basically asked him if he wants me to leave amd I did. I texted him I missed andhe said we will talk soon. I haven’t texted or called since and do not plan to. Do u think he will call or is it over for good?
admin
November 3, 2014 at 4:05 pm
He is seperated from his wife but not fully divorced?
Hayley
October 30, 2014 at 7:44 pm
My boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half. We had such a strong love, but in the last months it was awful. We fought a lot, and screamed at each other.
To hold him back the last month I told a big lie. I had the posibility of having cancer, but I was waiting for the results, so I told him I had 70% possibilities of having cancer. So it was like I confirmed it. I was so sorry, but didn’t told him. Because I needed help and get my mind right before telling him.
We broke up, we reached a limit.
We saw each other,and talked for a bit and it was nice.
But, at an event I saw him, I wanted to say sorry for all the fights,but he trated me so bad because he said “I don’t believe you have cancer”, we were oth drunk so I don’t even remember what I said to him, but things turned out really bad. He said how much he hated me, and was so hurt.
I saved him from drugs, and because of me he wanted to study and follow his dreams, and now it’s all so sad.
I’ve got help, I told my psychologist my problem and decided to start resolving that right away, it doesn’t matter how much time it takes.
I sent him a long text via Facebook apologizing, and saying he was a dick for the way he treated me, and stuff. I wished him well, and blocked him after.
I want to get better now. I hope he understands that the possibility of having cancer was big, but I confirmed it when it was not.
I know he hates me now, but I hope times heals this a little bit.
Maybe in a year could I ask him how he is doing?
I’m so sorry, but I needed this to get help for real.
admin
November 3, 2014 at 3:26 pm
Definitely give him some time before you reach out. A time in NC.
Kosy
October 30, 2014 at 1:51 pm
In need of help.Hi..so m been posting here about my relationship.a week ago my ex told me he slept with his ex but then he said he had no feelings.after he said we should take things slow nd not rush it.jux two days ago I got a txt from him saying he had gone back to his ex that something happened nd I don’t get it.he doesn’t want to tell me anything.all he said was something happened.i know I messed up in the begging by cheating 4minths ago but he forgave me nd we started working on I still really do love him but I don’t know what to do now.he used to say distance can’t make him date me cuz we in a distant relationship but m thinking that’s not the case now.i tried ur idea of making him trust me nd giving him time but this is what he is doing.replacing me.i need to know what to do because m inlove with him nd I feel he is my soulmate.havent been myself sinc
Kosy
November 27, 2014 at 11:06 pm
Been waiting for an advice but none wince
Sonja Flack
October 29, 2014 at 11:27 pm
Hey , I was curious if this would work for me. My boyfriend broke up with me after we were together for a little over 8 years. He said he was unhappily with a lot of things going on in his life ( work, me, friends, family, himself) . I admitt the broke up was bad and I made a lot of bad mistake, once he said ” this isn’t working , I want to break up” . He seemed at first that he was sure that’s it over ( when only a few weeks before that we were talking about marriage and kids and our future) . Week later we texted and he got upset because I was talking about rekindling with time and space ( he saying things like it would not work, that a pipe dream ext.) But we live together and he came over the next day to talk about our apartment and pets , but he didn’t talk much about that we talk about everything day things and he even said ” maybe we could rekindle our relationship , maybe not I’m unsure” that gave me so much hope. I texted him about 3 days later to see if he want to come over and he said no , it seemed some thing was wrong so I made the mistake of pushing to express what was wrong ( mutual friends had posted a pictures of all of us from three year ago and everyone was commenting on having a reunion with everyone and this made him sad and upest , because he wanted the reunion but was unsure about us abd didn’t know if the reunion will ever happen) he got upset and told me that we both need to come to grips with the fact me may never be a couple again and as he got more upset he said things like I have no interest in being you boyfriend and I don’t love you. I tried to call and he refused to answer his phone. Week and a half after I texted, to see how he was and started to get things done with moving out if our apartment , conversation well at first he said he would think of coming over and maybe going out and doing something. Then we start taking about the relationship stuff again he got upset and this time mean , saying it friends or nothing , and it not ment to be and to f-off and alot a personal blow about me personality and work situation. He said he would still come over but it was only going to be business meeting ( about the apartment and all our crap and what we are doing about it and we real have no reason to talk after all this stuff is done, and he block my number so I could not call his phone)
Well he came over the next day and we talked about the apartment and pets for about 30 mins , he then told me he cried at work when talking to a co-worker about her divorce , he said he don’t mean to be mean he just gets so pissed. I told him that to me it seems that the only thing from the many things that he told me was making him unhappy , I was the only thing he was giving up on. (he put his head in his hands and looked sad ) he said he thinks we both need time ( I didn’t ask but I was wondering time for what to get over each other ? Or time to grow individually before us could be again ? Time to be friends or more?)then he agreed to go out , we had a few drinks , talked (sports, family , friends, work) we had a great time smiling laughing. Before he left I apologized for pushing relationships conversation it’s just I miss him a lot. He gave me like 3 long tight hugs. I’ve seen him a few times after that as we continue to work out apartment/ all our stuff details. Well each time we meet in person it seem wonderful, we talk about past times together, work, friends and smile a lot. And no matter what he always wants a hug before he leaves or i leave.
I guess my question is should I do the NC rule ? Can I even do the above advice or is it too late? It hard when he going to have to be around a lot to pack up our life we built over 8 years. Can I ever get out of just being a friend in the furture ? Maybe with the “time” he is talking about. It feels so good to hangout with him , but should I be doing that if I don’t want to be stuck in the friend zone ? ADVICE?? for my situation?
admin
October 30, 2014 at 6:32 pm
I definitely think this strategy can work for you!
Sonja Flack
October 30, 2014 at 8:42 pm
Should i tell him i can’t be friends with him? I been thinking i should…… how should i do that? it’s really hard after i seen him :-(. How will i do the NC when he going to need to see me a lot over the next month.
admin
November 3, 2014 at 3:35 pm
I wouldn’t tell him you couldn’t be friends. I would just do it without a conversation. I guess you are going to have to do limited contact.
L
October 29, 2014 at 3:34 am
Is it okay to start off with a “showing your support” text if you know something important for them is coming up?
admin
October 29, 2014 at 3:53 pm
I would say its not perfect to start out with it but its ok to do if you feel its right in your circumstance.
elizabeth
October 27, 2014 at 8:02 pm
Would you be able to post a timeline laying out a very specific? Text this then and then this and then this. I am struggling with when to do what in addition to the what π
admin
October 28, 2014 at 4:28 pm
I might actually work on one for you!
Elizabeth
October 28, 2014 at 7:33 pm
Thank you. I think that would very helpful π
Betty
October 27, 2014 at 3:59 pm
Hello,
My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago. A month up until the break up, we were arguing a lot. The issue was that he was really busy with work, and other responsibilities, to the point where he couldn’t see me. Instead of being the understanding girlfriend, I got mad, took it personally, and argued with him about it, accusing him of not caring about me or this relationship, not wanting to give the time. I got insecure. I felt like he wasn’t acting as affectionate as he had before, he was disconnected, and the more I would feel that way, the more he would disconnect. We were together 8 months. He ended up breaking up with me saying that he didn’t need the stress, he didn’t have the time, he didn’t need me getting pissed at him all the time, I was a negative influence on his life vs. a positive one. I was broken and devestated, I just lost my best friend because I couldn’t be patient and respect his time. I realize now that I am taking time for myself the mistakes I made in the relationship, and kind of where things went wrong in general. I tried to beg him to get back, and he said to just drop it, this was his decision. I realize how silly I was being the entire month of accusing him, and I wish that there was a way to convince him what I realize. I just want him back in my life. I tried to contact him yesterday, and he answered, although he was short in it. I have no idea how he feels about the breakup, I miss him terribly and I’m overall just frustrated. I’ve been trying to go out and do stuff for myself, see my familym,ore, school, friends, and even working out. He said at the end of the relationship that we could talk just give it time. Just need some imput.
admin
October 28, 2014 at 4:21 pm
I would say just jump right into the no contact rule!
BETTY
October 28, 2014 at 5:11 pm
Yeah, I agree. I broke the no contact rule and asked how he was doing. He did answer, but he was very short. My friends said that all he needs is time. He is still very stressed out with things. He just seems very cold. I just feel incredible guilty, and I can’t get over feeling like the bad guy
Constanza
October 26, 2014 at 4:38 pm
My boyfriend and I broke up after 2 years, the last months we were fighting a lot. So I tried to hold him back for a month and then all enden terribly.
I saw him four days later,at a party,hegave me a hug and accepted to help me with a project.
I saw him yesterday at a party after three weeks of no contact, we were both drunk, but he started screaming at me how much he hated me and some girl friends of him were saying “liar” to me ,because one of them was my friend too and I didnt tell them that I had the possibility of having cancer, then I got the results and I didn’t have it. But she told him that I was a liar and he didin’t want to hear me, he pushed me,threw me to the ground, and he walked away.
I called him several times, and talked him,so he blocked me. I decided finally to go home, but today I wrote him something about our relationship and that i’m so sorry for that and why he hates me. I blocked him after that.
I know it’s over, but I really, really love him, he always loved me the most, and I pushed him away several times and now I’m so so sad.
BETTY
October 28, 2014 at 3:20 am
Do you really want to be with somebody who physically hurts you ?
admin
October 28, 2014 at 4:32 pm
Agreed… I don’t think you should.
Lynn
October 26, 2014 at 3:36 am
Hi Chris,
After 7 weeks of NC, I FB messaged him to congratulate him on an accomplishment and told him I was really proud of him. He responded with ” thank you babe” and I left it at that. Later on that day he text me with the same thing. I waited a few hours and responded with ” you’re welcome”. I was surprised that he responded twice calling me babe. This all happened yesterday and I haven’t heard anything since my reply. I’m not sure where to go from here.