The Definitive Guide For Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back

8,583 thoughts on “The Complete Guide For Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back”

kris

December 1, 2013 at 11:28 pm

So yesterday I purchase your book. My bf of 13 years (on/off)broke up with me 6 weeks ago and I decided I needed to get a grip on this. We are currently in different states… called his mom to say hi…he got engaged wednesday night to a girl he’s known for a month…now what

admin

December 2, 2013 at 6:48 pm

13 years WOW that is a long time haha…

I would be shocked if their engagement lasts…
kris

December 3, 2013 at 3:55 am

LOL!! everyone says the same thing… it doesnt make it any easier. It hard to believe that within one month he’s engaged to someone else. Just two months ago he wanted to marry me.
I’ve read your book and it makes sense…

what’s the next step
admin

December 3, 2013 at 7:50 pm

Yea that marriage stuff is tough b/c you looked him in the eye and beleived him.
kris

December 3, 2013 at 11:43 pm

whats the best way to go about things…im truly at a loss
admin

December 5, 2013 at 12:56 am

Well, just stick to the plan I guess.. and learn to adapt to what is thrown at you.
kris

December 1, 2013 at 11:37 pm

And may I add I am crushed
admin

December 2, 2013 at 6:52 pm

You may add that and just know that I am here to help you!

karen

December 1, 2013 at 10:42 pm

we broke up after a year. bc we work together and go to school together i saw him everyday and literally begged for him for the whole month after the break up until he said i was crazy. even during the whole month he said he would still be my friend but i realized what i was doing and started ignoring his existence trying to do the no contact thing even tho im supposed to be doing the limited contact. bc i did this he start flirting with other girls completely ignoring my existence making me feel absolutely worthless especially when i saw him flirting with the girl i hate the msot. after thanksgiving i tried making small talk bc u said that if im in a situation where i have to do limited contact i should act happy and stuff instead of ignoring him like mad. its been 2 weeks and i think hes so happy with this newfound freedom being single. im just scared he hates me now especially with him flirting with that girl i hate the most, she was also someone he said he disliked very much when we were together even though he admitted many times she was very pretty.i want to show that im having fun without him and stuff by using social media like instagram and stuff but i dont have many friends to hang out with and when i do go out its usually by myself. him on the other hand is posting pics of him having fun all the time. im scared that me acting like a complete psycho begging for him back the month after our break up ruined things. should i continue and finish the next 2 weeks of limited contact by doing small talk and friendly or finish it by ignoring him completely like how he does to me? like im the one who has to say hi or he wont..
Eddy

December 1, 2013 at 10:14 pm

Hello, you have a wonderful site. Its full of useful knowledge.

I broke up with my girlfriend 5 months ago because of stress and family issues. She became arguementive towrda the end of our relationship and thought she wanted to get rid of me but she didn’t want to let me down. I broke it off in August and me and her spoke regurly for awhile and she came over and slept over. In October I wanted to see her and she says its best if we didn’t. I waited a month and made contact. She sounded like she hated me. I sent her flowers and she tells me that she is with a new guy now. She was talking to him since we broke up but wasn’t sleeping with him til after we slept together the last time in September. After the flowers we began to communicate, made plans to meet up but she stood me up.

We continued to communicate and eventually got her to call me and talk over the phone then we meet up last week for the first time since September. She began to give me the cold shoulder and last week tells me she felt so bad for seeing me that when she saw her new BF they had unprotected sex. I told her I will give her space since having me around is pushing her closer to her new guy and further from me. This past week she sends me some emais let’s me know that she pushes me away but she is also the one who enjoys having me around.

I don’t know what to do. I really have changed my life and am learning to let go of my anger and fix my stress. I see a future with her and she likes the thought of a future with me but wants me to stick around while she takes this one day at a time. I told her I want to stick around but it hurts me when I tell her how I feel and then she runs to her BF to make her feel better because she feels bad about talking and seeing me.

I sent her emails and she doesn’t reply. What can I do?

admin

December 2, 2013 at 6:46 pm

Have you been doing any form of a no contact rule on her?
Gonzo

December 3, 2013 at 2:10 pm

In the begin of the break up I did. Should I try again?
admin

December 3, 2013 at 8:04 pm

I think you should.
Gonzo

December 6, 2013 at 6:55 pm

Now she calls me (from a private number) every other day. I have no way to keep contact with her only email and that’s whenever she decides to check her email. She is dating another guy but came over to my place and we kissed for a while. She is confused (her words) on what to do. She has this guy that she likes but wants to see where me and her go from here. I hate the thought of losing her and thinking about her and this other guy hurts me inside. I gave her the key to my place but the other guy also did the same. I don’t know where to go from here. Any advice is greatly appreciated
Gonzo

December 1, 2013 at 10:15 pm

I put my full name accidentally. Can I change that?
admin

December 2, 2013 at 6:45 pm

I fixed it.

Rt

December 1, 2013 at 1:15 pm

I have been with my bf for 5 years , initially it was fab , now things r dying out , he avoids spending much time with me , r conversations on phone barely last a minute , keeps saying he loves me but his actions say otherwise

admin

December 1, 2013 at 7:05 pm

Are the two of you broken up?

Kaylah

December 1, 2013 at 5:37 am

So ladies I just have one thing to say.. This really works 😀

I spent a good week reading every post Chris made about how to get your ex back and so the first thing he always tells you to do is NC. So as much as I didn’t want to, I did the NC.

Now my ex broke up with me because he said that he didn’t love me anymore. I never really saw it coming until after it happened. For about a week after he broke it off I kept calling and texting him like crazy. I then ended up getting into an argument with him and he called me a crazy bitch (this part comes in later). So after that argument I decided to start the NC.

Throughout NC I found myself and I also started talking to people and making new friends. I also met this guy named John. I started going on dates with him and we would have conversations that would last for days at a time, the only time they stopped we had to go to bed. 🙂 We became fast friends and then after a while we started dating. And before I knew it my 30 days were over and I hadn’t thought about my ex in weeks.

About a week after NC was over my ex texts me, “Happy Thanksgiving. :D” I didn’t even want him back after the 30 days. I realized that I wasn’t bad for him he was bad for me. He was very controlling and would get angry easily. So when he texted me I told him that when I said I was done with him I ment it and to leave me alone from now on. Through out the next hour e wouldn’t stop texting me things like “I messed up.” “I want you back” “I do love you” “I’m sorry” and all that jazz.

I haven’t messaged him back sense and I don’t plan to. He’s crawling back to me and I don’t even want him. What I’m saying is all this works.. Even if you don’t want your ex back.. I thought that I did. This helps you get over your ex and find yourself again. I became the “ungettable girl” I was before.

Listen to Chris.. This stuff works!!! No matter if you’re looking to get back with your ex or get over him. It really works ladies, take it from a girl that has gone through it 😀

admin

December 1, 2013 at 6:45 pm

Thank you Kaylah,

The most inspiring comment I have read today. I have to say that I am so glad that things are going well for you.

Best of wishes!
Kaylah

December 1, 2013 at 5:46 am

With the whole “crazy bitch” part he said that was why he broke up with me besides that whole part about him not loving me. So when he texted me trying to get me back I brought up the fact that he said I was a crazy bitch and he denied it ever happening. Than told me that he lied and really didn’t mean it and that he was just angry..

ReallyConfused

November 30, 2013 at 11:40 pm

Hi Chris,

I’m really unsure about what step to take right now. My ex and I have just got out a 4 yr relationship a week ago and we had a rough start to talking to each other again (this was before I found your article). Just a few days ago, we established a friends with benefits relationship, but I still really care about him. He says he likes me and cares too, but he just can’t be in a relationship with my right now because he needs to focus on his academics and such. He wants me to focus on improving myself too. He didn’t say for sure that we would get back together later; all he said was maybe. He would like to give the relationship another try though. So far, we’ve been going out together and still holding hands and such. I asked him if we shouldn’t, but he told me to just enjoy the moment that we’re having. I’m still hurt from the break up. I don’t know what to do. If I start the No Contact, wouldn’t it be weird because we started talking again already? What should I do? Please help!

admin

December 1, 2013 at 6:28 pm

Sometimes doing the “weird” thing is the right thing. But I obviously am a fan of trusting your gut so you may just want to go by your gut and see what you feel is best.
ReallyConfused

December 5, 2013 at 5:07 am

He has finals next week and is busy with that, so I’m feeling really bummed that there’s no time to hang out with me right now. I also just let him go study even though I asked him if we could hang out tonight. He thanked me, but I still feel disappointed. Did I do the right thing? If yes, why do I feel so crappy about it?

I’m thinking of starting NC, but I’m afraid that he won’t think about me at all nor text nor call me because of finals. It just worries me. And I really want to get him back. Recently, whenever I asked if he liked or cared about me still, he responded with an “I don’t know” or “I haven’t had time to think about this”. He basically told me he’s putting this in the back burner. With his schedule right now, it’s difficult to even meet up. How do I even know if he still thinks about me?
admin

December 5, 2013 at 6:48 pm

Just take it on faith. HE THINKS ABOUT YOU.
ReallyConfused

December 5, 2013 at 9:51 pm

He sent me a text at 4am saying “Miss you.” Should I take anything from this? I’m just afraid that he’s just saying that to string me along… I’m thinking of all the negatives here ): What should I think about this? I haven’t replied to him and am not planning to.
admin

December 6, 2013 at 7:33 pm

Yes, he misses you hahaha.
ReallyConfused

December 7, 2013 at 12:41 am

I wasn’t able to complete NC. I caved in and texted him, but not about the relationship. He says he doesn’t want to talk about it anymore… We have plans to go hang out next Sunday in a Christmasy environment. I don’t know how to act when I see him. Any advice? And I am worried that he would not want to start a new relationship with me again. I’m constantly worrying about that because it’s just so uncertain! He hasn’t said anything about getting back together so far… I just don’t know what to do or how to find out from him if he still wants to give it another shot. Help please ):
admin

December 7, 2013 at 7:46 pm

I wish you had stayed strong haha.

What do you need my help on?
ReallyConfused

December 8, 2013 at 6:20 am

Well, should I consider it a date?

He’s studying for finals so he’s ignoring my texts and calls most of the time, but he has time whenever he takes a break, however he doesn’t reply? It’s making me feel insignificant compared to the people he has around him.

I get jealous whenever he hangs out with others because I’m scared that he’ll develop feelings for someone else. Any advice on this? Should I be jealous?
ReallyConfused

December 5, 2013 at 5:08 am

He actually even told me to put it in the back burner and to focus on the important things right now that I need to get done, but it’s just so hard to concentrate when he’s all I can think about now…

Becca

November 30, 2013 at 9:27 pm

I was in a relationship with a guy I met online for a few months over the summer. He had a summer job in the city where I live, but had to move back to another state at the end of the summer to finish grad school. Even though it was short, I really felt a connection with him, and I could tell he felt that with me too. I put absolutely no pressure on him this entire time– I didn’t harass him with daily calls, I didn’t spy on him or get mad if he didn’t call me his girlfriend or whatever. I was very easygoing and let him come to me on his own terms. I think that was what made the relationship work well. He is the type of person who needs a lot of space in relationships because he’s a very busy guy and values his independence. I totally get that. I could also tell that he really valued me and our time together based on the way he looked at me, the way he treated me, etc. No guy has ever treated me the way he did and that was very special to me. At the end of the summer, he told me that we couldn’t do long-distance because he would be too busy during the school year to remain in a relationship with me. He said that it wouldn’t be fair for me to be in a half-assed relationship, and I deserved better, and he hoped that I would find a guy soon who would treat me the way I deserve to be treated. He also promised that he would remain friends with me and would call me every two weeks. We’re actually from the same hometown, so we would be able to see each other on the holidays when we visited our families. For the first few days after the breakup (after he moved back to grad school), he called and texted me to check how I was doing. My grandma had actually passed away the week he moved, so he wanted to make sure I was ok. He called maybe two or three times within a month of him moving and we had very pleasant conversations.
Then the phone calls stopped. Fortunately, that was when I stumbled across your page and decided to put in effect the NCR 🙂 I went exactly two months without initiating contact with him or hearing from him. I got more and more anxious as time passed because he had promised he would call every two weeks so that we could maintain our friendship and he wasn’t following through with that promise. I knew I shouldn’t be angry with him because I shouldn’t expect him to do anything, especially since we were not in a relationship anymore. And plus, he needed to take care of himself and if that meant focusing his attention on his direct environment (school, friends, etc.) then so be it. For some reason, not hearing from him after 2 months of NC drove me NUTS.
This past weekend, we were both home for the holiday and I texted him saying that I would have spare time here and there and would love to hang out if he was free. He responded positively, and we ended up meeting for an hour. I maintained my composure, wasn’t over-emotional, did everything you said to do. The conversation flowed nicely, we joked around and laughed a lot, caught up on each others lives, etc. But for some reason, it seemed like he was very awkward and fidgety. There would be moments when we held eye contact, then there would be moments when he looked away quickly as soon as our eyes met. There were also a few awkward silences when he would stare at me and smile and I would get nervous and look down at my fountain soda and start biting the straw and making weird noises with it. I know, not my classiest move.
I’m just so confused right now though. I can’t tell if his awkwardness meant that he didn’t enjoy my company and that he was only there just to be nice but he didn’t really want anything to do with me anymore. I wouldn’t know why that would be the case, but that would explain him not calling me for two months. I keep hanging on to hope that after he graduates he would find his way back to me and we can be together in the same city. But that all depends on where he gets a job, and he has mentioned the possibility of taking a full-time job at the place he worked over the summer (when we first met). How should I proceed? Any feedback is appreciated! 🙂

admin

December 1, 2013 at 6:22 pm

Well, have you done anything to reattract him yet?

Rachel

November 30, 2013 at 7:21 pm

Hey what a great article! I know you are one busy guy sorting out us women!
Basically I’ve been an arsewhole, long story short.. We were going to buy a house… Then I’ve been a silly emotional girl said a stupid comment and now the guy that I thought was for me is angry and had enough of me being emotional. I’m trying to set up a business and haven’t got an income and basically totally insecure!
However I know that I now have to get a job to feel secure. I’ve had NC just for today and stumbled across this amazing information. I’ve arranged to see him on Monday to have a proper chat. He is moving due to work this month. He says he still loves me, but I just got emotional( which has been building up for a while) I know I need to be positive and 48 hours I’m feeling heaps better and I need clear objectives and actually this is all about me feeling secure.
I just want to know what to do to get this man I love to see there is a way forward and I know it all needs to be positive when I speak to him. I’m totally prepared to make that move with him not straight away of course but I need to know if the NC applies to me after that meeting whether it’s positive or negative in what he says. If negative I’m totally doing the no 30 day thing just for me! I love the fact this is on here and you’ve totally empowered me. I just need to be the girl he fell in love with

admin

December 1, 2013 at 6:10 pm

Hey!

I actually think the smartest thing for you is to read some of the other guides I have written for this site. They can be extremely helpful!

Umm.. honestly I think you need to have that meeting with him and readjust from there.
Rachel

December 2, 2013 at 5:37 pm

So I’m waiting now…. I didn’t txt him all weekend then 8:30 this morning he texts me saying that he didn’t know what time he would finish work…
I said its cool and suggested a place that is neutral. He then asked if it was to get something to eat.
I said that was up to him, but a drink at least would be nice. He said he would say what time he would get away and that if he couldn’t make it tonight he would let me know…

It now 5:30 and I still haven’t heard….. I know right now I sound like some crazy lady, but I feel so anxious.
I’m sure he will let me know as he is pretty honourable like that and has never messed me around. If he doesn’t let me know… What do you think I should do? Go straight into NC?

I just want this conversation that’s all. I’ve had my hair cut done my nails, been running etc. ill let you know how it goes….
admin

December 3, 2013 at 7:14 pm

Definitely keep me updated.
Rachel

December 2, 2013 at 7:05 pm

Ok so we didn’t meet up and he’s doing that standard boy thing of asking when I’m free but then not actually giving me a specific day so that’s it….

However I would like your advice… If he gives a specific time and date do I go? Or do I begin the NC? Anyway.
admin

December 3, 2013 at 7:18 pm

I would begin the no contact.

Martine

November 30, 2013 at 4:45 pm

So i hope youre ready for this!
I was in a relationship with a guy, we bought a house, got engaged, planned and booked out wedding and it never happened! The main trigger to our breakup was constant fighting about money and it just caused so much stress… We broke up about a year ago. This has been very hard on me. I went on a few dates and met an other guy. We dated for about 4 months and got pregnant. He left when i told him i was pregnant ( that was 4 months ago. I am now 5 months pregnant. At first i kept dreaming about my ex fiancé and thought it was just the hormones that was making me miss him but its still like this every day and everything reminds me of him. I weve talked a bit since out breakup but it was mostly about financial since we owned a house together. I recently messaged him on FB it was short and sweet ” youve been on my mind lately, hope all is well” his reply : ” im doing well hope you are good too!” Then that was pretty much it!
What can i do now? Yes i want him back but i dont expect it to happen right away! After all i am pregnant with the other guy … Please give me advice
Marcy

November 30, 2013 at 3:16 pm

I think I have a very different situation. I met a fantastic guy three years ago; we were just friends; fooled around just one night when we were drinking but he wasn’t interested. I was. We became very good friends, spoke every day, went to concerts, theme parks, dinners etc…helped each other on work projects etc…I liked him more and more. He did know this but we had the talk and he was not interested. He is launching a new business (in the arts) and stayed here for five months rent-free. We supported each other through everything. He moved in with friends and got a gorgeous girlfriend that within a month was “the one” (met the parents etc…) and the past two months barely responds to emails and texts and does not call. I finally told him I felt blown off and he said he has no time except for his gf and new business. He’s really cold to me now. I feel like I’m lost my best friend. My question is a) how can I get him to miss me and b) any chance of him missing me and wanting something romantic? It’s like night and day and I can’t believe he is treating me like this after all I have done.
Crislyn

November 30, 2013 at 10:35 am

How can i start that ”no contact rule” if my ex-boyfriend and i we’re together everyday since we are workmates?
Hoping for your response because i dont know how to start. Thanks.

admin

November 30, 2013 at 7:14 pm

Good question. Looks like in that case you are going to have to do a limited contact method.

nr

November 30, 2013 at 1:53 am

Hey Chris

So my bf of 2 1/2 years broke up with me 2 1/2 months ago and every two weeks we have been in some sort of contact and now I am trying the no contact rule and I am on day 16 and he has not contact me except for liking some things on facebook. Should I be Worried about him not reaching out and is it to late for the no contact rule to work?

admin

November 30, 2013 at 5:00 am

No you can still try NC.
nr

November 30, 2013 at 11:25 pm

Should I be worried he has tried to contact me yet…especially with Thanksgiving was Thursday
admin

December 1, 2013 at 6:22 pm

No some guys are stubborn. You might want to read the male mind during NC article it will help with that a lot.
nr

November 30, 2013 at 11:26 pm

I mean not have tried to contact me sorry….I forget the not lol

Rj

November 29, 2013 at 7:44 pm

Hi. My bf of over a year broke up with me 2 weeks ago. We never fought, always had fun together. We were best friends. He would brag to everyone that I was the best girlfriend and thy he loved my 10 year old daughter. For a few weeks before the break up, I noticed something was bothering him. He’s not one to pour his emotions out so I let him go. Then, one morning, in bed, asked me if I ever wondered why he’s not interested in sex and didn’t respond to my “I love you’s”? He said that I gave 100% into the relationship but he knew he wasn’t doing his part. He said he loves me but he’s not in love with me. I think he may be scared because he had a fiancé leave him and I’m his first long term relationship since then. His brother is also going through a divorce. Is he just scared? I’m so confused. I just want him back!

admin

November 30, 2013 at 4:49 am

He is probably scared but there is a lot of other stuff going on as well. Have you tried NC yet?
Rj

November 30, 2013 at 3:19 pm

I’m in the process.

Melitza

November 29, 2013 at 4:03 pm

Hi Chris,

My boyfriend and first love of nearly 5 years left me a week ago and I haven’t got a straight answer out of him to why he left me. He did the whole ‘it’s not you, it’s me’ thing. He said it was because he didn’t feel the same anymore but only felt like it for the past couple of weeks. We were suppose to move in together after Christmas, so i’m wondering if he maybe got cold feet. He say’s he still wants us to be friends and he still cares about me but i’m so confused as to what he’s thinking, he says he doesn’t know what he wants. I have taken your advice and started the NC hoping that space will give him time to think.
What’s your opinion on his actions? Do you think it should just accept the friendship and work from there? I will continue to follow your steps, thank you for your advice 🙂

Melitza

admin

November 30, 2013 at 4:41 am

NC I would give a shot first but otherwise just follow the plan above or grab the E-Book for more in-depth instructions.

Ruby

November 29, 2013 at 8:12 am

Hey Chris. Great article, it made a lot of sense and I am definitely going to try it. Just wondering….my ex and I haven’t contacted each other for almost three weeks. Do I have to start the NC period now or can I count the time its been since last we spoke?

admin

November 30, 2013 at 4:27 am

You can count the time before as long as you haven’t had any contact.

Joy

November 29, 2013 at 7:39 am

Hi Chris, I wrote here before, somewhere very very much below.

I had two casual meet-ups with him (no coffee, no tea :P), and we are in speaking terms. I started NC again since the last time we met, and it is now a month and I heard nothing from him. Should I start talking again or should I wait for him to make the move? Thanks 🙂

admin

November 30, 2013 at 4:23 am

Hahahah yes… there are a lot of comments..

Wait for him to make the move but if you think he wont then you do it.
Joy

November 30, 2013 at 5:06 am

Is one month without him making the move normal? I am afraid i’d be put into the friendzone or something like that.
admin

November 30, 2013 at 6:52 pm

It can be normal. It really depends on the guy tbh.
Joy

December 1, 2013 at 4:45 am

Okay, thanks Chris. I will just let him make the move or wait till i bump into him somewhere for now 🙂

Lr

November 28, 2013 at 11:20 pm

Me and my ex went out to see each other after NC. During the date we asked each other many things, we talked about little things in the past and he asked me if i want us back. I told him I’m still thinking about it eventhough I really wanna tell him I want to. I asked him the same question and he told me he wants to enjoy for now. He thinks i want to move on. He’s flirting with me and wants to kiss me but I playfully refuse. Before we went home I finally let him kiss me. i’m just really confused of what he’s really thinking. What do u think? Am i doing the right thing to get him back?
Jenn

November 28, 2013 at 8:04 pm

We’ve been broken up one month. I tried texting him the other day and he blocked me. Blocked me from texts, calls and emails. This was my only attempt in the past month to make contact. I don’t know how long I’ve been blocked or why? Now what?

admin

November 29, 2013 at 2:05 am

Have you tried the NC yet?
Jenn

November 29, 2013 at 11:41 pm

Yes

Anais

November 28, 2013 at 3:23 pm

Hi Chirs, I love your article. I won’t bother you too much with details regarding my breakup. Like all couples we had our ups and downs, we ended our 9-month long distance relationship almost 3 months ago for a stupid reason through FB messages. I did the NC for a month, and he did it to. Month after he contacted me. Actually he send me a present bought on his last trip for me, but I was to hurt and stubborn to ease up. I send him back his present and blow up my chance for reconciliation. Realizing that, I started being emotional, I send him couple of pathetic messages. He answered ten days after, shortly with promise that he will visit me soon. That was month ago. During that period I did again no contact with him, I waited for his arrival. But he never showed up. Once he contacted me asking if I am by any chance in a town nearby mine, he was passing through and wanted to check up if I was there, realizing that I was not he said he’ll be back soon. Again, I waited. In order to attract his attention during that period I posted couple of my pictures on FB. I acted happily on them, alone or with my friends, looked like I was having fun, moving on… He liked them all, and that was all from him.
After reading your article, I was encouraged to send him a message. Message was polite, short; I followed your advice given in this article. But he did not answer. That was three days ago. I understand that he is moving on; maybe he is not interested in me anymore. But his promise of coming soon and those „likes“ confused me and led me to believe that he still does have interest form me, and then your article… How long do I have to wait for his answer? When is the right time to send him next message, and what to write?

admin

November 29, 2013 at 1:56 am

Wait a few days. If not then wait a week and send another message.

Antonia Noel-Buxton

November 28, 2013 at 3:19 pm

Hi again Chris,
I have now seen my ex and it was very confusing! We spent the night catching up and having a heart to heart about everything! During this he was stroking my hands, holding them and making excuses to rub them I.e your hands are cold! He also said how he had forgotten how beautiful my eyes were! Then at the end of the night he kissed me firmly on the cheek then firmly on the lips. The second night he was more distant but still flirted and again kissed me on the lips I asked why if he wasn’t interested was he kissing me goodbye and he said incase I don’t see you again but he’d already done it the previous night when he knew he was going to see me? We then text later on after this and he said I am sorry if you thought something was going to happen but we are too far apart geographically right now and I have no time for a girlfriend (he is looking after his sick nan) , am I right in thinking he still cares based on these signs?
Thanks
Antonia

admin

November 29, 2013 at 1:54 am

Have you read my long distance relationship guide?
Antonia Noel-Buxton

December 1, 2013 at 12:35 am

Hi,
No I haven’t as yet as I am moving closer anyway soon, and it seems he doesn’t want to be with me right now anyway as it’s all too much and he needs space to “clear his head” I have obviously sent too many one sided messages! Should I apply the no contact rule?
admin

December 1, 2013 at 6:27 pm

Absolutely you should.
Antonia Noel-Buxton

December 1, 2013 at 7:22 pm

I’m also going to go off Facebook for a month as well , be honest have I ruined my chances for should the no contact rule help me to get back on track? That’s again
admin

December 2, 2013 at 6:31 pm

No not entirely but you may want to read my guide on Facebook before anything else.
Antonia Noel-Buxton

December 3, 2013 at 1:02 am

Thanks that guide is really helpful , I never asked can you tell me why he got so close I.e flirting and kissing and then randomly made excuses and backed away? It’s confused me!
admin

December 3, 2013 at 7:42 pm

Maybe he got caught up in the moment and then realized this might complicate things?
Antonia Noel-Buxton

December 3, 2013 at 9:48 pm

So is that a good or bad sign then does that mean he still cares and it’s worth pursuing?
admin

December 5, 2013 at 12:48 am

Its not good and its not bad. I think it is still worth a shot though.

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