1. The Purpose Of The Community
Our core mission is to provide an opportunity for individuals dealing with ex recovery situations to be able to participate in discussions that can provide them with greater understanding and insights into how the Ex Recovery Program can help them. Given that one of the pillars of our Program involves embracing the Holy Trinity (Health, Wealth, Relationships), discussion will also be open to relevant matters involving health/fitness, wealth/career, and relationships/connections.
Our focus is for you to emerge from a break-up as a stronger, healthier, and more informed individual, irrespective of whether your ex comes back or not. In doing this, we endeavor to provide you with helpful resources, information, and services to assist you in navigating through this difficult time. We strive to create a safe, supportive, and inclusive environment for all our members.
2. Be Kind and Courteous
Let’s treat everyone with respect. Be kind and share feedback from a thoughtful place. We would please ask that since this is intended to be a safe environment that you give your fellow Community members the benefit of the doubt when their comments don’t sit well with you.
Please refrain from responding in a defensive way that may derail constructive conversation. Seek first to understand. We are a Community with various perspectives, backgrounds, experiences and wounds (some unhealed), so it is important to be mindful of this while communicating. The common denominator is that we are all here for growth and personal empowerment, but that empowerment should not come at the cost of another person within the larger Community.
Comments and communications that are rude, inflammatory, disrespectful, insulting, abusive, threatening, attacking, consistently negative, intentionally false/misleading or profane are not tolerated.
3. Respect Everyone’s Privacy
Authentic, expressive discussions can make Communities great, but may also be sensitive and private. What’s shared in the Community should stay in the Community. To protect your privacy and the privacy of others, all posts with phone numbers, emails, pictures/names of people, and other personal identifiable information will be subject to removal. If you should elect to post an image/screenshot, please block out faces and all personal information such as names, phone numbers, and location to avoid any potential privacy issue.
Please respect the privacy of all members in the Community. Do not copy, paste or share any content from the Community, outside of it, in any way shape or form. This includes not sharing with outside parties any content such as Community discussions, private messages, pictures, links, posts, screenshots, downloads, documents, recordings, etc.
Do not post personal information about another Community member. This includes identifying any individual by their real name if they have not already done so or providing personal contact information. Do not disclose any personal, sensitive, clinical or confidential information, about yourself or another person.
Please do not reuse or revise any personal information that is shared in the Community and present it as information from someone else.
This Community is not a dating service. Please do not date or seek to date other Members. We have zero tolerance for any form of harassment or creating an uncomfortable, unwelcomed environment.
4. Posting Guidelines
Be a responsible reader and contributor. Before helping others, learn about our Ex Recovery Program and process. Make sure you are responding to the question that’s being asked, if you so choose. Read some of the comments that were made before yours, so you know whether you are reinforcing an existing sentiment or adding new knowledge to the thread.
Do not give advice unless requested by the poster. Avoid sending unsolicited, private messages to other members unless you both have agreed in the public forum to take the conversation offline. Instead, we encourage participants to ask questions, share resources and your own experiences which allow you to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and others.
Avoid posting disturbing comments, language, material or photos. Avoid promoting or discussing illegal activities. Make sure that you are posting about your situation or offering support to others. Avoid topics related to forms of pseudoscience. Please refrain from discussing solutions such as Signs, Twin Flames, Soul Mates, Past Lives, Astrology, Tarot, Psychics, or Law of Attraction (thought concept), etc.
We encourage inspirational and empathetic messages. The more you chime in and help others with constructive advice, the more likely others will be willing to respond to your posts. You are likely to get more attention if your Posts are brief, informed, with proper spacing, and adequate grammar.
Avoid hijacking a discussion. Simply create a new post if you wish to explore issues that pertain to you. Hijacking is defined as taking over another Member’s post by overtaking or shifting focus from the original poster (and their situation) to yourself (your situation).
Refrain from deleting your posts since valuable information may have been shared in the comment section, unless there is a privacy issue which requires that the post be removed.
5. Private Chat (Private Messages)
CF Web Voyager, LLC is not responsible for private messages that are pursued outside of the moderated spaces. The user is responsible for blocking or discontinuing communication with any parties who they may partake in private, unmoderated conversations and which they no longer wish to communicate with.
Further, you are responsible for the information that you choose to share within this setting. Please do not share any information which is not about yourself. Please do not share any content from your private chat with anyone else. Do not reach out to another Community Member via Private Chat unless you are paired with that person as a Battle Buddy, are being coached by that person, or have been given permission by that person to engage in a Private Chat.
6. Your Health and Safety Is Paramount
This Community and the conversations within are voluntary and are not a substitute for psychological assessment, diagnosis, treatment and counseling services. The owners of CF Web Voyager, LLC (Christopher Seiter and Jennifer Seiter) and all associated parties/individuals are not licensed counselors.
If you believe you are experiencing an emergency, contact your local help line or healthcare provider. If you are at risk for suicide, homicide or other harm or injury, please call 911 or seek other help (such as a hospital emergency room or doctor’s care) immediately. Also, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is a United States-based suicide prevention network of over 200+ crisis centers that provides 24/7 service via a toll-free hotline with the number 9-8-8. It is available to anyone in suicidal crisis or emotional distress.
7. Commonly Used Abbreviations
Please familiarize yourself with the following abbreviations and reference the Ex Boyfriend Recovery website and the Ex Recovery Program for details. NC (No Contact) * LNC (Limited No Contact) * LDR (Long Distance Relationship) * Trinity (Health, Wealth, & Relationships) * OW/OM (Other Woman/Other Man) * UG (Ungettable Girl/Ungettable Guy) * BTM (Being There Method) * MOWMO (Moving On Without Moving On).
It’s okay to disagree with other Community Members, but we do not condone shaming others for their views or choices. We encourage respectful dialogue that involves embracing complexity and nuance instead of black and white thinking. Avoid letting discussions deteriorate into personal directed statements, insults, or attacks. Turn off caps lock when writing responses, as this can be misinterpreted as shouting and seen as offensive.
9. No Hate Speech or Bullying
Bullying or being argumentative with others isn’t allowed; and discriminatory, hateful, degrading, and intolerant comments about things like race, culture, appearance, religion, age, sexual preference, gender or identity will not be tolerated.
10. Our Moderators
Please respect our Moderators. It’s their job is to keep the Community safe and constructive so that everybody gets to have their fair say. It is not always an easy job considering these individuals, just like you, have full and busy lives. Our moderators volunteer their time and are knowledgeable about our Ex Recovery Program and are often success stories in their own right. If they are compensated, it is usually a very small amount and does not come close to measuring up to their daily contributions.
Occasionally, you may disagree with a Moderator’s advice or their perceived tone. No one, including our Administrators and Moderators, is perfect. Though these individuals are very dedicated and passionate about helping others. And as we have all come to learn, online communications is far from the ideal way of talking to someone given that tone, lack of facial/body language cues, and the need for brevity inhibits the interpersonal connection.
For those reasons and more, we discourage you from blocking a Moderator if something should unfold that upsets you. Rather take time to seek to resolve the matter. Utilize blocking only as a last resort and after you have consulted with an Administrator.
11. You Must Ask For Permission To Conduct Live Streams
Only the Administrator and/or a Coach are allowed to conduct a Live Stream Session for the Community. You must ask for Permission to conduct a Live Stream Session.
12. No Soliciting, Spam, Promotions, or Advocating Other Communities
There is “zero tolerance” for soliciting or poaching Community Members or website customers and visitors for your benefit or for a 3rd party. This zero tolerance policy also extends to those who express the intent to do so.
In addition, any individual Member who promotes other Groups, Programs, Products, or Services that are in competition with CF Web Voyager, LLC’s products and services without first obtaining the written consent of Chris Seiter is subject to suspension or removal from the Community. This does not include references to books, articles, videos, or other relevant media that are intended to support the Mission Statement of our Community (i.e. embracing The Holy Trinity). Self promotion, spam, or irrelevant links are not tolerated.
We encourage you to contact us if you have been a victim of solicitation, spam, or improper promotions. Our goal is to foster a Community environment where Members are not spammed, solicited, or subjected to promotions by unauthorized outside individuals, internal Members, or other Groups.
13. The Administrator Reserves The Right To Add Whoever They Want To The Community
The Administrator reserves the right to run special promotions to enter this Community. Our goal is always to deliver a quality experience so we tend to be very selective about who we let into the Community.
14. The Administrator Reserves The Right To Remove Members Or Their Posts For Violations
The Administrator reserves the right to remove a post and to temporarily suspend or ban anyone who clearly violates the Community Rules and reserves the right to update and modify these Rules as the needs of the Community dictate so as to ensure smooth and productive discussions within a safe, supportive, and inclusive environment.
15. Self Responsibility
While we hope you receive sound and timely advice, we make no representations or warranties about the completeness, accuracy, reliability, and suitability of the information provided here or the availability of Administrators, Coaches, and Moderators. We cannot guarantee or assure you in any way that our ideas, advice, strategies, and content will help you in your relationship situation. You, and you alone, are solely responsible for the use of the ideas, advice, strategies, and content expressed herein.
16. Release From Liability
CF Web Voyager, LLC (owned and operated by Christopher Seiter and Jennifer Seiter) and all associated parties/individuals, including officers, directors, facilitators, guest speakers, independent contractors (e.g. coaches), and moderators are released from any form of liability that may arise as a consequence of you joining and/or participating in this Community. As with any online Community service, there is some level of risk when communicating information over the Internet and the user (Member) assumes all responsibility for any information that they may enter during their chat and discussion sessions. This Community and its Members, including the Administrators, Coaches, and Moderators are not licensed and trained mental health professionals, medical professionals, financial advisors, health/fitness experts, media consultants, or legal advisors. You agree to assume the risk of accessing and using this service.
17. Adherence To Community Rules
Failure to adhere to these Community Rules may result in a warning, suspension, or depending on the offense, an immediate removal or ban from the Ex Boyfriend Recovery Community. If you see anyone clearly violating our Community Rules, please alert an Administrator or Moderator through a private message. But please note that there can be occasions in which the behavior exhibited could be misconstrued or does not rise to a level of severity to warrant reporting. All private messages will remain confidential. The Moderation team along with the Administrator (as may be needed) will take a look at the reported issue and determine next steps based on our internal processes and the severity of the violation.
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