ExBoyfriend Recovery PRO System
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Ex Recovery Quiz
Will Text Messages Work To Get Your Ex Back?
Step 1 of 4
Part One: Your Texting Skill
"By taking a look at your overall skill with texting I can determine how well my strategies will work for you. Please answer the following to the best of your ability."
1) Have You Ever Utilized Strategies Like “Tide Theory,” “Full Moon Rise” or “The Zeigarnik Effect” before?
2) Are You Good At Being Put On The Spot?
I can think of anything on the spot
I would say that I am usually pretty good
Sometimes I am good and sometimes I’m not
I crumble under pressure…
3) Do You Have A Few Interesting Stories That Your Ex Hasn’t Heard Yet?
4) Are You Good At Storytelling?
I am incredible
I am pretty good
I would say that I am ok
Storytelling isn’t really my thing…
5) Do You Have Access To A Phone That Makes Texting Easy (iPhone, Galaxy, Nexus, Etc.)
6) Does your phone have the ability to send high quality photos or videos?
7) In the past, when you and your ex would text would you say that the texts were one sided? (meaning that you felt you were putting more effort into them?)
I put the most effort into them…
They put the most effort into them…
8) Are one word responses common with your text messages?
9) Right now would you say that your mental well being is heavily reliant on having your ex text you back?
I hang on their every word
I am ok emotionally if they don’t text me back
I feel I handle things perfectly
Part Two: What Have You Tried On Your Ex So Far?
"We teach a very specific way of “texting” here at Ex Boyfriend Recovery. So, by looking at what you have tried on your ex already we will gain greater insight into how much we can help you with your 'text game.'"
10) Have You Successfully Completed The No Contact Rule?
Kind of… I didn’t last the entire time
I utterly failed
11) Do You Consider Yourself To Be A Disciplined Person?
Very Little Discipline
12) During Your Relationship How Much Would You Say That You And Your Ex Texted Each Other?
We texted every day
Every other day
There was no pattern to it
Once a week
We never texted
13) Have You Attempted To Contact Your Ex, Via Text Messages, Since The Breakup? If so, did they respond positively towards you?
14) When you were dating your ex, how fast would you say that your ex responded to you?
In a few minutes
It would take a few hours
They would never respond
15) Would you say that this statement is true or false: When my ex and I were dating we would often flirt via text messages?
Part Three: Outside Factors
"Obviously it might be a little difficult to be successful with texting if you don’t have the proper capabilities. That’s what we are focusing on here."
16) Has Your Ex Moved On To Someone Else?
17) Does Your Ex Have Access To A Phone That Makes Texting Easy (iPhone, Galaxy, Nexus, Etc.)
18) Does your ex have a phone that makes it easy to receive high quality photos or videos?
19) Are one word responses common with your exes text messages?
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