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How This Woman Got Her Ex Back Will Blow Your Mind

Some of you may have noticed that lately I have been interviewing a lot of women who have gotten their exes back.

Have you ever stopped and asked yourself why?

Well, the truth is that ever since we started offering access to our Private Facebook Group up to our visitors we have seen a nice little uptick in successes when it comes to women getting their exes back.

But that’s not even the best part (believe it or not.)

Nope, the best part is that the women feel that they have a personal connection with my wife, my team and I. As a result, it’s a lot easier to convince them to come on to the podcast to share their story. It’s truly a win/win for everyone involved.

The person interviewed gets to feel great about their success…

 

The interviewer (me) gets more great content to post to the website…

 

The listener gets to hear inspiring success stories…

Ah, and that leads me to my next point.

I have another amazing success story to share with you today but this one is a bit different than the others. You see, often times when I do these interviews I don’t personally learn all that much that’s new. Usually, the interviewee tells me that they followed this strategy or that strategy and they saw some success.

But today’s interview blew me away. In fact, it blew me away so much that from this point on I am literally going to start recommending some of the strategies that this particular woman used to get her ex boyfriend back.

Wait Chris, What About These Strategies Were So Revolutionary?

Well, it’s actually not all that revolutionary it’s just that this particular woman took a couple of my strategies and tweaked them to fit her situation.

Two strategies are immediately coming to mind,

  1. The Zeigarnik Effect
  2. Getting Him To Chase

Let’s talk about the tweaks she used with each of these strategies for a second.

How She Tweaked The ZE

The Zeigarnik Effect states that human beings remember interrupted or uncompleted tasks better than completed ones. Therefore, if you engage your ex in a conversation, hook him in and then abruptly end the conversation you will put him in a position where he will chase.

Of course, often times when I talk about the ZE I am talking about it from a birds eye view.

But the woman I interviewed took the ZE and downsized it for her smaller conversations with her ex. However, it was what she did next that really blew me away.

Not only would she end her conversations prematurely on purpose via the ZE but she combined it with an ingenious method of getting him to constantly chase her.

How She Got Him To Chase Her

So, here is the scenario.

The woman I interviewed had to get some important things that she left at her exes house.

That’s when she came up with the ingenious idea to get him to chase her by doing something very clever.

She got him to follow her from room to room.

Seriously, she literally dictated where he went in his own house which effectively put him in an actual physical position where he was literally chasing her around his own house.

See, ingenious.

Listen to this incredible podcast episode!

Written by EBR Teamate

Chris Seiter

14 responses to “How This Woman Got Her Ex Back Will Blow Your Mind”

  1. Celia says:

    Please Reply me..

    I dated someone that came in my country for an internship.it went well but he is younger and that was his first relationship f i can call it like that.when he left we kept contact and he told me that he missed me several times.i went at some points negatives and hardly jealous in words he blocked me on social medias and i have been trying to get over him but it’s not possible as i just noticed that i fell in love with him i already have pro but i don’t know what to do.i used it before and it worked wonder but now with someone in a foreign country and me blocked what todo?
    Ps: i am impulsive and i had these very issues with my ex i got the program for years ago but i seem not to learn my lessons i miss him so much.. What can i do to soften his heart?

  2. Mary J says:

    How could I apply these tactics if my ex started seeing someone else before we even broke up. I don’t know what happened to him he had just switched personality and I don’t know this person. We weren’t together 10 years and went through so much together from from undergrad to postgrad. He was talking to this girl while he was trying to also apologize to me foe being so distant as he kept telling me he didn’t know why he has been feeling like this lately, it started before he started talking to her. Long story’ short, we separated and he went to her because “he cannot be alone”. He had however asked me before that, when I found out about her, that if he begged me would I take him back…. I said no because I was so deeply hurt. However, I then realized that I did want to work on l’urne relationship and told him… but he said this was probably for the best. Now he is seeing me her. He is barely communicating with me even afternoon NC and only communicate directly regarding the sale don our home. Then I tied to reestablish communication following what I have read on your site but it wasnt as effective and he is being distant and cold. I don’t know how he can replace me with someone who is not his type and polar opposite of what he said he liked in me. What do I do?

  3. Mary Jane says:

    How could I apply these tactics if my ex started seeing someone else before we even broke up. I don’t know what happened to him he had just switched personality and I don’t know this person. We weren’t together 10 years and went through so much together from from undergrad to postgrad. He was talking to this girl while he was trying to also apologize to me foe being so distant as he kept telling me he didn’t know why he has been feeling like this lately, it started before he started talking to her. Long story’ short, we separated and he went to her because “he cannot be alone”. He had however asked me before that, when I found out about her, that if he begged me would I take him back…. I said no because I was so deeply hurt. However, I then realized that I did want to work on l’urne relationship and told him… but he said this was probably for the best. Now he is seeing me her. He is barely communicating with me even afternoon NC and only communicate directly regarding the sale don our home. Then I tied to reestablish communication following what I have read on your site but it wasnt as effective and he is being distant and cold. I don’t know how he can replace me with someone who is not his type and polar opposite of what he said he liked in me. What do I do?

  4. Rach says:

    Hi, just wondering if I join the facebook group its completely private no one will be able to see the group or that I have joined right?

    • EBR Team Member: Amor says:

      Hi Rach,

      all the posts in the group can only be viewee by group members. The group name can be seen in your account, but you can set the groups private through fb settings. If they see the group, they wont see the content. Most of the time people think it’s a motorcycle group

  5. Nicole says:

    Hi, I posted awhile ago. I’m having a really hard time trying to get over my ex. Trying to get him back isn’t an option. What can I do? I don’t think there’s any point buying pro cos I’ve already gone through the NC and there’s no chance of me ever getting him back.

  6. Nora says:

    Please answer me, my bf asked for a “break” or “space” after a fight exploded between us, he was very insulting, I did not insult him whatsoever. He then asked for a break! He was going through “hard time with work and family”.
    it has been 5 days since the last time we spoke or texted.
    Please advise me. Is it over? Shall I move on already?

    Many thanks.

  7. Nora says:

    Hi Chris,

    I hope this finds you great.

    First I didn’t give you the needed “THANK YOU, GENIUS” i have contacted you back in June, bought the book, and applied all and each article of it. IT WORKED LIKE MAGIC. My bf who left me, came back to me.
    Unfortunately, since the last week, things were rough between us, due to his pressure at work, led to explosive fight where he was pretty nasty to me. Then he asked for space/break.

    Is it over? What should I do? Please help as I haven’t contacted him at all since the fight occurred (4 days ago).
    P.S. I did not block him nor deleted him from social media (snapchat) but he’s not watching my posts.

    Thank you and I always include you in my prayers for the amazing gift you gave me.

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