Some of you may have noticed that lately I have been interviewing a lot of women who have gotten their exes back.
Have you ever stopped and asked yourself why?
Well, the truth is that ever since we started offering access to our Private Facebook Group up to our visitors we have seen a nice little uptick in successes when it comes to women getting their exes back.
But that’s not even the best part (believe it or not.)
Nope, the best part is that the women feel that they have a personal connection with my wife, my team and I. As a result, it’s a lot easier to convince them to come on to the podcast to share their story. It’s truly a win/win for everyone involved.
The person interviewed gets to feel great about their success…
The interviewer (me) gets more great content to post to the website…
The listener gets to hear inspiring success stories…
Ah, and that leads me to my next point.
I have another amazing success story to share with you today but this one is a bit different than the others. You see, often times when I do these interviews I don’t personally learn all that much that’s new. Usually, the interviewee tells me that they followed this strategy or that strategy and they saw some success.
But today’s interview blew me away. In fact, it blew me away so much that from this point on I am literally going to start recommending some of the strategies that this particular woman used to get her ex boyfriend back.
Wait Chris, What About These Strategies Were So Revolutionary?
Well, it’s actually not all that revolutionary it’s just that this particular woman took a couple of my strategies and tweaked them to fit her situation.
Two strategies are immediately coming to mind,
- The Zeigarnik Effect
- Getting Him To Chase
Let’s talk about the tweaks she used with each of these strategies for a second.
How She Tweaked The ZE
The Zeigarnik Effect states that human beings remember interrupted or uncompleted tasks better than completed ones. Therefore, if you engage your ex in a conversation, hook him in and then abruptly end the conversation you will put him in a position where he will chase.
Of course, often times when I talk about the ZE I am talking about it from a birds eye view.
But the woman I interviewed took the ZE and downsized it for her smaller conversations with her ex. However, it was what she did next that really blew me away.
Not only would she end her conversations prematurely on purpose via the ZE but she combined it with an ingenious method of getting him to constantly chase her.
How She Got Him To Chase Her
So, here is the scenario.
The woman I interviewed had to get some important things that she left at her exes house.
That’s when she came up with the ingenious idea to get him to chase her by doing something very clever.
She got him to follow her from room to room.
Seriously, she literally dictated where he went in his own house which effectively put him in an actual physical position where he was literally chasing her around his own house.
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