37 thoughts on “6 Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Still Has Feelings For You”

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    February 12, 2019 at 10:53 pm

    Hi Chris,
    My boyfriend of three months broke up with me a week ago. After that, we were still texting and he was still indecisive about us. Then a few days ago on my birthday, he texted happy birthday and then said he wanted to do something for my birthday still. Then the next day, after me being a text gnat (unfortunately), he said that we should go our separate ways. After some back and forth, he told me to stop texting him. Later he texted “I just need some personal space”. I didn’t respond. The next day he texted “do you want to talk?”. I’ve been in no contact for 4 days now and it’s so hard. I see him at work. We don’t work on the same team but we are on the same floor. Today, he found my car in the parking garage at work and left the charger I had used at his place when I would stay over on my car. I want to text him so bad. I am planning on using the 21 day no contact period. Will no contact work? Do you think he is going to get over me?

    1. Chris Seiter

      Chris Seiter

      February 13, 2019 at 12:33 am

      Hi Cecilla!

      So i think you continue with NC just the way i teach it in my Program. 21 days seems like a good fit. You might want to take a look at my eBook, “No Contact Rule Book” as it will get into much greater detail about how this process works and your chances, etc!

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    February 11, 2019 at 1:37 pm

    Hi Chris
    Thank you so much for your content it really helps alot
    With me taking the quizz it shows an average that I can get back my hearts desire. I have a question though does no contact means no contact even if we see each other when i am going to visit my kids and i do see him than? And yes i have implemented the nc rule for 2 weeks without weekends and this weekend he was just at home not going anywhere cause i slept over in the house. Is that a sign? yet again he makes it clear there wont be a chance and then he says there will be? like youve mentioned earlier the hot and cold shoulder….

    1. Chris Seiter

      Chris Seiter

      February 11, 2019 at 11:36 pm

      Hi Lola!

      I am glad the content is helping you thru these hard times. I think in cases in which children visits are involved or discussions about finances and the like, exceptions should be made and the appropriate, relevant communication should take place.

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    February 8, 2019 at 3:56 pm

    Hi Chris! I really appreciate what u do, your articles and advices are so inspiring and helpful! My long distance bf broke up with me on the 8th of January after we celebrated new year together, he told that he can’t handle such relations anymore, he needs someone close, but told that he really loves me… After that he was texting me every day, i was reluctantly replying after 5-10 hours, then told him that i need space and he could text me only concerning the trip (we bought tickets for march), i was in no contact for 18 days and today he texted me asking how am i and telling that he won’t be able to join me there, i wasn’t replying, he took offense, after that i replied telling him how great i am, being really positive and keeping it short. He told that he was sick for 3 weeks, had a flu. Should i start no contact from the very beginning or keep talking to him?

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