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5,888 thoughts on “How To Make Him Miss You After A Breakup”

  1. Kitty

    May 10, 2016 at 7:44 pm

    Hello, just want to see if this really falls into this category. I just wanna know.
    See, there was this guy that I stopped seeing a month ago. We were just “dating” and didn’t get to call each other boyfriend/girlfriend. He decided that we should stop dating because I was too clingy but then I found out later on that he already had a girlfriend and that they broke up when he met me because they were in an open relationship but then got back with her because he doesn’t see us compatible. He still wanted to see me even without having getting under the sheets and all but I still couldn’t because I had feelings for him and I told him I have to stop seeing him. He said he didn’t want to because if he wanted to then he would’ve stopped seeing me already. But I insisted and he said it hurt him a lot and blocked me on Facebook so that I won’t get tempted to unblock him and message him. So he did. I haven’t contacted him for a month now even though I really miss him and although he said I can contact him again in many ways.
    Now my question is, do you think even though if I do all of these steps, will he still miss me? Even though he already has a girlfriend? I want you guys to be honest, because after all, he didn’t want me to cut contact, I just forced him to, he even cried. Hope you can answer soon. Thanks!

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 15, 2016 at 12:23 am

      Hi Kitty,

      move on from him.. if he can do that to his girlfriend,he would probably do it to you too..

  2. Alina

    May 10, 2016 at 6:03 pm

    Hi Amor,

    Well he started pulling away from the relationship and saying he wasn’t ready. And then the insecurity kicked in and he started questioning me why I won’t answer his calls or why I have so many guy friends. After that he started going out of town to be with his friends back home where he live (3 hour drive). I started feeling like I couldn’t trust him so I’ve needed things then we would talk about it and make up and then he would say he needs space. It’s been like that for a month. We’re on better terms right now, see each other more often and he seems to be more attentive. But I like said we’re not in a relationship, I feel like we’re in a situationship haha.

    Alina

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 15, 2016 at 12:14 am

      Hi ALina,

      if you’re not in a relationship then you’re good friends right now?

  3. Alina

    May 10, 2016 at 3:31 am

    Hi team,

    I’ve been so fascinated with this website. I cannot stop reading the articles. I myself find my current “we taking things slow” relationship so confusing that I’m hoping to get some insightful advice. My current-ex been together for about 6 months. I met him at work, we went out for drink and one thing led to another we end up spending the night in a hotel. I didn’t think much of it as he was going to be my one night stand. Well fast forward to few weeks later and he broke up with his (gf) and asked me out within a week. I was reluctant at first but said okay. Everything. Was great for few months but then things started getting weird and I started pulling out of the relationship. I did it so often that finally he said we needed a break. We stopped talking for a while but then everytime we talk and hang out its like the world is ours and nothing exists. He tells me he loves but doesn’t want to rush into things until he’s 150% sure. I too don’t want to rush, but at the same time don’t want to sit around and wait in something to happen. Right now we spend a lot of time together and it’s absolutely amazing. I just don’t know what to do? Do I keep things as they are or do I just end the relationship and start the NC process to see if that makes him realize that we’re great together.. So much so, that I believe he’s like my soulmate, since we both felt in love as soon as we locked our eyes on one another.

    Signed,

    Confused, Alina.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 10, 2016 at 9:24 am

      Hi Alina,

      what do you mean when things started to get weird? why?

  4. Maria

    May 10, 2016 at 12:39 am

    My boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost 3 years. This time around we were doing pretty good for the most part. The arguments we did have and to be honest just about once a week are me trying to explain to him why i am upset at his coldness and him thinking I am “bitching”. He got sent to another state to work for 2 months the first month was good, the second month he rarely texted me rarely answered my calls and my insucurity got the best of me and i went on a rampage one weekend and said alot of things that i didnt meant to him. I feel so guilty. That led to our break up. Ive been the one person that has been the best to him and i feel like he doesnt see that. How do I win him back?? In that week he did contact me just to tell me that the break up was because of my “bitching” that he got tiered of trying to calm me down. I feel so guilty and i wish i could take everything back and control my emotions alot better.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 10, 2016 at 5:38 am

      Hi Maria,

      when did you exactly break up? did you talk again afterwads

  5. liyaaa

    May 9, 2016 at 3:48 pm

    hi !!
    my boyfriend just broke up with me… i really gave me a shocked because I didnt expect it to happen. we were happy just days before that.. but that time I really felt that he’s kinda feeling bored. he doesnt text me or chat the way he chat me before. then when he asked for a break up.. he said that, that night after i told him that he texted me lesser.. he said that he had a dream about his exes on how they eventually broke up for the same thing.. he said he needed the break up to find himself..

    Right now I’m starting the No Contact Rule.. I really wanted him back.. not just because that I love him but because of the reason that i’m happy every time that i’m with him..

    do you think that he also miss me even though that he’s the one who asked for a break up?.. Because i Really miss him. 🙁

    1. liyaaa

      May 11, 2016 at 2:08 pm

      our mutual friend suddenly said to me that my ex looks the same as before, acts the same as before… what to do ? im suddenly feeling hurt. i suddenly think that he was not affected by the break up..

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 15, 2016 at 2:03 am

      just focus on yourself right now.. focus on improving. We don’t know if he’s showing what he really feels to other people and whether or not he’s affected, the more important thing is you have growth emotionally, physically and socially.

    3. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 10, 2016 at 3:25 am

      Hi Liyaaa,

      make him miss you then.. improve yourself during nc and use this time to find your happiness apart from him

  6. Ara

    May 9, 2016 at 7:21 am

    Really helpful article! I agree with all that you wrote here.. (my past 2 relationships I was the one who initiated the breakup..yes theres secret advantage to it but it was really really tough!! now aftr all of these.. NC rule, Social Media Game, The “Frank Sinatra Effect”, and Jealousy Tactics… I can say it’s all effective but how do you know it is already time to reply or talk to your ex? some of friends tell he was asking about me or how am i doing (but i never easily believe unless i hear from him directly) how do u know it is time to talk or get back together? I only got from him are 2 txt messages with a plain emoticon – sad face 🙁 I do not know what to say or reply to that kind of text message. thanks for the help. more power!

    1. liyaaa

      June 11, 2016 at 10:39 pm

      hi its been a month since i do the NC.. right now.. our mutual friend suddenly told me that my ex said that he didnt miss me even once during the NC.. I didnt know what to do.. i should be texting him now but suddenly stop because of that.. did NC did not work ?

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      June 17, 2016 at 12:07 am

      hmm it depends in how he was asked..if he senses it would reach you, then he might have said that in a way to hurt you

    3. Ara

      May 9, 2016 at 11:16 pm

      got it after one week of nc and then another aftr 1 month of nc & social media posts (i didnt reply to both) should i cntinue the posts where i’m with my gal & guy friends/workmates? how do i know its time to respond to his sad emoticon txt msg..what should i do? thanks for the advice really appreciated!

    4. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 10, 2016 at 4:31 am

      you can reply now.. and you have to continue on your activities during nc even when you get back together..

    5. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 9, 2016 at 4:41 pm

      Hi Ara,

      you got during nc or that’s a reply to you after nc?

  7. Tinu

    May 9, 2016 at 6:17 am

    Everything was fine for 3 months. We had a fight for which we had a tough argument I got down from his bike and he left me on road. I called him bac again and cried he came bac and dropped me in my home. After that he said its over I cried a lot and explained. He said he lost love over me. After few days I met him again he said I lost love and I explained him all and he said please help me to recover my love and it’s very easy if u talk with me normally. I did and he came back after that we informed our parents. With great difficulty I convinced my parents but his parents didn’t accept. He tried a lot and we had lot of fights because he was in oscillation. I cut my hand also in frustration when we a tough argument he said he totally lost love over me after that. I cried a lot and explained and kept silent. He started diverting his mind in social activities without bothering me. Suddenly his parents accepted but now he is telling he don’t hav love and don’t want to marry. I called him so many times and tried to explain he is very strong in his decision he even came to me directly and said face to face that he doesn’t like me and he hates me totally. I tried to make him recollect everything by sending old messages and pics he blocked me in everything after that by telling move on and marry someother guy. I tried to ask him through his friend he told the same to his friend that he doesn’t like me and Iam torturing him. What to do pls help me ..

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 9, 2016 at 12:15 pm

      Hi Tinu,

      it’s time to stop chasing him.. and start doing active no contact… actually it’s better if you see prifessional help because cutting yourself is not healthy..

      don’t rely in him for your happiness.. that means you only want to be in the relationship to feel loved because you can’t give it to yourself..

      it should be because you love each other and you’re healthy for each other.. that each other is an addition to an already complete life.. he’s your partner because he suits the complete you..he doesn’t complete you..

      so build yourself first.. love yourself first..

  8. Bella

    May 9, 2016 at 4:24 am

    Hi

    question, how do I make my ex jealous if he doesn’t have social media? He won’t see pics of me going out and having fun or how much weight I have lost or random pics with new male friends. We have one mutual friend who is more his mate than mine but I chat to him every now and again but even he is not on social media. How do I over come this? I’m in the NC stage at the moment so can not contact him directly either. Im lost at how I can remain in his mind.

    any advice will be greatly appreciated thank you 🙂

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 9, 2016 at 11:32 am

      Hi Bella,

      just continue posting because you never know if he checks your account or not.. and his mutual friend might mention it when they talk.

  9. Lindsey

    May 9, 2016 at 2:30 am

    I have a few things that weren’t mentioned, thy I could definitely use some guidance with. So this guy and I were dating for 9 months which I have totally fallen for and he has told me he has as well. However he told me I treat this like
    A relationship vs just us dating even though we’ve had the exclusive talk at the very beginning. We had an arguement and it ended with me telling him to lose my number. Now I’m beginning to thing I may have over reacted because I can’t imagine him not in my life. I know I’m blot suppose to contact him however i feel like it’s going to be harder to have him miss me because we aren’t on friends on any social media and we aren’t from the same city so there’s no chance of running into each other. I’m not sure what I should do or what route I should take. I really miss him but I don’t want to dig myself into a deeper hole. Please help!

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 9, 2016 at 10:36 am

      Hi Lindsey,

      continue to post because even if you’re not friends, he may still be checking your account once he notices you’ve been silent..so proceed to nc

  10. Maggie

    May 8, 2016 at 9:13 am

    Hi, I really need some advice.

    Me and my BF have been together almost 2.5 yrs, and we’ve been through more then most in a lifetime. Recently he’s become very cold, telling me he’s falling out of love with me and that I don’t make him happy anymore. More recently he’s said its not just me its everyone. He’s not said ‘it’s over’ but I feel like it’s coming. But I love him so much and I want this to work. I don’t want to just give up. So do I still go with this? 30 days seems a long time for no contact and I’m so scared that after them 30 days he’s lost interest, especially as it’s not ‘over’ yet.

    I’ve been patient and I’ve changed how I reacted about stuff. He’s had lots of space. I just don’t want to lose him.

    Thanks x

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 9, 2016 at 2:50 am

      Hi Maggie,

      what do you mean that’s he’s already had lots of space? and is he depressed?

  11. Cam

    May 8, 2016 at 6:06 am

    Hi EBR Team,

    I am not sure if No Contact is appropriate in my situation.

    He and I started off 1.5 years ago with intense sexual chemistry. Our back and forth texting lasted for months (“What are you doing? Where are you? Come meet me.”) — during this time we wanted to see each other every day. Around the six month mark I noticed he wasn’t responding as quickly to my texts and would more often be too busy to meet me. Soon after I noticed this, he broke up with me, citing he didn’t have feelings anymore. I was heartbroken but tried not to contact him and remained in Low Contact mode for about a month afterwards. At the end of this month (Month 7) I randomly texted him to come meet me, and he immediately stopped what he was doing to hop in a cab to come see me. I was both shocked and elated. This rekindled our relationship for another 6 months. Then, again, at the end of these 6 months (~Month 13) he cited a loss of feeling for me and didn’t want to continue anymore. We broke up a second time, then the same thing happened: a month later he missed me. Again we rekindled. Fast forward 4 months to today, and I am now experiencing what appears to be a third breaking up process, or at least a similar distancing behavior.

    I feel that at this moment, he hasn’t lost that much feeling for me to preemptively initiate a break up — he still comes out when I tell him I want to see him, and he still sends me funny texts. But the frequency of texting is much less, he is more busy, and it all feels very similar to the diminishing phase that preceded the first two break ups.

    Right now, I feel like if I suddenly go No Contact and start ignoring his texts, it would be very uncharacteristic of me and it could make him think I’m angry at him. (I did recently have a batsh*t crazy outburst at him one afternoon when he didn’t reply to several of my texts from the previous day — I know, bad move.)

    He hasn’t broken up with me but I feel like his interest in us is waning. Should I still do a sudden No Contact? Or should I do Low Contact? Perhaps this third semi-breakup can be bounced back again like it did after the first two breakups?

    Thanks for your advice.

    Cam

    PS- Right after I wrote this, he called me. It was around 1am. I didn’t answer, and he called again. Then he sent a text: “Good night, Cam.” I did not respond to it. It is very unlike me to not answer my phone or texts, but my instinct told me I should keep him wondering where I am at 1am on a Saturday evening. Should I text him something brief tomorrow? Not right after I wake up, but perhaps some time in the late afternoon.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 9, 2016 at 2:44 am

      Hi Cam,

      I know this is too personal, but it’s important, every time you meet after a break up, were you sexual. Is it always more of being sexual when you meet?

  12. just curious

    May 7, 2016 at 3:57 pm

    hey
    my bf and i are currently in a LDR. earlier we were together for about a year and then we broke up and in a month he contacted me but i never got back to him since i was way too pissed at him. after about a year of our first break up, he pursued me hard enough and we got back together. Since then its been 6 months now. well when we are together we are just so awesome but when away we often argue a lot, honestly its mostly me. because i have a very hectic grad school life often times my stress vents out in form of arguing with him and having very high expectations from him. truth is i know he loves me and thats evident and i love him too. but a couple of days back he said he needs a break since he is getting stressed out with our fights and it makes him feel he cant keep me happy and he feels guilty as well. he says he wants to be with me but also needs some time to think. since it came as a sudden shock to me, i tried persuading him to not break up(since i started thinking he wants a break implies he is breaking up) but he seemed worked up and also not in a state to change his mind right now. so after a prolonged phone call we finally stopped talking. i havent contacted him over the last 2 days since this happened. and i do not plan to contact him anytime soon on my own. however, i am confused as to what he really meant?

    a break to think over things?
    or a break up?

    a little insight to analyse my situation correctly, will help a ton

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 9, 2016 at 1:47 am

      Hi Just curious,

      You said you asked not to break up right? but he didn’t clear it up that it’s just a break?

  13. Sara

    May 7, 2016 at 7:05 am

    My Ex texted me during the last week of 30 days No Contact, asking “how r u”. I waited a whole week to respond back, letting him know I’m doing great and excited about the new season of Game of Thrones and hoped all was well. Its been 12 days since that text, he hasn’t messaged back. What did I do wrong texting back? I feel like there is no chance now since its been almost over 2 months since our breakup.

    1. Sara

      May 16, 2016 at 9:43 am

      Also, I’m wondering is it a good idea to email each other every other day or wait a few days to reply back? I don’t want to look too eager and desperate, yet I don’t want to lose his attention either. As I said in previous post the emails are regarding business so is it ok if it is 3 paragraphs; a bit detailed? Or just go with the flow? Thank you again Amor!

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 19, 2016 at 8:52 am

      If you’re always having positive convos, try to the tide theory.. The key is not t let it become boring to talk to you

    3. Sara

      May 16, 2016 at 3:51 am

      Hi Amor,
      Yes, sent it and he responded. Was very helpful with his feedback of my design work for my business. Is it ok to continue talking via email about the my plans for the business….keeping the emails light and easy. I’m passionate about this new venture so hopefully he sees it as well. He also told me he had my stuff, so I did let him know when and where to pickup. Though not sure how great of an idea it will be to see each other this early. Thank you for your help!

    4. Sara

      May 10, 2016 at 10:04 pm

      I was going to ask for his professional opinion and also mention “If you’re busy, no worries:)” and hope he was doing great. When should I send this? Should I wait a few more weeks or send as soon as possible? Thank you!

    5. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 15, 2016 at 12:34 am

      It’s been 5 days now.. have you sent it?

    6. Sara

      May 10, 2016 at 5:36 am

      Hi Amor,
      Thank you, would it be alright to contact him to ask him opinion on a business matter; he has a masters in business. I’ve started a small business, designed everything myself. I’m good at designing but can be bit indecisive when it comes to picking which one to go with, would it look too desperate to ask him his opinion on this matter? I had discussed opening one while we were together, but never got to it. I believe maybe I got too caught up in being in a relationship and perhaps lost myself. Could my new goals help to regain his love for me? Thank you in advance!

    7. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 10, 2016 at 9:59 am

      actually that’s a good topic.. now, you just need to take care of how you deliver it.. the new goals in itself won’t do it.. it has to be collective…it has to be whole you, the experience with you..

    8. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 9, 2016 at 1:15 am

      Hi Sara,

      maybe it was too far apart but.. it doesn’t there’s totally no hope.. You can still try to initiate, pick a current topic that’s interesting for him, if he doesn’t reply then that means, you can try one last by continuing to do what you did during no contact, posting it, maybe wait two or three weeks more and then send a second first contact text and if he replies, reply back 30 minutes after.. if not, that’s apparent that you should move on..

      I’m not defending the no contact but if he got mad because you didn’t reply right ahead after the first text, he should have cooled by the second first contact text because you already sent two messages and he didn’t reply..

  14. Gem

    May 6, 2016 at 2:22 am

    Well I broke up with my bf over an email he sent to an ex. He told her he still loved her. We I saw it I flipped out!!! I kicked him out and and said alot of over the top things.. I confirmed over and over it was over and how I would end up hurting him (emotionally of course) if he stayed.. he begged for 2 days and I continued ranting. The 3rd day I had cooled off … and then wasn’t picking up my calls and said he no longer wanted to be with me. The tables turned and begged and pleaded. And after a couple of days I stopped ad well. I told him to pick up his things and he did. Although there are still some stuff left here. He texted asking for the rest if his stuff and I agreed to get it together for him. This was the day before yesterday when he came foe his things. Now, for the past 2 days he has texted about a couple of other things he remembered were here but has not told me when he is coming for his things. I have been nice but short when he asked me about his things theae past 2 times.I know I am going to have to see him eventually when he comes to pick up his things. What should I do?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 8, 2016 at 9:56 am

      Hi Gem,

      you can still proceed to nc, just maintain only talking about his things

  15. Sarah

    May 5, 2016 at 5:27 pm

    Hi there,
    So my & my ex split 8 weeks ago, I broke it off. He’s younger than me – 21 – & I bought a house in September, long story short he moved in & then moved out 3 days later, said he wasn’t ready – he’s a big mummy’s boy! So we plodded along & then things just weren’t going well so we broke it off. Both really upset with a holiday looming we gave it another shot & things were great for a few weeks. Went on holiday got back & things were stale again. I was good for a few weeks after the break up & we saw each other a couple of times & said how much we loved & missed each other but felt we were heading different directions in terms of where we are in life – & then it hit me. What the hell have I done. I wrote a letter, told him I wanted him back, probably made a huge mistake in bugging him & he said he was just worried things wouldn’t change long term & we would go back to being stale again like we did after the last split. So I’ve tried to leave him be, he’s contacted me a couple of times asking me about other guys etc & we just end up in a. Negative whirlpool of backwards & forwArd messages – me saying how I would do anything to fix it, him saying he loves me, misses me but can’t give me 100%. He keeps saying he knows for a fact he will miss me in the future & keeps saying he’s not saying never but not right now as he doesn’t feel he can’t commit as the long term worries him & he has a guard up. I’m just confused. Do I just accept its over? Do I leave him be? I want him back of course & I feel I have learnt a huge lesson from this break up & accet thins were my fault too & could work on a bright future.

    1. Sarah

      May 8, 2016 at 8:41 pm

      Last time we spoke was 4th may & he ended it with he has every confidence I will meet someone else & love them like I did him but by then it would be too late & he would have to deal with that. So confusing

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 9, 2016 at 7:30 am

      yes, you have to do active no contact… start with it now so you can have a restart and for you to regain emotional stability and clarity.. and for you to grow.. change up everything, make a new routine and improve physically, socially and emotionally.. Do it to be more independent.. so that after it, you’ll make more rational decisions.

    3. Sarah

      May 8, 2016 at 7:46 pm

      Is that what I need to do? I would give anything for it to work again but I just feel with him saying he can’t commit to me at the minute & can’t give 100% that he’s just not interest any more & it’s a cowards way out.

    4. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 8, 2016 at 5:58 am

      Hi Sarah,

      it means you have to have a restart…do you want to do nc?

  16. winndy

    May 5, 2016 at 12:06 am

    hi.
    lastweek,I saw a group photo of my boyfriend with a girl and some friends and i texted him but he denied it until i told him i saw the picture.I decided to break up with him and i tried to call him after 2 days and he said that we’re already done and i tried stalking his facebook account and i saw that he’s already friend with the girl and having some conversation with the girl like for example. You’re cool…. I asked him about the conversation but he just said that we’re done and asked me what’s my problem and told me that he’s done with me and that he don’t like the relationship back and after that, he blocked me in facebook. I hope you can help me. thank you.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 8, 2016 at 2:51 am

      Hi Winddy,

      I think he finds you irrationally jealous.. it also shows that you have low self esteem..
      since you’re blocked, you should proceed to nc.. work on yourself.. improve yourself.. Honestly for me, you should work on your jealousy too.. it’s ok if he’s just out with friends and talking to them.. because if you react like that you’re annoying him and pushing him away..

      for a guy to chase or to see you as the ungettable girl, you have to be confident..that’s just it.. if you lose him over a girl, then so be it because you deserve a man who would be faithful..

  17. Kim

    May 4, 2016 at 9:02 am

    I really like your posts and follow exactly.
    I recently posted my success story on facebook. He texted me saying Congrats and well-deserved. I am still in NC period.
    Should I respond?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 4, 2016 at 2:09 pm

      Hi Kim,

      Thank you! Nope, don’t respond.

  18. Do I have a chance?

    May 3, 2016 at 8:54 pm

    Hi! My boyfriend just broke up with me and I’m extremely crushed, however I already broke the “no contact” rule and basically begged for him back, I know this was a mistake but I was so hurt I couldn’t help it. Is there any way to redeem myself and still have a chance?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 4, 2016 at 12:46 pm

      Hi,

      do no contact again, one last time and stick to it.. improve yourself and make it productive..

  19. Want more contact

    May 2, 2016 at 5:14 pm

    So my ex contacts me about once a week, after I text him. He calls about a week later repeats over and over again that he’s not ignoring me just busy…(i think he’s avoiding but not ignoring) anyway… How do I get him to contact me more often? He’s got all the power right now and I want some of it back:) we’ve been through nc already and I’m at a place emotionally that I know the old relationship is dead, and I want to start a new one… Just not sure how to break through and get him to contact me more often…. Help, please!

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 4, 2016 at 8:18 am

      Hi Want more contact,

      it’s actually ironic but it means you have to demand less and be more focused on yourself.. coz the more you care about him not replying, the more you give power to him… that means you find him more interesting than he finds you interesting..

  20. Prathyusha Paruchuri

    May 2, 2016 at 3:10 pm

    Hey!!! Its almost been a month that i broke up, i can not exactly call it a break up though. We were into a serious relation and planned to live together. It has been six months that we were dating. Suddenly out of blue he started to avoid me, being online and not replying, ignoring my calls were happening very often. I was patient, i waited for about two months. Finally i decided to call for break up. I dint want it though. I was sobbing hard. But finally i managed to spill it out. I asked him to forget me, immediately he replied with “forget me as well”. That was a month ago. I almost got back to my life and then he came back telling i never asked you to leave. He told he wanted a break. I agreed. I kept my silence for a while. One night he called me up at 2.30.a.m. I texted up whats it??? He replied telling i called up, you dint pick up. So i kept texting. HE was online and dint reply. I was getting blue ticks and that was painful. The next day was our six months anniversary , obviously he doesn’t remember. The next day i texted him a goodbye message and blocked him. I dint receive a call back or neither a text. I texted him back after two days asking him why is he doing this to me. He dint reply as usual. I thought i swallowed my pride enough and i cant beg him any longer. But i cant move on him. I love him and he loves me as well. I’m very sure he isn’t cheating on me or any so. He dint no where fake a relation. He was happy with me and so was i. We were in a happy place. I want him back without compromising on my self respect. Please tell me what to do. PLEASE HELP ME OUT. THIS PIECE OF WRITING IN ALMOST GAVE A TON OF STRENGTH TO FIGHT BACK. THANK YOU!!! I hope you’ll help me.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      May 4, 2016 at 6:44 am

      Hi Prathyusha,

      correct me if I”m wrong, you broke up a month ago but lately you’ve been texting again.. You’re in long distance, and the problem is he doesn’t call and text you often? So, after a month that you broke up with he called, you talked but you’re not back together and when he didn’t remember you’re supposedly 6 month anniversary, you blocked him?

      if that’s the case, don’t text him again, since he’s not replying to you.. and then try nc.. don’t reply if he contacts you during nc.. unless he literally says he wants you back.. improve and focus on yourself.. try it, because it looks you were always the one to initiate a convo and the only one who waits for a message..

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